Wanky Thoughts

Helen Walker

We all have Wanky thoughts... you know what I mean, those thoughts that pop into your head making you believe you're not capable of building a business and life you love.  Who's gonna pay me that, I'm not a speaker, I need more experience, I'm crap at sales.... all Wanky thoughts that keep your income and success capped.  Well no more, because removing those Wanky thoughts is easy and this podcast will tell you exactly how to do that.  Expect honest, frank and upfront conversations about what it really takes to create a successful business that doesn't have you chained to your phone 24/7, because let's face it, we all want a life outside of our business.... and free, completely uninterrupted time on our own. 

  1. Jun 30

    13. It ain't your fault you hate videos

    In an AI age, being visible ain't an option... unless you wanna end up broke working in Greggs. If you want paying clients, you have to build trust, which means showing up, showing your face and talking on camera. Now whilst that might send shivers down your spine, you are forgiven for having this fear. Your dislike of videos or any sort of public speaking for that matter isn't your fault. Society's done a real number on you. You've been charged a "don't-be-too-much" tax your whole life. School, magazines, parents, society... all drip-feeding the same message: shrink, stay quiet, don't show off.  No wonder showing up on camera feels terrifying. It's not weakness. It's decades of conditioning. And once you see it for what it is, you can start undoing it. In this episode, I'm joined by brand photographer and visibility strategist Abi Moore, and we are getting into it.  We're talking about why so many brilliant women are hiding online, why selling feels icky when it really doesn't have to, and why the thing standing between you and your next client probably isn't your skills... it's your silence. Here's what we cover: 🧠 Why your fear of showing up isn't a personality flaw... it's a billing error You didn't arrive at this fear on your own.  It was built into you.  And understanding that is the first step to undoing it. 🎯 Why trying to appeal to everyone is killing your chances You are not a beige wall.  Niche down, speak directly, and the right people will find you already half sold before they've even said hello. 📹 Why done beats perfect... every single time Accept it'll go wrong.  Expect to forget your words.  Do it anyway.  Imperfect visibility beats perfect silence.  Nobody didn't hire you because your hair was a bit flat. If you've been telling yourself you'll start showing up properly once everything's a bit more polished, a bit more ready, a bit more whatever... this episode is your sign to stop waiting. Go find Abi: 📸 Instagram: @abbymooreuk 💼 LinkedIn: Abby Moore Branding GET IN TOUCH  Message me at helen@helenwalkercoaching.com  Follow me on Instagram  Connect with me on LinkedIn  Watch this podcast on YouTube

    48 min
  2. May 12

    9. You Don't Want It Enough (and Other Rubbish People Tell You)

    I  swapped the car for her kitchen this week, and even blow-dried my hair because this week, I've got a guest!  I met Vanessa Jennings at a networking event a couple of weeks ago and honestly, I could have talked to her all day. Vanessa is a brand strategist who helps people stop sounding like everyone else.  She's also a Kiwi who moved to the UK at 22, a mum, a former fashion industry lifer, and someone who took five... five — redundancies before finally saying "right, I'm doing this for myself." In this episode, we get into all of it.  Why it takes us so bloody long to leave jobs we hate.  The "salary handcuffs" (and how I survived on plain pasta with tuna as a weekend treat).  What actually happens when you launch something and nobody buys it.  Why being told "you just don't want it enough" by a coach is one of the most awful things you can hear and why it's also nonsense. We also talk about AI-generated content (Vanessa is not holding back), why trying to look professional online can completely kill your business, and how the best thing I ever did was just prat about in my kitchen making videos with no plan whatsoever. If you've ever had a bad month and immediately gone back on LinkedIn to look for a job, this one's for you. Find Vanessa:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessaeves/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessa-eve-jennings/ Website: https://vanessaeves.com/ GET IN TOUCH  Message me at helen@helenwalkercoaching.com  Follow me on Instagram  Connect with me on LinkedIn  Watch this podcast on YouTube

    40 min

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We all have Wanky thoughts... you know what I mean, those thoughts that pop into your head making you believe you're not capable of building a business and life you love.  Who's gonna pay me that, I'm not a speaker, I need more experience, I'm crap at sales.... all Wanky thoughts that keep your income and success capped.  Well no more, because removing those Wanky thoughts is easy and this podcast will tell you exactly how to do that.  Expect honest, frank and upfront conversations about what it really takes to create a successful business that doesn't have you chained to your phone 24/7, because let's face it, we all want a life outside of our business.... and free, completely uninterrupted time on our own.