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Welcome to The Juxtaposition, a meeting place where we talk about real issues such as relationships, religion, insecurities, and everything in between. It may get controversial and seem uncomfortable but it’s all about being vulnerable. From the perspective of millennial followers of Christ, come join us, and go through the journey of life on The Juxtaposition

  1. 4d ago

    Episode 152 | The Three Buckets That Can Help Your Church Navigate Division ft Pastor Jonathan Smith

    The church does not need more winning arguments. It needs more humility, more love, and a better way to handle disagreement without turning every issue into a crisis. Pastor Jonathan Smith brings more than 30 years of ministry experience to a timely conversation about how followers of Jesus can navigate controversy without losing sight of Christ. From politics and worship styles to gender, sexuality, race, and social media outrage, he explores why believers may treat “discuss” issues like “die for” issues—and how that can hurt people, divide churches, and leave little room for nuance. In this episode, you’ll hear: - Jonathan’s three-bucket framework for theology and doctrine: die for, defend, and discuss - How to distinguish biblical conviction from personal preference - Why unity matters to the church’s credibility - The difference between forgiveness, reconciliation, and justice - How to resist false either-or choices and make room for thoughtful conversation Bernice and Janet ask the difficult questions: When should you hold firm? When should you yield? And how can Christians disagree while leading with love? Jonathan answers with stories from his pastoral experience and a reminder that humility can help heal relationships and communities. If you’ve ever felt caught between truth and grace, or wondered how to stay faithful without becoming cynical, this conversation offers a thoughtful path forward: keep your convictions, check your posture, and make love part of the way you engage.

  2. Aug 24

    Episode 151 | Don’t Settle: Christian Dating & Marriage Advice After 28 Years ft. Pastors Duane & Charlene Henry

    What does it really mean to “not settle” in dating? In this honest episode of the Juxtaposition Podcast, Nana and Janet sit down with Pastor Charlene and Pastor Duane, who have been married for 28 years. They share practical Christian dating and marriage advice on recognizing red flags, setting healthy standards without creating unrealistic expectations, pursuing someone with respect, discerning relationships, navigating conflict, and keeping love strong over time. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this conversation offers faith-filled wisdom for building healthy, lasting relationships. Timestamps 00:00 — Don’t Settle: What It Really Means01:28 — Meet Pastor Charlene & Pastor Duane03:05 — What They Value After 28 Years of Marriage03:58 — How They Met Through Conversation06:48 — Why People Are Waiting Longer to Marry11:18 — The Biggest Relationship Challenges Couples Face13:26 — Commitment, Timing & Letting Love Develop Naturally16:07 — Pursuing Someone Respectfully19:18 — Healthy Standards vs. Unrealistic Expectations22:18 — Red Flags People Ignore Because of Attraction23:43 — Green Flags in a Healthy Relationship24:41 — Communication: Staying Connected Through Conflict30:34 — “God Told Me You’re My Wife”: Discernment vs. Pressure36:02 — Rejection, Intentional Pursuit & Asking for Counsel41:39 — Contentment in Singleness and Marriage45:58 — Protecting Your Marriage While Doing Ministry Together52:17 — Keeping the Spark Alive After 28 Years55:29 — Why Conflict Isn’t Always a Bad Sign58:16 — Lightning Round: Love, Romance & Everyday Joy01:04:17 — Closing Prayer If you’re ready to unlearn unhealthy patterns and discover what healthy, God-centered relationships look like, this conversation is for you. It’s Deeper Than That Part 2: Healthy Relationships, God’s Way & Healing 📅 Friday, September 4, 2026 🕠 Doors Open: 5:30 PM 📍 Portico Community Church 🎟️ Get your tickets! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/deeper-than-that-20-healthy-relationships-gods-way-tickets-1992324749959?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAcGRvZgJleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA85MzY2MTk3NDMzOTI0NTkAAae3t76_eOU_1igNkjCkPJUdZ75Pa1xKFXH89L8e6hsMQaAguuzVyxZMj3uKUw_aem_UsVYv26l_na4_ETltkUMDA

  3. May 11

    Episode 150 | Dry Bones Can Live Again

    What do you do when your faith feels dry? In this episode, we dive into Ezekiel 37 and the Valley of Dry Bones — a powerful picture of hopelessness, dead situations, and God’s ability to bring life back to what feels impossible. We talk about seasons where faith feels stagnant, prayers seem unanswered, and situations look too far gone to recover. From family struggles and spiritual dryness to waiting seasons, prayer, worship, and trusting God when nothing seems to be moving — this conversation is a reminder that God still revives dead things. Sometimes the miracle starts when you open your mouth and speak life again. Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro + losing the last episode audio 03:33 – Ezekiel 37: The Valley of Dry Bones 07:33 – Dead faith, hopeless seasons & hidden pain 11:17 – Is there a cap on people’s faith? 13:31 – Bearing fruit in every season 14:22 – Worship can revive dry places 16:20 – Serving, burnout & staying faithful 18:23 – Mental health, hopelessness & speaking life 20:19 – Prayer, prophecy & partnering with God 22:29 – Spiritual warfare is real 24:42 – Trusting God when situations look dead 26:30 – Waiting on God vs rushing decisions 29:36 – Declaring life over dry seasons 30:20 – Final takeaways: speak when God tells you to speak 32:20 – Outro + encouragement to revive dead areas of your life

  4. May 4

    Episode 149 | You Don’t Understand God’s Mercy… Here’s the Truth

    In this episode of The Juxtaposition Podcast, we break down the real meaning of God’s mercy and why so many people misunderstand it. Mercy is more than kindness—it’s not receiving the punishment we deserve, and it shows up in ways we often overlook. We talk about pride, stubbornness, and why people reject God’s second chances, using biblical examples like Pharaoh, while also connecting it to real-life struggles with forgiveness, anger, and faith. From everyday protection to deeper questions about suffering and injustice, this conversation challenges how you see God, grace, and your own life. If you’ve ever questioned God’s mercy or taken it for granted, this episode will push you to think deeper. Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro + funny moments 02:20 – What is God’s mercy? 05:00 – Mercy = not getting what you deserve 08:50 – Pharaoh, plagues & God’s justice 11:00 – Sin, death & grace 13:15 – Pride, karma & rejecting God 18:20 – Spiritual burnout & humility 23:00 – Gratitude vs complaining 25:30 – Showing mercy to others 29:20 – Mercy in everyday life 30:25 – Faith in suffering & hard questions 35:00 – Final thoughts + outro

  5. Apr 20

    Episode 148 | The Struggle of Reading the Bible

    Ever read the Bible and felt completely lost? In this episode, we have an honest conversation about the frustration of reading Scripture without understanding it—especially when diving into deeper books like Hebrews. From relying on the Holy Spirit, to slowing down your reading, to letting go of pride and performance, we break down what it actually looks like to grow in your faith, even when nothing is “clicking.” We also dive into surrender, fear, and what might be holding you back from fully trusting God. If you’ve ever felt discouraged in your Bible reading, this episode is for you. Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro 02:30 – Banter/Watching Crime Docs 12:00 – Struggling with Hebrews 15:40 – Reading without understanding 18:30 – You can’t rely on yourself 20:20 – Slow down your reading 25:40 – Not knowing is okay 33:50 – Fear & calling (Moses) 41:00 – Trust, peace & surrender 44:20 – Outro

  6. Apr 13

    Episode 147 | You Can’t Heal What You Won’t Reveal - Lamenting with God

    In this episode, we get real about lamenting, healing, and dealing with pain the right way. We talk about how our generation often avoids pain — choosing distractions, productivity, or isolation instead of actually bringing our emotions to God. But what does it truly mean to lament? Is it just crying… or is it something deeper? From personal stories about heartbreak, disappointment, and suppressed emotions to biblical examples like Job, David, and Moses — this conversation unpacks why healing isn’t instant, why you can’t skip the process, and how God meets you in it. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to process what you’re going through… this episode is for you. Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro: Desire, waiting & real talk 05:53 – What is lamenting? 08:15 – How we deal with pain (distractions, isolation, “I’m fine”) 13:31 – Vulnerability, emotions & avoidance 17:15 – Unprocessed grief & where it comes from 21:20 – Disappointment, faith & trusting God 23:34 – Biblical perspective: waiting, pain & process 27:09 – Why you can’t skip healing 31:45 – Perspective, heartbreak & identity 35:44 – How to actually heal (practical steps) 39:36 – Final encouragement: healing takes time 41:17 – Outro

  7. Mar 23

    Episode 146 | Why Correction Feels Like Rejection

    In a culture that craves affirmation and avoids discomfort, have we started choosing validation over truth? In this episode of The Juxtaposition Podcast, we dive into the tension between validation culture and godly correction. Why do we resist being corrected—even when it’s rooted in love? What fears, insecurities, or past experiences make us avoid wise counsel? From childhood wounds to fear of judgment, we unpack what stops us from opening up and seeking guidance. We also explore the power of honest friendships, the role of tone and humility, and how God uses correction not to reject us—but to refine us. If you’ve ever struggled with receiving truth, giving correction, or surrounding yourself with the right voices—this conversation is for you. Truth may hurt—but it heals. Choose growth over comfort. Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro & Childhood Stories 04:20 – Validation Culture vs Truth 06:30 – Fear of Judgment & Avoiding Counsel 10:20 – The Power (and Risk) of Being Transparent 14:00 – Hearing Advice but Not Applying It 16:20 – When Correction Feels Like Rejection 20:00 – God’s Correction vs Our Projection 22:00 – Truth in Friendship 26:30 – Speaking Truth with Love 28:30 – Tone, Transformation & Spiritual Growth 31:00 – Knowing When & How to Speak 33:30 – Final Reflections: Truth Over Comfort

  8. Mar 16

    Episode 145 | Clarity Without Conviction

    In this episode of The Juxtaposition, we dive into a hard but honest question: Do we really want God’s guidance… or do we just want to feel better? So many believers ask God for clarity, direction, and wisdom — but struggle when the answer requires repentance, patience, sacrifice, or obedience. From personal stories about debt, conviction, prayer struggles, and spiritual discipline, we unpack what it really means to follow God when His answer costs us something. Because the truth is: clarity often comes after obedience. If you’ve ever felt stuck spiritually, struggled with conviction, or questioned why God feels silent, this conversation might challenge the way you seek Him. In this episode we discuss: • Are we asking God questions to obey — or just for comfort? • Why conviction often feels uncomfortable • The battle between the Holy Spirit and our flesh • Why obedience unlocks clarity • How to respond when God prompts you to act Sometimes the answers we’re praying for require a change we’re not ready to make. But what if the breakthrough is on the other side of obedience?

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Welcome to The Juxtaposition, a meeting place where we talk about real issues such as relationships, religion, insecurities, and everything in between. It may get controversial and seem uncomfortable but it’s all about being vulnerable. From the perspective of millennial followers of Christ, come join us, and go through the journey of life on The Juxtaposition

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