The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show
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Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

  1. 4d ago

    What Makes Someone REALLY Good In Bed? Confidence, Anxiety & Communication Feat @SkipFromBK

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft, Courtney gets an unexpected business opportunity when a fan propositions her for feet pictures — and somehow that’s only the BEGINNING of where this episode goes.  We get into why American women seem to love British men, which leads Tahoe, Yesssterday and Skip to announce their upcoming trip to London to find out whether English women have that same energy for American men. Then we’re talking about what actually makes someone GOOD in the bedroom. How soon should you start discussing sex with someone you’re dating? Why do nerds have a reputation for being surprisingly great lovers? And could something as simple as being able to admit when you’re wrong actually make you better in bed?  We also have a real conversation about male performance anxiety and how anxiety can affect the way men physically show up in sexual and play-party environments. Skip opens up about how becoming part of the Hard or Soft / Nut Navy community has helped increase his confidence, and the crew discusses why some women can be so judgmental about men using sexual performance enhancements. Plus, we’re breaking down bedroom communication, sex positions that look like WAY more work than fun, Tahoe somehow ends up with Skip as his “astral penis,” and Skip tells us exactly what he likes — and doesn’t like — in the bedroom.  Courtney returns with Kink of the Week, Yesssterday has a brand-new listener confession, and Tahoe makes an important announcement regarding Loon’s departure from Hard or Soft. Funny, informative, vulnerable and completely inappropriate in all the ways you’ve come to expect from Hard or Soft. Welcome back to the Nut Navy. Socials: Skip @SkipFromBK on all socials Tahoe  @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit Loadboost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

  2. Sep 2

    Our Traumas Can Determine Our Kinks Feat Daddy Doyenne

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with lifestyle domme and kink educator Daddy Doyenne to talk why they dont date straight men, the uncomfortablity Tahoe feels as a straight man being tip toeing around LGBTQIA and Cis womens traumas, should straight ppl and LGBQTIA segregate to maintain the peace, the origin of Daddys "demon" persona, what Daddys experience growing up was like and whather her family was supportive of it, establishing boundaries and knowing when to let ppl go, how speaking about these topics lets people know its ok to live in their truths and much more!! ENJOY! Socials: Daddy Doyenne @Thee.Demonatrix on Instagram @Daddy_Doyenne on Twitter DaddyDoyenne.com Tahoe  @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

  3. Aug 27

    Great Sex vs Sexual Chemistry: What's The Difference? I Cheating, Pleasure & Bedroom Confessions Feat Kelly Moonstone

    Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft, music artist and producer Kelly Moonstone joins the crew for a completely shameless conversation about pleasure, cheating, sexual chemistry and what men and women REALLY expect from each other in the bedroom. Why do some people feel guilty after pleasuring themselves? And we tackle an even crazier question: Can cheating ever actually SAVE a relationship? Is infidelity always the beginning of the end, or can what happens afterward expose problems a couple needed to confront? Then it’s confession time: What’s something you did because you were horny that you had absolutely NO business doing? 😂 We also break down the difference between great sex and genuine sexual chemistry—because they’re definitely not always the same thing. Then the men turn the conversation toward women: What are five things women can do to be better in the bedroom? And why do some women expect men to bring their A-game sexually without putting that same level of effort into pleasing their partner? Kelly Moonstone joins us for all of it as we talk pleasure, attraction, effort, chemistry, cheating and the things people don’t always admit about their sex lives.  Welcome to Hard or Soft—where nothing about sex and relationships is off limits. ENJOY!! Tickets for our Halloween party are NOW ON SALE!!! Email us at HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com to request the ticket link IF you have already been vetted or go to TheHardorSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form Socials: Kelly @KellyMoonStone on Instagram Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Drive Boost Visit VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

  4. Aug 20

    Does Size Really Matter? Sex Symbols, Bedroom Confidence & Wild Confessions

    Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft, the crew gets into a wild conversation about attraction, sex appeal and what really makes someone unforgettable in the bedroom. Are Black men too critical of Black women? How many people have probably pleasured themselves while thinking about you—or looking at your pictures? And the question nobody knew we needed answered: Is Tahoe actually a sex symbol? 👀 Tahoe also reveals his latest sex-toy purchases before the crew breaks down how men with smaller packages can still show up with confidence in the bedroom. Plus, Tahoe tells the story of how his girl actually studied the videos he sent her, took notes and came back ready to experiment. 😂 Then we get into backhanded sexual compliments, Courtney’s Kink of the Week, and Yesssterday introduces a brand-new Confessions segment that immediately goes completely off the rails. Sex, relationships, attraction, bedroom confidence, kinks and absolutely zero shame—welcome back to Hard or Soft. Socials Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Drive Boost Visit VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow  Enjoy!

  5. Aug 13

    I Have A Freaky Side That I Cant Tell My Wife About

    Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week we welcome musician Denhim to the couch as we talk Courtney listening to True Crime pods and of course Tahoe finds a way to relate it to secks, not being able to tell your partner about your kinks, Tahoe being the face of men getting their groceries eaten and being hit on by his ghey fans, whether its going too far for him and why ghey men try straight men, Denhims music career and how he likes living in NY, the toxic inspiration behind some of the songs on his album and catching his partner having secks with his bestie, the difference between dating down south and dating in NY, the  physical touch love language and how it relates to men vs how it relates to women, ppl expecting secks after the first date and actually demanding secks, not intiating enough witrh your partner, being irresponsible with your dick and SO much more!! ENJOY!!!! Subscribe to our Patreon to join our Patreon, watch our Patreon only shows and see the show visuals!! Socials: Denhim @ItsDenhim on Instagram Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Soaking Wet Visit SoakingWet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

  6. Aug 6

    Why Am I Always Being Judged For Being Secksual??

    Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!! This week Courtney rejoins the cast as we talk people lying on their secks game, advocating for micro peens, Tahoe gifts Yesssterday with his first male secks toy, when should women pull out their secks toy on a guy, the proper way to use anull beads, Tahoes wife surprises him with a game, Courtneys new and improved secks life, how to properly hit the different climax spots in the vulva, how many holes does the vulva have, why Courtney came back to the show, the difficulties that come while living in your secksual truth, being in a marraige where only one person initiates, the best position to eat cat in, and what is the best time to have secks outside on your patio?? ENJOY!!! Listen To the full episode ad free on Patreon now!! Socials: Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

  7. Jul 30

    Are White Men Easier For Black Women To Date?

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week we welcome Zeema of the Honestly Tho podcast to talk her getting favors and offerings from white men, dating white men and why she thinks it is easier to date them than black men, being turned off by a man after pegging him and why she feels that being pegged isnt for "straight' men, the difference in beauty standards for white women vs black women, warming the booty hole up for penetration, recycling nudes and the best camera tricks to take nude videos with, Tahoes love for toys and what he gets out of it, 5 ways to be a dicksman, and more!!! ENJOY! Listen To the full episode ad free on Patreon now!! Socials: Zima  @TopTier_Zee on Instagram Honestly Tho Podcast @_HonestlyThoPodcast on Instagram Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

  8. Jul 22

    343. Damn My P*ssy Grew Alot!! Feat Goddess Jessi

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!! This week we sit with The Sweet Love Sanctuary's own Goddess Jessi to talk balancing your energy, where Goddess Jessi originally met Tahoe and Loon, the definition of the word "Goddess", defining the Sweet Love Sanctuary, living a polyamorous lifestyle and Goddess Jessi's liberation, the reaction that Goddess Jessi receives when she lets potential partners know that she is married but open, Tahoe and his trash d*ck days, the guys experiences with women that maybe weren't too favorable, having a good d*ck radar and so much more! ENJOY!! Socials: GoddessJessi @SweetLoveSanctuary on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Drive Boost Visit VB.Health and use code HardOrSoft for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

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Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

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  • Creator
    The Hard Or Soft Show
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    336
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2020 - The Hard Or Soft Show - Brooklyn, NY
  • Show Website
    The Hard Or Soft Show

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