The MELROSE Show - Decision Society

Mel Rose Wild (Bickerstaff)

SEASON 2: Decision Society is here! Season 1 explored different career paths of inspiring women. In 2025, Season 2 is back and all about the women growing & expanding! Tune in to get caught up with women from Season 1 this year to integrate their stories & to hear new guests share about how they are self actualizing in career. MelRose's new company Decision Society is sponsoring this season through their sister non-profit, Decision Access. Coming to you ad free. To support: https://app.aplos.com/aws/give/AnchoRRa/DecisionAccess to donate to support this podcast and female entrepreneurs.

  1. S2 Ep11; Alison Cebula Seastar Goddess of IFS - Internal Family Systems, Kind Warrior & Tend Collective

    07/11/2025

    S2 Ep11; Alison Cebula Seastar Goddess of IFS - Internal Family Systems, Kind Warrior & Tend Collective

    Alison Cebula Seastar Goddess of IFS - Internal Family Systems, Kind Warrior & Tend Collective Happy Full Moon! Howl and Heal Everyone! Well if this wasn’t a buck moon, we are not quite sure what is. What better to do on the Capricorn Full Moon than move on from that which no longer serves us. It is summer and it is divine and you deserve to discover your own authentic self this summer! With the energy shifting toward you becoming your highest and truest self, sometimes you have to buck off that which no longer serves you….and that includes the internal voices that don’t actually belong to you. In this episode we explore a second level to healing. We strongly suggest listening to Alison’s first episode and then hopping back to this one.  Unlocking Spiritual Equity: Healing Through Internal Family Systems and Adverse Childhood Experiences In this episode, Mel reconnects with Alison Cebula to dive into profound personal and therapeutic journeys. They discuss the impact of ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and how these experiences shaped Alison's life choices and mental health. Alison shares her transformative experiences with Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and its role in unblending emotions and healing trauma. The conversation also explores the importance of having a safe environment for therapeutic work, the cultural differences in emotional coping, and the potential for creative expression as a product of healing. They reflect on the importance of addressing childhood neglect and how understanding and working through emotional wounds can lead to a fulfilling life. Key takeaways include valuable book recommendations for those interested in deepening their emotional health and personal growth. Key book recommendations from the episode include Richard Schwartz's 'No Bad Parts', 'You're the One You've Been Waiting For', Tana French's 'The Witch Elm', and 'Running on Empty' by Jonice Webb. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:12 Catching Up with Alison 00:36 Reflecting on Past Episodes 01:24 Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) 04:32 Exploring Internal Family Systems (IFS) 13:48 The Impact of Childhood Emotional Neglect 20:17 Navigating Relationships and Boundaries 22:35 Deep Trauma Work and Unblending 23:40 Struggles with Depression and Therapy 24:15 Understanding and Managing Emotions 24:34 The Concept of Unblending in IFS 25:39 Challenges in Communication and Emotional Expression 26:50 The Importance of Self-Work and Therapy 27:48 Introduction to Kind Warrior and Tend Collective 28:23 Dealing with Workplace Toxicity 32:56 The Role of Coaching and Therapy 39:46 The Journey of Healing and Creativity 44:52 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans

    45 min
  2. S2 Ep11 AUDIO Alison Cebula Seastar Goddess of IFS - Internal Family Systems, Kind Warrior & Tend Collective

    07/11/2025

    S2 Ep11 AUDIO Alison Cebula Seastar Goddess of IFS - Internal Family Systems, Kind Warrior & Tend Collective

    Alison Cebula Seastar Goddess of IFS - Internal Family Systems, Kind Warrior & Tend Collective Happy Full Moon! Howl and Heal Everyone! Well if this wasn’t a buck moon, we are not quite sure what is. What better to do on the Capricorn Full Moon than move on from that which no longer serves us. It is summer and it is divine and you deserve to discover your own authentic self this summer! With the energy shifting toward you becoming your highest and truest self, sometimes you have to buck off that which no longer serves you….and that includes the internal voices that don’t actually belong to you. In this episode we explore a second level to healing. We strongly suggest listening to Alison’s first episode and then hopping back to this one.  Unlocking Spiritual Equity: Healing Through Internal Family Systems and Adverse Childhood Experiences In this episode, Mel reconnects with Alison Cebula to dive into profound personal and therapeutic journeys. They discuss the impact of ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and how these experiences shaped Alison's life choices and mental health. Alison shares her transformative experiences with Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and its role in unblending emotions and healing trauma. The conversation also explores the importance of having a safe environment for therapeutic work, the cultural differences in emotional coping, and the potential for creative expression as a product of healing. They reflect on the importance of addressing childhood neglect and how understanding and working through emotional wounds can lead to a fulfilling life. Key takeaways include valuable book recommendations for those interested in deepening their emotional health and personal growth. Key book recommendations from the episode include Richard Schwartz's 'No Bad Parts', 'You're the One You've Been Waiting For', Tana French's 'The Witch Elm', and 'Running on Empty' by Jonice Webb. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:12 Catching Up with Alison 00:36 Reflecting on Past Episodes 01:24 Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) 04:32 Exploring Internal Family Systems (IFS) 13:48 The Impact of Childhood Emotional Neglect 20:17 Navigating Relationships and Boundaries 22:35 Deep Trauma Work and Unblending 23:40 Struggles with Depression and Therapy 24:15 Understanding and Managing Emotions 24:34 The Concept of Unblending in IFS 25:39 Challenges in Communication and Emotional Expression 26:50 The Importance of Self-Work and Therapy 27:48 Introduction to Kind Warrior and Tend Collective 28:23 Dealing with Workplace Toxicity 32:56 The Role of Coaching and Therapy 39:46 The Journey of Healing and Creativity 44:52 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans

    45 min
  3. S2 Ep10 Louise Watson; Seastar of Empower Cafe Empowering Women at Cannes Lions & Beyond

    06/14/2025

    S2 Ep10 Louise Watson; Seastar of Empower Cafe Empowering Women at Cannes Lions & Beyond

    Welcome to the other side of that full moon (Full Moon was on June 11 in Sagittarius Strawberry Moon 7:43 a.m. ET - Next major moon is June 25 - New Moon in Cancer 10:31 a.m. ET. Welcome to an exploratory conversation with the one and only Louise Watson of Empower Cafe, WACL, and Propeller. To watch the video content go to Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfkr4XPUo6o In this episode of The MELROSE Show, host MelRose interviews Louise Watson, Associate Director at Propeller and Co-founder of WACL Empower Cafe. They discuss the creation and impact of Empower Cafe, an initiative that provides inclusive spaces for women in the marketing and PR industry, both online and at major conferences like Cannes Lions. Louise shares her journey, the challenges of balancing a career with motherhood, and future plans for expanding Empower. The episode highlights the importance of inclusive environments and the collaborative support among women at industry events. I had THE best time at Cannes Lions 2024 largely thanks to the Empower Cafe and Louise, and her husband. ;) If you go to the festival of creativity, this is a must join community if you are a woman. Some important notes for those attending Cannes Lions 2025: https://www.linkedin.com/company/empower-community-network/posts/?feedView=all The Empower Cafe is across from the Palais where the official Cannes Lions is hosted 16 June 2025 – 20 June 2025 L'Avenue Restaruant. Look for the red awning next to iHeart Radio's location. Address is: 1-5 Square Mérimée, Cannes, 06400, France https://web-eur.cvent.com/event/16ed6ea2-c9d2-4327-9a66-8690baab3491/summary https://www.canneslions.com/partnerships/our-partners/wacl-empower-cafe-powered-by-propeller https://events.propellergroup.com/ Some important links: Also check out The Female Quotient lounge. In 2024 they let any females in on first few days. Get a wrist band. Go to their beauty salon first thing and first few days. Lots of freebies there. Hotel Martinez top floor. https://www.canneslions.com/festival/festival-partners/the-female-quotient Location: Hôtel Martinez — Suite 73173 Bd de la Croisette 06400 Cannes, France Open: Monday: 8am-6:30pm; Tuesday: 8am-7pm; Wednesday: 10am- 6:30pm; Thursday: 8am-7pm Admission: All are welcome, but must pre-register on The Female Quotient website https://events.thefemalequotient.com/canneslions25 Other groups include Conscious Advertising Network: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/conscious-advertising-network_canneslions2025-togetherwecan-consciousadvertising-activity-7330185475007082496-RBlz?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAACnhnVMBdIvUBkpNNo5-J4AU1N7OnGVZTik AdWeek https://event.adweek.com/awh_cannes_2025 And if you are a diverse attendee please connect into the whatsapp group!  Be safe out there, ladies!  00:00 Introduction to The MELROSE Show 00:16 Guest Introduction: Louise Watson 00:32 Louise's Journey and Empower Initiatives 01:10 Conference Details and Listener Information 01:57 Interview with Louise Watson Begins 02:24 Louise's Background and Career Path 03:41 Creating Empower (Cafe) and Its Impact 05:24 Cannes Lions Experience and Empower (Cafe) 15:09 Balancing Career and Family 20:21 Navigating Maternity and Work 20:53 Supportive Community and Vulnerability 21:49 Balancing Family and Career 23:36 Exciting Programming and AI Discussions 25:31 Growth Marketing at Propeller 30:30 Empower Cafe's Impact and Future 32:22 Inclusivity and Networking at Conferences 39:34 Spiritual Equity and Kindness

    43 min
  4. S2 Ep10 Louise Watson; Seastar of Empower at Cannes Lions & Beyond / The MelRose Show, Decision Society

    06/14/2025

    S2 Ep10 Louise Watson; Seastar of Empower at Cannes Lions & Beyond / The MelRose Show, Decision Society

    For video head to Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfkr4XPUo6o S2 Ep10 Louise Watson; Seastar of Empower at Cannes Lions & Beyond The MelRose Show Decision Society Welcome to the other side of that full moon and welcome to an exploratory conversation with the one and only Louise Watson of Empower Cafe!  In this episode of The MELROSE Show, host MelRose interviews Louise Watson, Associate Director at Propeller and Co-founder of WACL Empower Cafe. They discuss the creation and impact of Empower Cafe, an initiative that provides inclusive spaces for women in the marketing and PR industry, both online and at major conferences like Cannes Lions. Louise shares her journey, the challenges of balancing a career with motherhood, and future plans for expanding Empower. The episode highlights the importance of inclusive environments and the collaborative support among women at industry events. Some important notes for those attending Cannes Lions 2025. The Empower Cafe is across from the Palais where the official Cannes Lions is hosted 16 June 2025 – 20 June 2025 L'Avenue Restaruant. Look for the red awning next to iHeart Radio's location. Address is: 1-5 Square Mérimée, Cannes, 06400, France Some important links.  Also check out The Female Quotient lounge. In 2024 they let any females in on first few days. Get a wrist band. Go to their beauty salon first thing and first few days. Lots of freebies there. Hotel Martinez top floor. https://www.canneslions.com/festival/festival-partners/the-female-quotient Location: Hôtel Martinez — Suite 73173 Bd de la Croisette 06400 Cannes, France Open: Monday: 8am-6:30pm; Tuesday: 8am-7pm; Wednesday: 10am- 6:30pm; Thursday: 8am-7pm Admission: All are welcome, but must pre-register on The Female Quotient website Other groups include Conscious Advertising Network: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/conscious-advertising-network_canneslions2025-togetherwecan-consciousadvertising-activity-7330185475007082496-RBlz?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAACnhnVMBdIvUBkpNNo5-J4AU1N7OnGVZTik AdWeek https://event.adweek.com/awh_cannes_2025 And if you are a diverse attendee please connect into the whatsapp group!  Be safe out there, ladies!  https://web-eur.cvent.com/event/16ed6ea2-c9d2-4327-9a66-8690baab3491/summary https://www.canneslions.com/partnerships/our-partners/wacl-empower-cafe-powered-by-propeller https://events.propellergroup.com/ 00:00 Introduction to The MELROSE Show 00:16 Guest Introduction: Louise Watson 00:32 Louise's Journey and Empower Initiatives 01:10 Conference Details and Listener Information 01:57 Interview with Louise Watson Begins 02:24 Louise's Background and Career Path 03:41 Creating Empower (Cafe) and Its Impact 05:24 Cannes Lions Experience and Empower (Cafe) 15:09 Balancing Career and Family 20:21 Navigating Maternity and Work 20:53 Supportive Community and Vulnerability 21:49 Balancing Family and Career 23:36 Exciting Programming and AI Discussions 25:31 Growth Marketing at Propeller 30:30 Empower Cafe's Impact and Future 32:22 Inclusivity and Networking at Conferences 39:34 Spiritual Equity and Kindness

    43 min
  5. S2 Ep9: Anna Dravland Session 3: The Goddess Seastar of Goodness and Shining Bright

    03/02/2025

    S2 Ep9: Anna Dravland Session 3: The Goddess Seastar of Goodness and Shining Bright

    In this Episode of The Melrose Show, host Celebrating Goodness and Resilience.  We hope this new moon transition was magical and powerful for all. This new moon in Pisces was a powerful one, with Mars moving out of retrograde, we are all breathing a bit smoother!  In this Episode of The Melrose Show we spend time Celebrating Goodness and Resilience. Anna and Mel re-introduce the concept of spreading goodness through the annual Spread Goodness Day. SGD was founded by guest, Anna Dravland. Anna shares her transformative journey through numerous careers, severe health challenges including a stroke and new health issues she is combating, and her mission to foster community and positivity. The episode explores how Spread Goodness Day encourages acts of kindness, provides practical tips for involvement, and details about upcoming events and initiatives. Despite personal adversities, Anna's resilience and hope underscore the importance of community support and the power of goodness. 02:16 Spread Goodness Apparel 03:12 Anna's Health Journey 04:51 Understanding Superior Mesenteric Artery Syndrome (SMAS) 06:53 The Importance of Community Support 10:45 Spread Goodness Day: Mission and Impact 18:51 How to Get Involved with Spread Goodness Day 29:14 The Goodness Garden: A Book for Kids 30:38 March 14th: Spread Goodness Day Gala 36:23 Final Thoughts and Encouragement 41:04 Closing Remarks and Call to Action  Life has a way of presenting us with challenges that can obscure our outlook, making the path forward seem clouded. Anna Dravland is a living proof of how even the darkest circumstances can be transformed into beacons of light. Confronting critical health issues such as a massive stroke and ongoing struggles with a condition called Superior Mesenteric Artery Syndrome (SMAS) could have overwhelmed anyone. Yet, Anna chose not only to persevere but to flourish, channeling her experiences into a movement that uplifts and unites others: Spread Goodness Day. Anna's story and her creation, Spread Goodness Day, serve as powerful reminders of the transformational power of choosing positivity and community engagement. Through her initiative, Anna Dravland invites everyone to be part of a global experiment in positivity. By celebrating and encouraging acts of goodness, Spread Goodness Day taps into the transformative power of collective action. Occurring on the second Friday of March each year, this day aims to be a 'Valentine's Day of goodness.' It's a day for people to deliberately engage in acts that bring joy and support to others, effectively acting as a catalyst for a broader cultural shift towards empathy and community. Anna’s journey demonstrates how personal adversity can serve as fertile ground for hope and communal growth. Despite her severe health challenges, she has made it her mission to turn her trials into opportunities for others to realize their potential impact. Anna’s resilience underscores a vital lesson: while we cannot always control the darkness that enters our lives, we can choose to illuminate it with our own light. Research supports the idea that kindness is contagious, much like a beneficial virus. When people observe, engage in, or are the recipients of generosity, feel-good chemicals like dopamine flood their brains, improving mood and building pathways for continued positive interactions. This creates a ripple effect, encouraging those touched by kindness to pay it forward. Spread Goodness Day is not just about the acts themselves; it's about crafting a narrative of collective joy and healing. By choosing to engage in this day of deliberately spreading joy, you join an experiment in creating a better tomorrow—one kind act at a time.

    43 min
  6. Season 2 Ep7: Danielle Mills Walden Session 2; The Seastar of LinkedIn Mastery

    01/14/2025

    Season 2 Ep7: Danielle Mills Walden Session 2; The Seastar of LinkedIn Mastery

    S2 Episode 7: Danielle Mills Walden; The Seastar of LinkedIn Mastery Join for Danielle's Next Course: https://headstrongmind.com/products/linkedin-mastery-bootcamp Listeners can get 15% off the bootcamp or working with me 1-1 with code MELROSE Watch on Youtube:  https://youtu.be/BuRYG9k2bwU Happy Full Moon. First of the year! This Capricorn season is not really the start of the new year, but we can use it as a time to cultivate self awareness, plans, and prepare for Springtime. The Goddess culture witnesses Spring as our true new year. So now is a good time to continue to rest and work and get things like your LinkedIn built to serve you in the next round of seasons. In this exciting episode of The Melrose Show Season 2, host Melrose and guest Danielle Mills Walden dive deep into the multifaceted world of career evolution, motherhood, and personal growth. Danielle, a retired professional tennis player turned mindset and LinkedIn coach, shares her inspiring journey from tennis courts to keynote speaking. They discuss the importance of living authentically, women's roles in business, optimizing LinkedIn profiles, and the unique challenges of balancing professional ambitions with motherhood. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone looking to thrive in their personal and professional lives while staying true to their purpose. Danielle's Links: IG-  https://www.instagram.com/daniellemwalden/ LinkedIn- https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniellemwalden Website -  https://headstrongmind.com/ LinkedIn optimization checklist link  https://www.daniellemillswalden.net/ Book a 1:1 with Danielle on Intro :https://intro.co/DanielleWalden?source=intro 00:00 Introduction to The Melrose Show Season 2 02:16 Welcoming Danielle Mills 02:39 Danielle's Life Updates and Motherhood 03:48 Balancing Career and Motherhood 07:01 The Importance of LinkedIn 07:12 Danielle's Career Journey and Mindset 24:13 Future Plans and Goals for 2025 33:14 Life Experience and Unconventional Careers 34:30 The Rise and Fall of Social Media Platforms 36:31 Navigating Conferences and Networking 37:40 The Role of AI in Modern Business 40:24 Maximizing LinkedIn for Professional Growth 47:31 The Importance of Mindset and Positivity 59:23 Spiritual Equity and Professional Success 01:02:12 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Opportunities

    1h 7m
  7. S2 Episode 6: Rechelle Balanzat; The Seastar of Sexy Dry Cleaning

    12/31/2024

    S2 Episode 6: Rechelle Balanzat; The Seastar of Sexy Dry Cleaning

    Happy New Moon in Capricorn. Last Moon Phase of the year! Yummy. Hope everyone is digging into this time for reflection and self care and getting into a manifestation bubble for the coming trip around the sun! For full details and pictures from her hot pink pant wearing conference go to: www.themelroseshow.com/episodes/rechellebalanzat In this episode of The Melrose Show, Melrose chats with Rechelle Balanzat, CEO and founder of Juliette, a pioneering laundry and dry cleaning service in New York. Rechelle shares her diverse professional background, from finance to the ad industry to her diving into the world of dry cleaning and business founding. Her commitment to sustainability as well much needed branding and sexiness in the dry cleaning industry is unique and sets Rechelle down her own pathway in this industry. Rechelle emphasizes the importance of creating a brand identity and sustainable practices, such as avoiding toxic chemicals and using reusable materials. Rechelle also discusses her entrepreneurial challenges, the meticulous planning before becoming a mother, and the significance of spiritual practices in maintaining mental health. The episode aims to inspire others to pursue purpose-driven lives and innovative business practices. Rechelle is offering a one time discount of 10% off for The MelRose Show Decision Society listeners. Go to https://juliette.nyc/login to sign up today. Servicing New York at this time. YouTube VLOG: https://youtu.be/GshzCozXEGY Youtube Highlight Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=15tKn4-QQ0Q Spotify: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/themelroseshow/episodes/S2-Episode-6-The-Melrose-Show-Decision-Society-Rechelle-Balanzat-The-Seastar-of-Sexy-Dry-Cleaning-e2sti6i Juliette’s Youtube channel https://www.youtube.com/@juliettelaundry IG https://www.instagram.com/juliettelaundry/ Watch her video with Tory Birch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=shared&v=hVVBl6emqlM 00:00 Introduction and Host's Background 02:27 Guest Introduction: Rechelle Balanzat 03:09 The Birth of Juliette: A Laundry Revolution 04:52 Challenges and Triumphs of Entrepreneurship 06:40 Rechelle's Personal Journey and Insights 13:17 The Dry Cleaning Industry: Innovations and Sustainability 25:51 The Fragmented Dry Cleaning Industry 26:35 Building a Brand with Juliette 27:05 Fashion and Identity 28:06 Challenges in the Dry Cleaning Industry 29:41 Expanding Juliette's Reach 30:46 The Importance of Branding 34:02 Connecting with Gen Z 37:12 Balancing Motherhood and Entrepreneurship 43:46 Spirituality and Business 49:18 Conclusion and Future Vision

    52 min
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SEASON 2: Decision Society is here! Season 1 explored different career paths of inspiring women. In 2025, Season 2 is back and all about the women growing & expanding! Tune in to get caught up with women from Season 1 this year to integrate their stories & to hear new guests share about how they are self actualizing in career. MelRose's new company Decision Society is sponsoring this season through their sister non-profit, Decision Access. Coming to you ad free. To support: https://app.aplos.com/aws/give/AnchoRRa/DecisionAccess to donate to support this podcast and female entrepreneurs.