Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

Taylor Chandler
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I help people break negative relationship cycles by shifting from Insecure to Secure Attachment.

  1. 3D AGO

    The Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic: Doing Too Much and Feeling Like You're Not Enough

    This is about the Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic, where one partner consistently carries the majority of the load, while the other partner fails to show up in a way that truly progresses and deepens the relationship. We’re not blaming the person “doing less” or sympathizing with the person “doing more” — I’m pulling the veil back so you can see the inner workings of what’s happening in this dynamic and I’m giving solutions for what to do about it. Mentioned videos — 8 models for Self & Relational Development: https://youtu.be/tLHS3kaacgo SER Model: https://youtu.be/mOwCXoETFxc 👩🏾‍🏫 Conflict in Couples Workshop: https://taylorchandler.as.me/schedule/7f693168/?appointmentTypeIds[]=88471947 👉 Interest form to work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L 💻 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ 📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/ ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00:38 What are Relationship Dynamics? 0:02:37 The Capacity Problem 00:04:28 Three domains of capacity 00:11:24 Solutions for the O-U Dynamic Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

    21 min

  2. JAN 26

    The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic 2026 (Short and Sweet)

    You know I love talking about Attachment! This is a major key to unlocking yourself and your relationships. Mastering my Attachment Style was a big part of my journey. I’m grateful for all I learned and how much it helped me. For a few years of my practice I almost solely helped people shift from insecure to secure attachment. I even had a group class called Reattach. Now YOU can do Reattach at your own pace. You can get the class and the exercises that have helped hundreds of people get a grip on their attachment and make positive changes. Head to my website to grab it and if you need additional help, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me through my interest form or email: Taylor@iamtaylorchandler.com 👉 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ 👉 Interest Form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00:40 What is an attachment style? 00:02:06 My therapy journey with attachment  00:06:25 The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic 00:10:00 Cycles of learning but not acting Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

    13 min

  3. JAN 19

    2026 Foresights about Dating and Relationships: Critical thinking, sharper discernment, and a return to courtship

    Hey y’all, I’m giving my foresights on what I think we’re going to see this year of 2026 in the dating and relationship lane. Just my thoughts! I’ll give a brief overview in the beginning of what we’ve seen in recent past. Check out the timestamps for the points and click the link below if you’re interested in working with me: 👉 Interest form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L ⏰ Timestamps: 00:01:17 What we’ve seen in the recent pasts 00:09:32 What’s coming down the pipeline 00:09:45 Polarized Daters 00:12:02 Echo chambers up, engagement down 00:15:28 Turning away from relationship influencer culture 00:27:42 Sharper discernment 00:28:37 A return to courtship 00:39:46 Learning and un-learning Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

    45 min

  4. JAN 12

    Renewal of the Mind Pt. 3: Mindset

    The final part of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mindset. I’m talking about 5 core aspects of Mindset in a way that makes it easy to understand and take action on. The more positive core aspects you have, the higher quality of life you will have — and when you maximize those positives, it gets even better. In this lane of personal and relational development, you get better options (so you’ll marry better), you’ll be more likable, better energy… an overall high vibe. Everyone wants it and when you set your mind to it, you’ll get it. 👉 Work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L ⏰ Timestamps:  00:04:44 Mindset 00:15:25 Benefits of the Right Mindset 00:30:29 Talk about the 5 Core Aspects Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

    1h 5m

  5. JAN 5

    Renewal of the Mind Pt. 2: Mind Control

    Part 2 of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mind Control. I’m expanding on this principle: the quality of your thoughts directly affects the quality of your life. Mind control is a skill that is more important now than ever (if you don’t do it, someone else will do it for you). I have 3 mechanisms for you to activate to heighten your degree of influence over your life.   ⏰ Timestamps:  00:56:00 Thoughts are running us 00:08:56 Mind Control is a skill 00:10:30 Awareness is the starting point 00:13:35 Living beneath you 00:22:15 Three Mechanisms to Activate Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

    32 min

  6. 12/29/2025

    Renewal of the Mind Pt. 1: Identity

    This is for people who are determined to separate from the noise and shift to a higher level. In this episode, I’m talking about Identity, the foundation of a Renewed Mind. As we grow, we have to keep upgrading our system — and the internal system is where it all starts.  This is the first of a 3-part series. Next up is Mind Control and Mindset. ⏰ Timestamps: 00:02:09 Principle: Quality of Thinking Determines Quality of Life 00:05:30 Identity 00:12:45 Transcending Group Identity 00:15:07 Supporting Bible Verses 00:30:25 Roots and Fruits ⏯️ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=glHH9JBbo_I&feature=youtu.be Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

    34 min

  7. 12/22/2025

    Dating in a New Season (Intentional Dating)

    If you’re a man or woman intentionally dating or want to start dating that way, this one is for you. Rather than focusing on how rough it is out there, let’s talk about what you can do to make it a whole lot better. I’m also sharing a bit about what started my  journey to intentional dating (which takes about the first 8 minutes). FitnessPurposeSpiritual DisciplineSexual DisciplineLifestyleRelationshipsPetsHomeTimestamps: 00:03:08 Dating in Atlanta and transitioning to intentional dating 00:10:22 Eight Areas of Focus for Serious Dating 00:12:00 Fitness 00:14:20 Purpose 00:17:44 Spiritual Discipline 00:20:41 Sexual Discipline 00:24:05 Lifestyle 00:28:00 Relationships 00:31:42 Pets 00:33:03 Home Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

    36 min

  8. 12/21/2025

    It's a New Season (and I need to talk about Jesus, again)

    I have a major update for you. I know this isn't going to fly with some people, and I've wrestled with this myself, but I know what I need to do. I'm ready to share it with you. In this video, I'm talking about: 1. The answer to your pain (relational wounds -- from family, marriage, exes) 2. Restructuring my business 3. Jesus Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

    27 min
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