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Red Dirt Catholics

Join Jayce, James and guests from "Red Dirt" Oklahoma as they discuss what evangelization and discipleship looks like in real life.

  1. 8H AGO

    Fewer Presents, Fuller Hearts

    Text us and let us know what you think! Tap HERE What would change if we built a rule of life that actually fit our days and led us to Jesus? Join Jayce and James as they discuss what this could look like.  We unpack “rule” as a trellis, not a cage—simple anchors that help prayer, work, family, and rest breathe. New Year energy is helpful, but the real move is choosing one priority and letting everything else take its proper place. That’s where fasting and asceticism come in. From Exodus 90’s cold showers and media fasts to the Daniel Fast’s clarity, we share the honest early struggle—headaches, hunger, fidgety evenings—and the surprising fruits: easier yeses to our kids, a renewed desire for the nightly examen, and a heart that listens without forcing. Along the way, Jeff Cavins’ challenge hits home: if you have “priorities,” you don’t have a priority. Spouses and children matter immensely, yet the center cannot hold unless we order our lives to the will of the Lord. We explore how daily Mass becomes a fixed star, why saying no creates real freedom, and how fasting sharpens spiritual hearing.  ************ Links and other stuff from the show: Pastoral Letter, "On the Unity of the Body and Soul:" archokc.org/pastoral-letters Red Dirt Catholics Email Address: reddirtcatholics@archokc.org The Book "From Christendom to Apostolic Mission" (Digital and Print): Amazon The Social Dilemma: https://www.netflix.com/title/81254224 Daily Examen Prayer: https://bit.ly/309As8z Lectio Divina How-To: https://bit.ly/3fp8UTa

    48 min
  2. MAR 3 · BONUS

    Father Will Banowsky Interview | Red Dirt Catholics LIVE — 2025 Discipleship Conference

    Text us and let us know what you think! Tap HERE In this episode, Jayce and James sat down with Father Will Banowsky, judicial vicar and pastor, for a candid look at annulments, prenuptial investigations, and the habits that help couples keep vows. We explore cultural myths about marriage, unpack a Scripture mistranslation, and share concrete ways parishes can form and protect marriages. • what a judicial vicar does and why it matters • how annulments and appeals actually work • why prenuptial investigations safeguard consent • the role of parish marriage files and documentation • a paperwork mix‑up that teaches big lessons • praying for young couples facing cultural pressure • indissolubility of marriage versus easy exit mindsets • the impact of mistranslating biblical texts on divorce • mentor couples as the backbone of marriage prep • learning to be comfortable being uncomfortable • “nothing worth having comes easy” applied to vocation ************ Links and other stuff from the show: Pastoral Letter, "On the Unity of the Body and Soul:" archokc.org/pastoral-letters Red Dirt Catholics Email Address: reddirtcatholics@archokc.org The Book "From Christendom to Apostolic Mission" (Digital and Print): Amazon The Social Dilemma: https://www.netflix.com/title/81254224 Daily Examen Prayer: https://bit.ly/309As8z Lectio Divina How-To: https://bit.ly/3fp8UTa

    15 min
  3. MAR 3 · BONUS

    Peter Andrastek Interview | Red Dirt Catholics LIVE — 2025 Discipleship Conference

    Text us and let us know what you think! Tap HERE Jayce and James sat down with Peter Andrastek from Evangelical Catholic at the 2025 Discipleship Conference for the Archdiocese of Oklahoma City to draw a bright line between ministry and apostolate and then show how to form the laity to live mission where life actually happens. Peter from Evangelical Catholic helps us imagine parishes as workshops for friendship, holiness, and real-world witness. Learn more about Peter and Evangelical Catholic here: https://evangelicalcatholic.org/  • ministry as public, structured service tied to holy orders • apostolate as outward mission flowing from baptism and confirmation • reducing mission to volunteering as a common trap • mission ready friendship as a practical path for evangelization • training versus lifelong formation and conversion • lay co responsibility and the laity’s office in the world • building parish imagination beyond programs • start with faithful, available, teachable, normal people • resources for forming laity in everyday mission ************ Links and other stuff from the show: Pastoral Letter, "On the Unity of the Body and Soul:" archokc.org/pastoral-letters Red Dirt Catholics Email Address: reddirtcatholics@archokc.org The Book "From Christendom to Apostolic Mission" (Digital and Print): Amazon The Social Dilemma: https://www.netflix.com/title/81254224 Daily Examen Prayer: https://bit.ly/309As8z Lectio Divina How-To: https://bit.ly/3fp8UTa

    25 min
  4. FEB 27

    FACT(s) of Mission | Part 2

    Text us and let us know what you think! Tap HERE In this episode, Jayce and James explore how the FACT framework (Faithful, Available, Contagious, Teachable) serves as both a barometer for disciple readiness and a personal examination tool for those leading others toward Christ. Have you ever wondered what truly makes someone ready to be a disciple-maker? This episode dives deep into the first half of the powerful FACT framework – Faithful and Available – that serves as both a barometer for discipleship readiness and a personal examination tool for spiritual growth. • Faithfulness includes alignment with Church teaching, honest acknowledgment of struggles, and consistent striving toward holiness • Being faithful requires humility and obedience rather than elevating personal opinions above Church teaching • True availability doesn't mean an empty calendar but rather a heart oriented toward what truly matters • Availability means being present in the moment, putting down phones, and prioritizing prayer despite competing demands • Our availability or lack thereof reveals "who we are bowing to" - what we truly worship • A "schedule conversion" may be necessary if we're too busy for prayer and silence • Seeking counsel from trusted friends provides essential perspective on our blind spots • Making even small adjustments can significantly align our lives more closely with Christ's call ************ Links and other stuff from the show: Pastoral Letter, "On the Unity of the Body and Soul:" archokc.org/pastoral-letters Red Dirt Catholics Email Address: reddirtcatholics@archokc.org The Book "From Christendom to Apostolic Mission" (Digital and Print): Amazon The Social Dilemma: https://www.netflix.com/title/81254224 Daily Examen Prayer: https://bit.ly/309As8z Lectio Divina How-To: https://bit.ly/3fp8UTa

    55 min
  5. 12/05/2025

    Bold Simplicity: Drawing People in with Truth and Tradition

    Text us and let us know what you think! Tap HERE In this episode, Jayce and James share real stories of bringing people into the Church with a question, like an agnostic who came for the music and said yes to OCIA after a gentle ask; a seeker who loves liturgy but hesitates because of family wounds; a friend wrestling with the Eucharist and the early Church.  Along the way, they name what’s working—and why. Reverent worship that lets people pray without a sales pitch. Access to thoughtful sources like the Didache, the catechism, and the Church Fathers. A culture where the Holy Spirit leads and we follow with patience, courage, and love. Instead of trying to “win,” we learn to keep the door open, ask honest questions, and offer timely invitations. If you’ve ever wondered how to walk with someone who’s curious but cautious, this episode offers a field guide. They also cover thresholds of conversion, practical tools like a simple “pick five” intercessory list, and how to speak without jargon so friends actually hear the good news.  Lastly, they talk about when to be bold, when to be quiet, and how prayer reshapes hard conversations. The result is a hopeful picture of evangelization grounded in beauty, truth and real friendship. ************ Links and other stuff from the show: Pastoral Letter, "On the Unity of the Body and Soul:" archokc.org/pastoral-letters Red Dirt Catholics Email Address: reddirtcatholics@archokc.org The Book "From Christendom to Apostolic Mission" (Digital and Print): Amazon The Social Dilemma: https://www.netflix.com/title/81254224 Daily Examen Prayer: https://bit.ly/309As8z Lectio Divina How-To: https://bit.ly/3fp8UTa

    59 min
4.9
out of 5
34 Ratings

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Join Jayce, James and guests from "Red Dirt" Oklahoma as they discuss what evangelization and discipleship looks like in real life.

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