Tinnitus Relief & Habituation with Coach Frieder

by Tinnitus Coach Frieder
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Hey Tinnitus Friends & Family, Welcome to the show all about tinnitus — the science behind relief, and how you can find the right approach for your unique situation. We dive into the latest science-based strategies, debunk myths about tinnitus cures, and explore effective treatments to help you find quick relief from ringing ears. 🌟 Ready to start your tinnitus relief journey? Visit my Linktree for all my best resources in one place: https://linktr.ee/outringtinnitus This podcast combines a scientific and myth-busting approach to tinnitus with deeply personal stories of living with single-sided deafness, tinnitus, and navigating life with a hearing aid. We’ve interviewed some of the world’s leading tinnitus researchers and practitioners, offering insights to help you understand and manage tinnitus effectively. Through my personal tinnitus relief framework, I’ve supported hundreds of people in reclaiming their lives and finding lasting relief. Whether it’s through our transformative online tinnitus community, 1-on-1 coaching, or our structured programs, there’s a path to success for you. 🎧 Learn more and take the first step: Join our supportive community: www.mytinnitus.club Explore my curated tinnitus resources: https://linktr.ee/outringtinnitus We wish you sound tinnitus relief and happy listening! Warm regards, Your Tinnitus Coach Frieder

  1. Episode 145 - What causes Tinnitus (And why it's always individual)

    1D AGO

    Episode 145 - What causes Tinnitus (And why it's always individual)

    Hey Tinnitus Friends and Family, Today we deal with the questions of : "What caused my tinnitus?" This is one of the most common questions I get as a tinnitus coach. And after working with over 700 people in coaching sessions and at My Tinnitus Club, I've seen every possible cause of tinnitus. But here's the truth most people don't understand: your story is individual. And that matters more than you think. In this video, I break down: The 3 main causes of tinnitus: Hearing loss or damage to the auditory system Age-related hearing loss Noise-induced hearing loss (concerts, headphones, loud environments) Acoustic trauma Ear infections or earwax buildup Ototoxic medications Stress, anxiety, and nervous system activation Tinnitus isn't just an ear problem — it's a nervous system condition Chronic stress puts your nervous system in fight-or-flight mode I've seen people develop tinnitus during burnout, divorce, grief, panic attacks Their ears were fine, but their nervous system was screaming Physical issues: neck, jaw, or circulatory problems TMJ (teeth grinding) Neck tension or cervical spine issues High blood pressure or vascular problems (pulsatile tinnitus) But here's what most people miss: Two people can have the exact same cause of tinnitus — but completely different experiences. Example: Person A habituates in 6 months. Back to living life, barely notices it. Person B is still struggling 2 years later. The sound hasn't changed, but the reaction has. Why? Because habituation isn't just about what caused your tinnitus. It's about: Your nervous system's current state Your history with anxiety or trauma Your support system (are you doing this alone?) Your relationship with uncertainty and control Whether you've learned tools like ACT to regulate your response Here's the truth: Most tinnitus doesn't have a reversible cause. You can't undo hearing loss. You can't go back and avoid that concert. You can't erase the stress that triggered your nervous system. What you CAN do is teach your nervous system that tinnitus is safe to experience. And that process? It's individual. Why I'm telling you this: I see people waste months or years trying to find the "one thing" that caused their tinnitus. They think: "If I can just figure out the cause, I can fix it." But obsessing over the cause? That's what keeps you stuck. Because habituation isn't about fixing the cause. It's about changing your nervous system's response to the sound. And you don't have to figure that out alone. At My Tinnitus Club, we don't treat tinnitus like a formula. We don't say: "Do these 5 steps and you'll be cured." We say: "Let's figure out what YOU need. Together." Because habituation happens when: Your nervous system learns safety (through lived experience, not just understanding) You have tools for YOUR triggers (ACT, nervous system regulation, sleep work) You're not doing this alone (community, coaching, people who get it) Your nervous system learns safety from co-regulation — being around other humans who've been through this and come out the other side. What to do next: If you're new to tinnitus and searching for answers, start with my free 4-day email course on tinnitus habituation: www.habituate.online If you've been struggling for a while and want deeper support, check out My Tinnitus Club at www.mytinnitus.club — our ACT-based community with weekly group coaching, buddy system, and forum where people share wins, setbacks, and progress. Enjoy! Frieder

    16 min
  2. Episode 144 - You Are Never Alone with Tinnitus

    FEB 13

    Episode 144 - You Are Never Alone with Tinnitus

    A different kind of video today. I'm filming this right after my therapy appointment. It's been a difficult couple of weeks for me — burnout recovery, workload, and some personal challenges I've been navigating. This video isn't polished. It's not heavily edited. It's just me, being human, and sharing something I think is important: You're not alone with tinnitus. And I'm not alone either. Why I'm sharing this: Tinnitus is incredibly isolating. Most people tell me they feel like they're the only one experiencing it — and that isolation is often worse than the sound itself. But here's the truth: 15-25% of people experience tinnitus. Millions of people around the world are going through exactly what you're going through. The feelings — anxiety, despair, anger, isolation — are not unique to you. They're part of the human experience of this condition. And when we feel alone, tinnitus gets worse. Loneliness and isolation do one thing: they make you focus more on the sound, perceive it more intensely, and get stuck in the same vicious cycle of thoughts and feelings. Habituation moves further away when you're alone. It comes closer when you're connected. Why I built My Tinnitus Club: I built this community because I know what it's like to feel completely alone with tinnitus. I was 19, deaf in one ear, and the ENT said "there's nothing we can do." I needed: People who understood A space where I didn't have to explain Support that wasn't just an app or pre-recorded videos So I created that space: My Tinnitus Club. It's not just a program. It's a community where: You meet people from around the world who share your experience You practice ACT tools together (not alone) You realize you're not the only one — and that changes everything Because your nervous system needs to hear: "I'm fine. Other people have been through this. I can do it too." That's how habituation happens. My message to you today: Whether you connect through YouTube comments, or join us at My Tinnitus Club, or find support somewhere else — please don't do this alone. I've had a difficult week. I'm going through my own challenges. And what I need most right now is connection — people who understand, who care, who remind me I'm not alone. You need that too. Not because it's nice to have. Because it's how your nervous system learns safety. And safety is what creates habituation. Coming soon: I'm working on a full webinar about how ACT and community work together at My Tinnitus Club. I'll let you know when it's ready. For now, if you want to explore the community or learn more about our 12-week program, visit www.habituate.online. Thank you for being here. Thank you for allowing me to do this work. And thank you for being part of this community — even if we've never met. I'm grateful for every single one of you. Let me know in the comments: How do you deal with isolation when tinnitus feels overwhelming? See you next week. — Frieder P.S. I'm human. I try my best. I stand for what I believe is right — connection, care, and community. That's what this channel is about. That's what My Tinnitus Club is about. And I hope it helps you feel a little less alone today.

    11 min
  3. Episode 143 - Agi and Her Tinnitus Success Story

    FEB 6

    Episode 143 - Agi and Her Tinnitus Success Story

    Hey Tinnitus Friends and Family, From panic attacks and 24/7 masking to hiking in the mountains and sleeping in silence — this is Agi's tinnitus habituation story. Agi, a teacher from Austria, developed severe, intrusive tinnitus at 29 after already habituating once as a teenager. What followed was one of the hardest periods of her life: constant anxiety, weight loss, dependence on loud masking, and the feeling that her life was over. In this conversation, Agi shares how she moved from fear to acceptance — not by making her tinnitus quieter, but by changing her relationship with it. She talks about: • Realizing she had developed a phobia of her own tinnitus • Working with a therapist specializing in exposure therapy • The turning point when she stopped believing her catastrophic thoughts • How she learned to accept anxiety and annoyance — without needing them to disappear first • Why she now welcomes new tones instead of panicking about them • The difference between silence and peace (and why we confuse the two) This isn't a story about tinnitus going away. It's about someone who can now lie in bed in complete silence, hear her tinnitus clearly, and genuinely not care. If you're struggling right now, Agi's message is simple: believe that habituation is possible for you — even when your thoughts tell you otherwise. It takes time. It's not always fast. But it happens. If you want support on your habituation journey, visit **habituate.online** for free resources and my 4-day email introduction course. To join the same community Agi found helpful, check out **www.mytinnitus.club**. New episodes every Friday. See you next week. — Frieder

    48 min
  4. Episode 142 - Tinnitus Makes Sleep Impossible? Here's what to do

    JAN 30

    Episode 142 - Tinnitus Makes Sleep Impossible? Here's what to do

    Hey Tinnitus Friends & Family, Sleep problems are one of the hardest parts of living with tinnitus. In this episode, I talk about why tinnitus so often feels louder at night, why sleep can suddenly feel impossible, and—most importantly—what actually keeps insomnia going when tinnitus is involved. If you’ve ever found yourself lying in bed exhausted, monitoring your tinnitus, worrying about another bad night, or feeling pressure to “force” sleep, this video is for you. We’ll cover: • Why tinnitus itself is not the real cause of insomnia • Why your body isn’t broken—but actually doing its job • How nervous system activation (not lack of sleep) keeps you awake • Why trying harder to sleep often backfires • What helps sleep return naturally, even when tinnitus is still present I also share my own experience of sleeping 7–8 hours most nights despite severe tinnitus, and why many people I work with are able to restore sleep once the struggle ends. This episode is not about quick fixes or forcing silence. It’s about understanding safety, letting go of performance pressure, and allowing your nervous system to relearn that the night is not a threat. If you’d like to explore this work more deeply, you can find additional free resources, interviews, and support inside the Habituation Hub: 👉 https://habituate.online And if you feel comfortable, let me know in the comments: What keeps you awake at night when tinnitus shows up? You’re not broken. Your nervous system can learn again that sleep is safe. — Frieder

    13 min
  5. Episode 141 - What Tinnitus Relief (Habituation) Actually Is - And What It Is Not

    JAN 23

    Episode 141 - What Tinnitus Relief (Habituation) Actually Is - And What It Is Not

    Hey Tinnitus Friends and Family, Habituation is one of the most misunderstood concepts in tinnitus recovery. In this episode, I lay a clear foundation for what tinnitus habituation actually is — and just as importantly, what it is not. Because when people expect the wrong thing from habituation, they often feel stuck, disappointed, or like they’re failing… even when progress is already happening. If you’ve ever wondered: • “Why do I still notice my tinnitus even though I understand it?” • “Does habituation mean silence?” • “Why do spikes make me feel like I’m back at square one?” • “Am I doing something wrong?” This episode is for you. In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why habituation does not mean constant silence • Why habituation is not a mindset trick or a single breakthrough moment • Why understanding tinnitus intellectually does not automatically calm your nervous system • Why monitoring and checking tinnitus blocks habituation • What habituation actually looks like in real life • The subtle signs that habituation is already happening • Why habituation is simple, but not easy • What truly helps your brain and nervous system stop treating tinnitus as a threat I also explain why habituation often feels complicated — not because it is, but because people try to do it alone, under pressure, and while constantly searching for certainty. A key takeaway: Habituation isn’t something you decide. It’s a gradual shift in how your nervous system responds — and life continuing despite tinnitus is part of what allows that shift to happen. How this tinnitus podcast can help: This episode exists to give you clarity, orientation, and reassurance — not miracle cures or false promises. Understanding alone won’t retrain your nervous system, but it can help you stop fighting the wrong battle. If you want structured support beyond YouTube, you can explore the Habituation Hub, where I’ve gathered all available resources in one place: • Free beginner resources • A guided 12-week habituation program • Community support • Limited 1-on-1 coaching You can find everything here: 👉 www.habituate.online If habituation hasn’t worked for you yet, that doesn’t mean you’ve failed. If you’re human — and you have a brain — habituation is possible. If something is still unclear after watching, let me know in the comments. And if this video helped you, consider sharing it with someone who needs to hear exactly this. Thanks for being here. Your Tinnitus Coach Frieder

    13 min
  6. Episode 140 - Stop These 5 Habits to Habituate to Tinnitus

    JAN 16

    Episode 140 - Stop These 5 Habits to Habituate to Tinnitus

    Hey Tinnitus Friends And Family, Find all resources at www.habituate.online Many people understand tinnitus habituation intellectually — yet still feel stuck, reactive, and frustrated in real life. In this episode, I walk you through five real-life blocks that prevent habituation, even when you “know all the right things.” This isn’t about willpower, positivity, or trying harder. It’s about what actually happens in the nervous system — and why insight alone doesn’t automatically translate into feeling safe. In this video, you’ll learn: • Why understanding tinnitus doesn’t automatically lead to habituation • The difference between cognitive insight and nervous system safety • How constant monitoring quietly keeps tinnitus in the foreground • Why forcing acceptance or calm often backfires • Why connection and co-regulation matter more than doing this alone If you’ve ever thought: • “I know tinnitus isn’t dangerous, but my body still panics” • “I understand habituation, so why am I not there yet?” • “I feel stuck even though I’ve done so much work” — this episode is for you.

    20 min
  7. Episode 139 - Make 2026 the Year You Stop Fighting Tinnitus

    JAN 9

    Episode 139 - Make 2026 the Year You Stop Fighting Tinnitus

    Hey Tinnitus Friends and Family, A new year often brings hope — and a lot of pressure — especially when you’re living with tinnitus. In this episode, I want to welcome you into 2026 and invite you to consider a different path forward: not another year of fighting tinnitus, waiting for silence, or putting your life on hold — but a year of habituation. Habituation isn’t about pretending tinnitus isn’t there. It’s about teaching your brain that the sound is not dangerous, allowing your nervous system to calm down, and slowly returning your attention to the parts of life that actually matter to you. In this episode, I share: • What I mean when I talk about tinnitus habituation (and what it is not) • How this channel is meant to support you on that journey • Why safety, understanding, and connection matter so much in tinnitus recovery • How you can start, at your own pace, without pressure or quick fixes Whether you’re new to the channel or you’ve been here for a while, this video is meant to give you orientation, reassurance, and a sense of direction — not overwhelm. You don’t have to rush. You don’t have to fix everything at once. And you don’t have to do this alone. 👉 You can start with my free 4-day tinnitus habituation course here: https://habituate.online 👉 Or explore the 12-week community-based habituation program here: https://www.mytinnitus.club If this episode resonates, feel free to let me know in the comments where you’re at right now — or simply that you’re here. Here’s to making 2026 a year of less fear, more understanding, and a calmer relationship with tinnitus. Your Tinnitus Coach Frieder

    11 min
  8. Episode 138 - The Moment my Tinnitus Stopped Controlling Me

    12/12/2025

    Episode 138 - The Moment my Tinnitus Stopped Controlling Me

    Hey Tinnitus Friends and Family, There was a moment in my tinnitus journey when everything quietly changed. Not because the sound disappeared. Not because I found a miracle cure. But because the fear finally lost its grip. In this episode, I share the turning point that allowed my tinnitus to fade into the background of my life — even when it was still clearly there. I talk openly about what didn’t work, what I misunderstood for years, and the internal shift that made real relief possible. You’ll hear why tinnitus suffering is rarely about loudness alone, how fighting the sound keeps the nervous system stuck, and why habituation begins when the brain learns safety — not silence. If you’re tired of searching for fixes and starting to wonder whether peace is still possible with tinnitus, this episode is for you. In this episode, we cover: • Why tinnitus doesn’t have to disappear for relief to begin • The role fear and emotional reaction play in keeping tinnitus intrusive • The moment that changed my relationship with the sound • How habituation actually happens over time • Why your brain is not broken — and how it can relearn safety Whether you’re early in your journey or have been struggling for years, this conversation is an invitation to stop fighting and start living again. If you’d like to take the next step, you can find my free 4-day tinnitus habituation course at habituate.online, or learn more about our 12-week online program at mytinnitus.club. You’re not alone — and real relief is possible. Your Tinnitus Coach Frieder

    18 min
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Hey Tinnitus Friends & Family, Welcome to the show all about tinnitus — the science behind relief, and how you can find the right approach for your unique situation. We dive into the latest science-based strategies, debunk myths about tinnitus cures, and explore effective treatments to help you find quick relief from ringing ears. 🌟 Ready to start your tinnitus relief journey? Visit my Linktree for all my best resources in one place: https://linktr.ee/outringtinnitus This podcast combines a scientific and myth-busting approach to tinnitus with deeply personal stories of living with single-sided deafness, tinnitus, and navigating life with a hearing aid. We’ve interviewed some of the world’s leading tinnitus researchers and practitioners, offering insights to help you understand and manage tinnitus effectively. Through my personal tinnitus relief framework, I’ve supported hundreds of people in reclaiming their lives and finding lasting relief. Whether it’s through our transformative online tinnitus community, 1-on-1 coaching, or our structured programs, there’s a path to success for you. 🎧 Learn more and take the first step: Join our supportive community: www.mytinnitus.club Explore my curated tinnitus resources: https://linktr.ee/outringtinnitus We wish you sound tinnitus relief and happy listening! Warm regards, Your Tinnitus Coach Frieder

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