Sex in Spanglish

Ana Lopez, MSW, MEd
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Mind-blowing sex on demand that doesn’t rely on your partner. Curated for la mujer Latina exploring pleasure on her own. Hosted by Ana Lopez, MSW, MEd — proud Latina, sexologist & sex coach. Ana empowers mujeres to own their desires, rewrite sex-negative stories, and make pleasure in the bedroom non-negotiable. Every episode gives you practicable tips you can use tonight. And, if you’re ready for long-term change, Ana’s Mind-Blown Method™ and 1:1 coaching will guide you to make them effortless, every single time. Listen weekly. Experience mind-blowing sex on demand - sin vergüenza.

  1. 04/28/2025

    "I Love Sex, and I’m Tired of Feeling Ashamed": One Latina’s Journey to Sexual Freedom

    57 | "I Love Sex, and I’m Tired of Feeling Ashamed": One Latina’s Journey to Sexual Freedom Episode Summary: Respect your elders. Stay quiet. Don't ask for too much. Sound familiar? In this episode, I sit down with Yesenia to call out the cultural guilt that's been keeping us silent in and out of the bedroom — and show you what it actually looks like to reclaim your pleasure sin vergüenza. What You'll Learn: How "respeta" culture kills your voice in bed Why guilt and exhaustion block your desire How to stop overthinking during sex Why planning sex makes it hotter — not boring Celebrate my Golden Birthday with me: https://sexinspanglish.hbportal.co/public/67f2e9843d210000258ccdad Resources & Links: Come get coached on the podcast! Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about. How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers Let's Connect: Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence. Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    51 min

  2. 04/21/2025

    [Re-Release] A Mí No Me Pides Nada: How It Still Shows Up (And What I Do Now)

    56 | [Re-Release] A Mí No Me Pides Nada: How It Still Shows Up (And What I Do Now) Summary: In this re-release of one of our most listened-to episodes, I revisit A Mí No Me Pides Nada. I share how this dicho still rears its ugly head and how I handle it years later. From staying quiet during painful pelvic floor therapy to letting $40 charges slide, this episode is all about how this cultural messaging still sneaks into our everyday decisions—and what it looks like to actually do something about it. Whether you’ve heard it before or are brand new to this convo, this episode is a must listen. What You’ll Learn: How the dicho “A Mí No Me Pides Nada” shows up long after childhood What it looks like to ask without follow-through (and why that matters) The connection between cultural messaging and people-pleasing Real-time tools to help you stop abandoning yourself in the moment Celebrate my Golden Birthday with me: ⁠https://sexinspanglish.hbportal.co/public/67f2e9843d210000258ccdad⁠ Resources & Links: Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) ⁠here⁠ ⁠Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip⁠ - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about. ⁠How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers⁠  Let's Connect: Share this episode with una amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza Follow me on Instagram⁠ ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence. Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the⁠ ⁠anonymous question box⁠⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    48 min

  3. 04/14/2025

    Why You Don’t Ask for What You Want During Sex—And How to Start

    55 | Why You Don’t Ask for What You Want During Sex—And How to Start If asking for what you want in bed feels awkward even with a supportive partner, you’re not alone.  In this episode, I break down exactly why it feels so awkward. Hint: it has to do with dichos like “A mí no me pidas nada” and “Just don’t get pregnant.” I’m reading from my free ebook Just Don’t Get Pregnant and Other Dichos, sharing TikTok comments that share experiences from women just like you, and giving you coaching tools to start shifting the way you show up - in and out of the bedroom. What You'll Learn: How childhood dichos shaped your relationship with giving and receiving - in and out of the bedroom Why you feel weird/awkward asking for what you want and asking for help Simple mindset shifts to help you feel more comfortable asking for what you want The one question to ask yourself that starts to break generational shame for good Come Celebrate My Golden Birthday With Me: https://sexinspanglish.hbportal.co/public/67f2e9843d210000258ccdad Resources & Links: Just Don't Get Pregnant & Other Dichos: subscribepage.io/LatinaGuide Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about. How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers  Let's Connect: Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence. Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    33 min
  4. Why Sex Should Never Be Painful: Causes & Solutions You Need to Know

    04/07/2025

    Why Sex Should Never Be Painful: Causes & Solutions You Need to Know

    54 | Why Sex Should Never Be Painful: Causes & Solutions You Need to Know Sex should never be painful—period. In this episode, I break down the most common causes of painful sex and how to solve for it. Whether it’s pelvic floor tension, vaginal dryness, trauma, or hormonal changes, we’re getting to the root of what’s going on and what you can do about it. PLUS: I’m sharing all the juicy details of my Golden Birthday Special—including 5 private calls, a 90-minute orgasm technique intensive, and lifetime access to Operation Orgasm, all for just $555. What You'll Learn: Why painful sex is never “just part of the deal” What your body is really trying to tell you through pain How pelvic floor tension affects your sex life—and how to release it Why Kegels might actually be making things worse How to know if your vaginal dryness is hormonal, emotional, or hydration-related When to see a pelvic floor therapist (and how to make it affordable) How trauma shows up in the bedroom—and what kind of support actually helps Why hydration, arousal, and lube are your besties Celebrate my Golden Birthday with Me: https://sexinspanglish.hbportal.co/public/67f2e9843d210000258ccdad Resources & Links: Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about. How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers  Let’s Connect:Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence. Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    28 min
  5. Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance Pt. 2: What You’re Putting On Your Body Matters

    03/31/2025

    Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance Pt. 2: What You’re Putting On Your Body Matters

    53 | Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance Pt. 2: What You’re Putting On Your Body Matters Episode Summary: In this second part of the vulva hygiene and vaginal maintenance series, we’re diving into what you’re putting on your body—and how it impacts your vulva and vaginal health. From leggings and panties to lotions and laundry detergent, I’m breaking down the everyday things that could be throwing off your balance. If you’ve ever dealt with BV, yeast infections, irritation, or just wanna take better care of your body, this episode has everything you need to know. What You’ll Learn: Why tight-ass leggings and non-breathable fabrics might be messing with your pH What to look for in panties, swimsuits, and PJs so your vulva can actually breathe Why 100% cotton matters  How your laundry detergent might be contributing to BV, yeast infections, or irritation Where you shouldn’t be putting scented lotions, oils, or creams—even if they smell bomb How to wash and dry your vulva in a way that actually supports your health Why reusing the same towel isn’t the best idea (especially if you're prone to infections) My favorite affordable vulva-safe brands  Resources & Links: Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about. How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers  Let's Connect: Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence. Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    29 min
  6. Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance: Your No-BS Guide to Feeling Good Down There

    03/24/2025

    Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance: Your No-BS Guide to Feeling Good Down There

    52 | Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance: Your No-BS Guide to Feeling Good Down There Episode Summary: If you’ve ever felt confused about how to care for your vulva or vagina (or didn’t even know there was a difference), this episode is for you.  I'm breaking down exactly what you should and shouldn’t be doing when it comes to vaginal and vulva hygiene—without shame, fear, or the medical gaslighting that so many of us are used to.  Whether you're dealing with chronic yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, or just want to feel more confident in your body, this is your no-BS guide to vulva and vaginal maintenance. What You'll Learn: The difference between the vulva and the vagina—and why it matters What actually goes inside your vagina (and what absolutely shouldn’t) How to safely use sex toys, menstrual products, and body parts The link between chronic infections and everyday habits (like what your partner eats 😳) How to support your vaginal health with food and live cultures Tips for preventing infections before they start Resources & Links: Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about. How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers  Let’s Connect: Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence. Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    18 min

  7. 03/17/2025

    Rejuvenation for Mind-Blowing Sex: The Key to Lasting Energy and Pleasure

    51 | Podcast Notes: Rejuvenation for Mind-Blowing Sex – The Key to Lasting Energy and Pleasure Episode Summary: If you’re constantly exhausted, running on fumes, and struggling to feel present during intimacy, you might be missing a key ingredient: rejuvenation. In this episode, I dive deep into what rejuvenation actually means, why it’s essential for sustaining pleasure and energy, and how to build the skill of rejuvenation into your daily life. You’ll learn how to assess your energy levels, identify what your body actually needs, and implement small but powerful changes that will help you show up fully – in and out of the bedroom. What You'll Learn: ✅ The difference between rest and rejuvenation – and why you need both✅ How to assess your energy levels using the Rejuvenation Radar✅ The four essential categories of rejuvenation: sleep, food, hydration, and hygiene✅ Why most people are running on empty without realizing it – and how to fix it✅ How to create your own Rejuvenation Recipe to feel more energized, connected, and ready for pleasure✅ The surprising connection between self-care, energy levels, and libido Resources & Links: Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about. How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers  Let’s Connect: Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence. Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    32 min

  8. 03/10/2025

    Rest for Better Sex: How Relaxation Affects Your Libido and Desire

    50 | Rest for Better Sex: How Rest Affects Your Libido and Desire Short Summary: In this episode, we explore the powerful connection between rest and your sex life. We dive into how relaxation can directly impact your libido, desire, and overall sexual well-being. Learn why relaxation isn't just about sitting on the couch but a skill that can be cultivated to enhance your intimacy. If you've struggled with turning your mind off during sex or feel disconnected, this episode is for you. What You'll Learn: The importance of relaxation in your overall well-being and its effect on your sex drive How the ability to relax can transform your sexual experiences and intimacy Why many women struggle to relax, especially if they were raised in culturally demanding households Practical tips to help you build the skill of rest and integrate it into your daily life How relaxation can help you overcome common sex-related struggles like low libido, infrequent orgasms, and dryness Resources & Links: Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about. How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers  Let’s Connect: Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence. Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    19 min
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Mind-blowing sex on demand that doesn’t rely on your partner. Curated for la mujer Latina exploring pleasure on her own. Hosted by Ana Lopez, MSW, MEd — proud Latina, sexologist & sex coach. Ana empowers mujeres to own their desires, rewrite sex-negative stories, and make pleasure in the bedroom non-negotiable. Every episode gives you practicable tips you can use tonight. And, if you’re ready for long-term change, Ana’s Mind-Blown Method™ and 1:1 coaching will guide you to make them effortless, every single time. Listen weekly. Experience mind-blowing sex on demand - sin vergüenza.

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  • Creator
    Ana Lopez, MSW, MEd
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2025
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Ana Lopez, MSW, MEd
  • Show Website
    Sex in Spanglish