the Visible Felt Dad - empowering a Dude to be a great Dad

Robin Pullen

I am Robin Pullen, first a Dad of four kids. I also happen to be a seasoned author, coach, speaker & trainer having worked with more than 100,000 people from all over the world over the last 15 years. I aim to share tactics and tools to empower a dude who is a Dad: * to be visibly felt in the relationship with his child(ren) even when not physically present in the same space. * discover strategies to bring about healing from wounds (emotional or psychological). * to be a dude who can relate with his child(ren).

  1. 10/29/2022

    Who me, Personalizing?

    Who me, Personalizing? In this episode, we chat about the practice of personalizing and the impact that it has on your life and your relationship with your children. I wish I had known about this 30 years ago. Seriously dude so much would be different today!  = = = = = [00:30] What that looks like is "contracting" ... [01:00] The tension between that gap, was wider than I hoped  .. [01:30] A experience of disappointment or self-judgment.. [02:00] .. and because of the discomfort I experience .. [03:00] And I give that a meaning ..., a lot of shame ..  [04:00] Yeah sure, that's what many guys say on the outside, however  ..  [05:00] But when I am doing that disappointment .. [06:00] Then I see my child responding to what they see and feel .. [0700]  The primary reason for me doing that .. [08:00] And because of that fragility .. [09:00] and then allowing myself to be the smaller guy ..  [12:00] Perhaps you might be personalizing more than you realize .. . Until then, Dude, you can be a great Dad Robin = = = = = Get this episode's summary, related quotes and links here: http://visiblefeltdad.com/blog/ Did you like this? Get LIVE coaching from VFD | @thevisiblefeltdad http://visilefeltdad.com/coaching ===== FOLLOW VFD | @thevisiblefeltdad ===== On all socials where you can find me @thevisiblefeltdad YouTube Subscribe: http://j.mp/thevisiblefeltdad IG: http://Instagram.com/thevisiblefeltdad FB: http://Facebook.com/thevisiblefeltdad ===== ABOUT VFD | @thevisiblefeltdad ===== Robin Pullen is the founder of the Visible Felt Dad. Meet him at http://visiblefeltdad.com/ = = = = = If you are looking for any of the content on socials you can find it easily by searching for @thevisiblefeltdad just about anywhere. #VFD #thevisiblefeltdad #intentionalfathering #dadandlad #fatheranddaughter #fatherandson #heartofafather

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I am Robin Pullen, first a Dad of four kids. I also happen to be a seasoned author, coach, speaker & trainer having worked with more than 100,000 people from all over the world over the last 15 years. I aim to share tactics and tools to empower a dude who is a Dad: * to be visibly felt in the relationship with his child(ren) even when not physically present in the same space. * discover strategies to bring about healing from wounds (emotional or psychological). * to be a dude who can relate with his child(ren).