From the Inside Out: With Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein

Rivkah and Eda

We are momtrepreneurs and friends on a mission to transform inspiration into action. Drawing from our formal training, exclusive interviews with renowned thinkers and leaders, the wisdom of everyday heroes, and the profound insights of the Chassidic perspective, we deliver thought-provoking insights that ignite purposeful living. Join us on this transformative journey as we provide the tools, guidance, and transformative conversations you need to lead a fulfilling life and make a lasting impact on the world around you.

  1. Oct 22

    #142: Nachi Gordon, Unscripted: The Mistakes & Mission Behind Meaningful Minute

    Send us Fan Mail Nachi Gordon on Meaningful Minute, Jewish Media Responsibility & Telling Our Story | From the Inside Out In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we sit down with Nachi Gordon of Meaningful Minute and the Meaningful People podcast to learn the person behind the mic. Nachi shares his early path in yeshiva and sports management, including pursuing work as an NBA agent, and how he launched Meaningful Minute in 2017 after Instagram introduced one-minute videos. He explains why he avoids overpreparing, how confidence grew despite being shy, and the responsibility of using a large platform without chasing controversy or hurting others, recounting a time he posted criticism that caused damage. Naki discusses criticism, resilience learned from guests, his Chabad identity and motivation to spread Jewish content, the need to “tell our story” in mainstream media, and his approach to privacy, family, balance, and investing in people. This episode is brought to you by: Heart and Mind Matters A ready-to-use social skills curriculum by Henny Moskovits for therapists, educators and parents. It includes interactive lessons, worksheets, activities and games, built from years of real sessions and covering perspective taking, flexibility and emotional regulation. 🔗 https://go.jcn.io/hmio Basically Kids Quality kids’ clothing at everyday sale prices, all year round, so you never miss the sale. Use code INSIDEOUT5 for 5% off, or order by text at 833.588.8332. 🔗 shopbasically.com Yifei Nof Women’s Tours Kosher, fully guided trips just for women. Upcoming trips go to Arizona & Sedona in November and Guatemala in February, and there’s a special trip for women 55+ in March. Spots fill up fast. 🔗 https://www.yifeinoftours.com/ · 📞 (305) 349-3688 Tomchei Taharah Become a monthly partner at any amount that works for your budget, and together, partners build 12 new mikvahs every year. That way everyone gets a share in the zechus of building a mikvah. 🔗 https://go.jcn.io/ttio Follow From The Inside Out: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6QPbCxeQW89n5KPtODgQqb Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 02:55 Nervousness And Prep Style 04:52 Before The Podcast Origins 06:52 Meaningful Minute Begins 09:26 Finding Confidence On Camera 17:19 Content Responsibility And Boundaries 20:44 When A Post Causes Damage 27:16 Handling Criticism And Hate Mail 32:27 Your Why And Digital Kiruv 36:04 Super Bowl Ad And Owning The Story 40:48 Share Our Story 41:09 Chasing Balance 42:39 Family Privacy Boundaries 44:05 Travel Guilt And Bitachon 46:38 Guest Vulnerability Ethics 48:06 Resilience Stories That Stick 52:36 Everyone Is Human 59:22 Why I Started Podcasting 01:00:48 Tzadikim And Rebbe Letters 01:03:58 Lessons That Changed Me 01:10:52 Execution Burnout Courage 01:14:10 Meaningful Definitions And Farewell COMMUNITY Join the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 101, share insights, and continue the conversations you want to have: 💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0W4PRglR5B4kC 💫 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast?sub_confirmation=1

    #142: Nachi Gordon, Unscripted: The Mistakes & Mission Behind Meaningful Minute
  2. Oct 8

    #141: A Wedding in the Shadow of War: Courage, Hope & Joy Amid Heartbreak with Rabbi Doron Perez

    Send us Fan Mail Rabbi Doron Perez on Courage, Zionism, and Holding Grief and Joy After October 7 In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we interview Rabbi Doron Perez, executive chairman of World Mizrachi and president of the World Zionist Organization, about Jewish identity, Zionism, and faith after October 7. Perez describes his South African upbringing, growing observance, deep Zionist family ties, and making Aliyah twice. He argues anti-Zionism that denies Jewish self-determination “between the river and the sea” is a modern metamorphosis of antisemitism, while noting some opposition stems from ignorance, and stresses Jews must develop courage. He recounts how his sons Yonatan and Daniel fought at Nahal Oz; Yonatan was wounded and Daniel was killed on October 7 and taken hostage. He explains the family’s decision to proceed with Yonatan’s wedding while Daniel was missing, and his teachings on living with pain without escaping it, yearning as ongoing connection, authentic leadership, rejecting despair, and Daniel’s motto “Im lo ani, az mi?” This episode is brought to you by: Colel Chabad Pushka App Colel Chabad is one of Israel’s oldest continuously operating charities, supporting families with food security, widows & orphans, and emergency relief.   Their Pushka (Charity Box) App makes it easy to turn inspiration into action with simple daily giving—small “micro-donations” that add up to real impact over time. To join thousands of daily givers, download the Pushka App on iOS or Android and start giving today: https://pushkapp.cc/Inside  Kosher Travelers: Pesach 2027 in Rhodes, Greece. Join Rivkah and Rabbi Laibl Wolf at the Elysium Resort for Pesach on the island of Rhodes. You’ll find stunning Mediterranean views, incredible food, inspiring speakers, Chol Hamoed tours of the Greek islands, and a family-friendly program. Mention “From The Inside Out” when you book! https://koshertravelers.com Email: shelly@koshertravelers.com | Call/WhatsApp: +972-50-786-5200 Rachel’s Promise: An Evening of Music, Connection & Hope. This evening for women and girls is in honor of Rochel Imeinu’s Yahrzeit (11 Cheshvan). It features Rabbi Joey Haber, emcee Chani Gottlieb, Miriam Lakritz Susna, Koleinu, and Echoes. Wednesday, October 21st | Doors 7:00 PM, Program 7:30 PM Young Israel Beth El, 4802 15th Avenue, Borough Park, Brooklyn Tickets: $65 | VIP front rows $100 https://rachelsplaceproductions.org | 718-506-9900 Follow From The Inside Out: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6QPbCxeQW89n5KPtODgQqb Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 04:44 Doron Perez journey 12:14 What Zionism means 27:24 Courage and Nahal Oz 33:20 Rhodes Pesach promo 36:30 Wedding amid crisis 42:06 Holding grief and joy 47:28 Carrying Grief Forward 50:08 Yearning After Hope Ends 54:35 Yearning as Presence 58:15 Rochel Promise Event 59:43 Im Lo Ani Az Mi 01:09:24 Leading Through Pain 01:14:16 No Despair Only Hope 01:22:59 Wisdom to Live By 01:28:57 Final Blessings COMMUNITY Join the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 101, share insights, and continue the conversations you want to have: 💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0W4PRglR5B4kC 💫 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast?sub_confirmation=1

    #141: A Wedding in the Shadow of War: Courage, Hope & Joy Amid Heartbreak with Rabbi Doron Perez
  3. Oct 1

    #140: Live Like There's No Tomorrow: fallen IDF soldier Natan Rosenfeld’s Parents on Faith, Grief & Choosing Light

    Send us Fan Mail Avi & Sam Rosenfeld on Losing Their Son Natan in Gaza: Faith, Pride, and Choosing Light After October 7 In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we talk to Avi and Sam Rosenfeld, who lost their son Natan, a combat engineer soldier killed in Gaza on June 29, and reflects on the rupture of Simchat Torah 2023 and October 7 for the Jewish people. They share Natan’s personality, aliyah from London to Israel when he was seven, and how his friends and community honor him through gatherings, stickers, Torah scrolls, naming newborns, and projects like a pergola in Yerucham and a flower gemach. Avi describes Natan’s death in an RPG incident that he views as involving miracles, and both parents discuss grief, resilience, and their differing relationships with emunah and Hashem, including ongoing struggle, simple faith, and gratitude. They explain why they would make aliyah again, support their son Zevi’s upcoming combat enlistment, and emphasize choosing light, doing good, and living fully in Natan’s memory. EPISODE SPONSORS Colel Chabad Pushka App Colel Chabad is one of Israel’s oldest continuously operating charities, supporting families with food security, widows & orphans, and emergency relief.   Their Pushka (Charity Box) App makes it easy to turn inspiration into action with simple daily giving—small “micro-donations” that add up to real impact over time. To join thousands of daily givers, download the Pushka App on iOS or Android and start giving today: https://pushkapp.cc/Inside    COMMUNITY Join the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 135, share insights, and continue the conversation: 💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0W4PRglR5B4kC 💫 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 04:32 Meeting the Rosenfelds 06:03 Birthdays After Tragedy 08:38 Natan Birthday Tribute 11:37 Keeping Home in Light 12:31 Aliyah and Service Pride 15:04 Holocaust to Jewish State 18:29 Who Natan Was 22:42 The Day Natan Fell 27:38 Avi Emunah Rollercoaster 34:52 Sam Simple Faith Path 38:44 Finding Gratitude in Tragedy 40:17 Faith and Daily Rituals 43:24 When Will We Dance Again 48:20 Community and Support Networks 53:42 Turning Pain Into Purpose 56:56 Choosing Light Over Darkness 01:00:05 Living Legacy Through Good Deeds 01:06:32 Lessons From Torah and Parsha 01:09:41 Live Like No Tomorrow 01:12:30 Life Is a Gift Farewell COMMUNITY Join the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 101, share insights, and continue the conversations you want to have: 💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0W4PRglR5B4kC 💫 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast?sub_confirmation=1

    #140: Live Like There's No Tomorrow: fallen IDF soldier Natan Rosenfeld’s Parents on Faith, Grief & Choosing Light
  4. Sep 9

    #139: A High Holiday Wake-Up Call: Finding Your Spiritual Compass with Esti Hamilton

    Send us Fan Mail From the Inside Out: Rebbetzin Esti Hamilton on Emunah, Purpose, and Rosh Hashanah Clarity In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we share a Rosh Hashanah episode featuring Rebbetzin Esti Hamilton,  Esti recounts growing up in a Torah-teaching family, beginning to teach in Israel, and how her life changed when her first son, Daniel, was born profoundly disabled and hospitalized for two years, leading her to speak publicly about faith and to teach spiritual growth. She describes shifting from a transactional “spiritual slot machine” view of Hashem to a mature relationship, embracing paradigm shifts where circumstances may not change but perception does, and seeing purpose through hashgachah pratit and the holiness of the present. She discusses Rosh Hashanah as crowning Hashem rather than vidui, cultivating forgiveness, avoiding autopilot in mitzvot through kavanah, curating the “diet of the mind” with Torah learning, and offers practical tools from Mesilat Yesharim: awareness, holistic cheshbon hanefesh, and choosing one area to add intention. EPISODE SPONSORS Keren Hashana Keren Hashana is the daily giving fund established by the Lubavitcher Rebbe in 1953. By contributing an amount that reflects the days of the coming year, you become a daily giver, with funds distributed twice a day, before Shacharit and before Mincha, all year long. For 73 years Keren Hashanah has supported low income and single parent households, emergency medical assistance, and so much more through Chabad's global reach.  This Rosh Hashanah, make the resolution to become a daily giver at mykerenhashanah.com, and consider giving on behalf of your family and friends too. Yakira Bella Yakira Bella is a modest, beautiful clothing brand with dresses that look and feel like designer pieces — elegant, well-made, and made to move with you all night — without the designer price tag. Their pieces get noticed and get compliments every time, and they're proud to be a brand featured on our podcast. Check out the link in our show notes.  🔗 https://go.jcn.io/ybio A Soliani This episode is sponsored by A Soliani, the Italian made shoe brand behind the comfortable, effortlessly chic flats and slides you keep seeing everywhere. What started as one woman's small business out of her own home has grown into a go to brand for high quality, durable flats you can dress up or down. Check them out and shop now: 🔗 https://go.jcn.io/asio GUEST BIO Esti Hamilton is an international speaker and Torah teacher whose own journey through faith and heartbreak — after her son Daniel was born with profound disabilities — has shaped 25 years of teaching women around the world on emunah and spiritual growth. For over 25 years, she has taught women around the world — from intimate shiurim to international stages — on emunah, spiritual growth, and what it really means to live a connected life.  You can find her here: https://www.rebbetzinesti.com/  COMMUNITY Join the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 135, share insights, and continue the conversation: 💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0W4PRglR5B4kC 💫 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome & Elul Introduction 03:46 Meet Esti Hamilton 07:34 Her Son's Birth and a Crisis of Faith 12:50 The Transactional Faith Trap 20:47 A Paradigm Shift 26:05 Finding Your Tafkid 31:40 Learning to Accept, Learning to See 39:08 Crowning Hashem King on Rosh Hashanah 49:49 Bechira, Ego & Hard Choices 01:00:24 Forgiveness and Midos 01:08:45 Elul Soul Accounting 01:12:37 Purpose, Ratzon & Public Speaking 01:19:48 Turning Off Autopilot 01:27:04 Kotel Connection Stories 01:31:01 New Light for Rosh Hashanah & Asking for Clarity 01:36:38 Lost at Sea: Finding Your Compass 01:39:56 From Self Help to Transcendence 01:46:14 Tzedakah and Reward 01:52:39 Doing Enough? Spiritual Growth Tools 02:05:37 Closing Thoughts & Blessings COMMUNITY Join the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 101, share insights, and continue the conversations you want to have: 💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0W4PRglR5B4kC 💫 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast?sub_confirmation=1

    #139: A High Holiday Wake-Up Call: Finding Your Spiritual Compass with Esti Hamilton
  5. Sep 1

    #138: Marriage, Kids & the Crisis of Meaning: The Psychology of the Soul with Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch

    Send us Fan Mail Finding Meaning Through Viktor Frankl, Chabad Chassidus & Therapy In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we interview Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch, a therapist and author of "Viktor Frankl and the Psychology of the Soul," about integrating CBT, marriage/family therapy, Viktor Frankl’s logotherapy, and Chabad Chassidus. Schonbuch explains Frankl’s core idea that humans are driven by meaning, not pleasure or power, and outlines three ways to find meaning: purposeful work, love/experience, and changing one’s attitude when suffering can’t be avoided. He describes creating TorahPsychology.org, holding Hakhel conferences inspired by the Rebbe’s encouragement and a message sent to Frankl, and using a 30-day logotherapy workbook to reduce depression and anxiety. The conversation also covers shared meaning in marriage, rising divorce and estrangement, parenting tools (I=QR, connection/communication/reduced control), reflective listening, trauma and meaning, and incorporating Mitteler Rebbe  teachings and “Tracht gut vet zein gut.” EPISODE SPONSORS Yakira Bella Yakira Bella is a modest, beautiful clothing brand with dresses that look and feel like designer pieces — elegant, well-made, and made to move with you all night — without the designer price tag. Their pieces get noticed and get compliments every time, and they're proud to be a brand featured on our podcast. Check out the link in our show notes.  🔗 https://go.jcn.io/ybio Heart & Mind Matters This episode is also sponsored in part by Heart & Mind Matters, a ready-to-use social skills curriculum created by Henny Moskowitz for therapists, teachers, and social workers. Built from real sessions and years of hands-on experience, it takes the guesswork out of lesson planning with goal-oriented worksheets, activities, and games — already trusted by over 100 therapists, educators, and parents. 🔗 https://go.jcn.io/hmio Basically Kids Basically kids offers everyday kids' clothing essentials at everyday prices, perfect for the new season when everyone's suddenly scrambling for polos, pants, and anything to fit kids who somehow grew three inches over the summer. It's made for busy parents: shop the link below, or just text your sizes to 833-588-8332 and they'll take care of the rest. 🔗 https://go.jcn.io/sbio Atzmi Atzmi runs evidence-based, Torah-grounded programs — including My Best Self — helping girls build real confidence and measure their worth by who they are, not the world's standards. Active in 80+ schools.. Learn more & register: https://go.jcn.io/AtzmiIO Kosher Riverboat Cruises: KRC Expeditions charters entire riverboats and ships — fully kosher, mehadrin, under the hashgacha of Rav Hamachshir Rabbi Yitzchak Fisher. Every meal, every kitchen, every Shabbos is built for you, with rooftop pools and private decks, surrounded by people who get it. Their destinations go far beyond the expected too: Vietnam and Cambodia, the British Isles, the Lower Danube, Southern India and Sri Lanka, Norway — even Antarctica, with a hechsher. As they put it, you arrive as strangers and leave as lifelong cruise friends. Learn more at kosherrivercruise.com, call 310-237-0122, or email info@kosherrivercruise.com. GUEST BIOS Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch is a therapist, Chabad rabbi, and author who has spent decades helping individuals, couples, and families achieve emotional wellness by integrating psychological and spiritual principles. Trained in CBT, EMDR, and marriage and family therapy, he is best known for bringing Viktor Frankl's logotherapy — the psychology of meaning — into his clinical work, alongside the teachings of the Mitteler Rebbe and Chabad Chassidus. He is the founder of TorahPsychology.org, where he has trained thousands of coaches and counselors, and the author of several books, including At Risk: Never Beyond Reach, Think Good Will Be Good, and his newest work, Viktor Frankl and the Psychology of the Soul. Rabbi Schonbuch lives in Crown Heights and works with clients from all walks of life and faiths around the world. You can find Rabbi Schonbuch and his books here: https://torahpsychology.org/about-us/ COMMUNITY Join the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 135, share insights, and continue the conversation: 💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0W4PRglR5B4kC 💫 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 CHAPTERS 00:00 – Intro & Meet Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch 00:03 – How a Rabbi Became a Psychologist 00:06 – Who Was Viktor Frankl? Freud, Adler & the Birth of Logotherapy 00:09 – The Three Ways to Find Meaning 00:13 – Why This Generation Needs Frankl More Than Ever 00:14 – Was Viktor Frankl Religious? The Rebbe's Hidden Message 00:20 – The Mitteler Rebbe's Techniques for Going Deeper in Therapy 00:23 – Marriage, Gottman & the Power of Shared Meaning 00:26 – The Real Crisis Behind Today's Teens: The 3 C's 00:36 – Why Marriages Are Falling Apart So Fast 00:38 – Finding Your "Why" in Marriage 00:45 – The Crisis of Meaning, By the Numbers 00:47 – Finding Meaning in Suffering 00:52 – Why Meaning Doesn't Have to Be Big 00:58 – Meeting Your Teen in Their World, Not Lecturing Them 01:05 – The Three Tools That Changed His Career 01:14 – The Story of Yitzi Horwitz & Finding Chabad 01:22 – Think Good and It Will Be Good 01:29 – His Favorite Quote & Where to Find Him COMMUNITY Join the Community! 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    #138: Marriage, Kids & the Crisis of Meaning: The Psychology of the Soul with Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch
  6. Aug 14

    #137: Treat Them Like Your Soulmate: Emotional Safety in Marriage with Miriam Raquel & Dovid Feldman

    Send us Fan Mail Somatic Healing, Emotional Safety & the 5 Foundations of Marriage | Miriam Racquel & Dovid Feldman In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we welcome marriage helpers Miriam Racquel and Dovid Feldman, a Chabad couple who work with couples and individuals. They share their personal journey from meeting in college through different paths in Judaism, and how they now combine Dovid’s strength-based, solution-oriented therapy and 12-week Recreating Intimacy program with Miriam Racquel’s somatic mind-body healing. The conversation explores nervous system states in marriage, how to trust bodily signals while interpreting them wisely, and practical communication tools that avoid criticism and blame. They discuss rising divorce rates, social media’s anti-marriage bias, emotional regulation, “letting go” of expectations, emotional safety, receiving, and intimacy differences between men and women. They close with Torah- and Rebbe-based perspectives, quotes, and resources including their websites and books. SPONSORS Swimply Today's episode is sponsored by Swimply — the app that lets you book a private pool by the hour, no crowds, no chaos, just your own space to swim with your family. With pools available across all 50 states, it's an easy, private way to plan a fun summer outing. Use code INSIDEOUT10 for 10% off your next booking. 🔗 Swimply.com Heart & Mind Matters This episode is also sponsored in part by Heart & Mind Matters, a ready-to-use social skills curriculum created by Henny Moskowitz for therapists, teachers, and social workers. Built from real sessions and years of hands-on experience, it takes the guesswork out of lesson planning with goal-oriented worksheets, activities, and games — already trusted by over 100 therapists, educators, and parents. 🔗 https://go.jcn.io/hmio Basically Kids Basically kids offers everyday kids' clothing essentials at everyday prices, perfect for the new season when everyone's suddenly scrambling for polos, pants, and anything to fit kids who somehow grew three inches over the summer. It's made for busy parents: shop the link below, or just text your sizes to 833-588-8332 and they'll take care of the rest. 🔗 https://go.jcn.io/sbio Atzmi Atzmi runs evidence-based, Torah-grounded programs — including My Best Self — helping girls build real confidence and measure their worth by who they are, not the world's standards. Active in 80+ schools. Save the date for their ambassador's evening with Bracha Jaffe, August 30th. Learn more & register: https://go.jcn.io/AtzmiIO GUEST BIOS Dovid Feldman Dovid Feldman is a marriage coach and licensed therapist with over 30 years of experience — professionally and in his own marriage — helping couples rebuild trust, communication, and intimacy. His 12-week program works with each spouse individually and centers on his "five foundations of marriage": appreciation, communicating without criticism, compassionate listening, loving boundaries, and consistent intimacy. He hosts the "Building Great Marriages" podcast. Learn more at https://dovidfeldman.com/              Miriam Racquel Miriam Racquel is a somatic healer, marriage coach, and trauma & anxiety specialist who helps women access the wisdom of their body and intuition to create clarity, safety, and passion in their relationships. She's the author of "God Said What?!" and runs Your Marriage Magic, offering marriage and dating coaching for women. Learn more at https://www.miriamracquel.com/     https://yourmarriagemagic.com/ CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 04:06 Tzedakah Moment Pushka App 04:39 Meet Miriam and Dovid 05:24 Dovid Origin Story 07:28 Miriam Journey to Judaism 10:52 How They Work With Clients 13:08 Therapy Approach and Program 17:40 Somatics and Nervous System 20:55 Body Signals vs Interpretation 22:47 Everyday Trigger Example 27:45 Deep Patterns and Resentment 30:44 Why Divorce Rates Rising 32:46 Choosing Happiness in Marriage 37:03 Chuppah Doubts and Mind Stories 43:10 Why Receiving Feels Hard 43:25 Five Blocks to Receiving 44:50 Reopening After Hurt 46:59 Dating Like a Gentleman 47:58 Emotional Safety First 50:36 Five Foundations Begin 54:16 No Criticism Rule 55:15 Reframing Instead of Critique 58:05 Four Step Communication 01:04:28 Repeat Requests Without Nagging 01:08:58 Letting Go Expectations 01:13:02 Intimacy Story Let Go 01:18:01 When Traits Annoy You 01:18:41 Why Criticism Creates Distance 01:19:37 Reframing Differences as Growth 01:20:37 War Survivor to Baal Chessed 01:24:39 Five Foundations That Work 01:26:13 Tools Therapy and Their Books 01:29:05 Torah Advice for Newlyweds 01:32:31 Soulmate Mindset and Regulation 01:34:31 What Men and Women Long For 01:40:39 Intimacy Needs and Scheduling 01:46:27 Closing Quotes and Hope COMMUNITY Join the Community! 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    #137: Treat Them Like Your Soulmate: Emotional Safety in Marriage with Miriam Raquel & Dovid Feldman
  7. Jul 31

    #136: Your God-Given Design: Beauty, Confidence, and Finding Your True Colors with Rivky Duchman

    Send us Fan Mail From the Inside Out: Color, Confidence, and God-Given Design with Rivky Duchman In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we introduce guest Rivky Duchman, a Miami Beach color analyst and image consultant who blends aesthetics with Torah and Chassidus. Rivky explains her work uses the face as an “aesthetic blueprint” (skin tone, eyes, hair, contrast, texture, lines, and energy) to identify harmonious colors and styles, helping women develop signature style, reduce insecurity, and avoid trend-driven noise. She outlines seasonal color analysis origins and nuanced subtypes, shares how outside comments can disconnect people from their design, and discusses aesthetics as communication, first impressions, modesty, and dignity, citing stories about Rabbi Ishmael. Rivky supports enhancement tools like makeup or hair color while warning against “distortion,” critiques status-driven trend chasing, and emphasizes that true worth comes from being a part of Hashem and expressing inner beauty outward. EPISODE SPONSORS Swimply Rent a private pool by the hour, right in your own city — no crowds, no chaos, just your family or friends in your own space, with over 15,000 pools across the US, Canada, and Australia. Download the app or visit Swimply.com — code INSIDEOUT10 for 10% off your next booking! Shefa Living Women carry so much — marriage, kids, running a home, all while staying connected to Hashem and themselves. Nesheema sits at the heart of Mountain View, the new frum community by Shefa Living in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina: a mikvah, spa, gym, daycare, café, and shared workspace, built around kedusha. Mountain View is already 358 acres of kehillah, with the shul built and first families moving in this summer. Learn more: https://go.jcn.io/SLIO OkClarity.Com Finding the right therapist or coach can be one of the most challenging parts of seeking help — even with a great referral, the person isn't always the right fit. That's where OkClarity comes in. OkClarity is an online platform featuring hundreds of Jewish therapists, psychiatrists, coaches, nutritionists, and support groups, where you actually get to meet the person through videos and introductions before deciding whether to move forward with a first session. More than 10,000 people have already benefited from OkClarity, and it's not just a directory for those seeking help — if you're a mental health practitioner, therapist, or coach, you can list yourself on the platform too, so the people who need you can find you. Visit OKclarity.com: https://go.jcn.io/OtfUxl  to find the right fit for you. Atzmi Atzmi runs evidence-based, Torah-grounded programs — including My Best Self — helping girls build real confidence and measure their worth by who they are, not the world's standards. Active in 80+ schools. Save the date for their ambassador's evening with Bracha Jaffe, August 30th. Learn more & register: https://go.jcn.io/AtzmiIO GUEST BIOS Rivky Duchman is a color analyst and image consultant based in Miami Beach. She helps clients discover their God-given design — the colors, textures, and styles that align with who they truly are — blending seasonal color analysis with the wisdom of Torah and Chassidus. Find her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/rivky.color/  COMMUNITY Join the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 135, share insights, and continue the conversation: 💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0W4PRglR5B4kC 💫 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome  01:47 Meet Rivky Duchman 06:55 God Given Design 08:17 Style Instinct and Noise 12:18 How Analysis Works 15:45 Seasons Explained 22:07 Torah Lens on Beauty 27:27 Aesthetics as Communication 31:49 Clothes and Identity 34:09 Enhancement vs Distortion 37:38 Trend Chasing and Worth 42:33 Seasonal Bag Personalities 44:28 Logo Mania Backlash 46:12 Classic Style Over Trends 46:46 Elegance Without Breaking Bank 49:16 Beauty as Holy Work 55:24 Stop Projecting Your Taste 01:00:00 Modesty Role Models 01:03:18 Everyday Outfit Struggles 01:08:34 Trends That Fit Your Design 01:11:57 Find Your Palette and Style 01:14:43 Closing Worth and Beauty COMMUNITY Join the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 101, share insights, and continue the conversations you want to have: 💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0W4PRglR5B4kC 💫 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast?sub_confirmation=1

  8. Jul 19

    #135: I Didn't Ask to Be Born: Understanding the Purpose of Our Creation with Rabbi Manis Friedman & Dr. Elad Ben Elul

    Send us Fan Mail On Serving God, Not Being Religious with Dr. Elad Ben Elul & Rabbi Manis Friedman In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast, Rivkah and Eda sit down with Dr. Elad Ben Elul and Rabbi Manis Friedman on their book I Didn't Ask to Be Born and its core idea: Judaism isn't about being "religious" or what we need from God, but what God needs from us — asking daily, "What does God need from me today?" Ben Elul shares his Jewish awakening during fieldwork in West Africa, caught between secular Tel Aviv and an enclosed religious world, until Friedman's lecture "Why You Shouldn't Be Religious" reframed Jewish life as mission. Friedman traces this to his outreach starting in 1970 and its path to the book's Israeli success. They cover mitzvot, purpose, soulmates and marriage, hostages who found mission in captivity, teaching Tanya, Chabad's nonjudgment, and audience Q&A on dating, marriage, and identity. Get the book, I Didn't Ask to Be Born: Understanding the Purpose of Our Creation: https://amzn.to/4bxqnrF EPISODE SPONSORS Swimply Rent a private pool by the hour, right in your own city — no crowds, no chaos, just your family or friends in your own space, with over 15,000 pools across the US, Canada, and Australia. Download the app or visit Swimply.com — code INSIDEOUT10 for 10% off your next booking! BINA Bina walks alongside families from the moment someone they love suffers a brain injury, through every stage of recovery. Their campaign, "A World of Difference," runs July 19–21. Support Bina: https://go.jcn.io/BinaIO, or call 929-463-9100. Atzmi Atzmi runs evidence-based, Torah-grounded programs — including My Best Self — helping girls build real confidence and measure their worth by who they are, not the world's standards. Active in 80+ schools. Save the date for their ambassador's evening with Bracha Jaffe, August 30th. Learn more & register: https://go.jcn.io/AtzmiIO Ohr Naava Ohr Naava's "Just One Brick" turns Tisha B'Av into a guided experience — Eicha, the Kinot, an Ask the Rabbi segment, a video from founder Rabbi Wallerstein, and a lineup including Rabbi Fisher, Rabbanit Yemima Mizrachi, and Charlie Harari. Join the live stream and support Ohr Naava's year-round work for women worldwide. Register: https://go.jcn.io/ONIO Shefa Living Women carry so much — marriage, kids, running a home, all while staying connected to Hashem and themselves. Nesheema sits at the heart of Mountain View, the new frum community by Shefa Living in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina: a mikvah, spa, gym, daycare, café, and shared workspace, built around kedusha. Mountain View is already 358 acres of kehillah, with the shul built and first families moving in this summer. Learn more: https://go.jcn.io/SLIO GUEST BIOS Rabbi Manis Friedman is a rabbi, author, and longtime emissary of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson. One of the most-watched rabbis on YouTube, he has spent decades teaching on faith, relationships, and Jewish identity. He is co-author, with Dr. Elad Ben Elul, of I Didn't Ask to Be Born: Understanding the Purpose of Our Creation. Dr. Elad Ben Elul is an Israeli anthropologist and author. After years of fieldwork in West Africa while completing his PhD at Tel Aviv University, a lecture by Rabbi Manis Friedman reshaped his understanding of Judaism and purpose. He went on to study and teach Tanya and Chassidut, eventually co-writing I Didn't Ask to Be Born — a bestseller in Israel — followed by Back to Innocence, on relationships and intimacy. Get the book: https://amzn.to/4bxqnrF CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 08:01 Meet the Guests 10:08 A Spiritual Awakening 15:38 Africa and Jewish Identity 19:54 How the Book Happened 22:29 God Needs Us Concept 30:42 Anthropology of Mitzvot 35:45 Religious vs Jewish 39:49 Hostages and Mission 48:29 Love vs Need in Marriage 49:35 Loneliness and Divine Need 52:10 God's Humility and Romance 55:57 Soulmates and Marriage Reunion 59:35 Love as a Thing Trap 01:06:13 Love Idolatry and Cheating 01:07:52 Soul Journey and Resurrection 01:12:36 Rebbe's Nonjudgmental Lesson 01:15:17 Dating Is Not Relationship 01:21:15 What to Look for in Marriage 01:24:07 Mitzvot and God-Mindedness 01:30:42 Teaching Tanya at Any Age 01:35:03 Identity Through Action Closing COMMUNITY Join the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 101, share insights, and continue the conversations you want to have: 💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0W4PRglR5B4kC 💫 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@FromTheInsideOutPodcast?sub_confirmation=1

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