Raising Sons with Dr. Richelle Whittaker

Dr. Richelle Whittaker

"Raising Sons," a compelling podcast hosted by a mom of boys and an educational psychologist, offers a unique and insightful perspective on the challenges and joys of raising boys. With a blend of personal experiences and professional expertise, the host provides a comprehensive exploration of the complexities that come with parenting sons in today's world. This podcast delves into various crucial topics, from nurturing emotional intelligence and encouraging positive masculinity to promoting educational growth and dealing with behavioral challenges. Drawing from her own experiences and research, the host delivers practical advice and relatable stories that resonate with parents and caregivers who are navigating the rewarding yet sometimes puzzling journey of raising sons. "Raising Sons" is a must-listen for those seeking a holistic approach to nurturing well-rounded, confident, and emotionally intelligent young men in an ever-evolving society.

  1. Is Your Son 'Problematic' or Just in the Wrong Environment?

    10H AGO

    Is Your Son 'Problematic' or Just in the Wrong Environment?

    Is your son suddenly struggling at school? On this episode of the Raising Sons Podcast, Dr. Richelle Whittaker dives deep into the hidden reasons behind behavioral changes in Black boys. Using a real-world case study of a mother concerned about her son’s "acting out," Dr. Whittaker breaks down why we must stop labeling our children and start looking at their environment. We explore the reality of adultification bias, the importance of emotional safety, and why a "bad fit" school can be detrimental to a child's development. Key Takeaways for Parents:A change in behavior is information. It's language. It's not a moral failure.Your child's resistance may be a response to feeling for a better fit.The right environment can reduce behavior without a single punishment.This isn't about lowering expectations. It's about aligning expectations.If school calls feel constant, your son is not broken.Advocating for him is not optional. It's essential.When Black boys are given space to be boys, they thrive.Legacy isn't just about famous people; it's about current safety.Correction replaces curiosity, control replaces connection.Sometimes the most powerful intervention is changing the environment. GAIN CLARITY ON YOUR SON'S JOURNEYIf you’re unsure whether your son’s school environment aligns with who he is and how he learns, let's talk. Book a Parent Roadmap Session here:  https://www.richellewhittaker.com/workwithme Text 1.833.638.5442 to share your comments or ask questions Subscribe to the newsletter for exclusive tips and updates: http://bit.ly/3F3VpqA Resources: Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sonsBoy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategiesNew YouVersion Devotional Connect with Dr. Richelle: YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/@drrichellewhittaker Instagram: @dr_richelle LinkedIn: Dr. Richelle Whittaker Website: www.richellewhittaker.com/podcast Follow the movement: #RaisingSons #BoyMomNation #StrongMenStartHere #DrRichelleWhittaker TEXT 1.833.638.5442 to share your comments or ask questions

    9 min
  2. Is Your Son Struggling In School? Why Single-Sex Education Might Be The Solution

    FEB 6

    Is Your Son Struggling In School? Why Single-Sex Education Might Be The Solution

    Is an all-boys school the right environment for your son? If you’ve noticed your son disengaging, acting out, or struggling to sit still in a traditional classroom, it might not be him, it might be the environment. In this episode of Raising Sons, Dr. Richelle Whittaker, educational psychologist, parenting strategist, and boy mom breaks down the science of how boys learn. We explore why single-sex education is a powerful solution for many families and how it addresses the unique way boys develop, communicate, and grow. This isn’t about "one size fits all" education; it’s about research-backed insights into the male brain and academic engagement. If you are a mom raising sons and questioning if his current school is a good fit, this conversation is for you. Key Insights You’ll Learn Today: The "Freedom to Be": Why boys drop the social mask in all-boys environments.Developing a Voice: How single-sex schools build deep confidence in young men.The Power of Male Educators: Why having male role models changes how a boy's behavior is interpreted.Kinesthetic Learning: Why movement-based and project-based learning is essential for active boys.The Research: What the data actually says about boys' school engagement and success rates.This episode is a must-watch if: You are a Boy Mom exploring alternatives to traditional co-ed education.Your son is shutting down or "acting out" in his current classroom.You want professional guidance on school choice without the guilt or pressure.GAIN CLARITY ON YOUR SON'S JOURNEYIf you’re unsure whether your son’s school environment aligns with who he is and how he learns, let's talk. Book a Parent Roadmap Session here:  https://www.richellewhittaker.com/workwithme Subscribe to the newsletter for exclusive tips and updates: http://bit.ly/3F3VpqA Resources: Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sonsBoy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategiesNew YouVersion Devotional Connect with Dr. Richelle: Instagram: @dr_richelle LinkedIn: Dr. Richelle Whittaker Website: www.richellewhittaker.com/podcast Follow the movement: #RaisingSons #BoyMomNation #StrongMenStartHere #DrRichelleWhittaker

    17 min
  3. How to Discipline Boys Without Breaking Them (The Communication Method)

    JAN 23

    How to Discipline Boys Without Breaking Them (The Communication Method)

    What does it truly take to reach young men in the classroom today? On this episode, we sit down with Mr. Thomas, a dedicated first-year principal at an all-boys school in Houston, Texas. We explore his unique journey from working with Child Protective Services (CPS) to leading a school, and how his background in social work has shaped his approach to student success. Mr. Thomas dives deep into the specific challenges and rewards of educating boys. From navigating socio-economic barriers to breaking down societal pressures, this conversation covers the vital importance of male role models and the need for a shift from punitive discipline to effective communication. Whether you are an educator, a parent of a son, or a community leader, this episode offers powerful insights into accountability, fatherhood, and building a village around our youth. In This Conversation, We Cover: The transition from social work to school administration.The psychology behind teaching boys vs. girls.Strategies for engaging middle school vs. high school students.Why "punishment" often fails and "communication" succeeds.The critical role of parent accountability. Key Takeaways Diverse Experience Matters: Mr. Thomas uses his history in high-need schools and CPS to identify the root causes of student behavior.The "Boy" Dynamic: Boys require specific engagement strategies that differ significantly from co-ed environments.Mentorship is Key: For boys from single-parent households, the presence of consistent male figures at school is often a game-changer.Communication First: Effective discipline isn't about control; it's about understanding the "why" behind the behavior. Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction to Mr. Thomas and His Journey 02:57 Transitioning into Education: A Personal Story 06:04 Understanding the All-Boys School Environment 08:56 The Unique Challenges of Educating Boys 12:02 The Role of Accountability in Success 14:57 The Importance of Male Role Models 17:46 Engagement Challenges in Middle vs. High School 21:09 Discipline and Communication in Education 23:52 Conclusion and Reflections on Education Join Boy Mom Nation- The Community: https://bit.ly/JoinBoyMomNation Schedule your Parent Roadmap Session: https://www.richellewhittaker.com/workwithme Subscribe to the newsletter for exclusive tips and updates: http://bit.ly/3F3VpqA Follow the movement: #RaisingSons #BoyMomNation #StrongMenStartHere #DrRichelleWhittaker Resources: Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sonsBoy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategiesYouVersion Devotional Connect with Dr. Richelle: Instagram: @dr_richelle LinkedIn: Dr. Richelle Whittaker Website: www.richellewhittaker.com/podcast

    27 min
  4. Why Your Son Won't Talk to You & How to Fix It (Plus: Sextortion Warning) | Raising Sons

    JAN 9

    Why Your Son Won't Talk to You & How to Fix It (Plus: Sextortion Warning) | Raising Sons

    Are you worried your son is pulling away or struggling to express his emotions? In this episode of the Raising Sons Podcast, host Dr. Richelle Whittaker dives deep into the essential art of creating a "safe space" for boys in a world that often tells them to "man up." We tackle the tough realities of modern parenting, including the rising threat of sextortion and how societal pressures impact a boy’s mental health. Whether you are navigating the toddler years or the teenage transition, Dr. Whittaker provides a roadmap for intentional parenting and emotional intelligence. In this episode, you’ll learn:The Power of Listening: How to listen without judgment so your son actually opens up.Combatting Toxic Masculinity: Breaking down the barriers that stop boys from sharing their feelings.Sextortion Awareness: Practical steps to protect your son from online predators and digital threats.Building Connection: Simple ways to be present and engage in meaningful conversations daily.Boy Mom Nation: An introduction to a community designed specifically to support mothers raising the next generation of men. Join Boy Mom Nation- The Community: https://bit.ly/JoinBoyMomNation Schedule your Parent Roadmap Session: https://www.richellewhittaker.com/workwithme Subscribe to the newsletter for exclusive tips and updates: http://bit.ly/3F3VpqA Follow the movement: #RaisingSons #BoyMomNation #StrongMenStartHere #DrRichelleWhittaker Resources: Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sonsBoy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategiesYouVersion Devotional Connect with Dr. Richelle: Instagram: @dr_richelle LinkedIn: Dr. Richelle Whittaker Website: www.richellewhittaker.com/podcast

    13 min
  5. How Your Childhood Impacts Your Parenting: Unlearning Harmful Beliefs as a Boy Mom

    12/12/2025

    How Your Childhood Impacts Your Parenting: Unlearning Harmful Beliefs as a Boy Mom

    On this episode of the Raising Sons podcast, Dr. Richelle Whittaker discusses the importance of unraveling assumptions in parenting, particularly as they relate to raising boys. She emphasizes how past traumas and experiences can shape parenting styles and beliefs. Dr. Whittaker provides actionable steps for parents to acknowledge their beliefs, understand their origins, and take small daily actions to challenge and change these beliefs for healthier parenting outcomes. Takeaways -Unraveling assumptions is crucial in parenting. -We bring our own traumas into parenting. -Moms can and sometimes do project their past experiences onto their sons. -Boys have emotions, just like everyone else. -Acknowledging a problem is the first step to change. -Understanding the origins of beliefs helps in addressing them. -Taking action is essential for personal growth. -Small daily actions can lead to significant changes. -Healing is a journey, not a destination. -Support systems are vital for navigating parenting challenges. Helpful Links:  Text Raising Sons to 1.833.638.5442 to ask questions, share your thoughts, or to request a link to purchase the book Schedule your Parent Roadmap Session: https://www.richellewhittaker.com/workwithme Subscribe to the newsletter for exclusive tips and updates: http://bit.ly/3F3VpqA Follow the movement: #RaisingSons #BoyMomNation #StrongMenStartHere #DrRichelleWhittaker Resources: Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sonsBoy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategiesYouVersion Devotional Connect with Dr. Richelle: Instagram: @dr_richelle LinkedIn: Dr. Richelle Whittaker Website: www.richellewhittaker.com/podcast

    14 min
  6. We Have a Diagnosis...Now What?

    11/28/2025

    We Have a Diagnosis...Now What?

    On this follow-up to Episode 1 (“From Overwhelmed to Empowered”), we dive deeper into what actually happens after a child receives a diagnosis, using a real case study from a mom whose 3-year-old son was recently diagnosed with autism. If you’ve ever felt confused, scared, or unsure about the next steps after a diagnosis, this episode breaks down the process in a clear and compassionate way. In today’s conversation, we discuss: What to do immediately after receiving a diagnosisWhat an IEP looks like for toddlers and why 504 plans typically come laterHow school services work for 3-year-oldsHow to handle the fear of sending your child on the school busThe step-by-step roadmap every parent needsHow to advocate confidently even when you feel overwhelmedThis episode is designed to help moms move from confusion to clarity and to remind you that you are not alone in this journey. Helpful Links:  Text Raising Sons to 1.833.638.5442 to ask questions, share your thoughts, or to request a link to purchase the book Schedule your Parent Roadmap Session: https://www.richellewhittaker.com/workwithme Subscribe to the newsletter for exclusive tips and updates: http://bit.ly/3F3VpqA Get the book: https://bit.ly/strongmenstarthere Follow the movement: #RaisingSons #BoyMomNation #StrongMenStartHere #DrRichelleWhittaker Connect with Dr. Richelle: Instagram: @dr_richelle LinkedIn: Dr. Richelle Whittaker Website: www.richellewhittaker.com/podcast

    9 min
  7. From Overwhelmed to Empowered: Navigating the Confusion Gap After Your Son’s Diagnosis

    11/14/2025

    From Overwhelmed to Empowered: Navigating the Confusion Gap After Your Son’s Diagnosis

    On this episode of the Raising Sons Podcast, Dr. Richelle Whittaker discusses the challenges parents face after receiving a diagnosis for their child, particularly autism. She emphasizes the confusion that often follows a diagnosis and the importance of understanding special education services like IEPs and 504 plans. Dr. Whittaker encourages parents to advocate for their children with clarity and confidence, reminding them that they are not alone in this journey. The episode aims to empower parents by providing insights and support to navigate the complexities of the educational system and to foster a better understanding of their child's needs. Takeaways Getting a diagnosis isn't the hardest part. The hardest part is figuring out what to do after it. Parents are often left trying to make sense of terms like IEP and 504. You can't advocate with confidence until you first understand. The diagnosis doesn't define the child, it describes how they learn. Advocacy is about walking in with clarity and confidence. You're not behind; a diagnosis gives insight into support. You have rights and options regarding special education services. Getting help isn't weakness; it's wisdom. You're not failing; you're learning. Text Raising Sons to 1.833.638.5442 to ask questions, share your thoughts, or to request a link to purchase the book Schedule your Parent Roadmap Session: https://www.richellewhittaker.com/workwithme Subscribe to the newsletter for exclusive tips and updates: http://bit.ly/3F3VpqA Get the book: https://bit.ly/strongmenstarthere Follow the movement: #RaisingSons #BoyMomNation #StrongMenStartHere #DrRichelleWhittaker Text Raising Sons to 1.833.638.5442 to ask questions, share your thoughts, or to request a link to purchase the book Follow me: IG: @dr_richelle YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/@drrichellewhittaker

    6 min
4.9
out of 5
23 Ratings

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"Raising Sons," a compelling podcast hosted by a mom of boys and an educational psychologist, offers a unique and insightful perspective on the challenges and joys of raising boys. With a blend of personal experiences and professional expertise, the host provides a comprehensive exploration of the complexities that come with parenting sons in today's world. This podcast delves into various crucial topics, from nurturing emotional intelligence and encouraging positive masculinity to promoting educational growth and dealing with behavioral challenges. Drawing from her own experiences and research, the host delivers practical advice and relatable stories that resonate with parents and caregivers who are navigating the rewarding yet sometimes puzzling journey of raising sons. "Raising Sons" is a must-listen for those seeking a holistic approach to nurturing well-rounded, confident, and emotionally intelligent young men in an ever-evolving society.