Adulting for Catholics by The JPaul Hernandez Podcast

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Welcome to Adulting for Catholics, where faith meets real life. I’m JPaul Hernandez, a Catholic Life Coach, lay preacher, author, and your guide in this journey of becoming fully alive. In each episode, we discuss the real struggles of adulting—career, relationships, finances, faith, and finding meaning—through the lens of Catholic values and practical wisdom. No fluff. Just honest, life-giving conversations. Let’s figure out Catholic adulting together. The best is yet to come.

  1. 11/27/2025

    When Your Family Drains You but You Still Love Them

    What do you do when the people you love the most…are also the ones who exhaust you the most?   If you grew up in a complicated or dysfunctional family, you already knowthis truth: Family shapes everything. Your career, relationships, insecurity, faith, finances, and even your self-worth.   In this episode of Adulting for Catholics, we talk about: ✨ How to love your family without losing yourself ✨ Why you feel guilty for wanting boundaries ✨ How Bowen’s Family Systems Theory explains family patterns ✨ The four steps you need: self-differentiation, self-awareness, Catholic self-love, and self-gift ✨ When distance is actually holy and necessary And the powerful story of St. Pier Giorgio Frassati, a saint who came from a dysfunctional home, but still became a light for the world   If your family drains you but you still love them… This episode is going to feel like a breath of fresh air.   Catholic Life Coaching Do you want to grow in purpose, identity, and emotional maturity? I want to coach you. 👉 www.jpaulhernandez.com/coaching     Get a copy of my new book, OUT OF THESHADOWS. It’s about healing inner wounds 🛍️ TikTok: https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSHnDbvgHsVuW-QAM7R/ 🛒 Lazada: https://s.lazada.com.ph/s.FQyMM 📚 Feast Books: https://feastbooks.ph/product/out-of-the-shadows/   Share this episode with someone who’s trying to heal while still loving their family. You’re not alone,  and you’re not a bad son or daughter for wanting peace. 🙏💛

    14 min

  2. 11/11/2025

    How Catholic Saints faced loneliness

    Have you ever prayed, served, or gone to Mass… and still felt lonely?You’re not the only one. In this episode of Adulting for Catholics, I talk about how eventhe saints from St. Thérèse of Lisieux to St. John Paul II, who alsobattled loneliness, rejection, and emotional dryness. We’ll explore why loneliness isn’t God’s punishment, but often His invitation to deeper intimacy. You’ll also learn:💭 Why modern life (and even faith life) can feel isolating💔 What loneliness reveals about your heart’s deepest desires🙏 How the saints transformed loneliness into love🕊️ How to turn your silent seasons into sacred encounters with God If you’ve ever wondered, “Lord, why am I still lonely even when I’mfaithful?” — This episode is for you.   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Catholic Life CoachingDiscover how to grow in purpose, discipline, and faith through 1-on-1 or groupcoaching.👉 www.jpaulhernandez.com/coaching 📖 My New Book: OUT OF THE SHADOWSA guide to healing your inner wounds and finding freedom in God’s light.🛍️ TikTok: Watch here🛒 Lazada: Buy here📚 Feast Books: Order online

    15 min

  3. 09/10/2025

    How to Be a Catholic Leader at Work (Without Preaching)

    What does it mean to be a Catholic leader? It’s not about titles, power, or preaching. It’s about being excellent in your work, facing the consequences of your choices, and bringing hope where it’s needed most. In this episode of Adulting for Catholics, I share: Why Catholic leadership is about responsibility, not ranting What saints like Gregory the Great, Pier Giorgio Frassati, and Thomas More teach us about leadership Why Catholics must care for their bodies as a witness of faith 3 practical ways to lead at work (without preaching) 👉 Are you a Catholic trying to lead in the workplace? Please message me. Let’s talk.

    8 min

  4. 08/27/2025

    Rome Taught Me to Be a Missionary of Hope (And Why I Didn’t Post for 4 Weeks)

    For 4 weeks, there was no new episode. But in that silence, God led me and my wife on pilgrimage to Rome, Florence, and Paris for the Jubilee of Catholic Digital Missionaries. Standing where martyrs once shed their blood, surrounded by over a million young Catholics celebrating faith, I realized: this is what it means to be a missionary of hope. In this episode of Adulting for Catholics: Why millennials + Gen Z are not the burnout generation—but the hope generation How saying “yes” to God brings the grace you need, even when you can’t see the way ahead. Why your perseverance in the middle of adulting struggles can reflect God’s light to others in darkness Rome reminded me that the Church is alive. And God is calling us to carry that same hope wherever we are. 👉 Want help discerning your mission and building resilience? Learn more about Catholic life coaching at www.jpaulhernandez.com/coaching.

    8 min

  5. 07/24/2025

    Do Hard Things (There Is No Shortcut to Success)

    In a culture obsessed with hacks and hustle, it’s tempting to look for shortcuts to success. But Jesus didn’t take shortcuts—and neither should we. In this episode of Adulting for Catholics, I share personal stories of doing hard things:🏋️‍♂️ Losing weight for my family📉 Facing financial failures and learning numbers🚴‍♂️ Learning to bike again (as an adult!)👨‍👩‍👧 Doing the hard work of being a present parent🧠 Going to therapy instead of hiding childhood pain The breakthrough you’re praying for?It might be waiting in the hard thing you’ve been avoiding. Let’s reject fake hustle. Let’s do hard things with Jesus. 👉 Need help facing your own hard thing? I offer Christ-centered life coaching to help you gain clarity and move forward. Learn more at www.jpaulhernandez.com/coaching.

    11 min

  6. 07/17/2025

    Stop Being Friends With Fake Friends

    Some people keep you stuck. Others prepare you for heaven. In this episode, I talk about: ✔️ How St. Peter & St. Paul built real, holy friendship despite differences ✔️ St. Francis de Sales' idea on friendship ✔️ Useful friendship to virtuous friendships ✔️ Filipino culture: When pakikisama keeps you stuck ✔️ How to walk away wisely from fake friends ✔️ How to build a true, lasting, Christ-centered community I want to help you find real friends To learn more, visit my website: www.jpaulhernandez.com

    12 min

  7. 07/09/2025

    6 - Stop Hiding Your Wins: Why Real Friends Celebrate You

    Why do we feel we have to hide our blessings just to make others feel comfortable?Why do fake friends secretly envy your success instead of sharpening you? In this episode:✔️ Why crab mentality keeps Filipino communities small✔️ How pakikisama culture twists real friendship✔️ The Catholic answer: Yes, you ARE your brother’s keeper!✔️ Why God wants you to be magnanimous, not lukewarm✔️ A prayer to heal envy in yourself and others As iron sharpens iron, so one friend sharpens another.” — Proverbs 27:17 Comment: “I choose to be my brother’s keeper.”

    9 min

  8. 07/03/2025

    5 - Healing from Sexual Abuse: The Power of St. Maria Goretti

    July 6 is the feast day of St. Maria Goretti, the young saint who became a powerful patron for survivors of sexual abuse and violence.In this deeply personal episode, JPaul shares:- His own story of surviving childhood sexual abuse- The lies that abuse implants — and how Maria’s story breaks them- How victim-shaming (especially in Filipino culture) keeps us silent, and how to name it and overcome it- Why forgiveness is not forced, but a grace that frees you first- Practical steps for real healing: spiritually, emotionally, physically- The miracle of Maria Goretti’s forgiveness and her attacker’s conversionYou are not what was done to you.Your dignity is inviolable.Your story does not end in shame — it can become your testimony.💙 Comment: “I choose to heal.”🕯️ Light a candle to St. Maria Goretti and whisper: “Pray for me.”🔗 Share this episode with someone who needs hope today.

    17 min
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Welcome to Adulting for Catholics, where faith meets real life. I’m JPaul Hernandez, a Catholic Life Coach, lay preacher, author, and your guide in this journey of becoming fully alive. In each episode, we discuss the real struggles of adulting—career, relationships, finances, faith, and finding meaning—through the lens of Catholic values and practical wisdom. No fluff. Just honest, life-giving conversations. Let’s figure out Catholic adulting together. The best is yet to come.

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