Negotiate Your Life

Jeremy Nicks
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After nearly a decade of law enforcement both on the streets and as a crisis and hostage negotiator, Jeremy Nicks is taking what he's learned sharing it with others. Jeremy is a trauma survivor in both the emotional and physical sense. Facing childhood traumas including cancer as well as recovering and living with a PTSD diagnosis from his various life experiences. His hope is to share the hope he's discovering on a daily basis as his healing happens in real time. Real conversations on how to negotiate: Trauma, life, Marriage, Kids, Work, and everything else he runs into on a daily basis.

  1. 10/10/2022

    How To Use Grounding To Negotiate

    I never even understood what emotional grounding was. All I knew was I lived up in my head a lot.  On this episode we'll talk a little about the effects of traumas and how we can use a simple technique in a moment to get "out of our head" and back into the present when traumas have us wanting to fight, flight, freeze or fawn. It's all about 5, 4, 3, 2, 2

    18 min

  2. 09/30/2022

    Should you take a big step in your wholeness for Someone Else?

    Another authentic moment in the journey.  When I first started to negotiate my life toward wholeness I didn't want to do it.  I was actually made to do it by my wife.  She gave me the ultimatum of go or "go!" and I knew what she meant. But the question is, "Will any journey toward health work if we are doing it for someone else?"  What if the motive isn't right? That's what we'll talk about today as we Negotiate our Lives.

    13 min

  3. 09/21/2022

    Negotiating Your Life to Wholeness

    After a year of a fairly private journey toward wholeness, I've decided to return and repurpose this podcast with a new season. We're still talking about "negotiating life" but, for this next season, we will talk about the various tools I've learned to negotiate the pains and traumas of life into wholeness. I am not a therapist, nor do I play one on TV.  What I am is a man who hid or hustled until he could do neither any longer.  I have faced many of the traumas that led to a breaking point in 2021 and am ready to share the journey as well as what I've learned so far.  I have not arrived and never will.  In fact there is much pain still being healed on a daily basis. But where there are now scars or scabs instead of open wounds I will share them for the person who, like me, has been asking "What was my life supposed to be before _________". I don't know all of the answers but I do know the new ways I'm negotiating life are making life a much more joyful journey.

    13 min
  4. 018 - Negotiating Justice with Judge Rosemarie Aquilina

    06/16/2021

    018 - Negotiating Justice with Judge Rosemarie Aquilina

    This is the most exciting episode of 2021 so far! Today's guest has been featured on People Magazine, CNN, FOX, and almost every media outlet in the U.S.  She is an advocate for victims and, at times, defendants!  Judge Aquilina is famous for her handling of the nationally televised criminal case involving more than 150 USA female gymnasts who were victimized by their doctor but she is more than a one case judge. Judge Rosemarie Aquilina earned her Juris Doctorate degree from Western Michigan Thomas M. Cooley Law School in 1984 after earning her Bachelor of Arts Degree from Michigan State University in 1979. After 20 years honorable service she  as a JAG Officer she retired from the Michigan Army National Guard. After serving 4 years as Chief Judge and Sobriety Court Judge in the 55th District Court, she was elected to serve as a 30th Circuit Court where she is in her 13th year. Judge Aquilina is a Law Professor and a motivational speaker. She is the author of Feel No Evil, Triple Cross Killer and All Rise; and her memoir, Just Watch Me, was released December 2020 in partnership with Audible Reese Witherspoon. Judge Aquilina, is the mother of five children, has three grandchildren, and resides in East Lansing, Michigan.  Web site: rosemarieaquilina.com Co-host - Warrior Women Speak Podcast: www.anchor.fm/warrior-women-speak Instagram: authoraquilina Facebook: Rosemarie Aquilina Twitter: @AquiRosemarie

    34 min

  5. 06/09/2021

    Episode #17: Negotiating Offenses

    What do you do with those people who know how to push your buttons? Frustrating CustomersAnnoying Family MembersThoughtless FriendsInsert the person you immediately thought of here: ________________On this episode, Jeremy's going to share the honest truth about losing his cool after an event and how is wife @lindseynicks taught him a lesson in the middle of a rant. Learn the three tips to negotiating life when you are offended.  It's not easy but it's worth it.

    13 min

  6. 06/02/2021

    Episode #16: What's Stopping You From Connecting

    Being good does not equal making an impact.  The right words, the right content, and the right products don't mean you'll make the right connection. This week Jeremy will discuss the three reasons you may know all you need to know and fail to connect with your people. If you'll make this shift, you'll have more influence, more impact, and more of what you want out of the relationships you want. Ready to dive in and build heroic influence? jeremynicks.com to get on the waiting list for the next bridge builder academy!

    17 min

  7. 05/26/2021

    Episode #15: Negotiate Doubt

    Want to build influence, make an impact, and live out your own dream at the same time? Become a person who has faith in others.  On this episode you'll discover three keys to eliminating self doubt in the people you're connecting with. check out more at www.jeremynicks.com

    18 min

  8. 10/12/2020

    How the Biggest Month of Your Business May Not Be the Best

    September was the biggest month in the history of Jeremy's business.  In this episode he'll be honest and tell you why that doesn't equal happiness. How will you negotiate success without feeling like you're living a meaningless life? Three Ways to maintain meaning in the middle of success: RememberFocusFix Thanks for you recent reviews and comments!  Keep them coming!! Want to be a guest and share how you've negotiated life with success? connect with Jeremy here: @jeremynicks

    19 min
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After nearly a decade of law enforcement both on the streets and as a crisis and hostage negotiator, Jeremy Nicks is taking what he's learned sharing it with others. Jeremy is a trauma survivor in both the emotional and physical sense. Facing childhood traumas including cancer as well as recovering and living with a PTSD diagnosis from his various life experiences. His hope is to share the hope he's discovering on a daily basis as his healing happens in real time. Real conversations on how to negotiate: Trauma, life, Marriage, Kids, Work, and everything else he runs into on a daily basis.

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  • Creator
    Jeremy Nicks
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2022
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Jeremy Nicks
  • Show Website
    Negotiate Your Life