Be Incredible Podcast

Paul Faronbi

Formerly IncrediPaul Leadership, welcome to the Be Incredible Podcast! I talk to incredible people, doing incredible things, so you can truly Be Incredible in every aspect of your life! The foundation is leadership but expands into emotional intelligence and experts to help you be in incredible in L.I.F.E. (Leadership, Investing, Fitness, and Expenses)! Email contact@incredipaul.org for all inquires.

  1. Sep 14

    EP 173: How Building Trust and Empathy Can Transform Your Leadership Journey w/ LaKiesha Tomlin

    WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE SUBSCRIBE TO NEWSLETTER BE INCREDIBLE STARTER PACK Pick up IncrediPaul merch In this episode, LaKiesha Tomlin shares her journey from engineering in aerospace to developing skills in trading and leadership. Discover how her technical background shaped her leadership style, the importance of trust, effective communication, and embracing continuous growth as a leader.   CONNECT WITH LAKIESHA LINKEDIN – https://www.linkedin.com/in/lakieshatomlin/ INSTAGRAM – http://instagram.com/chartconfidence YOUTUBE - https://www.youtube.com/@chartconfidence     Key Topics: LaKiesha’s transition from aerospace engineering to financial markets and trading The significance of trust and communication in leadership, especially in technical environments Navigating challenges with difficult team members and managing boundaries The impact of mentorship, reading leadership books (like John Maxwell), and public speaking (Toastmasters) Lessons learned from leading diverse, high-pressure teams in aerospace projects The importance of emotional intelligence in leadership and influencing without authority How supporting team members’ growth through promotion and recognition builds loyalty Strategies for aspiring leaders: honing soft skills, building trust, and leading authentically   Follow us on Socials THREADS TWITTER INSTAGRAM LINKEDIN   Need career or leadership coaching? Stay connected with all I'm doing

    EP 173: How Building Trust and Empathy Can Transform Your Leadership Journey w/ LaKiesha Tomlin
  2. Jul 27

    EP 171: Person Before Position: Redefining Leadership w/ Jimmy Burroughes

    WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE SUBSCRIBE TO NEWSLETTER BE INCREDIBLE STARTER PACK Pick up IncrediPaul merch In this episode, Paul sits down with Jimmy Burroughes, a former British Army officer turned corporate executive and leadership consultant. Jimmy shares his journey through high-stakes leadership, his personal battle with executive burnout in 2017, and how he now helps managers transition into high-performing leaders without sacrificing their well-being. They dive deep into actionable frameworks for prioritization, team delegation, and tracking the subtle warning signs of burnout before it's too late. CONNECT WITH JIMMY jimmy@jblhighpeformance.com www.jblhighperformance.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimmyburroughes/ https://www.instagram.com/jblhighperformance/ AIDEN COACH LINK About the Guest Jimmy Burroughes is an operational friction removal expert for leaders. With a foundational career as a senior captain in the British Army (serving in Gulf War II and Afghanistan) and a decade climbing the corporate ladder to an operational General Manager running an eight-figure business, Jimmy has experienced leadership at every pressure point. Today, he runs a global consultancy that supports medium-to-large organizations with the manager-of-managers transition, utilizing live workshops, asynchronous learning, and cutting-edge AI coaching tools. Key Takeaways & Frameworks 1. The PVC Prioritization Framework When everything is a priority, nothing is. Jimmy introduces the PVC framework to help leaders make tactical choices about where to put their time and energy: Purpose, Value, and Capacity. 2. The AEIOU Burnout Warning Signs Burnout rarely happens overnight; it builds subtly. Use the five vowels to check in on yourself and your team members. If you recognize three or more of these signs, it is time to take immediate action: Anxiety, Exhaustion, Isolation, Overwhelmed, and Uncaring/Unmotivated. 3. The "I'll Just" Trap Jimmy warns against the insidious phrase "I'll just..." which acts as the fast track to the burnout whirlpool. 4. Leadership is a Mindset, Not a Title True leadership exists at every level of an organization. Follow us on Socials THREADS TWITTER INSTAGRAM LINKEDIN Need career or leadership coaching? Stay connected with all I'm doing

    EP 171: Person Before Position: Redefining Leadership w/ Jimmy Burroughes
  3. Jul 13

    EP 170: Proof of What God Can Do: Overcoming Setbacks & Setting Boundaries w/ Ashlie Journet

    WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE SUBSCRIBE TO NEWSLETTER BE INCREDIBLE STARTER PACK Pick up IncrediPaul merch In this episode of IncrediPaul Leadership, host Paul Faronbi sits down with Ashlie Journet, a dynamic "workpreneur," talent acquisition expert, and the visionary behind the Christian apparel brand I'm proof of what God can do. Ashlie opens up about her raw and inspiring journey, from navigating high school setbacks and finding her purpose in HR, to managing a viral social media following of nearly 50,000. Paul and Ashlie dive deep into the pressures of modern digital spaces, the necessity of stepping away to protect your mental health, and how to hand out "nos like trick-or-treat candy" to protect your peace. CONNECT WITH ASHLIE https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashliejournet/ About the Guest Ashlie Journet is a wife, mother, and corporate talent acquisition specialist with nearly a decade of human resources experience. She is the CEO of Candidate Advocate Resume Writing Services and the co-founder of the faith-based clothing line, I'm proof of what God can do. Through her authentic storytelling, Ashlie dedicates her platform to pouring confidence back into job seekers and professionals alike. Key Takeaways & Highlights Embracing a Non-Linear Path: Ashlie shares transparently about not graduating from high school, earning her GED, dropping out of cosmetology school, and eventually finding her "Oprah aha moment" in HR. She went on to secure her bachelor's degree in her early 30s, proving it is never too late to reinvent yourself. The Weight of Social Media Visibility: After watching her LinkedIn audience scale rapidly from 3,000 to nearly 50,000 followers, Ashlie opens up about the accompanying imposter syndrome and overwhelm. She details her recent seven-week social media fast and why intentional detachment is necessary for staying grounded. Eliminating "Invisible Boundaries": As recovering people-pleasers, Paul and Ashlie discuss the dangers of expecting people to respect boundaries you haven't explicitly set. True self-care requires vocalizing your limits and refusing to over-explain a simple "no." Reframing Job Rejection: Rejection in a volatile job market is incredibly heavy. Ashlie offers a beautiful perspective: a "no" doesn't mean you aren't qualified; it simply means it was someone else's hard-prayed-for "yes season." Your season is coming next. Building a "God Did It" Book: To combat seasons of doubt, Ashlie encourages keeping a track record of your wins—big and small. Documenting past moments of resilience serves as a powerful reminder of your capability when you hit an emotional wall. Follow us on Socials THREADS TWITTER INSTAGRAM LINKEDIN Need career or leadership coaching? Stay connected with all I'm doing

    EP 170: Proof of What God Can Do: Overcoming Setbacks & Setting Boundaries w/ Ashlie Journet
  4. Jun 29

    EP 169: Your Voice is Powerful: Unlocking Leadership & Authentic Communication w/ Cristina Costa

    WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE SUBSCRIBE TO NEWSLETTER BE INCREDIBLE STARTER PACK Pick up IncrediPaul merch Dive into a conversation that sparks truth, resilience, and the unstoppable force of authentic leadership. Cristina Costa shares her journey from immigrant, student, and coach to empowering others through the art of communication, especially in a world dominated by AI and societal upheaval. This episode isn't just about speaking — it's about owning your power, breaking barriers, and making your voice matter. CONNECT WITH CRISTINA Email:cristina@ccostacoaching.com Connect with Cristina on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cristina-nicole-costa-/ Sign up for a 30 Minute Career Empowerment Call: https://calendly.com/cristina_costa_coaching/free-1-hour-career-empowerment-coaching-call-clone?month=2026-06 Check out the SpeakerGym Community: https://www.speakergym.live/ speak31.com DISCUSSION TOPICS Cristina Costa's background as a bilingual, immigrant woman breaking into the tech and leadership space How effective communication is a key power skill—more valuable than tech skills The significance of 'Power Skills'—not soft skills—capable of transforming careers and lives How vulnerability and authenticity fuel impactful leadership and influence The rise of Speak31, a public speaking mastery program for all levels and backgrounds Why AI is a calculator for words, but not a substitute for human connection The societal cost of losing communication skills and the importance of emotional intelligence Navigating identity, race, and immigration in professional settings The need for accountability and integrity in tech and leadership How to embrace discomfort as a growth tool and stand up for what's right Follow us on Socials THREADS TWITTER INSTAGRAM LINKEDIN Need career or leadership coaching? See if I'm the right coach for you by going to www.incredipaul.org/coaching. Stay connected with all I'm doing https://bio.site/incredipaul

    EP 169: Your Voice is Powerful: Unlocking Leadership & Authentic Communication w/ Cristina Costa
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Formerly IncrediPaul Leadership, welcome to the Be Incredible Podcast! I talk to incredible people, doing incredible things, so you can truly Be Incredible in every aspect of your life! The foundation is leadership but expands into emotional intelligence and experts to help you be in incredible in L.I.F.E. (Leadership, Investing, Fitness, and Expenses)! Email contact@incredipaul.org for all inquires.