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The weekly podcast of Belay Church in Boulder, Colorado. Learn more at http://belay.church

  1. 150 | Who Started It? (Doesn't Actually Matter)

    FEB 15

    150 | Who Started It? (Doesn't Actually Matter)

    In this message, Pastor Paul Durbin walks us through Jesus’s clear, practical steps for Christlike conflict resolution—and lovingly dismantles our excuses for avoiding tough conversations. Whether you’re the one who caused harm or the one who’s hurting, Scripture calls us to be the peacemakers. Pulling from Matthew 5 and Matthew 18, Paul outlines Jesus’ four-step process and contrasts it with how the world typically handles conflict (hint: we tend to do it backwards). Through humor, wisdom, and even a personal story about someone who went from critic to biggest supporter, this message is a timely call to courage, reconciliation, and living differently in a culture that cancels far too quickly.

  2. 149 | Can I Be Candid?

    FEB 8

    149 | Can I Be Candid?

    In this message, Pastor Paul Durbin challenges us to speak with “Christ-like candor”—where our words carry both truth and love. Pulling from Ephesians 4:15, we’re reminded that real growth happens when we communicate with kind clarity. In a world where people swing between coddling, cruelty, and caustic comments, Jesus invites us to be different. This teaching gives us a blueprint for having hard conversations well—including how to speak up when it would be easier to stay silent, and how to speak kindly when it would be easier to just “drop the truth.” It’s part of our Relationship Repair series, and it’s all about becoming people who bless others with our words.

  3. 148 | What Happens When You Say "Yes" to God?

    FEB 1

    148 | What Happens When You Say "Yes" to God?

    In this powerful testimony message, Paul and Patty Durbin share the remarkable story of how God called them from Beijing, China to Boulder, Colorado to start a church. From unexpected dreams to middle-of-the-night confirmations, to TV movies, kid’s drawings, and even a talking fish—this message is filled with moments that reveal just how personal and persistent God can be when He's leading us into something new. Through it all, Paul and Patty remind us that when we delight in the Lord, He not only gives us new desires—He plants them inside us. And when we follow His lead, He takes care of the details.

  4. 147 | Why Is Saying “I’m Sorry” So Hard?

    JAN 25

    147 | Why Is Saying “I’m Sorry” So Hard?

    This week at Belay, Pastor Paul Durbin continues our “Relationship Repair” series by unpacking the power of repentance. Building on last week’s message on forgiveness, Paul tackles what it means to take ownership when we’re the ones who messed up. Using stories like Zacchaeus, the Corinthians, King Saul, and the Prodigal Son, we’re reminded that true repentance isn’t just about feeling bad—it’s heartfelt sorrow that leads to real change. Whether we’ve been sitting in shame, living defensively, or just quietly complying to avoid conflict, God invites us to come clean and come close—to Him and to each other. Real healing starts with real repentance.

  5. 146 | What Is Forgiveness, and How Can I Do It?

    JAN 18

    146 | What Is Forgiveness, and How Can I Do It?

    In this message, Pastor Paul Durbin explores the deep, messy work of forgiveness through the lens of Jesus’ parable in Matthew 18. Using real-life stories, biblical teaching, and a practical heart-posture matrix, Paul reminds us that forgiveness isn’t about keeping tally—it’s about living free. Forgiveness means canceling the debt and keeping our hearts open, even when trust is broken or repayment never comes. It’s not easy, but it reflects the massive mercy God has shown us. Whether you’re ready to forgive or still healing, this teaching will help you take your next step toward peace and freedom.

  6. JAN 11

    145 | How Can We See God's Guidance?

    In this message, guest Michi Sigloch shares a powerful and personal story of how God guided his family through a season of major life decisions—leaving a job, coming to Boulder, and stepping into the unknown. Through Scripture and story, Michi shows that God is always speaking and leading, even when the way forward isn't clear. From Israel's pillar of cloud, to the voice of the Good Shepherd, to the quiet nudging of the Holy Spirit, God's guidance is available to every believer willing to pause, listen, and trust. This is a message for anyone standing at a crossroads and wanting to know: how do I follow God here?

  7. 144 | Is It Ok if I Get Some Rest?

    JAN 4

    144 | Is It Ok if I Get Some Rest?

    In this message, Pastor Paul Durbin presses pause on our relationship series to ask a simple but deeply spiritual question: “Is it okay if I get some rest?” Drawing from Genesis, Exodus, the Gospels, and Acts, Paul shows that rest isn’t just allowed—it’s actually the first spiritual discipline God teaches His people. From Adam’s very first day on Earth to the early Church in Acts, rest is a rhythm that reveals trust, identity, and God’s invitation for deeper connection. You’ll walk away with practical ways to make rest a regular rhythm this year—and be reminded that you are not a slave, but a son or daughter who can truly trust your Father.

  8. 143 | What Is Mercy, and How Do I Show It?

    12/28/2025

    143 | What Is Mercy, and How Do I Show It?

    In this powerful message, Pastor Paul Durbin unpacks one of the most underrated gifts we can give in relationships: mercy. Using a birthday-ticket story that turned into an unexpected encounter with grace, Paul guides Belay’ers through a biblical lens of undeserved kindness. Mercy isn't earned or deserved—and yet it's what God extends toward every single one of us through Jesus. This teaching looks at how we can reflect that same mercy in our closest relationships, even when it's hard. Through Scripture, real-life honesty, and a quadrant model, we learn to avoid manipulation, punishment, and bribery—and instead become people defined by compassion. Mercy changes everything.

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The weekly podcast of Belay Church in Boulder, Colorado. Learn more at http://belay.church

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  • Creator
    Belay
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    150
  • Rating
    Clean