Confidence and Coffee

Ashley Henriott
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Confidence & Coffee with Ashley Henriott Real Life. Real Faith. Real Growth. What if becoming the woman God created you to be starts with getting honest about where you are right now? Welcome to Confidence & Coffee, the podcast where faith meets real life and personal growth happens one honest conversation at a time. Hosted by Ashley Henriott, author, speaker, and confidence advocate, this is your space for meaningful conversations about building confidence, strengthening your faith, navigating relationships, embracing motherhood, finding purpose, and becoming the healthiest, most authentic version of yourself. Through inspiring guest interviews, personal stories, biblical encouragement, and practical wisdom, Ashley brings the conversations women are craving but aren't always having. We talk about the messy middle, the beautiful breakthroughs, the hard seasons, and everything in between. No pretending to have it all together. No pressure to be perfect. Just real conversations that challenge, encourage, and remind you that growth is possible in every season. Whether you're rebuilding your confidence, rediscovering your identity, navigating change, or simply looking for encouragement to keep going, there's a seat for you here. So grab your coffee, pull up a chair, and let's grow together. Because confidence isn't about having it all together. It's about knowing who you are and whose you are.

  1. 2d ago

    How to Stop Living in Survival Mode and Start Healing | Dr. Edith Shiro

    What happens when you've survived the trauma, but you're still carrying it into every relationship, decision, and season of your life? This week on Confidence & Coffee, I'm joined by clinical psychologist, trauma specialist, and author of The Unexpected Gift of Trauma, Dr. Edith Shiro, for an honest conversation about what it really means to heal. We talk about the patterns we unknowingly repeat, the wounds we carry from childhood, and why healing isn't always as simple as forgiving someone or moving on. Dr. Edith shares how trauma can shape our beliefs about ourselves and others, why we sometimes remain in survival mode long after the danger has passed, and how post-traumatic growth can help us find meaning and purpose beyond what we've experienced. I also open up about my own journey, how motherhood and faith changed the way I saw myself, and why I believe healing requires both compassion and accountability. One of my favorite parts of this conversation is when we discuss learning to meet ourselves where we are. Not with shame. Not with judgment. But with the same grace and compassion we're so often encouraged to extend to everyone else. We also talk about forgiveness, boundaries, generational trauma, cancel culture, church hurt, and why acknowledging someone's pain doesn't mean excusing their behavior. If you've ever wondered why you keep repeating the same patterns, why certain situations still trigger you, or whether it's possible to become more than what you've been through, this conversation is for you. In this episode: • Understanding post-traumatic growth • Breaking unhealthy relationship patterns • Moving from survival mode into healing • Forgiveness, compassion, and healthy boundaries • Recognizing and interrupting generational trauma • Radical acceptance and rebuilding your identity • Finding purpose and faith through painful experiences Connect with Dr. Edith Shiro: Website: https://www.dredithshiro.com Book: The Unexpected Gift of Trauma Workbook: The Unexpected Gift of Trauma Workbook Thank you for being here and being part of this community. If this conversation encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it and leave a rating or review to help more people discover Confidence & Coffee. Remember, you are more than what happened to you. Your story isn't over. With love, Ashley

  2. Apr 28

    One movie gave her daughter anxiety… and it changed the direction of her entire career.

    What if what your family watches is shaping more than just your entertainment? In this episode of Confidence and Coffee, Ashley sits down with Chevonne O’Shaughnessy, founder of American Cinema Inspires, to talk about faith, family friendly films, clean entertainment, and why uplifting stories still matter. Chevonne shares how she unexpectedly found her way into the film industry, how one moment with her daughter changed the direction of her career, and why she believes families need more content that brings hope, joy, and connection. This conversation is for the mom who cares about what her kids are watching, the creator who wants to build something meaningful, and the woman who believes goodness still has a place in culture. In this episode, we talk about: • How Chevonne accidentally entered the film industry • The movie that gave her daughter anxiety and changed her career • Why clean and uplifting content still matters • What families are craving in entertainment • Why goodness still sells • The business side of faith and family films • What independent filmmakers often miss • How social media has changed film marketing • Sugarcreek Amish Mysteries and where families can watch Links: Listen to Confidence and Coffee: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/confidenceandcoffee Ashley Henriott: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/ Ashley’s Book: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/book Coaching with Ashley: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/coaching American Cinema Inspires: https://americancinemainspires.com/ ACI On The Go: https://www.youtube.com/c/ACIOnTheGo Chevonne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chevonneinspires/ Sugarcreek Amish Mysteries: https://americancinemainspires.com/sugarcreek

  3. Apr 21

    Church Trauma, Abuse, and Healing Through Faith | Veronica Thompson

    What happens when the place that was supposed to feel safe becomes the source of your pain? In this episode, Ashley sits down with trauma therapist Veronica Thompson to talk about church hurt, sexual abuse, trauma, and healing through faith. This conversation explores how trauma impacts the brain, why so many people feel silenced in the church, and what it really looks like to bring darkness into the light and begin healing. If you’ve ever struggled to reconcile your faith with your past… this episode will meet you there. What We Talk AboutChurch trauma and abuseTrauma responses and emotional shutdownWhy abuse often goes unaddressedPower, silence, and control in church systemsBreaking generational cyclesHealing, boundaries, and faithWhat it costs to speak the truthHow God uses your story for redemptionKey TakeawayHealing is not staying silent. Healing is bringing truth into the light, even when it costs you something. Links🎧 Podcast: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/confidenceandcoffee 🌐 Website: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/ 📖 Book: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/book 💌 Coaching: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/coaching 👩‍⚕️ Veronica Thompson: https://veronicathompson.com

  4. Apr 14

    God Is Still Good… Even When Life Isn’t | Kirby Kelly

    What do you do when life falls apart… and God doesn’t fix it the way you expected? In this episode of Confidence and Coffee, Ashley sits down with author, speaker, and podcast host Kirby Kelly to talk about grief, suffering, and what it really looks like to hold onto hope when life feels out of control. Kirby shares her story of loss, walking through addiction in her family, and how those experiences shaped her faith and her new book The Fabric of Hope. This conversation will challenge how you see suffering, strengthen your faith, and remind you that hope is not denial, it is rooted in who God is. ☕ What We Talk AboutHolding onto faith in hard seasonsGrief, loss, and unexpected sufferingWhy God doesn’t always remove painThe difference between hope and denialTrusting God’s character over your circumstancesWhy you are not too far gone for redemption💬 Key TakeawayGod’s goodness is not based on your circumstances, it is rooted in who He is. 🔗 Main Links🎧 Listen to the podcast: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/confidenceandcoffee 🌐 Ashley Henriott: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/ 📘 Get Ashley’s book: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/book 💌 Coaching with Ashley: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/coaching 📘 Kirby Kelly’s book (The Fabric of Hope): https://fabricofhopebook.com 🎙 Subscribe + FollowNew episodes of Confidence and Coffee every Tuesday. If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs hope right now.

  5. Apr 7

    Discernment vs. Denial in Relationships (This Will Open Your Eyes)

    What if the reason you feel exhausted… is not your life, but the people you're allowing into it? In this episode of Confidence and Coffee, Ashley sits down with relationship coach and author Daniel Ratner to unpack emotional vampires, narcissistic tendencies, and why so many women stay in relationships that slowly drain them. This conversation is honest, eye-opening, and deeply relatable, especially if you’ve ever felt confused in a relationship that looked good… but didn’t feel right. ☕ What We Talk About: What an emotional vampire actually isThe difference between narcissism and narcissistic tendenciesWhy empaths attract draining relationshipsEmotional safety vs surface-level “good behavior”The real reason you stay longer than you shouldThe “keeper vs drainer” frameworkBoundaries, self-esteem, and discernment in relationships 💬 Standout Moment: “You’re not tired… you’re drained by the people you’re calling love.” 📖 About Daniel RatnerDaniel Ratner is a relationship coach, speaker, and author focused on helping people build emotionally healthy relationships through self-awareness, boundaries, and emotional intelligence. Books mentioned: Emotional VampiresSunscreen LoveNever Feeling Loved AgainConnect with Daniel: https://coachratner.com/ ✨ Connect with Ashley🌐 Website: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/ 📖 Book: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/book 🎧 Podcast: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/confidenceandcoffee 💌 Coaching: https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/coaching 📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEgrgyXXzLZqeFaGTsxrkjQ 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashley.henriott 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyhenriott 🧵 Threads: https://www.threads.net/@ashley.henriott

  6. Mar 17

    The History After Jesus: Josephus, Prophecy, and the Untold Story of Jerusalem | Dr. Ward Sanford

    What really happened after the New Testament? In this episode of Confidence and Coffee, Ashley Henriott sits down with Dr. Ward Sanford, hydrogeologist and author of the historical fiction series Cry for Jerusalem, to explore the fascinating history surrounding the Jewish historian Flavius Josephus and the events that shaped early Christianity. Dr. Sanford shares how historical fiction can bring biblical history to life by blending real historical events, prophecy, genealogy, and the voices of men and women who lived during one of the most dramatic periods in Jewish and Christian history. His Cry for Jerusalem series explores the years 63–70 CE leading up to the destruction of Jerusalem and Herod’s Temple, events documented by eyewitness historian Josephus. This conversation explores the historical context of the New Testament, why genealogy and prophecy matter in biblical storytelling, and how historical fiction can help modern readers better understand the Bible. Guest LinksCry for Jerusalem Official Website https://www.cryforjerusalem.com Author Page – Ward Sanford https://www.cryforjerusalem.com/author Cry for Jerusalem Book 1 – Resisting Tyranny https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QG3D5PF Goodreads Author Page https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/19200906.Ward_Sanford

  7. Mar 10

    Bishop Daniel on Missions, Persecution, and What It Means to Truly Know God

    What does real surrender look like in a world obsessed with comfort? In this episode, Ashley talks with Bishop Daniel Timotheos Yohannan, president of GFA World, about missions, persecution, prayer, and what it means to truly know God rather than just know about Him. Bishop Daniel shares stories of national missionaries serving in some of the hardest places in Africa and Asia, explains why local missionaries are often the most effective way to reach unreached communities, and challenges the Western church to recover repentance, prayer, and simplicity. This conversation is honest, convicting, and deeply needed for anyone who feels the tension between comfort and calling. What you’ll hear in this episode– The story behind GFA World – Why millions still have little or no access to the Gospel – A powerful story of a missionary who returned after being threatened – Why persecution often clarifies faith – The difference between intellectual Christianity and truly knowing God – How prayer, repentance, and worship actually change us – Practical ways believers can support missions now Resources and linksBishop Daniel official website https://bishopdaniel.org GFA World https://www.gfa.org Bishop Daniel bio https://www.gfa.org/about/danieltimotheos/ Official GFA World contact and ministry page https://www.gfa.org/about/danieltimotheos/ Share this episodeIf this episode encouraged or challenged you, send it to a friend, share it on social media, and tag Ashley so she can celebrate with you.

  8. Feb 10

    What if intimacy isn’t something you “get back”… but something you rebuild?

    What if intimacy isn’t something you “get back”… but something you rebuild? In today’s episode of Confidence and Coffee, I’m joined by Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, who share their powerful story of healing after betrayal, recovering trust, and learning how to build true intimacy again. They introduce the concept of the Intimacy Pyramid, showing that intimacy isn’t just physical, it’s a thriving connection built on honesty, safety, trust, vulnerability, and only then, real intimacy. If you’ve been walking through betrayal, marriage pain, or rebuilding after broken trust, this conversation is full of truth, grace, and practical hope. What you’ll learn in this episode Why intimacy is a thriving connection that brings lifeThe Intimacy Pyramid and why honesty is the foundationHow betrayal damages safety and trustWhy shame and guilt block healingWhat rebuilding trust actually requires (not just promises)The role of vulnerability in restorationWhy individual healing matters for relationship healingHow grace makes room for recovery and forgivenessKey Quotes “Intimacy is a thriving connection.”“Hope is possible even after betrayal.”“Trust is built through consistent, trustworthy actions.”Episode Keywords intimacy, relationships, healing, betrayal, honesty, trust, recovery, marriage, communication, grace Chapters 00:00 The Power of Connection and Intimacy  04:52 Understanding the Intimacy Pyramid  10:42 Facing Addiction and Shame  16:29 The Impact of Honesty on Relationships  22:28 Healing Through Vulnerability  31:58 The Gift of Being Chosen  37:01 The Importance of Individual Responsibility  47:00 The Journey of Healing and Restoration  53:58 The Power of Hope and Grace  01:01:40 Outro If this episode encouraged you, leave a review and tell me what part spoke to you, I read them and they matter more than you know 🤍 Support the show If this encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe on YouTube. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith. Disclaimer Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth. Connect with Ashley: Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside Job Apply for Coaching with Ashley Connect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker! Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here

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Confidence & Coffee with Ashley Henriott Real Life. Real Faith. Real Growth. What if becoming the woman God created you to be starts with getting honest about where you are right now? Welcome to Confidence & Coffee, the podcast where faith meets real life and personal growth happens one honest conversation at a time. Hosted by Ashley Henriott, author, speaker, and confidence advocate, this is your space for meaningful conversations about building confidence, strengthening your faith, navigating relationships, embracing motherhood, finding purpose, and becoming the healthiest, most authentic version of yourself. Through inspiring guest interviews, personal stories, biblical encouragement, and practical wisdom, Ashley brings the conversations women are craving but aren't always having. We talk about the messy middle, the beautiful breakthroughs, the hard seasons, and everything in between. No pretending to have it all together. No pressure to be perfect. Just real conversations that challenge, encourage, and remind you that growth is possible in every season. Whether you're rebuilding your confidence, rediscovering your identity, navigating change, or simply looking for encouragement to keep going, there's a seat for you here. So grab your coffee, pull up a chair, and let's grow together. Because confidence isn't about having it all together. It's about knowing who you are and whose you are.

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  • Creator
    Ashley Henriott
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    178
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Ashley Henriott
  • Show Website
    Confidence and Coffee

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