LIVING MORE OF A LIFE

Jane Tarrant

This podcast aims to increase awareness on a number of issues which stop us living more of a life. Many of these topics are not commonly talked about. It will challenge what we learn from a very young age, how society dictates so much of our lives and what we can actually do to take more control. It will provide inspiration and knowledge as well as the opportunity to hear other people’s stories about what they have experienced, often silently.

  1. His Last Shave - In Memory Of My Grumpa

    02/25/2022

    His Last Shave - In Memory Of My Grumpa

    I would like to publish this in memory of my 97 year old Grumpa, Terence Colin Granville-Jones, who deserved to be loved to the end, and was. His Last Shave - An account of a granddaughter’s love When I think back now to the memories of the end, this is the last true memory of my Grumpa as the gentle, independent and fastidious man that he was: It was before his full deterioration, his mind starting to return to him and a feeling of peace for us both. I sat and watched in awe of him as he insisted on taking up his razor to shave. He was weak but determined, so with a seat in front of a filled basin, he used one hand to support his other and raised the razor to his face. He was slow but methodical, contorting his face to achieve the right tension in his skin and working with such nimble practised ease, despite his preferred blunt Bic razor, that I couldn’t help but admire him. Repressing the automatic modern response to film an achievement of a loved one, I sat fully present. Something deep inside me knew that after 80+ years this may very well be the last time he ever performs his own shave and I felt honoured to witness it. I sat patiently with love in my heart as I took in what is now one of my most treasured intimate memories of my Grumpa. As I lie awake at 3am, 7 months after the death of my beloved Grumpa, I notice as my mouth goes taut, my lower lip curls downwards and my body finally succumbs to the delayed shakes of grief. This week would have been my Grumpa’s 98th birthday and I’m so grateful he is not still here to witness it.  I say witness it as it would have been no celebration at this point. One year ago, my Grumpa who was still independently living, turned 97 with grace and gratitude for his health and family, having moved to be close to me 17 months before. I had asked him to move close to me so that I could be a more regular support for him and enjoy as much of a relationship with him as I could. From cutting his hair to massaging his feet and clipping his nails, I took great pride in doing the things that meant so much to him.... [Listen to hear the rest of the account.] Written and narrated by Jane Tarrant, Founder of LiNK BREATHING  www.linkbreathing.co.uk @linkbreathing (on all social channels)

    12 min
  2. Life Changing Breathing Retraining - with Jane Tarrant & LiNK BREATHING Client

    08/17/2021

    Life Changing Breathing Retraining - with Jane Tarrant & LiNK BREATHING Client

    Breathing retraining was life changing for my client with a restricted airway and paralysed vocal chord causing breathing difficulties, snoring and sleep apnoea. As many as 25 years after his accident, he was recommended to LiNK BREATHING by his  friend (also an existing breathing and awareness coaching client), because he felt it could help him. After 25 years, he was able to not only start running but take up paddle boarding. The difference I received via text during his recent trip was, "Lost breath a few times but I have jumped back on in seconds rather than minutes." Having been forced to sleep separately on a yoga mat downstairs in order to protect his family's sleep, he has been able to return to sharing a bed with his wife and even enjoy camping without feeling embarrassed by his snoring. Previously waking every 40 minutes to 2.5 hours and being fearful to go back to sleep after waking from an episode of sleep apnoea, he now feels comfortable sleeping through the whole night, averaging 7.5 hours without waking. This is without the use of a CPAP machine. Energy is now a norm, not a luxury. Relationships have improved. My client is now living a "More happy and healthy life. More positive and hopeful life." Can it really be as simple as retraining your breathing? Yes it can. For some it is a massive missing piece. For others it is an accessible starting point to improve other health foundations via better awareness. What is breathing retraining? Breathing retraining with LiNK BREATHING is the process of taking breathing habits back to basics, improving awareness, addressing unhealthy habits and gradually training new healthier breathing habits over time. Conscious breathing habits then influence subconscious breathing habits, resulting in powerful changes to mood, productivity, sleep, concentration, physical performance and relationships. What are unhealthy breathing habits? Mouth breathingSnoringSleep ApnoeaOver breathing or hyperventilationShallow breathingFast breathingUpper chest breathing during restRestricted diaphragm breathing Intermittent breathingRegular sighing or yawningRegular stress breath holding e.g. during emails ' aka email apnoea'We breathe more than 20,000 times per day. Imagine if those 20,000 were just slightly healthier each time. That is incremental improvement with very little effort. How do I know if LiNK BREATHING could help? Book a free 20 minute call via www.linkbreathing.co.uk for a free assessment. How much does breathing retraining cost? LiNK BREATHING is aware that not everyone has the same means or available time. Each client will receive bespoke advice as to the most cost effective or efficient route for them, based on their needs and situation. With options of varying price ranges, there is always an option to suit.

    24 min
  3. Maisie Hill - Power Of Knowing Your Cycle & Yourself

    10/26/2020

    Maisie Hill - Power Of Knowing Your Cycle & Yourself

    I have benefitted personally from the work that Maisie Hill has put into educating herself and others on the menstrual cycle. In this conversation I share how her book, Period Power, acted as a catalyst for increased self-awareness and educated me on how my menstrual cycle provides the opportunity to achieve great things but also requires self-care at the appropriate times.  Having recently recovered from chronic fatigue, I look back on my journey of recovery starting with an all important habit of tracking my body and mind. Even during my fatigue, I was able to better navigate life, making the most of my changing creativity and know when to drop the housework duties. We think because we go through it and experience it that we know enough about it. This isn’t the case when it comes to our menstrual cycle. So many of us live without the self-awareness, knowledge or compassion to live more of a life. Do you know why you pick fights with your partner near to your period? Do you realise that you secretly want to be alone? Maisie mentions during our conversation that her clients who track are more self-compassionate. I start by asking Maisie about period pain which she experienced. Period pain is common, but not normal. It is normal to experience some discomfort or mild cramping but not pain which interferes with daily life.  We talk about existing and past menstrual education and focus on avoiding pregnancy, where we miss out on how to use the cycle as a tool and how we can care for ourselves throughout the cycle. It can improve our relationships, creative process and careers if better understood. Again, I have experienced this first hand. We discuss the difference between menstruating and pregnancy or breastfeeding where knowing how to self care and how to plan our time can be challenging because we lose our anchor. Maisie was so pleased when she finally started menstruating again. The knowledge of the cycle allows us both to identify when we need to be alone. It has improved our relationships through being able to clearly communicate. We discuss the pill. We discuss how it stops you ovulating when taking the combined pill so you don’t have a menstrual cycle. The period you experience is only a withdrawal bleed. We discuss how the pill can dampen down our experience of life. It can be a positive or negative depending on who we are.  Finally, we recognise and share that it is a personal choice and only the woman taking the pill or choosing not to take it can decide what is best. The issue is, most of us don’t have the knowledge to make an informed decision. There should not be judgement or regret based on our own or others’ decisions. It is however important to educate ourselves and others on the important topic of menstruation and not shy away from it. With this knowledge, society’s influence as it is today will change to a more positive one surrounding periods and the menstrual cycle.   If you decide to buy Period Power, join the Flow Collective or find another way to learn, you too can enjoy the power of knowing your cycle and yourself. Maisie Hill can be contacted via: Website: www.maisiehill.com Instagram: _maisiehill_  Facebook: Maisie Hill In case you are also interested, here’s a link to The Flow Collective. For links to her book Period Power or that of The Red School - Wild Power, visit https://www.canidoitmyself.com/living-more-of-a-life-podcast/power-of-knowing-your-cycle-and-yourself I'm giving away at

    54 min

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This podcast aims to increase awareness on a number of issues which stop us living more of a life. Many of these topics are not commonly talked about. It will challenge what we learn from a very young age, how society dictates so much of our lives and what we can actually do to take more control. It will provide inspiration and knowledge as well as the opportunity to hear other people’s stories about what they have experienced, often silently.