Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

Taylor Chandler
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I help people break negative relationship cycles by shifting from Insecure to Secure Attachment.

  1. 3d ago

    Speaking Life and Honoring Provision for Marriage-Oriented Women

    In this episode, LMFT Taylor Chandler Walker breaks down what it means to speak life and honor provision. Whether you are currently married or trusting God for a future husband, learn how to separate a man’s intrinsic value from his performance, manage your emotional reactions, and treat provision with the honor and respect it deserves as a spiritual role. Proverbs 18:21 tells us that "death and life are in the power of the tongue." As women, the words we speak over our husbands—and future husbands—carry immense weight, shaping the spiritual and emotional atmosphere of our relationships. 🔑 Keys to listen for: Speaking Life vs. Performance Evaluations: Affirming your husband (or future husband) independent of his work or effort.Wisdom for Single Women: How to pray strategically and seek God’s definition of a husband instead of assuming society’s ideas.The Spiritual Weight of Provision: Understanding a man’s unique relationship to providing and why it’s important to honor that role. ⏱️ Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro & Part 1: Husbands and Husbands-to-Be 02:23 - Separate Value from Performance 04:38 - Managing Your Feelings 05:21 - Keeping Going 06:00 - Part 2: Not-Yet-Husbands 06:08 - Seeking God for What a Husband Is 07:41 - Writing a Strategic Prayer 09:01 - Becoming the Woman God Wants You to Be 09:20 - Part 3: Provision 09:27 - Provision as a Spiritual Role 09:47 - Treating Provision with Honor and Respect 10:12 - Understanding a Man’s Relationship to Providing 11:15 - Meeting What the Family Needs 📩 Read My Substack Articles: https://taylorchandlerwalker.substack.com/ 🤝 Does your relationship need support? Learn more about my Couples Intensive: https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/ If this lesson resonated with you, please subscribe! #BoundariesAndGrace #SpeakLife #BiblicalMarriage #ChristianRelationships #TaylorChandlerWalker #FaithAndMarriage 🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/ 💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation 👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack 📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandler Disclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy. #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice

  2. Aug 31

    The Secret to Predictable, Reliable Relationship Repair

    👀 Explore Taylor's Couples Intensive options: https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/ ❓ Submit your questions for the upcoming Q&A: https://linktr.ee/iamtaylorchandler?lt_utm_source=lt_share_link#585589461 Most couples stay stuck going in circles with conflict because they’re hyper-focused on only 33% of the problem. Relational conflict isn't solved by figuring out who's right—it’s resolved by realizing there are multiple perspectives converging, and balancing a 3-part equation: Them, You, and Y’all. In Season 14, Episode 5 of Boundaries and Grace, LMFT Taylor Chandler Walker gives insight into how to develop self-leadership in heated moments, choosing the right way even when it's hard, and the importance of attending to the atmosphere in your relationship so small sparks don't turn into major fires. ⏱️ Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:16 - Them: The Offense & Real Impact 03:38 - You: Your Stance & Response 15:13 - Y’all: Relationship Culture & The Space Between 16:22 - Friction, Sparks & Repair 23:00 - Closing 📩 Relationship Enthusiasts! Get insights delivered straight to your inbox: https://substack.com/search/iamtaylorchandler?searching=profile #BoundariesAndGrace #RelationshipAdvice #ConflictResolution #CouplesTherapy #TaylorChandlerWalker 🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/ 💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation 👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack 📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandler Disclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy. #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice

  3. Aug 24

    Nobody Wins When the Family Feuds

    When relationship conflict plays out like a war, nobody wins — because defeating your partner is sabotaging yourself. You can’t win with someone you’re against. Your partner/spouse is your teammate, not your opponent! In this episode of Boundaries & Grace, Taylor Chandler LMFT breaks down her 4-pillar T.E.A.M. framework to help you stop fighting and start connecting: T – Timeouts: Pausing so your nervous system can settle (because a hijacked body only creates contention, not connection).E – Empathy: Balancing rational facts with your partner's subjective emotional experience instead of poking holes, proving, or minimizing.A – Attitude: Realizing that while you can't control every feeling, you can control how you approach.M – Macro & Micro: Balancing the day-to-day details with the big-picture vision of who you are together and what you both ultimately want.Fighting with your partner takes a ton of energy. Whether you're exhausted from the back-and-forth fights or if you’re looking to upskill yourself for the health of your relationships, this episode will help you enjoy the one you’re with —instead of just coping with them. 💬 Which pillar of the T.E.A.M. framework do you and your partner need to practice most right now—Timeouts, Empathy, Attitude, or Macro & Micro? Let me know in the comments! __ ⏰ TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Intro — Nobody Wins When the Family Feuds 00:44 Timeouts (Regulating the Nervous System) 02:09 Empathy (Rational Sense vs. Emotional Senses) 07:24 Attitude (Navigating the Emotional Waves) 17:14 Macro & Micro (Balancing the Weeds with the Vision) 19:48 Outro & How to Work Together 🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/ 💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation 👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack 📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandler Disclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy. #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice

  4. Aug 17

    Sinking Relation-ships: 4 Drains and How to Plug Them

    Culture sells the idea that intimacy is easy and connection is effortless — at least if they’re the ‘right one’ for you. The truth is, every relationship creates friction. Two distinct people coming together to share life is no easy feat. When that friction keeps firing up, there can be a blow up… or a leak. In this episode, Taylor Chandler LMFT breaks down 4 major drains that can ultimately sink your dynamic — and she shares how to plug them so you can save your relation-ship. ;) Let’s talk about when we are Antagonistic, Defensive, Uncommitted, or Resentful.  Whether your relationship has a slow leak, is sinking, or you’re just refining your relational discernment, these 4 plugs will help you raise the standard for the culture of your closest relationship. ⏰ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Intro 01:55 Drain #1 Antagonizing 02:30 Drain #2 Defensive 02:43 Drain #3 Uncommitted 03:03 Drain #4 Resentment 06:56 Plug #1 Team 10:36 Plug #2 Open 11:34 Plug #3 Choose 14:01 Plug #4 Forgiveness 21:28 Be Functional and Relational 🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/ 💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation 👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack 📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandler Disclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy. #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice

  5. Aug 10

    Fantasy Sells: The "Prosperity Gospel" of Relationships vs. Principles for Quality Connection

    Why the idea of an "easy" partner is a trap—and what it actually takes to build a relationship that lasts. In this episode, Taylor Chandler LMFT breaks down the illusion of effortless love and shares three foundational principles for co-creating a fulfilling, high-quality relationship: Participation: Why you must actively engage to get the experience you want.Supra-Alignment: Getting in alignment with yourself, your partner, and God.Stewardship: Taking personal accountability and choosing loving action even when you don't feel like it.Whether you're tired of chasing relational fantasies or ready to step into active co-creation and stewardship, these principles will help you move wisely and build real connection. __ Timestamps: 00:00 Intro — Fantasy Sells 03:05 High Quality Relationships 08:58 Principle #1 — PARTICIPATION 11:50 Principle #2 — SUPRA-ALIGNMENT 23:28 Principle #3 — STEWARDSHIP 25:13 Closing 🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/ 💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation 👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack 📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandler Disclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy. #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice

  6. Aug 6

    The Inescapable Truth of Relationships: 3 Ways to Shift a Downward Spiral

    Most people handle conflict in ways that breaks the relationship down instead of building it up -- and that's why they stay stuck. In this episode, Taylor Chandler LMFT shares 3 focus points that will change the trajectory of your relationship, from a downhill spiral to an upward swing: 1. Observing (seeing what you can take responsibility for) 2. Taking right action (learning how to love actively) 3. Handling the gap between what you want and what you have right now (the power of patient waiting) Whether you're going through a rough season or just wanting to level up your relational intelligence, these practices will positively affect your closest connections for a lifetime. ❓ASK ME ANYTHING -- Q&A Submissions: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/rXUYceTl ⏱ Timestamps 00:00 Intro 00:23 The inescapable truth of relationships (the gap) 09:51 Focus Point 1: Observing & Taking Responsibility  12:48 Focus Point 2: Practice loving action (even when you don’t feel like it) 16:26 Focus Point 3: Waiting well 🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/ 💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation 👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack 📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandler Disclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy. #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice

  7. Mar 11 ·  Bonus

    Love is Blind Pre-Reunion Breakdown (Season 10)

    My Love is Blind Season 10 Pre-Reunion Breakdown. Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Reattach Course: https://payhip.com/b/rdBRF 00:00:57 Alex 00:03:23 Ashley 00:08:16 Chris 00:09:36 Jessica 00:12:02 Connor 00:14:17 Bri 00:16:55 Devonte 00:19:25 Brittany 00:21:17 Jordan 00:22:29 Amber 00:22:49 Mike 00:23:45 Emma 00:26:11 Kevan 00:29:19 Tyler  00:30:30 Keya 00:32:01 Vic & Christine 🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/ 💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation 👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack 📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandler Disclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy. #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice

  8. Feb 9

    The Disempowered Man - Entitled Woman Dynamic (this is what Kevin Samuels exposed)

    The Disempowered-Man and Entitled-Woman dynamic is a problematic  pair, where the man sinks into a powerless role and the woman takes over. The masculine frame has broken down. The woman tries to become the man she wanted from the beginning. The catastrophic breakdown of relationships and family in America is layered. One of the major issues is the absence of healthy, present father figures. Men without role models to help guide how they lead themselves and the family has left an enormous void. We also have social-cultural issues such as media glamorizing divorce; weaponoization of the legal system; pedastalizing the woman’s experience, while dismissing and degrading the man’s experience — and more. If you’re caught in this dynamic and you need help breaking and correcting this pattern as an individual or couple, complete my interest form. From there, I’ll reach out to schedule a consultation. 👉 Interest form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/ ⏰ Timestamps: 00:05:48 Intro to the Disempowered Man & Entitled Woman 00:10:13 Red Pill Rabbithole 00:11:41 Drained but can’t complain 00:15:35 Where does this dynamic come from? 🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/ 💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation 👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack 📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandler Disclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy. #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice

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