Reframing our Stories: The Podcast

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Stories shape who we are and they hold a lot of power. As we navigate this world we realize that these stories need a great deal of editing. In this podcast we will examine some of these stories around sex, religion, grief, race, and joy.

  1. 1d ago

    Episode 86: Don't Be Afraid of Grief: Susan Shaw

    This podcast revisited the topic of child loss. Many people experience this, and it is a topic that too many of us don’t want to approach. Grief is something that affects us profoundly if we choose to invite it into our space and have a conversation with it. My friend Susan Shaw, also known as the Bereavement Mom, has not shied away from her grief from the loss of her son and is making it a point to help other families heal who have experienced the same loss. .   Susie Shaw is the Founder and Executive Director of William’s Be Yourself Challenge (WBYC), a nonprofit she created in honor of her son William after his death in 2019. Through WBYC, Susie works to support grieving families and build more grief-aware communities through programs, partnerships, and its flagship initiative, The Green House—a planned retreat home in Falmouth, Massachusetts, offering cost-free, restorative stays for families navigating profound loss. Susie’s work is rooted in lived experience and informed by training. She is certified in Claire Bidwell Smith’s Conscious Grieving Training and has completed Meghan Riordan Jarvis’s Grief Mentor Method. For more than six years, she has sat in support circles listening to hundreds of bereaved parents and children—experiences that shape her compassionate, peer-led approach to grief support. In addition to leading WBYC, Susie writes the Substack newsletter Dear William, where she pens intimate letters to her son reflecting on grief, memory, and continuing bonds. She has spoken about grief on podcasts and in lectures and wrote the preface to her husband Nick Shaw’s book, My Teacher, My Son. Through her writing, speaking, and leadership, Susie offers a raw yet hopeful vision of how life can be lived—and meaning rebuilt—after loss, honoring the many different ways people grieve. Susan through her work was recently interviewed in People’s magazine, NPR, New York Times, Boston Globe, Cape Cod Times, and Falmouth Enterprise.  https://www.bereavementmom.com/

  2. Aug 24

    Episode 85: Marriage 101: Dr. Andrea Gurney

    Marriage is seen as a form of rite of passage in our society. We set our systems up to benefit those who are married and much of our entertainment industry revolves around love and how we can have the end goal of being betrothaled. However, we also do very little to prepare people to enter into the commitment of forever. This is what Dr. Andrea Gurney noticed too as a couples and family therapist.    Dr. Andrea Gurney has been teaching Marriage 101 at Westmont College since 2005 and it is a class that is repeatedly full. She calls herself a “Champion for relationships.” Beyond being a professor, Dr. Andrea Gurney is also a licensed clinical psychologist and author.  She specializes in couples and family therapy and has a clinical practice in downtown Santa  Barbara.   In addition to working with individuals, couples, and families, her speaking and writing focuses on relational health and wellness. Her first book, Reimagining Your Love Story: Biblical and Psychological Practices for Healthy Relationships was the basis for her online course, Marriage Bootcamp. Dr. Gurney frequently speaks in the local community and beyond on topics ranging from Wired for Love: The Importance of Early Attachment, Marriage: What You Should Know Before You Buy or Accept The Ring, What’s Psychology Got to Do With Love?, Safety First: Talking with Children about Sex and Sexuality, Building Resiliency in Children and Adolescent, and Helping Children Cope with Trauma. Dr. Gurney, thank you for being on the show.   https://andreagurney.com/

  3. Jul 10

    Episode 84: Hungry for Hope: Kristina Frugé

    Back in 2023 I was honored to be asked to be an expert voice and contribute to the writing of a chapter in the book Hungry for Hope: Letters to the Church from Young Adults published by Eerdmans and edited by Jeremy Myers and Kristina Frugé. I contributed to the chapter called: Sex is a Gift: The Bigger Gift is Talking About It. I will tell you that I could not have done this chapter without Kristina. She was so instrumental in the entire process for all of the 22 authors involved in the project. This book, I think is so important for faith leaders to read on what many young adults are wanting in their church spaces and beyond. I invited Kristina here to talk about the project and the wisdom she had in helping to create and what she learned in the process.   Kristina has worked in ministry for twenty-five years and currently serves as the Director of Congregational and Community Initiatives, where she leads the Riverside Innovation Hub at Augsburg University in Minneapolis, Minnesota. With an MA in Congregational Mission and Leadership from Luther Seminary, she has worked alongside dozens of congregations inviting them to be curious about their call to become vital neighbors in the ecosystem of their local neighborhoods. In all her work, she aims to animate the truth of our generous connection to one another, rooted in a belief that the Holy Spirit is activated in our relationships helping us to repair, problem-solve, love and flourish. This includes her work as a mother, wife, friend and neighbor in her South Minneapolis Longfellow neighborhood, where her family has lived for over twenty years. https://hungryforhopebook.com/ https://www.augsburg.edu/riversidehub/

  4. May 19

    Episode 83: Helping Teens with Anxiety: Cynthia Coufal

    On this episode Kara talks with Cynthia Coufal who is a seasoned educator, teen anxiety coach, and the founder of The Anxiety Maze Navigator. With over 25 years of experience as a school counselor, Cynthia has a gift for helping teens and young adults understand and manage their anxiety while discovering their strengths and values. Through one-on-one coaching, she guides teens in navigating school, friendships, and the pressures of growing up with greater confidence and clarity. Her work is so important since so many teens talk about anxiety. In her classes Kara gets a lot of questions around how to help them with their anxiety. Cynthia works with families and youth to provide them with the tools they need to help them find their calm.  You can find Cynthia's work here: https://www.betterregulatethannever.com/ https://www.instagram.com/cynthiacoufalcoaching/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/cynthia-coufal-836a2236/

  5. Mar 17

    Episode 82: Play Over Perfection with Kara Latta

    Perfectionism has a way of stopping us from moving forward, going after what we really want, or not experiencing the little joys that surround us each day. In this episode Kara talks with another Kara who set out on a journey to discover how playing can help us overcome perfectionism. Adults often forget how to play with the demands of life, but play not only opens us up to new ideas, it can also heal the inner child within who often goes forgotten but is never silent. Kara teaches adults how they can tap back into their playful side and go after what they want with more clarity.  Kara Latta is changing the world with the power of play. As the Founder of The Playful Warrior, Kara helps ambitious, sensitive humans overcome perfectionism, and rediscover joy and creativity through the magic of play.  Kara is also a Certified Life & Success Coach, Clinical Hypnotherapist, chocolate chip cookie monster, dog lover, and latin & hip-hop dancer. Kara’s playful approach to healing perfectionism has resonated with thousands, and she has been featured on The Morning Show, Breakfast Television, and Shondaland. She also plays with many organizations, including Starbucks, Nestle, Lindywell, and many more. Kara’s message is that play is anything but fluffy; it’s the secret sauce to breaking free from self-doubt, unlocking your creativity, and making life more fun and fulfilling. You can learn more about her PLAYShops, courses, and coaching at theplayfulwarrior.com or follow her on Instagram at @‌theplayfulwarrior.

  6. Jan 26

    Episode 81: One Fear Per Year: Janice Burt

    To many of us find ourselves trapped in not pursuing our dreams. The fear of rejection and not getting it right often get in the way. We may also had been given messages as children that we weren't good enough to go after what we dreamed of. If this resonates with you then this is the episode for you. In this episode Kara talks with Janice Burt who lives her life with the motto: One Fear per Year.   Janice has transformed her life by taking on a fear per year to grow and learn something new. It hasn't always been easy, but it has led her into understanding more of herself and reframed a lot of the stories she had told herself through the years. Janice Burt is an inspirational speaker, podcast host, court certified Spanish interpreter, voiceover artist, actor, yoga instructor, and author. She has spoken on the TEDx stage twice, with topics such as kicking the people-pleasing habit and walking through one fear per year. Her purpose in life is to share hope and encouragement with others through the power of words and messy action. Website: https://www.janiceburt.com/ Instagram: spanish_janice   Music for this episode was created by Lacey Brown. You can find her music at laceybrown.com

  7. 01/28/2025

    Episode 80: A Look Ahead

    In this episode Kara shares some new changes within Reframing our Stories. She also shares a bit of what she has been learning and some exciting news for the future. Kara also invites you to share some of your own stories for future episodes in the next coming months.  Remember to follow Reframing our Stories on Instagram @reframingourstories for new information for the show and to access the form to become a storytelling. Please also visit the website at www.reframingourstories.com to subscribe to her newsletter for information on shows, resources, upcoming workshops, and tools to help you reframe your own story around sexuality and relationships.  Please share the show with others and leave a review!

  8. 11/20/2024

    Episode 79: Why the Language Around Rape Matters: Danielle Tumminio Hansen

    In this timely episode relating to conversations in the United States, Kara speaks with Danielle Tumminio Hansen, author of Speaking of Rape: The Limits of Language in Sexual Violence.  RAINN (Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network, the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization) notes that every 68 seconds an American is sexually assaulted. Kara and Danielle speak to their experiences around sexual assault and how it looked different from what they had learned, leading to confusion for both of them. In their conversation, Danielle explains how her book spells out why there is confusion on what constitutes sexual violence and how this continues to harm us.  Danielle Tumminio Hansen is an Associate Professor of Practical Theology and Spiritual Care at Emory University. She's the author of several books, and her articles have been featured on national and international news outlets, including CNN and The Guardian. She's also an ordained Episcopal priest. www.danielletumminiohansen.com www.instagram.com/drdanielleethansen www.facebook.com/danielle.tumminio www.rainn.org

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Stories shape who we are and they hold a lot of power. As we navigate this world we realize that these stories need a great deal of editing. In this podcast we will examine some of these stories around sex, religion, grief, race, and joy.

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