Your Secret Is Safe With Me

Dr. Marie Murphy
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Your Secret Is Safe With Me

Dr. Marie Murphy talks about infidelity and other challenging relationship situations from a non-judgmental perspective. She shares practical tools and advice from her own coaching practice to help you make changes in your love life, and interviews professionals with complementary expertise, such as family law attorneys, mediators, non-violent communication specialists, and more. In addition, Marie discusses the social and historical context of romantic relationships to provide perspective on our taken-for-granted assumptions about how relationships are supposed to be. To learn more, visit mariemurphyphd.com.

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    207. Astrology and Infidelity with Karen Hawkwood

    Have you ever wondered if your astrological chart holds clues to your relationship patterns and tendencies?    In this episode, I sit down with teacher and practitioner of archetypal astrology, Karen Hawkwood, to explore how astrology can provide valuable insights into the parts of ourselves that shape our experiences with infidelity.   Whether you're well-versed in astrology or simply curious about how it might relate to your own infidelity situation, this episode offers a thought-provoking perspective on the ways in which we can work with our inherent tendencies and needs to create more fulfilling relationships.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/207

    1h 12m

  2. JAN 2

    206. Where Do You Want to Be a Year from Now?

    What would your life look like a year from now if you resolved your infidelity situation in a way that felt really amazing to you?   Do you struggle to imagine what resolving your infidelity situation could look like? Listen in this week as I dive into the power of envisioning your ideal future and guide you through a series of prompts that will help you imagine the most delightful, satisfying resolution to your infidelity situation.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/206

    15 min

  3. 12/19/2024

    205. What Can You Give Yourself More Credit For?

    What if I told you that the key to making positive changes in your life is self-love and acceptance, not self-loathing?   It may sound counterintuitive, but giving yourself credit for what you HAVE done can be incredibly motivating, especially if you've been beating yourself up over infidelity. In this episode, I guide you through an exercise to reflect on your accomplishments, big and small, over the past year. You'll be amazed at how empowering it feels!   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/205

    17 min

  4. 12/05/2024

    204. The Challenges of Infidelity During the Holidays

    Do the holidays have you feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place in your infidelity situation? You're not alone.    Trying to balance family obligations with an affair partner's desires can seem impossible. But even when you don't like your options, you still have choices. In this episode, I explore real-world scenarios and discuss how to identify your options, make decisions you feel good about, and take responsibility for your own happiness - no matter what your affair partner or spouse does.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/204

    36 min

  5. 11/21/2024

    203. Your Money or Your Freedom

    What's more important to you - your money or your freedom?   If you're stuck in a marriage you don't want to be in but are reluctant to leave because you don't want to lose half your wealth, you're not alone. Many of my clients grapple with this dilemma.   In this episode, I dig into what money really means to you and how to weigh that against the freedom to live life on your own terms. I share strategies to get clear on your values and make empowered choices so you can start untangling your thoughts around money, marriage, and living authentically.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/203

    39 min

  6. 11/07/2024

    202. Breaking Up with Your Affair Partner

    Are you struggling with the idea of breaking up with your affair partner? How do you tell them it's over in a way that doesn't sound like an ultimatum? Is it possible to stay friends afterwards? And what if you work together - how do you navigate that?   This is a uniquely challenging situation that brings up a lot of difficult questions, but I’ve got you covered. In this episode, I provide compassionate, nonjudgmental guidance on how to end an affair relationship as considerately as possible. While it may never be easy, there are ways to make the process clearer for both you and your affair partner.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/202

    45 min

  7. 10/24/2024

    201. High-Conflict Breakups

    High-conflict breakups are always going to be tricky. And when infidelity is involved, feelings can get amplified, leading to some pretty interesting behavior. Some people have a particularly hard time when a relationship comes to an end, feeling sad, hurt, rejected, unloved, abandoned... even worthless.   So, how do you go about extricating yourself from a relationship with someone who is (to put it in the most simplistic terms) behaving very badly? Tune in this week for a conversation about dealing with high-conflict breakups where you’ll learn how to support yourself as this unpleasant situation unfolds.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/201

    33 min

  8. 10/10/2024

    200. Nostalgia

    Does your marriage or your committed relationship CURRENTLY feel like home to you? Or are you running off of memories of what your relationship once felt like to you? If you are dissatisfied with your committed relationship to the point where you’re seriously considering leaving, but you think you can’t leave because your sense of home is predicated upon you staying, I invite you to listen in this week.   Through my own nostalgia for past experiences of feeling at home, I share how to identify your nostalgia and discover where it’s coming from. You’ll learn how to navigate bewildering thoughts of wanting to leave your marriage, but not wanting to lose the sense of home you have within your marriage.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://mariemurphyphd.com/200

    42 min
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Dr. Marie Murphy talks about infidelity and other challenging relationship situations from a non-judgmental perspective. She shares practical tools and advice from her own coaching practice to help you make changes in your love life, and interviews professionals with complementary expertise, such as family law attorneys, mediators, non-violent communication specialists, and more. In addition, Marie discusses the social and historical context of romantic relationships to provide perspective on our taken-for-granted assumptions about how relationships are supposed to be. To learn more, visit mariemurphyphd.com.

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  • Creator
    Dr. Marie Murphy
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2025
  • Episodes
    207
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 MARIE MURPHY, PH.D.
  • Show Website
    Your Secret Is Safe With Me

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