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Our commitment is to help others recover from sexual addiction, just as we have been helped. We are recovering addicts offering a message of hope to anyone who suffers from sex addiction. If you have any questions or topic suggestions contact us at 12thStepPodcast@Gmail.com

  1. MAR 6

    The Hero in the Mirror: Mapping Your Recovery Journey

    Ever feel like your life is a series of trials you didn’t sign up for? This week, we’re stepping out of the rooms and into the "Ordinary World" of Joseph Campbell’s Hero’s Journey. We break down why your struggle with addiction isn’t just a series of mistakes, it’s the "Call to Adventure" you were initially too afraid to answer. We explore how the "Abyss" of active addiction mirrors the darkest part of the mythic cycle, and more importantly, how the 12 Steps provide the exact roadmap needed to return home with the "Elixir" of sobriety. Whether you’re currently facing your "Road of Trials" or you're a "Mentor" helping others through their own, this episode explores how viewing your recovery through the lens of a classic epic can turn your greatest shame into your greatest strength.

    35 min

  2. FEB 27

    Inventory of the Present: Tools, Trials, and Transitions

    Recovery isn’t a static state, it’s a practice. In this episode of The 12th Step, we break down our current "recovery toolkit." We discuss what’s working (and what we’ve had to outgrow), the real-time challenges we’re navigating today, and the intentional steps we’re taking to level up our spiritual and emotional fitness. No fluff, just the reality of the work.

    37 min

  3. FEB 20

    Shame After the Slip: Breaking the Spiral of Self-Loathing in Recovery

    In this heartfelt episode, we respond to a listener, Scott, who bravely shares about the crushing shame, low self-worth, depression, and anxiety that often follow acting out. Even while working a solid program and taking responsibility, he finds himself stuck in emotional fallout that feels harder to escape than the behavior itself. How do we tell the difference between healthy accountability and toxic shame? When does remorse help us grow and when does it quietly fuel the next relapse? What happens in the nervous system after acting out, and why can it feel so overwhelming? Most importantly, how do we rebuild self-worth when our actions don’t align with our values? We explore practical tools for interrupting the shame spiral, grounding anxiety, and responding to relapse with rigor and compassion. This conversation dives into the spiritual and psychological dimensions of recovery and reminds us that shame thrives in isolation, but healing happens in connection. If you’ve ever felt like the aftermath of acting out was more painful than the behavior itself, this episode is for you. There is a way forward and it doesn’t require hating yourself to get there.

    32 min

  4. FEB 13

    Clean Time in the Digital Age: When AI Becomes the Addiction

    In this episode, we respond to a courageous letter from Keith, a listener with several years of clean time who has recently found himself caught in a new and unexpected relapse pattern, using AI tools to create pornographic content. As technology evolves, so do the ways addiction can manifest, and many recovery resources haven’t yet caught up. What happens when the very tools you need for your career become triggers? How do you set boundaries around something you can’t fully eliminate? And how do you stay honest, accountable, and spiritually grounded when the lines between work and acting out start to blur? We explore recovery in the digital age, the responsibility we carry for our choices, practical guardrails for navigating unavoidable triggers, and how to build sustainable sobriety in a world where access is constant. If you’ve struggled with relapse connected to technology, or feel like your specific challenge isn’t addressed in traditional recovery spaces, this conversation is for you. There is hope. Even here.

    34 min

  5. FEB 6

    The Power of Living Truth: Why Congruency is Your Recovery North Star

    What happens when your "inside" doesn’t match your "outside"? This week on the 12th Step Podcast, we’re exploring congruency, the essential practice of aligning your daily actions with your recovery values. Living out of sync with yourself creates the secret stress and shame that often fuel addiction, damaging your relationships and making sobriety feel like a heavy mask. Join us as we discuss how to close the gap between who you are and what you do, proving that true integrity is your strongest defense against relapse.

    27 min

  6. JAN 23

    Why Recovery Beats the Resolution Rigged Game

    The gym is packed, the "dry January" posts are peaking, and the pressure to reinvent your entire life by February 1st is at an all-time high. But for those in the rooms, we know a secret: willpower is a finite resource, and resolutions are often just premeditated resentments. In this episode, we pull the curtain back on the "New Year, New Me" industrial complex. We discuss why traditional resolutions usually crash and burn for those struggling with addiction, and how the 12-Step philosophy replaces that annual cycle of shame with a blueprint for permanent, manageable change. Instead of waiting for a calendar flip to get our lives in order, we explore the freedom found in daily surrender and the radical idea that we don’t need a "new" version of ourselves, we just need a sober one.

    32 min

  7. 11/28/2025

    Beneath The Outburst: What We're Really Afraid To Feel

    In Part Two, we dig beneath the anger and reactivity that so many addicts identify as their “core issue” and uncover the deeper truth: anger is often the smoke, not the fire. We explore how rage, irritation, and a short fuse act as emotional armor, protecting us from the feelings we’re terrified to experience. This episode looks at why so many people in recovery can understand their healing intellectually but stay emotionally numb, and how this disconnect keeps their partners from feeling safe or connected. We talk about what it means to actually feel again, the discomfort of letting go of emotional avoidance, and the work required to rebuild emotional presence in relationships. If you’ve felt stuck at the intellectual level of recovery, or if you’re trying to understand the real role of anger, numbness, and emotional avoidance in addiction, this episode will help you finally see what’s underneath the rage, and what healing looks like when it reaches the heart, not just the mind.

    26 min

  8. 11/21/2025

    The Regulation We Borrow: Narcissistic Traits In Addiction

    In this first part of our two-episode series, we take on a topic many in recovery quietly fear: the overlap between addiction and narcissistic traits. Are they connected? Do early patterns of emotional detachment, superiority, and rule-bending feed an addiction, or does addiction reinforce those traits? And what does it really mean when a therapist says you’re showing “narcissistic qualities”? We explore how control becomes a coping strategy, how addicts often use others for emotional regulation without realizing it, and why these patterns are so common in people who learned early on to hide or ignore their feelings. We also break down the dynamics that show up with spouses and even toddlers, why chaos can feel strangely “calming,” and how external regulation becomes a lifelong pattern. If you’ve ever feared the narcissistic label or wondered whether these traits tie into your addiction and emotional disconnection, this episode offers clarity, grounding, and hope.

    29 min
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Our commitment is to help others recover from sexual addiction, just as we have been helped. We are recovering addicts offering a message of hope to anyone who suffers from sex addiction. If you have any questions or topic suggestions contact us at 12thStepPodcast@Gmail.com

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  • Creator
    12th Step Podcast
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Copyright 2020 All rights reserved.
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