Done Being Single

Treva Brandon Scharf and Robby Scharf
  • 3.8 (12)
  • SEXUALITY
Done Being Single

How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single. Before getting married for the first time at 51 and 57, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, and lived to tell. With a combined 108 years of single life experience under their belts, Treva and Robby are dating survivors. They’re the authorities on being single and finding love later in life. Treva and Robby don’t just offer empty platitudes and promises, they offer dating intervention. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, Treva and Robby have a toolbox of tips, and a guest list of dating coaches, relationship experts, therapists, personal growth influencers, and thought leaders to help people get out of dating hell and find real love. If you’re a dating hater ready to up your dating game, then you’re ready for DONE BEING SINGLE.

  1. 03/07/2024

    Should I Stay or Should I Go?

    If you’ve ever overstayed your welcome in a bad relationship, or struggled with when to call it quits, therapist and author Crystal Jackson knows why: Childhood trauma, low self-esteem, abandonment issues, anxious attachment, even love addiction, could be to blame.  Should you stay or should you go? Should you hang in and work things out, or pack it up and get the hell out? When it comes to ditching bad relationships for healthy love, don't struggle, don't settle, and don't wait. Tune in and find out how.   Click Here To View This Episode On Our YouTube Channel!

    46 min

  2. 10/12/2023

    Boundaries: Your Best Friend in Dating

    If you have a need to be liked, a fear of being unloved, or if you're a people-pleaser or approval seeker, then you might be struggling with boundaries. Boundaries are protective and empowering for both singles and couples, and we're going to show you how to set boundaries and keep them.  With guest Bex Burton, dating & relationship expert.      Click Here To View This Episode On Our YouTube Channel!

    41 min

  3. 09/13/2023

    When Picky Becomes A Problem

    Are you swiping more left than right or using pickiness as an excuse not to date? "I'm too picky" could be another way of saying "I'm not good enough." Dig a little deeper and you'll find that pickiness is fear-based. It signals insecurity, not selectivity, finding fault, not finding love.  Join Treva and intimacy expert Allana Pratt as they discuss the perils of pickiness and how to overcome it with self-acceptance and compassion.   Click Here To View This Episode On Our YouTube Channel!

    52 min

  4. 06/04/2023

    Is Masculinity In Crisis?

    Modern feminism, MeToo, and changing gender dynamics have put masculinity at a crossroads. Is our current idea of masculinity toxic or progressive? Are men expected to step up or back down? And what does this mean for the current dating culture? On this episode, Simon T. Bailey, author of “Ignite the Power of Women,” discusses how to ignite the power of men to be better men.   Click Here To View This Episode On Our YouTube Channel!

    46 min

  5. 11/20/2022

    Dating Apps, We Need To Talk

    We're giving dating apps a piece of our mind. From bad behavior to no accountability, there's a supply chain issue of basic kindness in dating apps that must be called out!  Author, podcaster, and singles advocate Shani Silver, is just the person to call it out. There are options to dating apps--it's called finding a happy singlehood. Tune in and learn how you can find yours.    Click Here To View This Episode On Our YouTube Channel!

    43 min

  6. 09/11/2022

    Don’t Say No To Saying YES

    When you say "YES," you activate your internal guidance, you connect with your Inner Authority, and you power out of your comfort zone. You don't find your "YES" in your head, you feel it in your heart, and it's not random.  Don't get stuck in "NO." Let relationship coach Ken Bechtel author of the new book "Follow Your YES" show you how to do just that.      Click Here To View This Episode On Our YouTube Channel!

    50 min

  7. 08/09/2022

    The Lowdown On Love From A Psychic-Medium

    World renown psychic-medium Matthew Stapley gives us the lowdown on love, loss, and divine timing, the way the spirits intended. Learn how to trust your intuition, process grief, distinguish between gut feelings and fear, break old cycles, and open yourself up to new possibilities. All you have to do is read the signs, listen to the messages, and tune in.      Click Here To View This Episode On Our YouTube Channel!

    51 min

  8. 07/27/2022

    Commitment-Phobes & Anxious Daters, Help Is On The Way!

    If you have a fear of abandonment, avoid intimacy, or struggle with relationship anxiety, you’ve come to the right podcast. This week, Behavioral Relationship expert Tracy Crossley comes to the rescue with her profound insights on attachment theory, and on how knowing your attachment style can help you feel secure, get close, and find love.    Click Here To View This Episode On Our YouTube Channel!

    37 min
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3.8
out of 5
12 Ratings

About

How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single. Before getting married for the first time at 51 and 57, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, and lived to tell. With a combined 108 years of single life experience under their belts, Treva and Robby are dating survivors. They’re the authorities on being single and finding love later in life. Treva and Robby don’t just offer empty platitudes and promises, they offer dating intervention. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, Treva and Robby have a toolbox of tips, and a guest list of dating coaches, relationship experts, therapists, personal growth influencers, and thought leaders to help people get out of dating hell and find real love. If you’re a dating hater ready to up your dating game, then you’re ready for DONE BEING SINGLE.

Information

  • Creator
    Treva Brandon Scharf and Robby Scharf
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2024
  • Episodes
    124
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Treva Brandon Scharf and Robby Scharf
  • Show Website
    Done Being Single

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