The Wellness Puzzle Podcast

Andrew Jobling

We get one shot at life on earth, and when it’s over, it’s done, no second chances. That being the case, why not make it the best it can be? Why not aim to live a life of joyful longevity? That means a long life full of; purpose, passion, achievement, happiness, fulfillment, love, community, significance and joy. It’s possible, and it’s available to you, when you put all the pieces into the wellness puzzle, no matter who you are, where you live, what your age is, or what your circumstances are. It simply starts with a thought and a decision to live your best life, the rest you will learn as you listen to this podcast.

  1. Moxie

    4D AGO

    Moxie

    In this powerful and deeply moving episode, I sit down with author, speaker, publisher, artist, and entrepreneur Justine Martin to explore the extraordinary story behind her new book, Moxie. Justine’s life journey reads like a series of unimaginable challenges. From early childhood trauma and complex family dynamics to surviving sexual assault and domestic violence, she has faced adversity at levels most people could hardly comprehend. Her physical health has also been tested through chronic illness and multiple life-threatening diagnoses, including multiple sclerosis, chronic lymphocytic leukaemia, and an acquired brain injury. Yet Justine’s story is not about suffering—it is about moxie: courage, resilience, determination, and the refusal to be defined by hardship. Rather than becoming a catalogue of pain, her life has become a blueprint for growth, strength, and service. Through her work as an author, creative, and entrepreneur, Justine now uses her experiences to inspire and empower others to face their own challenges with courage and purpose. Her new book, Moxie, is a raw and honest reflection on adversity and resilience. It is a reminder that even in life’s darkest moments, there is the potential for transformation, healing, and powerful personal growth. This conversation is honest, heartfelt, and incredibly inspiring. In this episode we explore: What moxie really means and why it matters in life How Justine navigated profound trauma and adversity The lessons learned from facing serious illness and life-threatening diagnoses Turning pain into purpose and creativity Why resilience is built through honesty, courage, and self-belief The message behind her powerful new book, Moxie Justine’s story is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the power of choosing courage, even when life feels overwhelming. This is a conversation that will move you, challenge you, and remind you what is possible when we refuse to give up. Tune in to Episode 354 — this is one you won’t want to miss. 🎙️ To find out more about Larry and buy her book, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    47 min
  2. Learn from pain

    MAR 3

    Learn from pain

    What if the breakthrough in your relationship doesn’t begin with your partner… but with you? In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, I sit down with Larry Bilotta, a man who spent 27 years in what he describes as a loveless marriage. Feeling disconnected, frustrated, and emotionally exhausted, Larry reached a point where something had to change. But instead of trying to fix his wife… Instead of demanding change… Instead of walking away… Larry made a life-altering decision: he chose to learn from the pain. And everything shifted. Larry shares how discovering self-love, emotional responsibility, and inner healing didn’t just transform his mindset — it transformed his marriage. Today, he stands as living proof that it only takes one person to change the dynamic of a relationship. For more than 20 years, Larry has helped tens of thousands of people save their sanity, restore their marriages, and reclaim control over their own lives and emotional wellbeing. His message is simple yet revolutionary: When you change, everything changes. 🔑 In This Episode, We Explore: Why pain can be your greatest teacher The hidden cost of emotional dependency How self-love can revive a struggling marriage Why waiting for your partner to change keeps you stuck The mindset shift that saved Larry’s relationship How one person can heal a marriage Why hope is never truly lost — even in the darkest seasons This episode is for anyone who feels stuck in their relationship… For anyone who believes they’ve tried everything… For anyone wondering if it’s too late. Larry’s story is raw, practical, and incredibly hopeful. If your relationship feels desperate, disconnected, or beyond repair, this conversation may be exactly what you need. To find out more about Larry, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    37 min
  3. Coming home

    FEB 28

    Coming home

    What does it really mean to come home to yourself? In this powerful and deeply human conversation, I sit down with therapist, speaker, and podcast host Malisa Hepner for an episode that feels like a warm embrace and a courageous invitation all at once. Malisa knows what it’s like to live with the noise of trauma. She also knows what it takes to move through it. Blending lived experience with professional expertise, she guides people beyond overthinking, perfectionism, and the fear of being seen — into a life that is grounded, authentic, and deeply joyful. This episode is not just a conversation about healing. It’s a roadmap back to yourself. We explore what it means to: Move through complex trauma instead of being defined by it Practice emotional hygiene in everyday life Release the pressure of perfectionism Feel “safe to be seen” in your relationships and work Navigate profound grief — including child loss — with the right tools and self-belief Malisa vulnerably shares how she is living her healing journey in real time, showing what surviving unimaginable loss can look like when you believe you are enough. Her transformative workbooks — Emotional Alchemy, Safe to Be Seen, and The Beauty of Imperfection: Good Is Enough — blend storytelling, soulful reflection, and practical tools to help people return to their truest selves. And in this episode, she generously shares tools you can begin using immediately. What makes this conversation so special is Malisa herself. She brings warmth, humour, and grounded wisdom to topics that can often feel heavy. You’ll feel understood. You’ll feel less alone. And you’ll walk away empowered. If you’ve ever felt stuck in overthinking… trapped by perfectionism… afraid to be visible… or disconnected from who you truly are… This episode is your invitation to come home. To find out more about Malisa, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    41 min
  4. Created to give

    FEB 17

    Created to give

    What happens when the people who are meant to guide you through life are suddenly gone? In this deeply moving episode, I sit down with Mark Motsenbocker to explore his powerful story of loss, longing, faith, and ultimately—purpose. After losing both of his parents at a young age, Mark was left with a profound void, especially the absence of his beloved father. Rather than allowing that loss to define him, he embarked on a lifelong journey—searching for father. What he discovered along the way were unexpected mentors, guiding voices, and father figures who stepped into his life at just the right moments. Through meaningful encounters and divine appointments, Mark began to see a beautiful truth emerge: we are created to give—and to receive. This conversation is a tapestry of heartfelt memories, wisdom forged through adversity, and life lessons that transcend loss. Whether you have experienced deep grief or simply want to understand the impact you can have in someone else’s life, this episode will resonate at a soul level. 💡 In This Episode We Explore:How loss can become the doorway to growthThe power of mentorship and spiritual fatherhoodWhy small gestures can change the trajectory of a lifeThe courage it takes not only to give—but to receiveHow God places people in our lives for a purpose❤️ The Choice We All HaveMark reminds us that every single day we are presented with a choice: Do nothing – withhold your time, your presence, your generosityGive of yourself – invest in others and strengthen your own heartReceive from others – allow yourself to be touched and transformedGivers, Mark says, are like saints. They awaken our potential. They call us forward. They help us run toward growth and become the very best version of ourselves. There is no true beginning or end in this journey of life—only the continual opportunity to impact one another. 🌟 A Truth to Live By“Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That is why we call it the present.” May this episode encourage you to both give and receive what each day brings. Because when you do, you will be blessed—and you will become a blessing. To find out more about Mark, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    38 min
  5. Let go, let God

    FEB 14

    Let go, let God

    What happens when you finally stop fighting, stop striving, stop trying to control everything… and simply let go? In this powerful and deeply moving episode, I sit down with author, speaker, actor, singer-songwriter, filmmaker, creator, and philanthropist Nikki Allen, who opens our conversation with a bold and honest declaration: “Most of my life has been difficult… until I decided to let go of my stress and let God be active in my life.” From a traumatic upbringing to a troubled marriage and painful separation, to experiencing homelessness, Nikki’s story is one of extraordinary resilience. But this is not just a story of survival — it’s a story of surrender, rediscovery, and creative rebirth. Nikki shares how releasing control and trusting God transformed not only her inner world but her creative expression, her confidence, and her calling. Today, she is helping others reclaim their voice, their power, and their purpose. This conversation is raw. It is real. It is deeply inspiring. 🔥 In This Episode, We Explore:What it truly means to “let go and let God”Healing from trauma without letting it define youFinding your voice after losing yourselfCreativity as a pathway to redemptionMoving from survival mode to soul-led livingFaith, surrender, and stepping into your power Nikki’s courage to share her story so openly makes this an unforgettable conversation. If you’ve ever faced hardship, questioned your worth, or struggled to release control, this episode will speak directly to your heart. This is more than a podcast — it’s a reminder that sometimes the greatest breakthrough comes when we surrender. To find out more about Nikki, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    39 min
  6. Progress not perfection

    FEB 9

    Progress not perfection

    What happens when creativity, play, and purpose collide? You get Joel and Troy McRae — co-authors of delightful children’s books who are on a mission to inspire young people (and grown-ups too) to be more active, more creative, and a whole lot less hard on themselves. Joel is the writer, Troy the illustrator, and together they’ve created two much-loved picture books: Birdwatching Betty and Giraffe Cannot Play Hide and Seek. What began as heartfelt gifts for the children of friends has grown into stories that are now bringing joy, laughter, and important life lessons to readers of all ages. In this fun, thoughtful, and surprisingly profound conversation, we explore the idea of progress over perfection — in creativity, in life, and in the stories we tell ourselves. Joel and Troy share how setting a deadline can unlock creativity, why finding fun in every element of life matters, and how comparison quietly steals our joy if we let it. This episode is a beautiful reminder that you don’t have to get it perfect to get it moving — and that sometimes the most meaningful things start small, playful, and imperfect. In this episode, we talk about: Why progress will always beat perfectionThe power of deadlines in getting creative work doneHow children’s books can carry powerful life lessonsFinding fun and curiosity in everyday lifeWhy comparison really is the thief of joyCreating for impact, not applauseIf you’re a parent, educator, creative, or someone who needs permission to stop striving for perfect and start enjoying the process — this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now and be reminded: progress is more than enough. To find out more about Joel & Troy, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    36 min
  7. The little pot

    FEB 5

    The little pot

    What if your purpose isn’t defined by what you do—but by what you’re designed to carry and grow? In this soulful and faith-filled conversation, I sit down with Dawn Stephens, a self-proclaimed Fruit Pot, whose life and work are shaped by a powerful metaphor: we are vessels formed by the Potter, created to bear fruit—not pressure, performance, or perfection. Like the beloved main character in her award-winning children’s book The Little Pot, Dawn spent years searching for her identity through roles and titles—educator, wife, mother, fundraiser, sales manager, business owner, and even school principal. Along the way, she learned a life-changing truth: purpose isn’t found in what we hold, but in what God chooses to grow through us. As Dawn shares, being filled—and emptied—isn’t failure. It’s formation. Together, we explore how God uses seasons of pouring out and refilling to cultivate the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Dawn also walks us through the deeper message behind each book in her children’s series: The Little Pot – discovering identity and purpose as a vessel of the PotterThe Tea Pot – learning the beauty of serving and pouring into othersThe Oil Lamp – overcoming fear and shining the Potter’s lightThe Small Jar – understanding that God is never finished with us, and even our wounds have purposeBeyond writing, Dawn lives this message daily—as an inspirational speaker, blogger, and the leader of EA Books Publishing, where she helps future authors bring their God-given stories into the world. This episode is a gentle reminder for anyone feeling empty, overlooked, or unsure of their calling: You are still being shaped. You are still being filled. And God is not finished with you. ✨ A conversation about identity, purpose, faith, and becoming fruit-bearing vessels—exactly as the Potter intended. To find out more about Dawn, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    37 min
  8. The identity work

    FEB 2

    The identity work

    What happens after survival? After the pain, the addiction, the loss, the rebuilding—who do you become next? In this powerful episode of the podcast, Andrew sits down with Andrew Drasen, author of A Vision of Hope and creator of a transformative 90-day framework designed to help people turn pain into growth and live on purpose—not by accident. Andrew Drasen’s work was forged in adversity. His journey through addiction, incarceration, loss, and recovery forced him to confront the deepest question many of us avoid: Who am I when everything I built my identity on is stripped away? What emerged wasn’t just a personal redemption story, but a practical roadmap others could follow. At the heart of this conversation is identity work—the often overlooked but essential step between healing and lasting change. Andrew believes that everyone has something to recover from: addiction, grief, trauma, burnout, broken dreams, or simply a life that no longer fits. His message resonates because it doesn’t stop at inspiration. It delivers structure, clarity, and action. We explore: Why healing alone is not enough—and what must come nextHow rediscovering identity creates direction and purposeThe power of measurable, actionable steps in real transformationWhat it means to live intentionally instead of reactivelyAndrew also shares the deeply personal story behind A Vision of Hope, the first book in a trilogy that bridges story and practice. Written in part while incarcerated—and finished minutes before his release—the memoir is raw, unflinching, and human. The trilogy continues with Reflections, distilling 29 core lessons from his experiences, and The Workbook, a structured program designed to turn insight into action. This episode also touches on profound loss. In 2025, Andrew lost his fiancée Caroline to suicide after her long battle with bipolar disorder and depression. Rather than derailing him, her death sharpened his mission—to build community, reduce stigma, and ensure that no one has to face their battles alone. Her presence, and her absence, are woven into the heart of his work. Beyond the books, Andrew is expanding his impact through Skool-based virtual communities—designed as scalable aftercare, recovery support, and resilience hubs for individuals, schools, justice systems, and treatment providers. This is a conversation about hope with structure, growth with direction, and identity as the foundation of lasting change. Whether you’re navigating recovery, standing at a crossroads, or simply asking deeper questions about who you are and how you want to live—this episode will meet you where you are and invite you forward. 🎧 Tune in and discover why identity work may be the most important work you ever do. To find out more about Andrew, Click Here My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au

    35 min
5
out of 5
30 Ratings

About

We get one shot at life on earth, and when it’s over, it’s done, no second chances. That being the case, why not make it the best it can be? Why not aim to live a life of joyful longevity? That means a long life full of; purpose, passion, achievement, happiness, fulfillment, love, community, significance and joy. It’s possible, and it’s available to you, when you put all the pieces into the wellness puzzle, no matter who you are, where you live, what your age is, or what your circumstances are. It simply starts with a thought and a decision to live your best life, the rest you will learn as you listen to this podcast.