Thrive: Mind and Body - Psychology and Nutrition for Complete Wellbeing

Luke and Jane Gabites

Thrive: Body and Mind is a podcast dedicated to empowering you with practical, science-backed strategies to improve both your mental and physical well-being. Hosted by a passionate nutritionist and psychologist—this show breaks down complex health topics into easy-to-understand, actionable steps that anyone can apply, no matter your background or access to professional care. Each episode offers a master-class approach, blending expert insights, relatable personal stories, and engaging conversations to help you create lasting, positive change in your life.

  1. 10/28/2025

    Breaking Free from People Pleasing

    Summary In this episode of the Thrive Mind and Body podcast, Luke and Jane get into the complexities of people pleasing, exploring its roots, impacts, and strategies for overcoming it. They discuss the importance of understanding personal values, setting boundaries, and practicing mindfulness to foster emotional well-being. The conversation emphasises the journey of learning to say no and the significance of self-care in maintaining healthy relationships. Takeaways People pleasing often stems from childhood conditioning. Understanding our values is crucial to overcoming people pleasing. It's important to recognize when we are betraying our own needs. Setting boundaries can lead to healthier relationships. Mindfulness practices can help us connect with our true selves. Learning to say no is a vital skill for self-respect. People may not always react positively to our boundaries. Self-compassion is essential in the journey of personal growth. Recognizing physical sensations can guide us in decision-making. It's a learning process that takes time and patience. Chapters 00:00 Understanding People Pleasing 05:38 Strategies to Break the People Pleasing Habit 11:01 Mindfulness and Self-Care Practices 16:41 The Journey of Setting Boundaries Resources Jane Gabites on Insight Timer: https://insighttimer.com/janegabites Jane's Sleep Course: https://insighttimer.com/meditation-courses/8-steps-to-a-more-nourishing-and-deep-sleep Luke's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@planted.nutrition

    27 min
  2. 07/21/2025

    Breaking the Cycle of Negative Thoughts

    In this episode of the Thrive Mind and Body podcast, Luke and Jane Gabites discuss the common experience of negative thoughts and anxiety, exploring the evolutionary basis for our negativity bias. They delve into the impact of stress on both the mind and body, emphasizing the importance of awareness and mindfulness in managing these feelings. The conversation includes practical tools and strategies for coping with anxiety, such as the RAIN meditation technique, and highlights the significance of physical movement in regulating emotions. The episode concludes with a reminder that it's normal to experience these thoughts and the importance of practicing self-compassion and awareness. Takeaways We all experience looping negative thoughts. The brain's negativity bias is rooted in evolution. Stress hormones affect both mind and body. Mindfulness can create distance from negative thoughts. Physical movement helps regulate stress responses. Meditation can be a powerful tool for managing emotions. It's important to challenge worst-case scenario thinking. Practicing self-compassion is crucial for mental health. Awareness of thoughts can help in emotional regulation. Regular practice of coping strategies makes it easier over time. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Difficult Thoughts 09:21 Tools for Managing Anxiety 19:00 Meditation and Mindfulness Practices Resources Jane Gabites on Insight Timer: https://insighttimer.com/janegabites Jane's Sleep Course: https://insighttimer.com/meditation-courses/8-steps-to-a-more-nourishing-and-deep-sleep Luke's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@planted.nutrition The RAIN of Self Compassion on Insight Timer: https://insighttimer.com/janegabites/guided-meditations/the-rain-of-self-compassion-2

    21 min
  3. 04/15/2025

    The Importance of Self Compassion

    Summary In this episode of the Thrive Mind and Body podcast, hosts Luke and Jane Gabites delve into the concept of self-compassion, exploring its significance in mental health and personal growth. Jane, a registered psychologist, shares insights on how self-compassion can transform the way we treat ourselves, emphasizing the importance of mindful awareness and kindness. The conversation covers practical strategies for cultivating self-compassion, addressing common misconceptions, and providing exercises to integrate self-compassion into daily life. Takeaways Self-compassion is essential for mental well-being. Mindful awareness helps us recognize negative self-talk. Common humanity allows us to connect with others' experiences. Being kind to ourselves is crucial for personal growth. Self-compassion is not about avoiding responsibilities. Practicing self-compassion can improve productivity. Breaking tasks into manageable parts can reduce overwhelm. Daily reminders can help cultivate self-compassion. We often speak to ourselves more harshly than to others. Self-compassion exercises can be integrated into daily routines. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Self-Compassion 01:31 Understanding Self-Compassion 05:52 The Importance of Mindfulness in Self-Compassion 09:31 Addressing Common Misconceptions 13:31 Practical Exercises for Self-Compassion 20:34 Guided Kind Hand Meditation Resources Jane Gabites on Insight Timer: https://insighttimer.com/janegabites Jane's Sleep Course: https://insighttimer.com/meditation-courses/8-steps-to-a-more-nourishing-and-deep-sleep Luke's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@planted.nutrition

    22 min
  4. 02/21/2025

    The Science Behind Sleep and Health

    Summary In this episode of the Thrive: Mind and Body podcast, Luke and Jane discuss the critical importance of sleep for overall health, particularly mental health. They explore various strategies to improve sleep quality, including understanding individual sleep patterns, the impact of blue light and caffeine, and the significance of a calming bedtime routine. The conversation emphasises the interconnectedness of sleep, nutrition, and mental well-being, providing listeners with practical tools to enhance their sleep hygiene. Takeaways Sleep is essential for mental and physical health. Understanding your sleep patterns can help improve sleep quality. Blue light from devices can disrupt melatonin production. Caffeine should be avoided several hours before bedtime. Alcohol can negatively impact sleep quality. Creating a bedtime routine can signal to your body that it's time to sleep. A cool room temperature is conducive to better sleep. Meditation and relaxation techniques can aid in falling asleep. Eating too close to bedtime can disrupt sleep. Regular sleep schedules support better sleep quality. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Sleep 02:42 Understanding Sleep Issues and Circadian Rhythms 09:11 Strategies for Improving Sleep Quality 18:45 Sleep Hygiene and Lifestyle Adjustments 28:15 Relaxation Techniques for Better Sleep Resources Jane Gabites on Insight Timer: https://insighttimer.com/janegabites Jane's Sleep Course: https://insighttimer.com/meditation-courses/8-steps-to-a-more-nourishing-and-deep-sleep Deep Sleep Meditation: https://insighttimer.com/janegabites/guided-meditations/longer-deeper-restful-sleep Luke's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@planted.nutrition Creating Balanced Meals: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aqThObzWtTQ

    33 min
  5. 02/11/2025

    The Power of Small Steps in Life

    Summary In this episode of the Thrive Body and Mind podcast, Luke Gabites and his mother, psychologist Jane Gabites, discuss the importance of taking small steps towards achieving goals and making positive changes in life. They explore the psychology behind habit change, the overwhelming nature of big goals, and practical strategies like the STOMP method to help listeners break down their aspirations into manageable tasks. Through personal anecdotes and client success stories, they emphasize the significance of mindfulness, self-compassion, and the power of incremental progress in fostering sustainable habits and overcoming inner criticism. Takeaways Small steps can lead to significant changes over time.Breaking down goals into manageable tasks reduces overwhelm.Mindfulness strategies like STOMP can help regulate emotions.Creating sustainable habits involves enjoying the process.The inner critic can be countered with self-compassion.Incremental progress is more effective than drastic changes.Client success stories illustrate the power of small steps.Understanding the psychology of habits aids in change.Time will pass regardless; make the most of it.Reflecting on what matters most can guide actions. Chapters 00:00 The Power of Small Steps 01:57 Understanding Habit Change 07:24 Psychological Insights on Habits 13:38 Strategies for Overcoming Challenges 17:49 Real-Life Success Stories 23:17 Taming the Inner Critic 27:42 The Journey of Progress Resources Jane Gabites on Insight Timer: https://insighttimer.com/janegabites Jane's Sleep Course: https://insighttimer.com/meditation-courses/8-steps-to-a-more-nourishing-and-deep-sleep Luke's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@planted.nutrition

    35 min

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Thrive: Body and Mind is a podcast dedicated to empowering you with practical, science-backed strategies to improve both your mental and physical well-being. Hosted by a passionate nutritionist and psychologist—this show breaks down complex health topics into easy-to-understand, actionable steps that anyone can apply, no matter your background or access to professional care. Each episode offers a master-class approach, blending expert insights, relatable personal stories, and engaging conversations to help you create lasting, positive change in your life.