Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

Taylor Chandler
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I help people break negative relationship cycles by shifting from Insecure to Secure Attachment.

  1. 3d ago

    The Inescapable Truth of Relationships

    Most people handle conflict in ways that breaks the relationship down instead of building it up -- and that's why they stay stuck. In this episode, Taylor Chandler LMFT shares 3 focus points that will change the trajectory of your relationship, from a downhill spiral to an upward swing: 1. Observing (seeing what you can take responsibility for) 2. Taking right action (learning how to love actively) 3. Handling the gap between what you want and what you have right now (the power of patient waiting) Whether you're going through a rough season or just wanting to level up your relational intelligence, these practices will positively affect your closest connections for a lifetime. 💬 Which of these 3 focus points feels like your biggest challenge right now—observing, taking right action, or handling the gap? Let me know in the comments! ❓ASK ME ANYTHING -- Q&A Submissions: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/rXUYceTl ⏱ Timestamps 00:00 Intro 00:23 The inescapable truth of relationships (the gap) 09:51 Focus Point 1: Observing & Taking Responsibility  12:48 Focus Point 2: Practice loving action (even when you don’t feel like it) 16:26 Focus Point 3: Waiting well 🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🖥 Website: https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/   💬 Work With Me -- If you're a couple looking for direct, high-impact work, request a consultation: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/kDOHfAGQ Subscribe for weekly relationship insights: https://substack.com/@iamtaylorchandler?r=69mp8b&utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/ Disclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy. #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #RelationalIntelligence #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

  2. Mar 11 ·  Bonus

    Love is Blind Pre-Reunion Breakdown (Season 10)

    My Love is Blind Season 10 Pre-Reunion Breakdown. Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Reattach Course: https://payhip.com/b/rdBRF 00:00:57 Alex 00:03:23 Ashley 00:08:16 Chris 00:09:36 Jessica 00:12:02 Connor 00:14:17 Bri 00:16:55 Devonte 00:19:25 Brittany 00:21:17 Jordan 00:22:29 Amber 00:22:49 Mike 00:23:45 Emma 00:26:11 Kevan 00:29:19 Tyler  00:30:30 Keya 00:32:01 Vic & Christine Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

  3. Feb 9

    The Disempowered Man - Entitled Woman Dynamic (this is what Kevin Samuels exposed)

    The Disempowered-Man and Entitled-Woman dynamic is a problematic  pair, where the man sinks into a powerless role and the woman takes over. The masculine frame has broken down. The woman tries to become the man she wanted from the beginning. The catastrophic breakdown of relationships and family in America is layered. One of the major issues is the absence of healthy, present father figures. Men without role models to help guide how they lead themselves and the family has left an enormous void. We also have social-cultural issues such as media glamorizing divorce; weaponoization of the legal system; pedastalizing the woman’s experience, while dismissing and degrading the man’s experience — and more. If you’re caught in this dynamic and you need help breaking and correcting this pattern as an individual or couple, complete my interest form. From there, I’ll reach out to schedule a consultation. 👉 Interest form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/ ⏰ Timestamps: 00:05:48 Intro to the Disempowered Man & Entitled Woman 00:10:13 Red Pill Rabbithole 00:11:41 Drained but can’t complain 00:15:35 Where does this dynamic come from? Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

  4. Feb 2

    The Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic: Doing Too Much and Feeling Like You're Not Enough

    This is about the Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic, where one partner consistently carries the majority of the load, while the other partner fails to show up in a way that truly progresses and deepens the relationship. We’re not blaming the person “doing less” or sympathizing with the person “doing more” — I’m pulling the veil back so you can see the inner workings of what’s happening in this dynamic and I’m giving solutions for what to do about it. Mentioned videos — 8 models for Self & Relational Development: https://youtu.be/tLHS3kaacgo SER Model: https://youtu.be/mOwCXoETFxc 👩🏾‍🏫 Conflict in Couples Workshop: https://taylorchandler.as.me/schedule/7f693168/?appointmentTypeIds[]=88471947 👉 Interest form to work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L 💻 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ 📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/ ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00:38 What are Relationship Dynamics? 0:02:37 The Capacity Problem 00:04:28 Three domains of capacity 00:11:24 Solutions for the O-U Dynamic Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

  5. Jan 26

    The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic 2026 (Short and Sweet)

    You know I love talking about Attachment! This is a major key to unlocking yourself and your relationships. Mastering my Attachment Style was a big part of my journey. I’m grateful for all I learned and how much it helped me. For a few years of my practice I almost solely helped people shift from insecure to secure attachment. I even had a group class called Reattach. Now YOU can do Reattach at your own pace. You can get the class and the exercises that have helped hundreds of people get a grip on their attachment and make positive changes. Head to my website to grab it and if you need additional help, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me through my interest form or email: Taylor@iamtaylorchandler.com 👉 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ 👉 Interest Form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00:40 What is an attachment style? 00:02:06 My therapy journey with attachment  00:06:25 The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic 00:10:00 Cycles of learning but not acting Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

  6. Jan 19

    2026 Foresights about Dating and Relationships: Critical thinking, sharper discernment, and a return to courtship

    Hey y’all, I’m giving my foresights on what I think we’re going to see this year of 2026 in the dating and relationship lane. Just my thoughts! I’ll give a brief overview in the beginning of what we’ve seen in recent past. Check out the timestamps for the points and click the link below if you’re interested in working with me: 👉 Interest form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L ⏰ Timestamps: 00:01:17 What we’ve seen in the recent pasts 00:09:32 What’s coming down the pipeline 00:09:45 Polarized Daters 00:12:02 Echo chambers up, engagement down 00:15:28 Turning away from relationship influencer culture 00:27:42 Sharper discernment 00:28:37 A return to courtship 00:39:46 Learning and un-learning Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

  7. Jan 12

    Renewal of the Mind Pt. 3: Mindset

    The final part of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mindset. I’m talking about 5 core aspects of Mindset in a way that makes it easy to understand and take action on. The more positive core aspects you have, the higher quality of life you will have — and when you maximize those positives, it gets even better. In this lane of personal and relational development, you get better options (so you’ll marry better), you’ll be more likable, better energy… an overall high vibe. Everyone wants it and when you set your mind to it, you’ll get it. 👉 Work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L ⏰ Timestamps:  00:04:44 Mindset 00:15:25 Benefits of the Right Mindset 00:30:29 Talk about the 5 Core Aspects Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

  8. Jan 5

    Renewal of the Mind Pt. 2: Mind Control

    Part 2 of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mind Control. I’m expanding on this principle: the quality of your thoughts directly affects the quality of your life. Mind control is a skill that is more important now than ever (if you don’t do it, someone else will do it for you). I have 3 mechanisms for you to activate to heighten your degree of influence over your life.   ⏰ Timestamps:  00:56:00 Thoughts are running us 00:08:56 Mind Control is a skill 00:10:30 Awareness is the starting point 00:13:35 Living beneath you 00:22:15 Three Mechanisms to Activate Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

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