The Wellness Puzzle Podcast

Andrew Jobling

We get one shot at life on earth, and when it’s over, it’s done, no second chances. That being the case, why not make it the best it can be? Why not aim to live a life of joyful longevity? That means a long life full of; purpose, passion, achievement, happiness, fulfillment, love, community, significance and joy. It’s possible, and it’s available to you, when you put all the pieces into the wellness puzzle, no matter who you are, where you live, what your age is, or what your circumstances are. It simply starts with a thought and a decision to live your best life, the rest you will learn as you listen to this podcast.

  1. Sep 10

    Bad marriage advice

    What if some of the marriage advice we have accepted as truth is actually creating distance, resentment and disconnection? In this episode of The Wellness Puzzle Podcast, I speak with relationship coach, author and podcast host Monica Tanner about the common advice that can quietly undermine even the strongest relationships. Monica is certified in Relational Life Therapy and is passionate about helping couples communicate more effectively, resolve conflict, deepen their connection and strengthen their commitment. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and help couples experience greater satisfaction and joy in their marriages. We discuss how couples can move beyond resentment and “roommate syndrome,” stop repeating unhealthy patterns and become more intentional about creating the relationship they truly want. Monica also shares practical strategies for navigating difficult conversations, rebuilding emotional intimacy and keeping love alive through every season of marriage. Through her Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, vibrant social media community, couples coaching practice and Amazon bestselling book, Bad Marriage Advice, Monica has helped thousands of couples reconnect and get back to living their happily-ever-after love story. Whether your relationship is struggling, simply surviving or already strong, this conversation offers valuable insights to help you build even greater connection, trust and commitment. This is an honest, practical and potentially relationship-changing conversation—not to be missed. To find out more about Monica, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    Bad marriage advice
  2. Sep 5

    The end of the story

    What happens when the betrayal that nearly destroys you becomes the catalyst for rebuilding your life and protecting others? In this powerful episode of The Wellness Puzzle Podcast, I speak with Tampa-based entrepreneur Justin Smith, founder of Cray—the innovative dating safety app born from his own devastating experience. After being blindsided by a partner of eight years, Justin found himself facing heartbreak, betrayal and the painful task of rebuilding his life. But he made a courageous decision: this would not be the end of his story. Over the next 18 months, Justin began the journey back to himself. Central to that process was rebuilding his self-worth—learning to trust his instincts, recognise his value and understand that another person’s actions did not define who he was or what he deserved. Drawing on his background in psychological test publishing and his blunt, forward-thinking approach, Justin created Cray to help people identify red flags sooner, trust their intuition and date with clarity rather than chaos. He is now on a mission to make safer, smarter dating the norm for everyone. This conversation explores betrayal, resilience, dating safety, emotional recovery and why developing genuine self-worth is essential—not only for choosing healthier relationships, but also for having the courage to walk away from those that diminish us. Your most painful chapter does not have to be the end of your story. It may simply be the beginning of a powerful new one. An awesome, honest and inspiring podcast—not to be missed. To find out more about JUstin and the Cray App, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    The end of the story
  3. Sep 1

    Silence between the notes

    In this inspiring episode of The Wellness Puzzle Podcast, I speak with author, speaker and coach Cherry Ward, whose work brings together timeless Japanese wisdom and modern leadership practices. Cherry’s journey began far from a coaching room. She was just eight years old when her family fled Burma during the 1988 pro-democracy uprising. Overnight, the map they had lived by was no longer relevant. Everything familiar fell away, and Cherry learned what it takes to find your footing, adapt and navigate through uncertainty. That experience helped shape the course of her life and work. Years later, Cherry developed a deep connection with Japan through skiing, learning the language and immersing herself in its culture. Japanese wisdom gave her a different way of understanding strength, stillness, imperfection and leadership. It helped her recognise that leadership is not always about having all the answers—it is often about learning how to navigate. In this thoughtful conversation, Cherry introduces powerful Japanese principles and explores the importance of kokoro—the integration of heart, mind and spirit. She shares how embracing stillness, listening deeply and accepting imperfection can help us become more grounded, authentic and effective leaders. We also discuss Cherry’s new book, Lead with Kokoro, and how its principles can help us lead ourselves and others with greater courage, clarity, compassion and purpose. This is a fascinating and deeply meaningful conversation about resilience, reinvention and discovering the wisdom that can be found in the silence between the notes. Not to be missed! To find out more about Cherry, book for her book launches or buy her book, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    Silence between the notes
  4. Aug 26

    Preparation perspective

    What enables someone to survive the unimaginable—and emerge not only alive, but psychologically strong? In this extraordinary episode of The Wellness Puzzle Podcast, I speak with Derrick McManus, a former South Australian Police officer who served in the elite Special Tasks and Rescue (STAR) Group. Trained as a sniper and diver, Derrick also received specialist counterterrorism training from the military’s elite Special Air Service Regiment (SAS). While attempting to arrest a high-risk offender, Derrick’s life changed in less than five seconds. The offender fired 18 shots, striking Derrick 14 times. Critically wounded, Derrick lay bleeding for three hours before he could be rescued. His survival was remarkable—but what happened afterward was equally extraordinary. Despite expectations that he would experience severe post-traumatic stress disorder and require decades of psychological therapy, Derrick defied the odds. Just three months after the shooting, he attended a single appointment with the Director of the Adelaide Centre for Traumatic Stress Studies and was psychologically cleared to return to full duties with the STAR Group. His physical recovery, understandably, took much longer. Derrick credits his response to the way he had proactively prepared himself—physically, mentally and emotionally—for the possible consequences of the choices he had made. He accepted responsibility, understood the risks and developed a powerful perspective that helped him remain resilient in an extreme and potentially overwhelming VUCA environment. This approach has since evolved into the Human Durability model and forms the foundation of Derrick’s work through the Australian Centre for Human Durability. In this gripping conversation, we explore: What it takes to remain composed in extreme circumstances The crucial difference between preparation and prediction Why emotional preparation matters as much as physical and mental readiness How personal responsibility strengthens resilience The role perspective plays during trauma, adversity and uncertainty Why durability is about more than simply surviving How Derrick’s experience can help us prepare for challenges in our own lives Derrick’s story is confronting, remarkable and deeply inspiring. It demonstrates that although we cannot control everything that happens to us, we can prepare ourselves to respond with courage, responsibility and perspective. This is a powerful conversation about preparation, perspective and the extraordinary durability of the human spirit—not to be missed. To find out more about Derrick, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    Preparation perspective
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We get one shot at life on earth, and when it’s over, it’s done, no second chances. That being the case, why not make it the best it can be? Why not aim to live a life of joyful longevity? That means a long life full of; purpose, passion, achievement, happiness, fulfillment, love, community, significance and joy. It’s possible, and it’s available to you, when you put all the pieces into the wellness puzzle, no matter who you are, where you live, what your age is, or what your circumstances are. It simply starts with a thought and a decision to live your best life, the rest you will learn as you listen to this podcast.