Coffee and Tea with CarrieVee

Carrie Verrocchio

Coffee and Tea With CarrieVee is all about YOU.  It's all about Leadership, Communication, and Connection.   It's a place where you get to hang out and be heard. It's a place to build your confident and empowered life.  And it's a place where you will always be loved.  It's never goo late to grab hold of that life you've been dreaming about.   Life is Short.  Choose Wisely. ® 

  1. 4d ago

    What Invisible Barriers are Holding You Back?

    What if the thing holding you back isn't your schedule, your age, or even your circumstances? What if it's a barrier you can't even see? This week on Coffee & Tea with CarrieVee, Carrie welcomes back bestselling author, fitness expert, and midlife coach Heike Yates for another powerful conversation inspired by her book, Pursue Your Spark. Together, they unpack one of the biggest reasons women feel stuck in midlife—not because they lack discipline or motivation, but because invisible barriers quietly shape their decisions without them realizing it. From limiting beliefs and outdated identities to stress, overwhelm, and unhealed emotional wounds, Carrie and Heike explore how the stories we carry can keep us from moving forward—even when we're doing "all the right things." If you've ever felt like you're working hard but not making progress, this episode will help you identify what may really be standing in your way.  In This Episode  Why mindset is often more important than fitness or nutrition  The invisible barriers that quietly sabotage progress  How old identities can prevent new opportunities  Why doing more isn't always the answer  The connection between stress, cortisol, and physical health  How emotional healing impacts your ability to move forward  Why paying attention is the first step toward lasting change  Learning to replace self-judgment with curiosity  The importance of taking one small step instead of trying to change everything at once  How clarity creates freedom and momentum Helping Midlife Women Move Forward Again Many midlife women aren’t starting from scratch — they’re navigating seasons where what once worked no longer fits. I help women move out of the start-over cycle and rebuild strength, energy, and confidence with realistic fitness, nutrition, and mindset strategies that support real life. I know what it feels like to juggle work, motherhood, and identity while wondering if you’ll ever feel like yourself again. At one point, I was a single mom raising two kids on $300 a month, working long hours and trying to hold everything together. Fitness became my lifeline — the one thing that helped me feel strong, resilient, and hopeful when life felt heavy. Over the past 35+ years, that lifeline became my mission. I’ve helped thousands of midlife women move out of the start-over cycle and find an approach that finally works for their body and their life. Here’s what I believe: Midlife isn’t a decline — it’s your turning point. You don’t need extremes — just small steps that fit your life. And with the right support, you can feel capable, clear, and strong at any age. If you’re ready to stop starting over and finally find an approach that works for your body and your life, you’re in the right place. Get Heike's book: https://amzn.to/4tBvoGp https://heikeyates.com/ other episodes with Heike Yates: Midlife Moments With Heike Yates:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coffee-and-tea-with-carrievee/id1514671446?i=1000768689467 Pursue Your Spark with Heike Yates:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coffee-and-tea-with-carrievee/id1514671446?i=1000760004906 Book a Discovery Call with CarrieVee: https://schedulewithcarrievee.as.me/?appointmentType=12343596 Book CarrieVee for a Speaking Engagement:  https://www.coachcarriev.com/contact-me Connect with CarrieVee: www.carrievee.com carriev@coachcarriev.com IG:  @iamcarrievee  TT:  @carrievee2022 FB:  Carrie Verrocchio LI:  Carrie Verrocchio

  2. Jul 15

    What is On Your No Fly List?

    What if the biggest thing holding you back today… isn't your ability? What if it's a story you've been carrying for decades? In this honest and surprisingly funny episode of Coffee & Tea with CarrieVee, Carrie shares an unexpected childhood story involving fried eggs, older brothers, and a Korean restaurant that led to one of the biggest mindset breakthroughs she's had in years. Because this episode isn't really about eggs. It's about the invisible rules we continue to live by long after they've stopped serving us. How many decisions are you making today because of something that happened when you were ten years old? How many dreams, opportunities, conversations, or risks are still sitting on your personal "No-Fly List"? It's time to find out. In This Episode, Carrie Discusses:  The childhood experience that made her avoid fried eggs for over 50 years  Why our brains create protective stories—and why they don't always update  The surprising lesson learned over lunch at a Korean restaurant  How childhood experiences quietly become lifelong limiting beliefs  Why many of our fears began as survival strategies  The difference between protection and limitation  Why growth often means questioning old beliefs instead of learning new ones  Giving yourself permission to rewrite outdated stories  How curiosity can replace fear and open new possibilities  Identifying what's still on your own personal "No-Fly List" Book a Discovery Call with CarrieVee: https://schedulewithcarrievee.as.me/?appointmentType=12343596   Book CarrieVee for a Speaking Engagement: https://www.coachcarriev.com/contact-me   Connect with CarrieVee: www.carrievee.com carriev@coachcarriev.com IG: @iamcarrievee  TT: @carrievee2022 FB: Carrie Verrocchio LI: Carrie Verrocchio

  3. Jul 7

    It's Okay To Hurt Out Loud

    What if one of the strongest things you could ever do… was admit that you're hurting? In this deeply personal episode of Coffee & Tea with CarrieVee, Carrie shares a story she has never publicly told before—a moment that has stayed with her for more than twenty years. After donating a kidney to save her father's life, she found herself doubled over in pain in a hospital hallway, apologizing for being "weak." What happened next changed her perspective decades later. This episode isn't built around a five-step framework or leadership strategy. Instead, it's an honest conversation about strength, vulnerability, and why so many of us believe we have to suffer silently. If you've ever minimized your pain, apologized for needing help, or believed that showing emotion made you weak, this conversation is for you. Strength doesn't mean you never cry. Real strength isn't pretending you're okay. Real strength is making the courageous decision, showing up anyway, and allowing yourself to be honest about the cost. Journal Prompt Where have you been doubled over in your own hallway, apologizing for needing help? Connect with CarrieVee Book a Discovery Call with CarrieVee: https://schedulewithcarrievee.as.me/?appointmentType=12343596 Book CarrieVee for a Speaking Engagement:  https://www.coachcarriev.com/contact-me Connect with CarrieVee: www.carrievee.com carriev@coachcarriev.com IG:  @iamcarrievee  TT:  @carrievee2022 FB:  Carrie Verrocchio LI:  Carrie Verrocchio

  4. Jun 23

    Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Life

    Are you struggling with confidence? What if the problem isn't actually your confidence at all? In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Coffee & Tea with CarrieVee, Carrie explores a truth that has transformed her own life: most of us don't have a confidence problem—we have a thought management problem.  From replaying conversations from years ago to overthinking every decision, text message, and interaction, many of us spend so much time living inside our heads that we stop fully participating in our actual lives. Carrie shares practical tools for understanding emotions, interrupting negative thought patterns, and building authentic confidence through action—not perfection. In This Episode, Carrie Discusses:  Why most people don't actually have a confidence problem  The difference between emotional health and emotional control  Why you are not your emotions—you simply experience them  How emotional patterns are learned and can be unlearned  The "trigger → thought → emotion → reaction" cycle  Why the greatest power exists in managing your thoughts  The truth about confidence and why we've been taught it backward  How confidence is built through action, not waiting  Carrie's personal journey through cancer, surgery, weight changes, and rebuilding confidence  Why showing up imperfectly creates authentic confidence  Three practical tools to shift your thinking immediately  How to stop living in mental loops and start living fully Three Tools to Shift Your Thinking 1. Name It  What am I actually feeling right now? 2. Check the Thought  Is this thought helping me or hurting me? 3. Choose on Purpose  What would the confident version of me do here?Book a Discovery Call with CarrieVee: https://schedulewithcarrievee.as.me/?appointmentType=12343596 Book CarrieVee for a Speaking Engagement:  https://www.coachcarriev.com/contact-me Join the Confidence and Clarity Membership!  https://carrievee.com/confidence-clarity-1 Connect with CarrieVee: www.carrievee.com carriev@coachcarriev.com IG:  @iamcarrievee  TT:  @carrievee2022 FB:  Carrie Verrocchio LI:  Carrie Verrocchio

  5. Jun 16

    Midlife (and beyond!) Confidence

    What if confidence doesn't actually decline as we age? What if, instead, confidence becomes clearer, quieter, and more authentic? In this deeply personal episode of Coffee & Tea with CarrieVee, Carrie reflects on what confidence looked like in her younger years, how it evolved through grief, caregiving, menopause, and life's hardest seasons, and why the most powerful confidence often arrives later in life.  Carrie explores the freedom that comes with releasing the need for approval, embracing authenticity, and finally stepping into the purpose you were always meant to live. This episode is for every woman who has ever felt the pressure to stay young, be agreeable, avoid conflict, shrink herself, or earn her worth through performance. In This Episode, Carrie Discusses:  Why society teaches women to fear aging  The hidden freedom that comes with getting older  How confidence changes from performance to authenticity  Why women spend decades shape-shifting to gain approval  The impact of perimenopause, menopause, and post-menopause on identity and confidence  Why grief and life experience reshape our priorities  The difference between being kind and abandoning yourself  How confidence evolves from "Look at me" to "I know who I am"  The dangers of seeking validation through appearance and approval  Why authentic relationships require difficult conversations  The pressure social media places on women to remain forever young  How to embrace your body with gratitude rather than criticism  Why true confidence is about freedom, not attention  The importance of helping younger women develop authentic confidence now Book CarrieVee for a Speaking Engagement:  https://www.coachcarriev.com/contact-me Join the Confidence and Clarity Membership!  https://carrievee.com/confidence-clarity-1 Connect with CarrieVee: www.carrievee.com carriev@coachcarriev.com IG:  @iamcarrievee  TT:  @carrievee2022 FB:  Carrie Verrocchio LI:  Carrie Verrocchio

  6. Jun 9

    Boundaries and Saying No with Danny M. Goldberg

    Why is it so hard to say no? In this powerful episode of Coffee & Tea with CarrieVee, Carrie sits down with speaker, entrepreneur, and author Danny M. Goldberg to tackle one of the biggest struggles facing leaders, parents, professionals, and caregivers: setting boundaries and learning to say no.  Danny shares his personal journey from lifelong people-pleaser to someone who discovered that being "nice" isn't always healthy—and that true confidence often begins with protecting your time, energy, and self-worth. This conversation is honest, funny, challenging, and filled with practical wisdom for anyone who has ever said "yes" when they desperately wanted to say "no." In This Episode, We Discuss:  The critical difference between being nice and being kind Why people-pleasers often lose their sense of identity  How failing to set boundaries damages relationships  Why respect matters more than being liked  The connection between boundaries and self-confidence  How to know when it's time to say no  Why over-explaining your decisions weakens your boundaries  The importance of teaching boundaries to our children  How saying yes to one thing often means saying no to something more important  Why successful people become increasingly protective of their time  The difference between confidence and arrogance  How taking risks builds confidence and personal growth  Danny M. Goldberg is a serial entrepreneur, speaker, and author of the leadership book “A Little Bit A*****e.” He is the founder of multiple ventures including GoldSRD (staffing, executive recruiting, and professional development), Crowne Cloth (a luxury lifestyle brand), DCL Cards (sports collectibles), LikeMe App (dating application) and GoldTM (ATM and vending services). Danny’s work focuses on leadership, assertiveness, entrepreneurship, and the balance between empathy and decisiveness in business. His philosophy challenges the idea that success requires being ruthless—arguing instead that the most effective leaders learn how to be just assertive enough to get results while still earning respect. Through his speaking, consulting, and podcast appearances, Danny shares practical lessons from building businesses, navigating leadership challenges, and developing the confidence needed to succeed in modern workplaces. To book Danny M Goldberg to speak at your event, please email danny.m.goldberg@gmail.com or call 833-514-8883. Contact Danny Goldberg: https://littlebitahole.com/ Buy Danny's book:  https://www.paypal.com/ncp/payment/7SUY64BKRSN94 or danny.m.goldberg@gmail.com Book CarrieVee for a Speaking Engagement:  https://www.coachcarriev.com/contact-me Join the Confidence and Clarity Membership!  https://carrievee.com/confidence-clarity-1 Connect with CarrieVee: www.carrievee.com carriev@coachcarriev.com IG:  @iamcarrievee  TT:  @carrievee2022 FB:  Carrie Verrocchio LI:  Carrie Verrocchio

  7. Jun 2

    Sleep and Your Health with Terry Cralle

    Are you sacrificing sleep to get more done? In this eye-opening episode of Coffee & Tea with CarrieVee, Carrie welcomes back sleep expert Terry Cralle for a powerful conversation about why sleep is one of the most overlooked pillars of health. Together, they unpack the dangerous myth that sleep is optional, explore why women often put everyone else's needs ahead of their own, and reveal the surprising ways sleep affects everything from weight management and mental health to relationships, decision-making, and longevity.  If you've ever said, "I'll sleep when I'm dead," this episode may completely change your perspective. In This Episode, We Discuss:  Why sleep is a necessity—not a luxury  The connection between sleep, diet, and exercise  How sleep deprivation impacts metabolism and weight gain  Why women often sacrifice sleep in the name of caregiving  The alarming effects of sleep loss on children and teens  How sleep affects memory, mood, learning, and decision-making  The link between sleep deprivation and chronic disease  Why drowsy driving can be as dangerous as drunk driving  The role sleep plays in mental health, anxiety, and depression  How sleep influences productivity, creativity, and quality of life  Why "catching up" on weekends isn't enough  The importance of creating a family culture that values sleep Key Takeaway Sleep isn't something you earn after everything else is done. Sleep is the foundation that allows you to do everything else well. When we prioritize sleep, we improve our physical health, emotional well-being, relationships, focus, energy, and overall quality of life. As Terry reminds us, sufficient sleep isn't indulgent—it's essential.  Terry Cralle, RN, MS, is cofounder of a four-bed sleep disorders center in Virginia, and a nationally recognized sleep health consultant, educator, and advocate. Her work in the field of sleep medicine has ranged from patient care to clinical research and continuing education for nurses. As a certified clinical sleep educator, she is a highly sought-after consultant and speaker for schools, corporations, hospitals, and community organizations, as well as for the hospitality, travel, and bedding industry. Terry works closely with the International Sleep Products Association, Start School Later, and the Pajama Program. She is the national spokesperson for the Better Sleep Council. Contact Terry Cralle: https://www.linkedin.com/in/terry-cralle-rn-sleep-educator/ https://bettersleep.org/ The Harm Of Screen Use Referenced in this Podcast:  https://www.hhs.gov/surgeongeneral/reports-and-publications/screen-use-harms/index.html Book CarrieVee for a Speaking Engagement:  https://www.coachcarriev.com/contact-me Join the Confidence and Clarity Membership!  https://carrievee.com/confidence-clarity-1 Connect with CarrieVee: www.carrievee.com carriev@coachcarriev.com IG:  @iamcarrievee  TT:  @carrievee2022 FB:  Carrie Verrocchio LI:  Carrie Verrocchio

  8. May 20

    Midlife Movement With Heike Yates

    Helping Midlife Women Move Forward Again Many midlife women aren’t starting from scratch — they’re navigating seasons where what once worked no longer fits. I help women move out of the start-over cycle and rebuild strength, energy, and confidence with realistic fitness, nutrition, and mindset strategies that support real life. I know what it feels like to juggle work, motherhood, and identity while wondering if you’ll ever feel like yourself again. At one point, I was a single mom raising two kids on $300 a month, working long hours and trying to hold everything together. Fitness became my lifeline — the one thing that helped me feel strong, resilient, and hopeful when life felt heavy. Over the past 35+ years, that lifeline became my mission. I’ve helped thousands of midlife women move out of the start-over cycle and find an approach that finally works for their body and their life. Here’s what I believe: Midlife isn’t a decline — it’s your turning point. You don’t need extremes — just small steps that fit your life. And with the right support, you can feel capable, clear, and strong at any age. If you’re ready to stop starting over and finally find an approach that works for your body and your life, you’re in the right place. Get Heike's book: https://amzn.to/4tBvoGp https://heikeyates.com/ Book CarrieVee for a Speaking Engagement:  https://www.coachcarriev.com/contact-me Join the Confidence and Clarity Membership!  https://carrievee.com/confidence-clarity-1 Connect with CarrieVee: www.carrievee.com carriev@coachcarriev.com IG:  @iamcarrievee  TT:  @carrievee2022 FB:  Carrie Verrocchio LI:  Carrie Verrocchio

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Coffee and Tea With CarrieVee is all about YOU.  It's all about Leadership, Communication, and Connection.   It's a place where you get to hang out and be heard. It's a place to build your confident and empowered life.  And it's a place where you will always be loved.  It's never goo late to grab hold of that life you've been dreaming about.   Life is Short.  Choose Wisely. ®