She Chose Joy with Melanie

Melanie Foote-Davis

Sprinkles of Joy is found when we get curious and choose to play in those spaces between what our heart knows to be true and what our mind is trying to reconcile. This is where yummy moments like that organically unfold through heartfelt conversations with visionary woman.

  1. Chef Elizbeth Falkner: The Art of Food: Creativity, Diversity, and Resilience

    1d ago

    Chef Elizbeth Falkner: The Art of Food: Creativity, Diversity, and Resilience

    Chef Elizabeth Falkner has spent her career treating food as something far more than sustenance. It is art. It is theater. It is a living expression of culture, memory, and the human desire to connect. In this conversation, Elizabeth and I explore what it means to create with intention, why diversity in ingredients isa reflection of the world we want to build, and how the culinary community found ways to care for one another when the pandemic threatened to unravel everything they had built. Elizabeth shares the story behind T'Maro, a date-based spirit born from creativity and collaboration, her work in food rescue and waste reduction, and the simple, grounding joys that anchor her even in the most demanding seasons of life. This is a conversation about resilience, beauty, and what food can teach us about showing up fully... for our communities and for ourselves.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction 03:26 Discovering a passion for culinary arts 07:32 Food as theater and art form 09:02 The physicality and teamwork in the culinary world 12:11 The evolution of California cuisine and women chefs 17:08 Inspiration from art, travel, and culture in cooking 20:24 The creative process in pastry and savory dishes 22:31 Documenting the pandemic's impact on chefs 28:21 Concerns for mental health and community support 30:40 The story of the date spirit and innovation in spirits 37:22 Using spirits in cocktails and mindful drinking 39:11 Food rescue and reducing waste 45:21 The diversity of food and the importance of variety 48:18 Simple joys and gratitude in everyday life 51:05 Family, community, and appreciating the moment 53:48 Connecting with the audience and closing remarks   More about Elizabeth Falkner Elizabeth Falkner is an award winning chef who worked her way up in fine dining and then owned restaurants in San Francisco and then moved to open others in New York. She continues to cook at Food & Wine Festivals, fundraisers, and other events and has cooked for countless celebrities and personalities across multiple platforms.   Elizabeth works also as a recipe/formula developer/consultant on projects and brands such as Molino Bianco/Barilla, Starbucks, Hershey, Pepsi, Compass Group, Nestle, Cliff Bar, Mondalez, Wrigley’s, Quaker, General Mills, Emmi Cheeses fromSwitzerland, M&M/Mars, Behave Candy, and more.   She has appeared on television on multiple networks and all of the cooking competition reality series for the last twenty years and is a world recognized pioneer and leader in culinary. Chef Falkner is a fitness advocate and loves playing sports and staying “Fit to Cook” and continually speaks to working on life balance in the industry.   She’s an author of three cookbooks, she cooks, speaks and teaches all over the world. She currently serves on the board of trustees of the James Beard Foundation and serves as the chair of the JBF awards committee. She’s on the culinary councilof City Harvest, NYC and Forever Oceans.   In 2020 she re-located to Los Angeles and produced and hosts a documentary called, “Sorry We’re Closed”, which made festival circuits and won Best Documentary Feature at Pasadena Film Festival 2023, streaming on Apple TV and Amazon Prime. Elizabeth and her partner, Heather Freyer founded T’MARO Brands Inc. and launched three innovative alcohol beverage products in 2024. T’MARO Amaro, T’MARO Eau de Vie and T’MARO Cacao Nib. All made with organic California dates. Connect with Elizabeth: Instagram: @cheffalkner @drinktmaro Countdown Boxing Club LA with Ariel Connect with Melanie ⁠⁠Work with Melanie Download How toConsciously Create a Life of Joy Here

    56 min
  2. Whitney Dawn Pyles: Connection and Joyful Sobriety

    Jan 27

    Whitney Dawn Pyles: Connection and Joyful Sobriety

    In this conversation, Whitney Dawn Pyles shares her journey of sobriety and how it has led her to a deeper understanding of authenticity, joy, and connection. She discusses thecomplexities of joy and grief, life’s transitions, the societal normssurrounding alcohol, and the importance of creating spaces for genuine connection. Whitney emphasizes the significance of micro-practices in accessing joy and the role of dance and movement in self-expression. This is an invitation for listeners to explore their own relationships with joy, sobriety, and connection, encouraging a journey of self-discovery and authenticity.   Chapters 00:00 Trailer 02:14 Transitions and Cultivating Community 04:33 Well Blended Professional and Personal Lives 06:41 Complexities of Joy 11:31 The Return The Release The Renewal 16:05 Adventurous Spirit: Living Out of a Van 18:30 Existing Where We Are 22:28 Exploring Sobriety and Quality of Life 26:02 Sobriety As a Somatic Experience 33:01 Does Alcohol Have a Premium on Joy and Play 35:10 Impact of Imagery 37:32 Redefining Celebration and Play Beyond Alcohol 40:59 Reclaiming Authentic Connection and Vulnerability 44:29 Respect Choice. No Explanation Needed 48:14 The Role of Vulnerability in Authentic Sharing 51:43 Accessing Joy and Celebrating Life 57:31 The Power of Freeform Dance and Movement 01:02:00 Micro Practices for Cultivating Joy 01:05:29 Gratitude and the Importance of Connection   More about Whitney Dawn Pyles Whitney Dawn Pyles is a Somatic Coach, facilitator, and creator of UNSTUCK, a self-paced series of body-based practices designed to help people move through emotionaland energetic stagnancy. After years of numbing and disconnecting from herself, her sobriety journey sparked a deep devotion to authenticity, nervous system literacy, and joy as a radical choice. Through movement, 1:1 and groupcoaching, and curated community spaces, Whitney supports people in reconnecting with one another, their bodies, and what truly moves them. She believes dance is our birthright, play is medicine, and that every moment offers an opportunity to return to ourselves with more compassion, clarity, and courage.   Connect with Whitney Instagram @whitneydawnpyles SomaticSobriety UNSTUCK– A Space to Break Patterns and Build Momentum Together Connect with Melanie ⁠⁠Work with Melanie⁠⁠ Download How to Consciously Create a Life of Joy Here

    1h 10m
  3. Michelle Herndon: Send Love Into Your Day

    10/17/2025

    Michelle Herndon: Send Love Into Your Day

    This dialogue highlights the significance of creating meaningful connections and the joy that comes from building impactful connections and fostering a culture of inclusion within personal and professional relationships. They discuss the power of rituals and micro habits to guide you through each day and the beautiful connection between your physical environmentand your energy. Chapters 00:00 Welcome 01:27 A Word From Our Sponsor 02:27 Soulful and Corny Connections 03:24 Space to Feel 06:36 Set the Tone for Your Day 11:25 Send Loving Energy Into Your Day 15:13 Rituals to Guide Your Day 21:18 My Soul Nest is my Sanctuary  26:07 Beauty Through the Pain 31:17 Follow Your Energy to Find Your Moments 36:29 Natural Authentic Connection 44:41 When Things No Longer Fit 50:23 Still Relevant After 50 53:15 Appreciating Relief 55:29 Simple Pleasures in Choosing Yourself 59:43 What Wants to be Awakened Within You   More about Michelle Herndon Michelle Herndon is a prominent leader in her industry. She is best known for her meaningful insights, mentorship andleadership.  Michelle began her career in hospitality at the famed Patina restaurant in Los Angeles.  A very special time in the culinary world which has had great impact on her personal and professional life.  Before joining BOKA Restaurant Group, Michelle had an illustrious career including time spent in HR staffing, Diversity & Inclusion training for Limited Brands. Over the last decade Michelle has enjoyed a successful relationship with BOKA Restaurant Group as Director of PrivateEvents. Michelle has collaborated and created revenue generating private events programs for six restaurant openings for BOKA in the Chicago area. She is currently the Director of Culture + Community for BOKA Group, where she is furthering diversity programs and services within the company-including creating and leading mentorship program for People of Color and within the LGBTQ+ community. She is known for her ability to bridge differences and create impactful connections within her company. She leads the recruiting department for the entire group, where identifying diverse talent while ensuring equity is her company’s mission.   Michelle graduated from the University of Illinois/University of Barcelona and received a Bachelor of Arts, Spanish. She hasalso earned her Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Certification from Cornell University. She additionally spends time professional lifestyle coaching for her currently growing project SoulNest.   Connect with Michelle Instagram @TheMichelleHerndon   A Moment of Gratitude for our sponsor.⁠ Michele Aikens Connect with Melanie ⁠⁠Work with MelanieDownload How to Consciously Create a Life of Joy Here ⁠⁠Radical Love Book

    1h 3m
  4. Emmy Beeson: Releasing Toxic Productivity

    10/01/2025

    Emmy Beeson: Releasing Toxic Productivity

    Melanie Foote-Davis and Emmy Beeson explore the conceptof toxic productivity and its impact on personal and professional wellness.Emmy shares her journey from a high-pressure leadership role to embracing mindfulness and self-care, emphasizing the importance of creating conditionsfor growth and collaboration in leadership. They discuss the significance of rest, emotional health, and the need for leaders to model healthier behaviors.The conversation highlights practical tools for finding joy and gratitude in everyday life, ultimately advocating for a more harmonious and aligned approach personally and professionally.   Chapters 00:00 Embracing Change: The Passage of Time 04:03 Awareness and Decision-Making: A Shift inPerspective 08:04 Toxic Productivity: Breaking Free from the Cycle 11:01 Recognizing Patterns: The Body's Signals 14:03 Creating Healthier Work Environments 17:00 Mindfulness and Presence: The Gift of Awareness 20:07 Leadership and Cultural Expectations: A NewApproach 23:16 Transformative Experiences: Learning from Nature 26:20 Creating Conditions for Success: IntentionalLeadership 36:27 Unraveling the Knots: A Journey to Freedom 41:21 Listening to the Body: The Importance of Awareness 46:39 Creating Conditions for Growth: Leadership andResponsibility 01:00:50 Finding Joy and Gratitude: Embracing the Present 01:08:25 Building Safe Spaces: Nurturing Relationships   More about Emmy Beeson Emmy Beeson is an executive leadership coach with over 20 years of experience guiding middle and senior-level leaders to navigate change, lead with authenticity, and build high-performing teams. As a former CEO and Superintendent in both K-12 and Career Technical Planning Districts, Emmyunderstands the complexities of leadership — from managing multi-million dollar budgets to balancing community expectations — and brings that real-worldinsight into her coaching practice.   Emmy specializes in helping leaders grow their personal andprofessional wellness while building practical strategies for time management, delegation, and organizational change. Emmy is a Board Certified Coach with an Executive Leadership Coaching Certification from Bellevue University.   Her background in career-technical education gives her a unique perspective on bridging the gap between education and industry, helping leaders create meaningful change that lasts. Emmy’s passion lies in uncovering shared visions, building capacity for growth, and supporting leaders in embracingtheir authenticity.   ​Emmy holds degrees and licenses from Ohio Dominican University, the University of Findlay, and Ashland University. Whether guiding executives through organizational transformation or helping individuals rediscover theirpurpose, she is committed to equipping leaders with the skills and mindset to thrive.     Connect with Emmy Emmy Beeson, The Change Coach Emmy’s The Toxic Productivity Culture blog Linkedin.com/in/emmy-beeson A Moment of Gratitude for our sponsor.⁠ Michele Aiken Connect with Melanie ⁠⁠⁠Work with Melanie ⁠⁠Download How to Consciously Create a Life of Joy Here⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Radical Love Book

    1h 11m
  5. Barbara Burgess: Navigating Boundaries

    08/06/2025

    Barbara Burgess: Navigating Boundaries

    In this enlightening conversation, Melanie Foote-Davis and Barbara Burgess explore the themes of self-discovery, joy, and the importance of setting boundaries. Barbara shares her journey of embracing 'enough' and how simple moments, like achalk experience with children, can lead to profound insights. They discuss the power of giving and receiving, the challenges of perfectionism, and the art of saying no to create space for what truly matters. The conversation emphasizes the importance of authenticity, gratitude, and choosing joy in everyday life, encouraging listeners to embrace their own journeys of self-discovery and connection.   Chapters 00:00 The Chalk Experience: A Journey Begins 09:27 The Power of Play and Connection 14:55 Gracious Giving: Gives Back to the Giver 21:36 Courageously Vulnerable 30:36 Navigating Relationships and Boundaries 37:09 Embracing Imperfection and Growth 38:19 Sovereignty and Personal Authority 41:18 The Allure of Authentic Experience 46:28 Navigating Boundaries: The Power of No 51:39 Audit Your Energy Inventory 57:55 Delightfully Be With Other Human Beings   More About Barbara Burgess Barbara Burgess is an author, mother, executive, and unapologetic dark-chocolate lover who’s embraced the beautiful messiness of life. She founded Corluma (cor =heart, luma = light), a Chicago-based consulting firm, wrote and performed a one-woman show “The Extraordinary Experience of Being Ordinary” and most recently wrote her first book, Enough: Finding Peace in a World of Distractions, Hustle, and Expectations. Known for her humor, vulnerability, and practical wisdom, Barbara shares simple shifts to help people remember they are enough and have enough. Her ego is kept in healthy check by two teenage children and career adventures that includedselling candy bars for Nestle Foods, launching Grainger into internet commerce, a brief marketing stint at the Chicago Mercantile Exchange, and most recently overseeing operations, marketing, and finances as the COO of a non-profit. Like all of us, Barbara says, she’s still figuring it out.   Connect with Barbara Website: www.corluma.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/barbaraburgess1Book: www.beenough.com   A Moment of Gratitude for our sponsor.⁠ Michele Aiken Use code MELANIE to Save   Connect with Melanie Linkedin  Instagram YouTube ⁠⁠Work with Melanie ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Download FREE Joy Journal⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Radical Love Book

    1h 10m
  6. Michele Aikens: Rise Beyond 50: Radiant, Relevant & Reinventive

    07/30/2025

    Michele Aikens: Rise Beyond 50: Radiant, Relevant & Reinventive

    In this engaging conversation, Melanie Foote-Davis and Michele Aikens explore the themes of creativity, and the power of words. They discuss how societal expectations can limit our potential and the importance of embracing our inner compass. The conversation emphasizes that it's never too late topursue dreams, the significance of slowing down for self-reflection, and the need to challenge the 'at least' mentality. They also highlight the wisdom that comes with aging and the potential for new beginnings. Ultimately, the discussion encourages listeners to reclaim joy and freedom at any age and to create a legacy of possibilities.   Chapters 00:00 Creativity Ignited 04:14 Words as Creative Tools 06:33 Align Actions to Your Vision 07:24 From Limitations to Possibilities 10:18 Navigating the Inner Compass 13:16 The Weight of Irrelevance 16:10 Disrupting Complacency 19:11 The Power of At Least 23:16 Connecting to Purpose 26:10 Rediscovering Creativity 28:39 When Your Dreams Keep Calling 29:16 The Importance of Reflection 31:10 Your Inner Compass is Guiding Your Path 33:58 When We Risk Losing Connection 35:31 Stillness Offers Access to Your Leader Within 40:17 Trust the Beauty and Power of Rest 43:10 It's Never Too Late: Embracing Age and Possibility 51:00 Contributions to the World: Beyond Material Success 54:17 Healing Through Possibilities 58:10 Reclaiming Joy and Freedom   More about Michele Aikens Michele Aikens, MA, ACC is the CEO & Lead Coach of Clear Sight Coaching & Consulting, Inc., a certified professional coach, and a credentialed member of the International Coaching Federation (ICF). With a background in leadership,executive women’s coaching, team development, and transition coaching, Michele helps individuals and organizations navigate challenges with insight, empathy,and humor. She has worked with leaders from organizations including Chief, McDonald’s, The Obama Foundation, ThredUp, and U.S. Cellular. Beyond her coaching expertise, Michele is a transformational speaker and facilitator, helping individuals gain clarity, unlock their potential, and move toward their purpose. As an author of five books and three dramatic plays, she uses storytelling to inspire growth and change. Her life mission is to “turn onlights for people so they can see that what is in them is greater than what is around them.” Michele holds a bachelor’s degree in religious studies and a master’s degree in Organizational Leadership. She is certified by the World Business Executive Coaches (WBECs) and the Global Team Coaching Institute (GTCI) as a team coaching practitioner.   She is married to Nate Aikens, and they are the proud parents of two adult children.   Connect with Michele MicheleAikens.com connect@micheleaikens.com   A Moment of Gratitude for our sponsor,Michele Aikens Use code MELANIE to save   Connect with Melanie Linkedin  Instagram YouTube ⁠⁠Work with Melanie ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Download FREE Joy Journal⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Radical Love Book

    1h 2m
  7. Jae Gibbs: Medicine in the Slowness

    07/25/2025

    Jae Gibbs: Medicine in the Slowness

    This is a heartfelt invitation to explore the profound impact of slowing down and becoming present. Melanie and Jae Gibbs delve into the healing power of mindfulness and the wisdom found in stillness. Discover how embracing the present moment can lead to deeper connections with ourselvesand others. Learn practical ways to integrate this practice into your daily practice. Tune in for an enriching conversation that encourages you to find the medicine in slowness. Embrace the joy of being truly present.   Chapters 00:00 Connection Through Somatic Training 02:49 The Power of Space Holding 05:48 Exploring the Depth of Somatic Work 08:23 The Importance of Slowing Down 11:17 The Medicine in Slowness 14:41 Honoring Ancestral Connections 35:22 Understanding Trauma and Family Dynamics 37:48 The Role of Community in Healing 41:244 Connecting with Ancestry and Heritage 43:52 The Power of Movement and Expression 46:48 Gratitude and Connection 49:35 Choosing Joy Amidst Life's Challenges 53:14 Grief as a Portal to Joy 56:36 The Gift of Connection and Community More about Jae Gibbs Jae is a Space Holder and Somatic Companion, deeply devoted to our individual and collective freedom, through re:membering the healing and empowering embOdiment lineAges alive within us. Jae’s approach is person-centred, trauma-sensitive, ancestrally-anchored and shaped through a decolonising lens. Her practice honours each person asresourceful, creative and whole, beyond what can be seen with our eyes or spoken with our mouths. Jae offers one toone body-oriented coaching and group explorations cultivating rituals of rest, rites of being and paths of play. She supports wisdom seekers and cycle changers to re:member your truest essence and explore ways to become grounded in the guidance of your whole being.   Connect with Jae OurLivingTree.co.uk Instagram: @our_living_tree   A Moment of Gratitude for our sponsor.⁠ Michele AikenUse code MELANIE to Save   Connect with Melanie Linkedin   Instagram ⁠⁠Work with Melanie ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Download Joy Journal⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Radical Love Book

    1h 13m
  8. LeeAnn Marie Webster: Birth of Adventure Girl

    07/10/2025

    LeeAnn Marie Webster: Birth of Adventure Girl

    LeeAnn shares the importance of finding joy in simple things, the healing power of storytelling, and how embracing emotions can lead to a more fulfilling life. LeeAnn sharesher journey of creating a one-woman show, the birth of her 'Adventure Girl' persona, and the significance of taking risks. They also delve into the concept of collecting regrets as a means to fuel future growth and the practice of gratitude and presence in everyday life.   More about LeeAnn Marie Webster LeeAnn Marie Webster is the creator of No Regrets Formula™and host of the Full Self Expression Forum. She is an attorney turned international Keynote speaker, Moth Story Slam winner, and entrepreneur with 20 years’ experience in marketing and business development in a range of industries.   LeeAnn has a substantial event background, having successfully produced 130+ virtual summits and founding the largest speed dating company in Southern California. Her entrepreneurial journey started when she became the first person to host a speed dating event outside of the Jewish community, ultimately creating the largest speed dating company in Southern California (“Rapid Dating”). Her first national TV appearance was as a contestant on MTV’s Remote Control. Since then, her entrepreneurial insights have been featured in NBC, The Huffington Post, The Los Angeles Times, and dozens more. Through her No Regrets Formula, she helps women leaders find a deeper sense of connection to themselves in order to feel more engaged, increase confidence, and live a more joyful life. She is also the creator of Fancy Meeting Me Here, her inspirational one woman show.   Connect with LeeAnn https://RegretReleaseMethod.com Linkedin.com/in/leeannmariewebster Instagram: @leeannmwebster   A Moment of Gratitude for our sponsor.⁠ Michele Aiken Connect with Melanie ⁠⁠Work with Melanie ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Download Joy Journal⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Radical Love Book

    55 min

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Sprinkles of Joy is found when we get curious and choose to play in those spaces between what our heart knows to be true and what our mind is trying to reconcile. This is where yummy moments like that organically unfold through heartfelt conversations with visionary woman.