The Spoonie Podcast

Emily Fraser (The Spoonie Mentor)

This show is full of inspiration and advice for anyone struggling with chronic pain and/or fatigue. Listen as host Emily Fraser shares her journey learning to thrive with multiple chronic illnesses. Follow us on instagram https://www.instagram.com/thespooniementor/ and visit www.thespooniementor.com to join our spoonie community!

  1. 05/21/2025

    59. Navigating Chronic Illness: The Hidden Side of Healing

    In this powerful re-airing of an interview originally featured on the Holistish Podcast with host Lianne Balazsi, Emily Fraser dives deep into her journey from high-achieving perfectionist to becoming bedridden after a traumatic brain injury—and how she turned that breakdown into a breakthrough. Emily opens up about the emotional toll of chronic illness, the frustration of being dismissed by doctors, and how the nervous system became her compass for healing. She shares the hard truths about medical gaslighting, identity loss, and the messy middle of recovery—offering hope and validation to anyone feeling stuck or misunderstood. Whether you're new to your healing journey or deep in the weeds, this episode reminds you: you're not broken, and you don’t have to heal alone. 🔔 What You'll Learn: → The backstory of how Emily went from educator to disabled after a life-changing concussion → The emotional layers of chronic illness: grief, identity loss, and self-trust → The power of nervous system regulation in real, lasting healing → How high-achieving traits like people-pleasing can sabotage recovery → Why performing healing or chasing the “right” treatment can keep us stuck → What PRP injections and body-based modalities taught her about somatic trust → How trauma bonding with providers can delay progress—and how to reclaim agency → Why community is a crucial (and often missing) piece in the healing journey Want to learn how to find freedom from chronic pain and fatigue? Register for my free training: https://go.thespooniementor.com/free/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/thespooniementor Website: https://www.thespooniementor.com/

    1h 19m
  2. 05/07/2025

    57. Talk Therapy Isn’t Enough: Why Somatic Tools Work for Trauma & Chronic Illness

    Meet Oliver Phoenix, a somatic coach, yoga teacher, & movement artist who works with queer and neurodivergent folks to help them live with greater ease (& joy!) as their most authentic selves.In this empowering conversation, we talk about reconnecting with your body through somatic practices—especially for those living with chronic illness, neurodivergence, and trauma. Together, we unpack what somatic work really means, why it’s gaining popularity, and how it can help you escape the boom-bust cycle of flare-ups and crashes. You’ll learn how to use body-based tools to support your nervous system, develop interoceptive awareness, and stop ignoring the subtle signs your body sends before burnout hits. 🔑 Key Takeaways: What somatics are and how they help with chronic pain, fatigue, and flare-ups The importance of interoceptive awareness (aka: listening to your body's cues) How to reframe pain and build safety in your body gently and effectively The connection between authenticity, movement, and healing 💬 DM Oliver on IG: @theoliverphoenix 🌐 Learn More: theoliverphoenix.com 🎧 Listen to Oliver's Podcast: The Somatic Spectrum Get Daily Somatic Movement Prompts in May: https://neurotransmissions.substack.com/s/may-we-move  Book 1:1 Somatic Coaching: https://theoliverphoenix.com/contact Want to learn how to find freedom from chronic pain and fatigue? Register for my free training: https://www.thespooniementor.com/free/  Instagram: https://instagram.com/thespooniementor Website: https://www.thespooniementor.com/

    56 min
  3. 04/23/2025

    56. Spoonie Travel Tips: Managing Chronic Illness While Abroad

    Ever wondered how you can travel the world as a spoonie without triggering a flare-up? In this episode, I share my 16-day journey through Europe—Barcelona, Mallorca, and Paris—while managing chronic illness and navigating international travel. From essential travel tips to mindset shifts, I dive deep into the strategies that allowed me to thrive, not just survive, while exploring new places and experiencing a life-changing adventure. In this episode, I cover: My pre-trip preparation (check out the previous episode for more details) The challenges and joys of flying with a hidden disability How I used pacing and mindful rest to prevent flare-ups while sightseeing My go-to strategies for managing energy and fatigue during travel (from grounding exercises to using crystal bracelets) How embracing a “thriving spoonie” mindset allowed me to let go of fear and experience more joy Key moments in Barcelona, Mallorca, and Paris that tested my limits and taught me important lessons about self-care, intuition, and boundaries Practical tips for managing anxiety, back pain, and other common spoonie symptoms while traveling How I’ve learned to expand my capacity over time and set new goals for self-improvement in both travel and life Whether you’re a spoonie who loves to travel or someone who’s been afraid to take the plunge, this episode will offer you inspiration, practical advice, and the confidence to start planning your next adventure with ease. No matter what challenges you face, you can still explore the world on your terms. Want to learn how to find freedom from chronic pain and fatigue? Register for my free training: https://www.thespooniementor.com/free/  Instagram: https://instagram.com/thespooniementor Website: https://www.thespooniementor.com/

    47 min
5
out of 5
24 Ratings

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This show is full of inspiration and advice for anyone struggling with chronic pain and/or fatigue. Listen as host Emily Fraser shares her journey learning to thrive with multiple chronic illnesses. Follow us on instagram https://www.instagram.com/thespooniementor/ and visit www.thespooniementor.com to join our spoonie community!