NEEDS TO BE STUDIED PODCAST

Billy The Bad Guy
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Welcome to Needs to be Studied, the podcast where we unapologetically dive into the wild world of sex, mental health, dating, and relationships. Hosted by the one and only Billy The Bad Guy, we're here to explore all the things your momma warned you about—but with way more laughs and a lot less judgment.Each week, we bring on guests who spill the tea on their love lives, mental breakdowns, and all the juicy details in between. No topic is off-limits, and no story is too wild. Whether you’re dodging red flags, navigating a situationship, or just trying to keep your sanity in check, we’ve got you covered.We’re here to remind you that no one has it all figured out, and that’s perfectly okay. So grab your favorite drink, sit back, and get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe even learn a thing or two.

  1. 2D AGO

    Why Women Disappoint Men Too — And Does Sex Timing Change Everything? feat Dating Coach Chad Scott

    Send a text Are men the only ones who disappoint in dating… or do women miss the mark too? In this episode of Needs To Be Studied, we’re having the conversation nobody wants to have out loud: men get disappointed too. What happens when someone presents themselves one way — soft, relationship-ready, “good girl energy” — but moves completely different once you start dating? We break down: The difference between image vs reality in modern datingWhy men sometimes feel misledThe pressure to “present perfect”Waiting for sex vs first night energyDoes having sex early actually change how someone sees you?The psychology behind sexual timing and perceptionDouble standards nobody wants to admit Is disappointment about sex… or expectations? Is waiting strategic… or manipulative? Does intimacy build connection — or shift power? This episode is honest, uncomfortable, and necessary. If you’ve ever felt confused about how quickly to move, or disappointed when someone didn’t match how they presented themselves — this one is for you. 🎓 Class is officially in session. Support the show

    57 min

  2. FEB 11

    Spice Up Valentine’s Day: Sensory Play, Household Toys & Pleasure Without Penetration

    Send a text Valentine’s Day is coming up… and if your bedroom routine is giving copy-and-paste energy, we need to talk. In this episode of Needs To Be Studied, we break down how to truly spice up Valentine’s Day without relying on the same old script. We’re getting into:     •    What sensory play actually is (and why beginners are curious about it)     •    Safe household tools, toys, and gadgets you can use to build anticipation     •    How to increase intimacy through touch, temperature, tension, and teasing     •    Why pleasure without penetration can sometimes feel even more intense     •    How to explore kink in a way that feels sexy, not scary Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, dating someone new, or trying to reconnect with your own body, this episode gives you practical, creative ways to elevate intimacy. Not everything powerful in the bedroom requires penetration. Sometimes the build-up, the sensation, and the mental stimulation are what take things to the next level. If you’ve ever wondered how to introduce sensory play, how to spice up Valentine’s Day without buying expensive toys, or how to experience pleasure differently — this one is for you. Class is in session. Support the show

    53 min

  3. FEB 3

    If I Have to Give an Ultimatum… Is the Relationship Already Over?

    Send us a text If you have to give an ultimatum… is the relationship already over? Whew 😮‍💨—this episode is for anyone who’s dating, confused, overthinking, or stuck asking themselves “Is it them… or is it me?” This week, we’re joined by dating coach Chad Scott (IG: @chadscotthere) to unpack the real meaning behind ultimatums, dating confusion, and self-accountability. We talk about when ultimatums are boundaries vs. emotional pressure, why feeling confused while dating is actually a red flag, and how often the answer isn’t asking more from someone else—but looking in the mirror first. We get honest about: What an ultimatum really says about the relationshipWhy confusion in dating is information, not a phaseHow to hold yourself accountable instead of repeating the same patternsWhen self-reflection can save you… and when it’s time to walk awayIf you’ve ever wondered whether you’re asking for too much—or just asking the wrong person—this conversation might sting a little… but it’ll also set you free. 🎓 Class is in session. Support the show

    58 min

  4. JAN 27

    How Kink Builds Trust, Intimacy & Emotional Safety in Sex (Not Just Pain & Pleasure)

    Send us a text In this episode of Needs to Be Studied, we’re joined by Master Radiant, who helps break down how kink can deepen emotional intimacy, trust, and vulnerability in sex in ways many “vanilla” relationships never touch. From consent and communication to aftercare and emotional safety, we explore why some people feel more seen, protected, and connectedduring kink than in everyday dating. Together, we talk about the moment kink stopped feeling purely physical and started feeling emotional, how trust shows up during sex (not just in love), and why structured boundaries can actually make it easier to open up. Master Radiant also shares insight into what happens after the scene — the check-ins, reassurance, and care that build real intimacy beyond the bedroom. We also get into extracurricular activities like figging, sploshing, needle play, and abrasion play, and break down Fire Play 101 — what it is, how it’s practiced safely, and why it’s not as reckless or scary as people assume. Whether you’re kink-curious, actively exploring, or strictly vanilla but craving deeper emotional connection in your sex life, this episode will challenge what you think intimacy really looks like. 🎧 Topics include: How kink builds trust and emotional safetyWhy vulnerability can feel easier in BDSM than datingWhat trust actually looks like in the moment during sexCommon mistakes couples make when exploring kinkWhat vanilla couples can learn from kinky dynamicsConsent, communication, and aftercare explainedThis episode proves kink isn’t just freaky — it’s intentional, emotional, and deeply human. Support the show

    49 min

  5. JAN 20

    Anxious Attachment, Bedroom Power Plays & the Worst Zodiac Signs to Date

    Send us a text Dating shouldn’t feel like a full-time anxiety job… but here we are 😭 In this episode of Needs To Be Studied, we get real about how anxious attachment actually shows up while dating — the overthinking, the texting spirals, the “am I asking for too much or not enough?” moments we all know too well. Then we switch gears and talk about beginner Dom & Sub dynamics — nothing extreme, just low-risk ways couples can add a little spice, tension, and power play to their relationship without turning the bedroom into a dungeon (unless you want to). And because peace was never an option, we end the episode ranking the five worst zodiac signs to date — the most controversial takes, the red flags, and why some signs really need to stay single a little longer. This episode is messy, relatable, funny, and a little too accurate — whether you’re anxiously attached, freak-curious, or dating someone whose zodiac sign already told you to run. 🎓 Topics Covered: How anxious attachment shows up while datingTexting anxiety, reassurance loops & emotional spiralsBeginner Dom/Sub practices for couplesPower dynamics & consent without pressureThe five worst zodiac signs to date (don’t argue, just listen)Support the show

    1h 14m

  6. JAN 13

    The First Date Blacklist, 2026 Sex Bucket Lists & Google’s Freakiest Searches

    Send us a text Where you take someone on a first date can tell you everything you need to know — and the internet has officially made a blacklist 👀. In this episode, we break down the viral list of places you should never take someone on a first date and debate which ones are real red flags… and which ones people might be dragging a little too hard.. Then things get spicy 🌶️ as we dive into 2026 sex bucket lists — what people actually want to try, what feels realistic, and what might need to stay a fantasy (for now). And to close it out, Google gets exposed. We unpack the top five most searched sex questions of 2025, proving once again that curiosity is real, shame is optional, and the internet knows way too much about us. Dating, desire, curiosity, and chaos — this episode definitely needs to be studied. Support the show

    41 min

  7. JAN 6

    Welcome to Heartbreak Hotel

    Send us a text Wolf hit us with a heartbreak story we weren’t ready for 😭. We spill the tea on pain, laughs, and the 3-6-9 dating rule, plus I give y’all the full holiday recap—gifts, drama, and all the mess. Support the show

    47 min

  8. 12/17/2025

    Confessions Of A Sugar Baby feat. Jst Us Podcast

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    58 min
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Welcome to Needs to be Studied, the podcast where we unapologetically dive into the wild world of sex, mental health, dating, and relationships. Hosted by the one and only Billy The Bad Guy, we're here to explore all the things your momma warned you about—but with way more laughs and a lot less judgment.Each week, we bring on guests who spill the tea on their love lives, mental breakdowns, and all the juicy details in between. No topic is off-limits, and no story is too wild. Whether you’re dodging red flags, navigating a situationship, or just trying to keep your sanity in check, we’ve got you covered.We’re here to remind you that no one has it all figured out, and that’s perfectly okay. So grab your favorite drink, sit back, and get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe even learn a thing or two.

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  • Creator
    Billy The Bad Guy
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    68
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 NEEDS TO BE STUDIED PODCAST
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