The Inside Scoop with Anytime Soccer Training - Discussing Youth Soccer from Around the World

Neil Crawford

The Inside Scoop Youth Soccer podcast is a place where parents and coaches from around the world get together to discuss how youth soccer works in their city. Go to www.anytime-soccer.com to learn more.

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    Are we Moralizing Club's Too Much - A Reformed Parent's Perspective

    I wasn’t always the parent I am now. For years, I thought I was helping my sons by stepping in, questioning coaches, pulling them from practice for outside games, and trying to “manage” their development myself. Looking back, I can see how often I got in the way of what their clubs were actually trying to build. I meant well, but I didn’t understand the bigger picture. This episode is me owning that—and pushing back on the way we, as parents, turn every club policy into a moral judgment. Guest playing is my example, but the pattern is everywhere. Three clubs can handle it three completely different ways and still genuinely care about development. I had to learn that the hard way. I talk about the “I’m paying, so I own the experience” mindset I used to have, why I held my older son back from an academy move even when it felt uncomfortable, and the real pressures clubs face when parent factions start pulling in different directions. My message to parents is simple but not always easy: Ask the right questions before you join. Once you commit, actually commit. And if the fit isn’t right, move on without burning the place down. For clubs, be painfully clear about your policies upfront so families know exactly what they’re signing up for. Different approaches aren’t moral failures. They’re just different. And if we want youth soccer to be healthier, we need less judgment and more partnership. If you want, I can make it even more raw, more conversational, or more punchy, depending on the tone you want for the episode.

    39 min
4.5
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20 Ratings

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The Inside Scoop Youth Soccer podcast is a place where parents and coaches from around the world get together to discuss how youth soccer works in their city. Go to www.anytime-soccer.com to learn more.

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