Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

James Preece
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Love Machine is the dating, relationship and confidence podcast hosted by James Preece, the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert with over 21 years of experience helping singles and couples create better love lives. Each week, James explores fun, honest and practical ways to bring more love into your life, whether that means finding the right person, feeling more confident, improving your relationships, or simply enjoying life a little more. If you are single, dating, using dating apps, recovering from heartbreak, confused by mixed signals, dealing with red flags, trying to understand attachment styles, or wondering why modern dating feels so complicated, this podcast is here to help. With over 300 episodes, Love Machine is packed with dating advice, relationship advice, expert interviews, real stories, mindset shifts and simple tips you can actually use. You’ll hear from dating experts, relationship experts, matchmakers, coaches, authors, therapists and brilliant guests who all have something useful, funny or inspiring to share. From online dating, first dates, flirting and attraction to confidence, self-love, compatibility, breakups, communication, personal growth and living your best life, James brings warmth, humour and expert insight to help you date smarter, connect better and feel more hopeful about love. Tune in now if you are ready to find love, love yourself and learn to love your life. Send me any questions/suggestions to info@jamespreece.com ! Follow James on Instagram @jamespreececoaching and check out his website at https://www.jamespreece.com.

  1. How Women Can Break Trauma Bonds, Trust Themselves Again, And Finally Find Healthy Love

    11h ago

    How Women Can Break Trauma Bonds, Trust Themselves Again, And Finally Find Healthy Love

    Are You Mistaking Emotional Chaos For Chemistry? Join James Preece, the UK's leading Dating Coach, as he sits down with Sarah Harkness for a refreshingly honest chat about dating after trauma. If you've ever wondered why you keep falling for the wrong type or struggle to trust yourself after a painful breakup, this episode is essential listening. You'll hear Sarah's unfiltered journey through her own relationship patterns, discover why safe love can feel boring, and find out exactly how to spot the difference between true chemistry and old chaos. From spotting trauma bonds to journaling, self-awareness, and learning how to regulate your nervous system, "dating after trauma" is the focus throughout. Sarah even finishes with a beautifully calming guided visualisation you can use before your next first date. If you want a new perspective on dating after trauma, don't miss this episode. Hit play and get ready to transform how you approach love. About Sarah https://www.austinelitematchmaking.com https://www.instagram.com/austin.elite.matchmaking/ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    37 min
  2. The Red Flags You’re Ignoring Aren’t Small - They’re Training You to Betray Yourself

    Jun 1

    The Red Flags You’re Ignoring Aren’t Small - They’re Training You to Betray Yourself

    Is That Really a Red Flag or Just Your Nervous System Sounding the Alarm? This week on The Love Machine Podcast, James Preece sits down with the brilliant trauma-informed relationship recovery coach and author, Romilly Golding, for an eye-opening episode all about spotting the true relationship red flag before it's too late. Have you ever caught yourself making excuses for that subtle criticism or those "harmless" jokes? You won't want to miss Romilly Golding reveal the unexpected red flags that people often miss - like sleep deprivation sabotage and sneaky patterns of control - and why they matter more than you think. Dive into the psychology of toxic relationships as James Preece and Romilly Golding discuss why leaving isn't simple, how people pleasing starts in childhood, and why true healing is a bold act of self-reclamation. Plus, you'll get powerful tips to rebuild your confidence, spot the earliest red flag in dating, and discover the biggest green flag for your next relationship. Ready to change the way you see the red flag forever? Hit play and start building more love and safety in your life today. About Romilly www.romillygolding.com About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    29 min
  3. The Stylist’s Secret: Easy Ways To Instantly Elevate Your Look And Boost Attraction

    May 25

    The Stylist’s Secret: Easy Ways To Instantly Elevate Your Look And Boost Attraction

    What Does Your Personal Style Say Before You Even Say Hello? Get ready to unlock the secret to instant attraction in this energising episode of The Love Machine! This week, James Preece sits down with personal stylist and colour analyst Jo Novak to reveal how the right style changes can transform your love life before you ever open your mouth. The hot topic? Personal Style - and how it’s your ultimate dating game-changer. Discover why wearing the wrong colours might make you look tired or even unwell, and why something as simple as choosing an analogue watch or the perfect belt can totally upgrade your first date look. Jo Novak shares jaw-dropping stories - like spending half a million pounds over a lifetime just trying to crack your personal style - and provides surprisingly simple tips you can use today to look more attractive and confident. Curious why black isn’t the solution for everyone, or how a fresh style can boost your dating profile and your everyday confidence? You’ll hear the psychological science behind first impressions and find out what accessories, grooming habits, and outfit combos make the biggest impact. Whether you’re heading back out there, ready to reinvent your wardrobe, or just want to feel your best, this is the episode you cannot miss. Click play and let the magic of personal style work for you! About Jo Jo Novak - is a House of Colour Franchise Owner and expertly trained Personal Stylist and Colour Analyst, specialising in Client Transformations based on colour and style analysis. Jo guides clients to refine their image, strengthen their confidence, and express who they are through intentional, flattering style. https://www.instagram.com/houseofcolour_jonovak/ ************************************************************ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    35 min
  4. The Dating App Mistakes That Are Quietly Costing You Great Matches

    May 18

    The Dating App Mistakes That Are Quietly Costing You Great Matches

    Ever Wonder Why Dating Apps Can Feel Like Romantic Slot Machines? Ready to crack the code on dating apps? In this episode, James Preece gives you the insider advice you wish you’d known before your first swipe. Discover the dating app mistakes that might be quietly killing your chances at finding love, from bland bios to lukewarm selfies that do you zero favours. You’ll laugh, nod and maybe cringe a little as James reveals what really makes a dating app profile stand out and why “fine” is the enemy of attraction. Packed with fun real-life examples and witty, practical coaching, this episode will completely change how you see dating apps. Whether you’re a seasoned swiper or thinking about giving dating apps another go, tune in for straightforward tips that will instantly level up your success. About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    26 min
  5. Your Dating Profile Photos SUCK - Simple Fixes That Get More Matches

    May 11

    Your Dating Profile Photos SUCK - Simple Fixes That Get More Matches

    Do Your Dating Profile Photos Really Show Who You Are? If you've ever found yourself wondering why your matches just aren't happening, this episode of The Love Machine podcast has the answer. Join James Preece as he welcomes professional photographer Stacey Ivy to dive deep into the world of dating profile photos - the secret weapon that can make or break first impressions. Discover what makes a photo truly stand out, why so many singles sabotage their chances with blurry bathroom selfies, and how to create pictures that spark conversation (not confusion). Stacey Ivy shares stories of bizarre landscape shots and Halloween outfits that send all the wrong signals, while James Preece reveals the one surprisingly powerful trick for boosting your dating success. If you're ready to find out the best ways to look confident, approachable, and genuine, tune in for practical tips that could totally transform your dating journey. Whether you're a seasoned swiper or brand new to dating apps, you'll walk away inspired to upgrade those dating profile photos - and maybe land your next great match. About Stacey https://www.staceyivyphotography.com/ https://www.instagram.com/staceyivyphotography/ ************************************************************ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    33 min
  6. Why Smart Singles Are Mixing Matchmakers And Dating Apps To Find Love Faster

    May 4

    Why Smart Singles Are Mixing Matchmakers And Dating Apps To Find Love Faster

    Are Dating Apps Really the Secret Sauce to Finding Love? On this episode of The Love Machine, James Preece sits down with top matchmaker and online dating app expert Hayley Hurst for a smart, lively deep dive into the world of modern matchmaking. They dig into how blending matchmaking and dating apps can be a game-changer for singles who are tired of endless swiping and digital dead ends. Tune in to hear how Hayley Hurst transforms online dating with her "dating app takeover" strategies, the wild mistakes people make on their dating app profiles, and why a single bad photo can sabotage your chances. You'll also get the inside scoop on whether AI is a dream or a disaster for your dating app journey, and how staying positive gives you a real edge. If you're curious about how to actually get more from online dating and matchmaking, or just want to hear hilarious and true stories from the front lines of finding love, this episode will give you actionable tips and plenty of laughs. Get ready to rethink how you use dating apps - you might just uncover the real secret to meeting your match. About Hayley https://www.cohengrayconnections.com/ https://www.instagram.com/cohengrayconnections/ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    37 min
  7. Swiping is Dead! How Singles Events Are Making Dating Human Again

    Apr 27

    Swiping is Dead! How Singles Events Are Making Dating Human Again

    Do You Wish Dating Events Actually Led To Real Connections? Tired of endless dating app swipes that go nowhere? In this lively episode of The Love Machine, James Preece chats with singles event expert Jema Avedian, founder of DateWildly, to reveal why dating events are making a big comeback. Find out how you can meet singles in a fun, relaxed setting - and finally get the follow-through you crave with DateWildly's game-changing post-event matching feature. You'll discover the truth about the rise of dating events, why personality makes a bigger impact than profile pictures, and how to make the most of any singles night, even if you show up alone. Hear about everything from sober speed dating to hilariously memorable event mishaps - plus how to build your own network of single friends along the way. Ready for some inspiration before your next night out? Pop in your headphones and learn why singles events could be your new secret dating weapon. Listen now to get all of James Preece's expert tips and Jema Avedian's inside scoop on what really works. About DateWildly https://www.datewildly.com/ https://www.instagram.com/datewildly/ ************************************************************ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    36 min
  8. Ethical Non-Monogamy EXPOSED: How To Build Exciting, Guilt-Free Relationships

    Apr 20

    Ethical Non-Monogamy EXPOSED: How To Build Exciting, Guilt-Free Relationships

    Is This Freedom or Just Chaos - Could Ethical Non-Monogamy Be for You? Get ready to dive into the world of ethical non-monogamy as James Preece welcomes the brilliant Daniella Guimaraes, founder of Velvet Ties - the world's first ethical non-monogamy matchmaking service. This episode is packed with playful curiosity and real answers on why more people than ever are exploring ethical non-monogamy. Wondering about jealousy, boundaries, or the infamous "kitchen table polyamory"? Daniella Guimaraes reveals how Velvet Ties is serving up a new kind of relationship adventure - from globe-trotting, heart-opening events to matchmaking that's all about consent, honesty, and meaningful connection. You'll hear stories of real couples, throuples, and curious singles finding their way in a judgement-free community. Whether you're ENM-curious or simply want to up your relationship game, tune in for loads of insight and some candid talk on sex, intimacy, and why honesty matters more than any Hollywood fantasy. Curious? So are we. Press play and find out if ethical non-monogamy could change your view on love forever. About Daniella  www.velvetties.com  WHATSAPP GROUP https://www.instagram.com/velvetties_/ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 21 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    34 min
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Love Machine is the dating, relationship and confidence podcast hosted by James Preece, the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert with over 21 years of experience helping singles and couples create better love lives. Each week, James explores fun, honest and practical ways to bring more love into your life, whether that means finding the right person, feeling more confident, improving your relationships, or simply enjoying life a little more. If you are single, dating, using dating apps, recovering from heartbreak, confused by mixed signals, dealing with red flags, trying to understand attachment styles, or wondering why modern dating feels so complicated, this podcast is here to help. With over 300 episodes, Love Machine is packed with dating advice, relationship advice, expert interviews, real stories, mindset shifts and simple tips you can actually use. You’ll hear from dating experts, relationship experts, matchmakers, coaches, authors, therapists and brilliant guests who all have something useful, funny or inspiring to share. From online dating, first dates, flirting and attraction to confidence, self-love, compatibility, breakups, communication, personal growth and living your best life, James brings warmth, humour and expert insight to help you date smarter, connect better and feel more hopeful about love. Tune in now if you are ready to find love, love yourself and learn to love your life. Send me any questions/suggestions to info@jamespreece.com ! Follow James on Instagram @jamespreececoaching and check out his website at https://www.jamespreece.com.

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