The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show
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Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

  1. 14H AGO

    321. Can I Break Fast With Secks??? Feat @YourExGirlFriendTara

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!! Welcome back guys! Tahoe rejoins the cast as we welcome @YourExGirlfriendTara to talk an interesting threesome Tahoe wants to recreate at The Nut Gala except for the fact that he is practicing Ramadan and cannot m********e OR Have relations with his fiance. Yesssterday throws him under the bus as he calls out Tahoe for being a Gooner, Tara speaks on her experience as a Sex Ed coach, and Tahoe asks what makes a person good at secks. Courtney tells us about her Valentines day as Tahoe gets offended that she didnt take his advice on what to do for her new boo and then asks Chat Gpt an interesting question...ENJOY!! If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form. If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help. Socials Tara @YourExGirlfriendTara on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV on Instagram, TikTok, Threads and IG Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    1h 28m

  2. FEB 12

    320. Whats a Goon To A Goblin?

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week Courtney, Loon and Yesssterday talk being a Gooner, whats in their goon cave, Kinks with the intent on not finishing, how certain kinks reflect where we are with relationships ad social media, and Valentines day plans!! We also get a call from Anisha of Bedroom Kandi who talks about their social affair that Tahoe is hosting in Atlanta on March 31st!! ENJOY!!! If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form. If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help. Socials Anisha @PartiesByAnisha on instagram RSVP for the Bedroom Kandi 2026 social affair HERE Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Soaking Wet Visit SoakingWet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off or click Here GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    2h 7m

  3. FEB 5

    319. Sophisticated And Horny

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!! This week Courtney, Loon and Yesssterday take the stage as they talk low libidos in relationships, whats a healthy amount of knocking boots one should be doing weekly, micro cheating, Old school vs New School corn and Courtney introduces a new segment called the Hard Question Jar...ENJOY!!! If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form. If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help. Socials Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LOADBOOST Visit Loadboost.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off or click Here GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    2h 3m

  4. JAN 30

    318. What Do T*tties Really Do Anyway?

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week the crew open up about there love for the boob but Tahoe asks..what do t*tties really do anyway, then we read a few fantasies that people submitted for the March 7th play party, we ask what are some pre-secks things that we do to make the evening super sensual, how to treat the third so they dont feel used, and MORE! Enjoy! f you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form. If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help. Socials Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Drive Boost Visit vb.health and use code HardOrSoft for 10% off or click HERE GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    2h 7m

  5. JAN 21

    317. Just Bring The Nut!

    Nut Navy ROLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!! This week the crew is back and the vibes are here as we talk Tahoe cuffing women that arent his, your mutual friends not telling you that they are dating, ppl not realizing the harsh realities of poly relationships until they are in one, what men really mean when they say "lets just see where it goes", Courtneys newest entry into her p*ssy chronicles, where do men learn how to have good male hygiene and MORE! Such a great episode! ENJOY! If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form. If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help. Socials Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: SoakingWet Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off or click HERE GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    1h 38m

  6. JAN 15

    316. The Year of Yes Feat Kandi Burruss

    Nut NAvy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLL!!!! In this special crossover episode of Business of Pleasure x The Hard or Soft Show, Tahoe is joined by Kasha Vanessa and the incomparable Kandi Burruss for a real, funny, and affirming conversation about transitioning from marital life into single womanhood, reclaiming self-love, and using pleasure as both confidence and care. We get into setting intentions for the year ahead and saying yes to ourselves, our pleasure, and our evolution. Kandi opens up about the whether she is ready or thinking about dating in today’s wild outside world, we talk people trying to spin the block, and the importance of true alignment in relationships, friendships, and energy as she steps into this next season with intention. We get into all the fun, toys that get you through transitions, riding it right, confidence in your body, and how pleasure plays a role in healing and empowerment. The conversation expands into the Hard or Soft framework, sharing our Hard/Wet, what turns us on, and our Soft/Dry, what turns us off, along with an honest discussion about ethical non-monogamy versus polyamory. This episode is grown, candid, and exactly the reminder you need to step boldly into your Year of YES. ENJOY!!! Also tune into Tahoe and Kashas new show Unconsciously Competent on all streaming episodes NOW!! or just click here  To Go to the Play Party head to HardOrSoftEvents if youve been vetted already or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form Socials Kandi @Kandi on Instagram Kasha @Au_Natural38 on Instagram and Twitter Shop Bedroom Kandi products at @BedroomKandi on Instagram or click the link in the bio Tune into the @BusinessOfPleasure podcast weekly on Youtube! Tahoe  @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit LoadBoost.com or click here and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products  GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    2h 8m

  7. JAN 8

    315. D*ck Gumbo feat @ENYScoot

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!! Its 2026 and we are BACK with a hilarious episode to start the new year! ENY Scoot sits with us to talk having bad secks with a good partner, is there such a thing as pulling toys out too early in dating, the idea that ppl look for reasons to not cheat more than they look for reasons to cheat, why men dont just tell the truth, a young man writes us a letter asking for help, and whats something you learned about secks the hard way that you wish you wouldve learned sooner? Socials Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit LoadBoost.com or click here and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products  GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    2h 7m

  8. 12/18/2025

    314. Slap My Yssup, Slap My Face

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week the crew are back to talk.. not gon lie yall I have to be up for work in 3 hours..I'll fill out the description later ..but this episode was GOOD!! ENJOY!

    1h 57m
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Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

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  • Creator
    The Hard Or Soft Show
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    304
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2020 - The Hard Or Soft Show - Brooklyn, NY
  • Show Website
    The Hard Or Soft Show

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