The Chris Geisler Podcast

Chris Geisler

A Podcast to re-direct us back into connection, with ourselves and places we go...

  1. 19h ago

    #179 - Men's Panel - We've Lost The Map Of Masculinity - Soul Revolution

    Download My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read:https://www.menofearth.co.uk/books Mens Work - https://www.menofearth.co.uk We've lost the map of masculinity, and too many men are waiting for someone else to draw a new one. I sit down in front of a live audience at Soul Revolution to work out what being a good man actually asks of us. The panel moves from the fathers and losses that shaped each man to the nice guy trap, healthy anger and the missing rites of passage between boyhood and manhood. Then the audience steps in with the harder questions: how to build this kind of community where you live, how a woman gives a man hard feedback, and how to talk about men's mental health in a family or culture that would rather hide it. In this episode you'll learn: How shame pushes men out of community, and why being seen in a circle brings them back The three layers Giles sees men thrive on: energy, brotherhood and purpose How to speak up when you see something wrong, and why healthy anger can serve justice What sits underneath the nice guy pattern, and the question that keeps men powerless Alex Dudgon is the founder of Soul Revolution, a meditation teacher and a father.IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/soul.revolution.festival/WEBSITE ▶ https://soulrevolutionfestival.com/ Jordan Johnson is a community builder and men's work facilitator at the heart of several of the UK's conscious community movements.IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/jordypjohnson/ Giles Denning built the UK's biggest physical fitness show and is now taking men's mental fitness mainstream.IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/giles_denning/ David Chambers is a dating, relationship and intimacy coach who has been coaching men for over a decade.IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ ====== CHRIS ====== IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/the.chris.geisler/WORK WITH ME ▶ https://www.menofearth.co.uk/start-here ====== SUPPORT ====== Support The Podcast ▶ https://www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram Community ▶ https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcastWhatsapp Community ▶ https://chat.whatsapp.com/EChENkePiUy1Sa1kqbKarP

    #179 - Men's Panel - We've Lost The Map Of Masculinity - Soul Revolution
  2. Oct 21

    #178 - “I Was the F*ck Boy Before I Was Spiritual” - Steve Shiva

    Download My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read: https://www.menofearth.co.uk/books This conversation is about what that mistrust costs us, and what it takes to become a man other people can feel safe around. Steve shares his path from a numb, drug and alcohol fuelled life selling real estate in Mexico to shadow work at the Osho resort in Pune, and why the men he now leads start every retreat by naming their judgments out loud. We go into humour as armour, the nice guy versus the dark masculine, what women's work actually asks of women, and what tantra really is beyond sex. In this episode you'll learn: - Why naming your judgment of another man disarms it, and how to do it - How sarcasm and jokes contract a room, and how to repair it even a year later - Why the core masculine wound is "I'm not good enough" and how separating behaviour from identity loosens it - Why pushing sexuality down makes it come out sideways Steve Shiva is a Masculine Embodiment and Truth Based Relating coach and holistic counsellor with a BSc in Psychology. He has walked the path of tantra since 2008, founded Notorious Hearts and Rites of Passage for Men, and is a cofounder of Temple Village in Ubud, Bali. Watch the full conversation on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thechrisgeislerpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 STEVE Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steve.shiva.official Temple Village: https://www.templevillage.com Notorious Hearts: https://www.notorioushearts.com CHRIS Work with me: https://www.menofearth.co.uk/start-here Men's work: https://www.menofearth.co.uk SUPPORT Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thechrisgeisler Telegram community: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast WhatsApp community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/EChENkePiUy1Sa1kqbKarP CHAPTERS 00:00 Why Steve reversed his vasectomy 05:51 Chris names his judgments of Steve 08:36 Cult leaders and men's sexual integrity 12:32 Telling a man you're judging him 15:39 Mexico, numbness and shadowy sexuality 17:37 Breaking open at the Osho resort 22:28 Why this work has to happen in community 25:17 Ask five people what you can't see 27:12 Thirty people, one after another 30:49 Humour that closes people down 33:49 The core wound: I'm not good enough 36:25 Rewards, punishment and separating behaviour from person 40:26 Who actually walks into men's work 42:40 Why you can't send your partner to men's work 45:51 Anger, alcohol and old patterns 46:59 Men's longing for physical warmth 50:49 Nice guys, pleasers and the dark masculine 55:18 Me Too and sexuality coming out sideways 57:34 The darkness we're all capable of 59:50 What women's work really asks 1:06:17 Independence and devotion to something bigger 1:07:28 Building Temple Village in Bali 1:10:58 What tantra actually is

    #178 - “I Was the F*ck Boy Before I Was Spiritual” - Steve Shiva
  3. Sep 30

    #177 - Psychosis or Spiritual Awakening? - Connor Oakaiah

    Join the FREE MASTERCLASS - Wed 7th October 8PM UK https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/nUnbPWtrSz6z0_s5JjWpmA Download My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read: https://chris-geisler.mykajabi.com/books Join Chris’s Online Mens Community: www.menofearth.co.uk/innercircle 4 days without sleep in Cambodia. A hospital bed, a diagnosis, and nine months of depression. Connor calls it the best thing that ever happened to him, and he's never told the full story until now. Recorded at Wasing Estate post Medicine Festival, Connor shares what happened when heartbreak cracked his reality open, why the hardest part wasn't the episode but having his experience denied, and what it cost him in friendships. We then follow the thread to where it led: meeting his partner, the birth of his son Nalu, and his work now supporting men through the journey to fatherhood. In this episode you'll learn: Why Connor still uses the word psychosis, and what shifted when he saw it through a different lens What it feels like when the people closest to you deny your experience, and how he came to own the harm it caused them Why freedom isn't the absence of responsibility but the choice of it ====== CONNOR OAKAIAH ===== IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/connoroakaiah/WEBSITE ▶ https://www.journeytofatherhood.org/ ====== CHRIS GEISLER ====== WORK WITH ME ▶ https://chris-geisler.mykajabi.com/start-here ====== SUPPORT ====== Support The Podcast ▶ www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerPodcast Whatsapp Community ▶ https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast

    #177 - Psychosis or Spiritual Awakening? - Connor Oakaiah
  4. Jul 1

    #174 - What Men Need Most Right now: Integration & Wholeness - Alex Lehmann

    Download My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read: https://books.menofearth.co.uk/ I sit down with Alex Lehmann for a grounded conversation on men’s work, healing, grief, embodiment, and relational leadership. Alex shares his journey from anxiety, shame, and social fear into deeper self awareness through meditation, somatic work, breathwork, and podcasting. Together they explore identity, masculine conditioning, nervous system regulation, collapse, authenticity, and what men most need today. The episode also touches on healing in relationship, integrity, and creating meaningful spaces for transformation. Key topics discussed Meditation as an entry point into self awareness Anxiety, shame, addiction, and coping strategies Grief as a missing part of modern culture Healing in relationship and men’s circles Collapse, nervous system states, and masculine conditioning Integrity, wholeness, and authentic self expression How men can work safely with anger, fear, and shame When healing becomes over analysis ====== Alex Lehmann ===== IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/alexlehmann_/ YT ▶ https://www.youtube.com/@heartofmanpodcast/ WEBSITE ▶ https://www.alexlehmann.co/ ====== CHRIS GEISLER ====== WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.com MENS WORK ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk COACHING ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk/coaching MENS COMMUNITY ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk/innercircle ====== SUPPORT ======Support The Podcast: www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast 00:00 Intro & welcome04:09 Finding connection in a disconnected world10:52 The "Knight" archetype and breaking free of conditioning12:58 Questioning identity: what serves you vs. what limits you16:44 How meditation became his first access point inward20:38 What anxiety and depression actually looked like day to day24:55 The internal narratives: "I'm not man enough," "I'm a coward"26:22 From self-criticism to self-compassion28:04 Chris's own story: self-destruction and the mirror of circumstance30:03 Awareness → acceptance → action: the role of embodiment & FBR35:02 Grief in a "griefless" culture38:17 Healing in relationship vs. healing alone41:54 The masculine edge of collapse and surrender47:46 Shadow work, opposites, and returning to balance50:01 What men need most right now: integration & wholeness58:39 How to explore anger, fear, and resentment without causing harm1:03:05 Breathwork as a tool: from box breathing to deep nervous system work1:11:03 Past hurt, future fear, and not getting stuck in the past1:14:25 The three paths: therapeutic, embodiment, and spiritual realisation1:20:39 Atlas's podcast journey: Heart of Man and the power of bold asks1:28:48 Favourite guests and episodes1:31:27 Closing thoughts: the power of questions1:32:52 Where to find Atlas / Alex Lehmann

    #174 - What Men Need Most Right now: Integration & Wholeness - Alex Lehmann
  5. May 13

    #173 - What is Fascia? Is This The Biggest Hack Of All - Joby Boughey [Pure Breathwork]

    Joby Boughey is the founder of the Pure Breathwork Academy, where he trains people to become certified breathwork facilitators through a practical method that combines breathwork, fascia release, and nervous system training. His work helps people reduce stress, release stored tension, and build a stronger connection with their body — creating real, lasting change both physically and mentally. After overcoming near-death experiences and years of personal challenges, Joby now delivers engaging, high-impact sessions and trainings designed to help people feel better, move better, and perform at a higher level in everyday life. He is the author of Pure Breathwork: A Breath Journey to Liberation, with his second book, I AM The WAY, coming soon. Whether you’re looking to improve your own wellbeing or train to help others, Joby’s approach is simple: Breathe. Move. Flow ====== Pure Breath ===== IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/purebreathwork/ WEBSITE ▶ http://purebreathwork.org/ GET HIS BOOK ▶ https://amzn.eu/d/9tHNRVJ JOIN THE PURE COMMUNITY ▶ https://tinyurl.com/skoolpureacademy ====== CHRIS GEISLER ====== WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.com MENS WORK ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk COACHING ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk/coaching MENS COMMUNITY ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk/innercircle ====== SUPPORT ======Support The Podcast: www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast

    #173 - What is Fascia? Is This The Biggest Hack Of All - Joby Boughey [Pure Breathwork]

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