Deliberate Leaders Podcast with Allison Dunn

Allison Dunn
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Deliberate Leaders Podcast is dedicated to helping leaders build strong, thriving businesses. Join host Allison Dunn, executive business coach and owner of Deliberate Directions, as she spotlights today’s Deliberate Leaders who embrace the values of ownership, accountability, and reliability. Each episode features best information for business and leaders on topics like culture, communications, employee engagement, leadership, time management, growth strategies, personal development, goal setting, mindset, financial management, business best practices, systems, accountability, recruiting and retaining talent.

  1. The Toxic Trait No One Talks About in Leadership

    6D AGO

    The Toxic Trait No One Talks About in Leadership

    Main Theme: The toxic trait no one talks about in leadership is unexamined strength. Key Insights: Leadership doesn’t usually fail because something is missing. It fails when something is overused. Strengths become toxic when they are: Out of proportion Out of context Out of awareness Many “toxic” leadership behaviors are rooted in good intentions. Control is often a strategy for stability, not a flaw in character. Psychologists call this the “shadow side” of strengths. Common Strength-to-Shadow Shifts: Decisive → Controlling Reliable → Over-functioning Visionary → Detached Detail-oriented → Perfectionistic Supportive → People-pleasing How This Shows Up on Teams: Fewer ideas are shared Decisions move upward instead of outward Initiative declines Innovation slows People comply instead of contribute Powerful Reflection Questions: Where do decisions slow down without me? Where do people defer instead of decide? Where do I feel tension when outcomes aren’t in my hands? What feedback do I tend to reinterpret instead of explore? Leadership Maturity Progression: Early leadership: Competence Mid-stage leadership: Execution Advanced leadership: Self-regulation Core Question to Carry Forward: What trait of mine is shaping the conditions I’m responding to? Mentioned in This EpisodeAllison Dunn’s upcoming book: Think First: Build a Team That Thinks Like Leaders Reserve your copy at: deliberatedirections.com/thinkfirst Think First

    6 min
  2. Autopilot Excellence

    FEB 9

    Autopilot Excellence

    Why “what got you here” can quietly limit your next stage of leadership How strengths form, get rewarded, and become invisible defaults The concept of Autopilot Excellence and why success makes it dangerous How changing context exposes outdated leadership patterns Real examples of strengths turning into constraints: Decisiveness creating instability Detail orientation causing analysis paralysis Relationship focus avoiding necessary conflict Strategic thinking drifting into abstraction Operational excellence becoming micromanagement The three hidden costs leaders pay: The Blind Spot Tax The Pattern Lock The Scaling Ceiling How to use the feeling of your strength as a signal to pause and choose Why awareness, not personality change, unlocks scalable leadership A practical reframing for decisive, strategic, relational, and operational leaders Introduction to the Think First framework for interrupting default patterns Think First

    5 min
  3. Why Your Team Keeps Asking You the Same Questions

    FEB 2

    Why Your Team Keeps Asking You the Same Questions

    Episode NotesWhat’s really happening when your team keeps asking you questions Fast answers feel efficient in high-pressure environments Over time, those answers become “thinking bypasses” Teams follow the path of least resistance when clarity lives with the leader Three hidden patterns that quietly reshape your culture The Certainty Loop Teams return to the fastest source of certainty, reinforcing dependency instead of reasoning. The Leadership Tax Micro-decisions accumulate, slowing execution and turning leaders into bottlenecks. The Inversion of Roles Leaders drift into problem-solving while teams drift away from ownership. Why this isn’t a delegation problem Reactive answers remove productive friction Judgment and prioritization skills don’t develop Teams stop anticipating and start waiting The shift that changes everything Stop providing answers Start providing a thinking process Five questions that build thinkers instead of dependents What options have you already considered? What outcome matters most here? What constraint are we solving for? What information is missing? What do you recommend and why? The core idea behind Think First Leaders don’t scale by thinking for people They scale by building systems that help people think clearly Next step Early access to the executive edition of Think First Visit deliberatedirections.com/thinkfirst Think First

    4 min
  4. Flow or Grip: The Hidden Money Mindset Blocking Your Leadership Growth

    11/19/2025

    Flow or Grip: The Hidden Money Mindset Blocking Your Leadership Growth

    The shocking truth: Only 4% of the world’s money is physical—the rest is belief and confidence. The leadership link: Your relationship with money reveals how you lead. Scarcity breeds control and hesitation; abundance fuels trust and growth. White-knuckle leadership: How fear around money leads to micromanagement, missed opportunities, and burnout. Three mindset shifts to rewire your relationship with money: The Pre-Decision Question – “Is this decision rooted in flow or grip?” Audit Your $20 Tasks – Free yourself to focus on $200/hour thinking. The Circulation Exercise – Make one strategic financial move from confidence, not fear. Takeaway: Money is energy in motion. When you let it flow strategically, your leadership—and your business—expand in return. 👉 Reflection question: Where in your leadership are you gripping instead of flowing? 👉 Share this episode with a fellow leader who could use a mindset reset around money. Think First

    7 min
  5. The Power Shift: How Gen Z and Millennials Lead Differently

    11/12/2025

    The Power Shift: How Gen Z and Millennials Lead Differently

    In this episode of The Deliberate Leaders Podcast, Allison explores how Gen Z and Millennials are reshaping what influence and expertise look like in modern leadership. You’ll discover: Why good ideas often get ignored (and how to fix it) The key difference between opinions and expertise Three communication shifts that make people lean in How to build your “expertise bank” for long-term credibility The mindset that transforms how you show up in every meeting Key Takeaway: You don’t need a new title or more years of experience to be heard—you just need to communicate your insight deliberately. Ready to elevate your leadership voice? Subscribe to the Deliberate Directions newsletter for weekly insights on leading with intention: 👉 https://deliberatedirections.com/newsletter Think First

    4 min
  6. The Vulnerability Trap: When Authenticity Crosses the Line

    11/05/2025

    The Vulnerability Trap: When Authenticity Crosses the Line

    Vulnerability has become a leadership buzzword — but it’s often misunderstood.Key idea: Vulnerability without boundaries isn’t strength. It’s exposure.Learn the difference between sharing lessons and sharing wounds.Hear stories of two leaders — James and Diana — who represent both extremes.Discover the guiding rule: “If it still hurts when you tell it, it’s not ready to share.”Explore how to model authenticity that empowers your team, not burdens them.Use the self-check question: “Am I sharing this to serve them, or to relieve myself?”Bonus takeaway: “You can be the lighthouse or the storm, but you can’t be both.”💡 Featured Paradox: Vulnerability that connects vs. vulnerability that collapses trust. 💬 Quote to Remember: “Share from the scar, not the wound.” Think First

    8 min
  7. The Confidence Paradox

    10/29/2025

    The Confidence Paradox

    The fine line between confidence and certaintyThe story of Marcus: how overconfidence eroded trust and performanceWhy success can unintentionally reinforce blind spotsThe power of calibrated confidence—believing in yourself while staying curiousHow strategic self-doubt sharpens leadership judgmentReflection prompts to uncover where confidence may be holding you back Think First

    3 min
  8. Leading From Behind

    10/22/2025

    Leading From Behind

    Introduction to The Paradox Series — exploring leadership contradictions that reveal deeper truths The myth of “visible leadership” and why presence doesn’t always equal power Case study: Sarah’s journey from control to empowerment The shift from giving answers to asking better questions Practical steps to “lead from behind” without losing influence Nelson Mandela’s wisdom on shepherd-style leadership Reflection prompts for leaders: Where could stepping back create more momentum? What decision could someone else make just as well as you? What fear holds you back from letting go? Closing thought: Sometimes the most powerful move a leader can make… is simply to move aside. Think First

    8 min
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Deliberate Leaders Podcast is dedicated to helping leaders build strong, thriving businesses. Join host Allison Dunn, executive business coach and owner of Deliberate Directions, as she spotlights today’s Deliberate Leaders who embrace the values of ownership, accountability, and reliability. Each episode features best information for business and leaders on topics like culture, communications, employee engagement, leadership, time management, growth strategies, personal development, goal setting, mindset, financial management, business best practices, systems, accountability, recruiting and retaining talent.

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