A Meaningful Life

Kellie Smith

Welcome to A Meaningful Life, a podcast dedicated to helping you live a beautiful and deeply meaningful life. I'm Kellie Smith and I believe that when we live with intention and appreciation for the world around us, a life full of joy, peace, and purpose is possible. This podcast was created to bring you meaningful conversations for a meaningful life. If you enjoy what you discover in these podcasts, please rate, review, and share it with someone you love.

  1. Aug 24

    What Do You Actually Value? A Simple Way to Find Out

    Today I'm walking you through my series on living a values-aligned life, starting with identifying the values that are actually yours. Not the ones that sound good on paper. The ones underneath your real highs and lows. Getting clear here changes how you make decisions, handle conflict, and know what's actually worth your energy. Grab a notebook and let's jump in.  JOURNAL EXERCISE 1: Clarifying Your Values - I created a Free Printable Journal Guide if you'd like it to guide you through the exercise. Step 1: Reflect on the Highs Think of times in your life when you felt happiest, most fulfilled, or at the height of well-being. Step 2: Reflect on the Lows Think of times when you felt deeply lost, untethered, or unfulfilled. What was happening? Step 3: Identify Your Core Values Look at your answers. What core themes or words keep showing up (e.g., Freedom, Connection, Growth, Security)? Write down your top 3 to 5 non-negotiable words. These are your core values. JOURNAL EXERCISE 2 - Brené Brown's "Living Into Our Values" practice from her book Dare to Lead (highly recommend you buy and read this whole book!) Value #1: ___________________ Three behaviors that support your value: Three slippery behaviors that are outside your value: An example of a time you were living fully into this value:  Value #2: ___________________ Three behaviors that support your value: Three slippery behaviors that are outside your value: An example of a time you were living fully into this value:  Value #3: ___________________ Three behaviors that support your value: Three slippery behaviors that are outside your value: An example of a time you were living fully into this value:  Connect with Kellie: Instagram: @kelliesmithstudio Subscribe to Kellie's Meaningful Messages Newsletter Referenced: Book: Dare to Lead by Brené Brown

    What Do You Actually Value? A Simple Way to Find Out
  2. Apr 24

    Meaningful Message: You Were Never Meant to Look Like Barbie

    A social media post stopped me in my tracks today, so you are joining me on my morning walk because we need to talk. I came across a post this morning that featured a woman promoting a new treatment for Botox called "BarbieTox," where Botox is injected into the shoulders to create a more doll-like appearance. The post itself was enough to stop me in my tracks but then I saw the hundreds of comments from women eager to learn more about this procedure. Beautiful, real women. Wanting to look like a plastic doll. It crushed me. It is so disheartening to see all of these beautiful women feel the need to alter themselves to fit an unrealistic standard. This impromptu episode is a reminder about what's really driving the endless chase and why no injection will ever touch the place that actually hurts. You'll leave with a clearer eye for what social media is doing to your sense of worth — and to the little girls who are watching us do it. Consider this a real invitation and permission slip to stop fighting your body and start loving it. EXERCISE: Beauty trends are designed to make you believe you are broken and need to be fixed. Before you get sucked in, ask yourself these three questions. 1. What do I actually believe this is going to fix? If the honest answer is confidence, worthiness, or finally feeling like enough — that's your signal that you're chasing something no injection can give you. 2. Am I doing this for me, or because someone made me feel like I wasn't enough? There's a difference between a choice that comes from a place of wholeness and one that comes from a wound. Knowing which one is driving the decision changes everything. 3. Would I want my daughter or a young woman who looks up to me to make the same choice I am making — and what advice would I give her? We rarely extend to ourselves the grace we would give without hesitation to someone we love. Guide yourself the same way you would guide her. 🌟 If this resonates, share it with someone who needs to hear it. The woman in your life who is beautiful and doesn't know it yet — she needs this today. Connect with Kellie Instagram: @kelliesmithstudio Have a thought or question this conversation stirred in you? I'd love to hear from you. Share it here.

  3. Apr 21

    29. What Nobody Teaches Women About Friendship w/ Licensed Therapist Heather Carlson

    When was the last time a friendship made you feel truly known? Not just caught up — but actually seen? In this episode of A Meaningful Life, Kellie Smith sits down with Heather Carlson MA, LMFT, a licensed marriage and family therapist and creator of The Invitation — a year-long program helping women build deep, intentional friendships.  We get into the real stuff: why female friendship feels harder than ever right now, the myths we were handed that set us up to fail, and what the longest-running Harvard study on happiness tells us about the relationships that actually matter. Heather shares a personal story about navigating conflict with a close friend in real time, why we avoid hard conversations with the people we love most, and the three things — regularity, intentionality, and commitment — that deep friendship actually requires. If you've ever felt lonely in a room full of people, grieved a friendship that quietly faded, or wondered why connection feels so hard in this season of life, this one is for you. RESOURCES MENTIONED: 📖 The Good Life by Robert Waldinger & Marc Schulz 🔬 The Harvard Study of Adult Development (started ~1937) 🔬 Jeffrey Hall's 2018 research on friendship formation — University of Kansas 🔬 Robin Dunbar's research on platonic relationships 🌐 The Invitation program: HeatherJCarlson.com CONNECT:  📲 Kellie's Instagram: @kelliesmithstudio 📲 Heather's Instagram: @heatherjcarlson

  4. Apr 7

    28. How I Made $1,000 a Month as a Stay-at-Home Mom (More Than Once)

    Have you ever stepped away from your career to be home with your kids — and felt that quiet ache of missing the part of you that worked, that earned, that contributed?  In this episode, Kellie gets personal about what it actually looked like to go from main breadwinner to stay-at-home mom — and how she built her way back to earning her own income, not once, not twice, but across multiple seasons of life. The goal wasn't glamorous. It was $1,000 a month. And she figured it out, more than once, in completely different ways — using the skills she already had. This one is full of real stories, a repeatable framework, and the kind of honest encouragement that doesn't make you feel behind — it makes you feel like you can actually start. Whether you're in a season of transition, feeling financially untethered, or just ready to do something that's yours again, this episode will meet you right where you are. 🌟 If this resonates, share it with someone who needs to hear it. You never know who's sitting on a dream they just need permission to try. Sit with these — in your journal, on a walk, or wherever you do your best thinking. What skills do you already have that you might be underestimating? Is there something you've been wanting to try, but waiting until conditions are perfect? What would it mean to you — really mean — to earn your own income in this season? Connect with Kellie Instagram: @kelliesmithstudio Have a thought or question this conversation stirred in you? I'd love to hear from you. Share it here.

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Welcome to A Meaningful Life, a podcast dedicated to helping you live a beautiful and deeply meaningful life. I'm Kellie Smith and I believe that when we live with intention and appreciation for the world around us, a life full of joy, peace, and purpose is possible. This podcast was created to bring you meaningful conversations for a meaningful life. If you enjoy what you discover in these podcasts, please rate, review, and share it with someone you love.