Maureen

Maureen Ikeh

Understanding the Concept of Will Power

  1. WHEN THE BULLY BECOMES THE BULLIED!

    06/15/2021

    WHEN THE BULLY BECOMES THE BULLIED!

    ๐–๐‡๐„๐ ๐“๐‡๐„ ๐๐”๐‹๐‹๐˜ ๐๐„๐‚๐Ž๐Œ๐„๐’ ๐“๐‡๐„ ๐๐”๐‹๐‹๐ˆ๐„๐ƒ! I remember many years ago as far back as my primary school days, I used to have a very young boy then (now grown up today) who used to intimidate me with his huge stature and afterwards bullied me with some beatings of my life whenever I crossed path with him. For no reason, he would always slap my face and made away with it. Most at times, whenever I see him coming from afar, I would ensure he didn't catch a glimpse of me. On rare occasions, he wouldn't see me and the other times, he would and then pounced on me like an hungry lion. This continued for years until one fateful night after receiving my usual night dinner from my oppressor, I cried myself home like one who had just lost a fight in a battle. Reaching home, a neighbor seeing how swollen my face had become, rushed to my aid and began questioning what went wrong. You know that point when you tried to explain a heart wrenching scenerio that played out and beads of tears won't stop stroking your face, leaving you speechless and your mouth stuck? I know you can relate well on this. ๐Ÿ˜Š This was my case, but eventually after some minutes of travail, the wave ceased and I was able to voice out, still in tears. ๐Ÿ˜ญ After narrating my ordeal to her, she wiped away my tears and then encouraged me to cry no more. She however, empowered me to stay strong and fret no more. She instilled some confidence in me and told me... "Maureen, whenever he appears again, stand up courageously for your defence and fight back like your life depended on it. Believe you me, he would flee." And that was the magic. As usual, the boy appeared again to dare me but this time I was fortified to fight back courageously. All I was targeting at was how to bring him down with all my strength. ๐‘พ๐’‰๐’†๐’ ๐’š๐’๐’–'๐’“๐’† ๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’…๐’š ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’•๐’•๐’๐’†, ๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’•๐’•๐’๐’† ๐’˜๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’“๐’–๐’ ๐’‡๐’“๐’๐’Ž ๐’š๐’๐’–. ~Pastor Emmanuel Ifeanyichukwu And so the battle line was drawn. While at it, the words of my neighbor kept ringing out loud in my subconsciousness and boom! I surmounted my giant in a blink. ๐Ÿ˜ฒ Without mincing words, that victory was what silenced him for life. ๐‘ป๐’“๐’–๐’•๐’‰ ๐’Š๐’”, ๐’˜๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’‚๐’‡๐’“๐’‚๐’Š๐’… ๐’๐’‡ ๐’Š๐’” ๐’‚๐’๐’”๐’ ๐’‚๐’‡๐’“๐’‚๐’Š๐’… ๐’๐’‡ ๐’š๐’๐’–. From that very minute, whenever he saw me, he would always pick race and run for his life. ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ Nobody taught him how to run but las las he did. Hahaha ๐Ÿคฃ I could only imagine his thought at that point... Where did this small brat got her super power from to fight him back to the point of bringing him down? I left him with his thought (who him epp? ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ) and walked away victoriously, bouncing back home like a child who won a jack pot to narrate my experience for the day. I tell you for fact, this act made him fled to God-knows-where, never to trouble my life anymore. ๐š‚๐š๐š˜๐š›๐šข๐š•๐š’๐š—๐šŽ: ๐™ต๐š’๐šŒ๐š๐š’๐š˜๐š— Wow! I know you are smiling ๐Ÿ˜Š already and perhaps wondering, how can this thing be? Now, come with me, let me show you something further. . . Truth is, life itself comes with lots of challenges in different shades and forms be it living and non-living obstacles. As you strive to climb the ladder of success, there are obstacles that would want to pose a threat at you from getting to that top. Some might come in form of oppressors just as seen in the storyline above to oppress you to the point of giving up on your goals and then they will go ahead and mock you if you eventually fail. While some might just be a financial induced stumbling block, just to make you back down on your goals. Which ever oppression it is, stand up for your defence and fight it to the very last. Giving no room to failure. In the midst of your storm, call on God to help you fight your battles. No doubt, you'll agree with me that, my neighbor in the story was my savior sent by God to help me fight back by restoring my confidence, and yes, it did work wonders. The m

    8 min
  2. HOW I OVERCAME STAGE FRIGHT

    06/09/2021

    HOW I OVERCAME STAGE FRIGHT

    ๐‡๐Ž๐– ๐ˆ ๐Ž๐•๐„๐‘๐‚A๐Œ๐„ ๐’๐“๐€๐†๐„ ๐…๐‘๐ˆ๐†๐‡๐“! Over the weekend, I was privileged to have anchored a live Youth Empowerment Program tagged: ๐‘บ๐‘ป๐‘ฌ๐‘ท๐‘ท๐‘ฐ๐‘ต๐‘ฎ ๐‘ฐ๐‘ต๐‘ป๐‘ถ ๐‘ท๐‘ผ๐‘น๐‘ท๐‘ถ๐‘บ๐‘ฌ ๐‘ญ๐‘ผ๐‘ณ๐‘ญ๐‘ฐ๐‘ณ๐‘ด๐‘ฌ๐‘ต๐‘ป somewhere in a private facebook forum and I was dazed at the height of confidence I displayed on stage which got my audience glued till the end of the program. Ordinarily, I planned for a maximum of one hour but ended up spending less time which left my audience in a state of euphoria, wondering if I was just starting. Guess what! ๐Ÿ˜ฒ Inspites I've been writing for years, that was actually my first live appearance on stage and the level of excellence spoke volume. Alright, come with me, let me show you something. . . Prior to this show, I used to be a very timid lady, reserved, an introvert to the core and one who runs away from stage presentation. At some point, I got scared of the microphone.๐ŸŽค Whenever one is handed over to me whether for song ministration or speech presentation, there's this unknown fear that would engulf me instantly. At that point in time, that is when my bladder will be crying for press release. Hahaha ๐Ÿ˜‚ Ask me, where the urge to empty my bladder is suddenly coming from, I wouldn't be able to fathom. As much as I try, I kept shying away from the stage. I rather hide under the pretence of 'I don't know how to do a thing', than facing the crowd to speak. Talk about singing confidently in the midst of my co-choristers. I will do it passionately simply because, I prefer to hide under the shadow of the mighty to facing my fears. One day, my Music Director called my attention to this in the presence of others and said... Maureen, you've got this singing potential in you, but your challenge is stage fright. When it comes to writing, you can expressly express yourself but come and sing now, you'll start fidgeting. I really want to help you become your real self and build your self confidence. And phew! The journey started just like that until when I started getting tiny fraction of compliments that I'm improving gradually. Nevertheless, I didn't stop at that. I also got the privilege to serve as a Diction Facilitator for a Diction Agency where I'm presently undergoing a 3 months intense speech training and diction polish. Which in turn has helped sharpen my voice intonation and has rebranded my speech. Upon completion, I'll be working with the Agency to train corporate firms' staff, speak at seminars and other top business parastatals. No doubt, these practices have helped instilled my self confidence. Talk about the charismatic expression, the liveliness, the joy from within, the courage, the smiles, the confidence, the outfit, the background settings and many more behind-the-scene stories made my presentation top notch and kept my audience glued till the end of the show. More so, I was able to overcome my stage fright the moment I started believing in myself and what I can do. I will always tell myself... Hello, Maureen. You can do it. If A B C and D can go live without flopping, nothing can stop you if you're focused on becoming the best. And truly, that was my reality and the beginning of my transformation. Truth is, anything is achievable, so long you're focused and intentional about growth. And today, I'm super proud of myself that my first appearance live came like a BANG. I truly love the woman I've grown to become overtime. You too can if you're ready to put in the work. To become a great writer, you must also learn how to speak. Both skills must align with each other. One must not be lacking. This is just the tip of the Iceberg. Anticipate my second live appearance for my new book coming up soon. Stay connected! Wait! Did you get value? Please, leave your feedback as always. THANK YOU! ๐Ÿ†ƒ๐Ÿ†„๐Ÿ…ด๐Ÿ†‚๐Ÿ…ณ๐Ÿ…ฐ๐Ÿ†ˆ ๐Ÿ…ธ๐Ÿ…ฝ๐Ÿ†‚๐Ÿ…ธ๐Ÿ…ถ๐Ÿ…ท๐Ÿ†ƒ W/Maureen Ikeh #Writers'Coach #LifeCoach #PurposeDiscoveryExpert #RelationshipTalkExpert #TheKing'sDaughter.

    6 min

About

Understanding the Concept of Will Power