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Hey gist partners, join me as we discuss everything relationships, from love, friendships, to family we talk about all of it with very interesting guests. Tag along and let’s roll

  1. FEB 14

    Body Dysmorphia, Desire & Being Loved

    Valentine’s Day can be loud. And if you’ve ever looked in the mirror and felt like your body was the reason love hasn’t found you yet… this episode is for you. We’re talking body dysmorphia, desire, being wanted but not valued, and the quiet fear of being fully seen. Why do compliments feel suspicious? Why do we accept crumbs? And why does February 14th amplify every insecurity? This is a soft, honest, slightly chaotic roundtable conversation about loving yourself in the body you have right now, not the one you’re planning for. If you’ve ever felt “not enough” but still deeply wanted to be loved… press play.

    9 min

  2. JAN 23

    Little things that are carrying me right now “Happy New Year Gistpartners”

    We’re back 😊 and we’re starting the year easy, no pressure, no stress, just real life and good energy. In this episode I’m talking about the little things that have been carrying me lately. Quiet moments, random comfort, music that feels like a hug, ordinary days that are actually doing more for us than we think. Nothing heavy, just a cozy conversation you can listen to while you’re doing your thing. If your year is starting softly or you’re just trying to take life one day at a time, come sit with me for a bit. This one feels like company

    12 min

  3. 11/21/2025

    Confusion, Control and the people we give too much power

    Sukanmi and Ini dynamic from Phases and using it as a starting point to talk about the times we let people who don’t really want us have too much power in our lives. Why do we stay? Why do we bend? Why is confusion sometimes more familiar than clarity? I also react to some of your messages: the gym guy who’s doing too much, the fiancé who makes decisions alone, the girl whose friends are somehow, and the colleague who’s oversharing to management. It’s a soft, honest, reflective conversation. Enjoy.

    15 min

  4. 11/07/2025

    Feeling stuck in your 20s: Learning to be okay with where you are

    Ever felt like everyone else is doing better than you? Or like you’re stuck in the same spot, just trying to figure life out? This episode is for you. 💛 In this honest and heartfelt conversation, I talk about comparison, jealousy, feeling stuck, and learning to trust your own timing. From navigating life changes to finding my footing in a new country, I’m sharing real experiences, gentle reminders, and practical advice to help you feel seen and encouraged. We’re getting vulnerable, real, and hopeful—because it’s okay not to have it all together. You’re not behind; you’re just becoming. 🌱

    13 min

  5. 10/31/2025

    Love and Friendship: A Delicate Balance

    The conversation explores the dynamics between friendships and romantic relationships, particularly focusing on the boundaries that should exist between friends and partners. It discusses the potential insecurities that arise when friends become too close to a partner and the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries.

    16 min

  6. 09/27/2025

    Navigating adult friendships

    In this engaging podcast episode, Tofunmi and Harriet discuss the complexities of friendships, particularly in the context of moving to a new country. They explore themes of loneliness, the challenges of making new friends, and the importance of recognizing toxic relationships. The conversation delves into the emotional dynamics of friendships, including the impact of celebrating wins and the feelings of resentment that can arise. They emphasize the need for intentionality in friendships, the balance between friendships and romantic relationships, and the significance of open communication. The episode concludes with practical advice on addressing issues in friendships and the importance of expressing love and appreciation for friends.

    59 min

  7. 09/06/2025

    We are live on YouTube Gist partners

    We finally decided to join them on the white and red app. The podcast handy really been doing well and we decided on what better way to save it than to start video podcasting. Go check out gist with tofu on YouTube Link below: https://youtu.be/roO0OgKxq1A?si=Di4rn2ks_k_dEp3w

    18 min

  8. 08/28/2025

    Every Day Was Summer: The Golden Era of 2015–2019 Nigerian Music

    2015 to 2019 was a golden era in Nigerian music, no arguments. From Mr Eazi’s Banku vibes to Runtown’s Mad Over You, Maleek Berry’s endless jams, Nonso Amadi’s soft hits, and the rise of the alte scene with SDC, Lady Donli, Odunsi, and more… every day in that period felt like summer. In this episode, I take you back to the songs that raised us, the soundtracks to our teenage years, and why that era will forever be goated. If you ever felt like the main character with earphones in your ears walking through Lagos traffic, this one’s for you. 🎶 I also created a special playlist of these throwback jams, link below and in my Instagram bio. What song from that era makes you most nostalgic? Share with me let’s reminisce together. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3OEbzPtRiA3Xfdf9EKhtlY?si=P7xmgl_ETUa3LH1LVC6bYA&pi=VfD-6zGHRFWHw

    8 min
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Hey gist partners, join me as we discuss everything relationships, from love, friendships, to family we talk about all of it with very interesting guests. Tag along and let’s roll

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  • Creator
    Favour Jesutofunmi
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    46
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Favour Jesutofunmi
  • Show Website
    Gist with Tofu