The Session with Tom Russell

Tom Russell & Scott Saunders
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The Session is where faith and life connect. Tom Russell and Scott Saunders  explore issues facing the family and the church today. Tom’s heart is to encourage marriages and Pastors. We try to approach every issue through the lens of Scripture, with a sensitivity to the families listening, and use humor when we can. No matter what the issue, we celebrate life in Jesus, and celebrate success! Which for us, means getting through more than 2 points a week! Sponsored by Haring Jewelers - https://www.haringjewelers.com/

  1. 3D AGO

    The Session: Teen Depression - Part 1

    The Session: Teen Depression 1 Peter 5:6-7, “So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor. Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.”  Definition from Bellevue Christian Counseling: Christian teen depression is a serious, treatable clinical condition, not just a spiritual failure or phase. Biblical support emphasizes that depression is a journey, not a permanent identity, offering hope alongside professional clinical counseling.  Emotional changes Be alert for emotional changes, such as: Feelings of sadness, which can include crying spells for no apparent reasonFrustration or feelings of anger, even over small mattersFeeling hopeless or emptyIrritable or annoyed moodLoss of interest or pleasure in usual activitiesLoss of interest in, or conflict with, family and friendsLow self-esteemFeelings of worthlessness or guiltFixation on past failures or exaggerated self-blame or self-criticismExtreme sensitivity to rejection or failure, and the need for excessive reassuranceTrouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions and remembering thingsOngoing sense that life and the future are grim and bleakFrequent thoughts of death, dying or suicideBehavioral Changes from Mayo Clinic - Watch for changes in behavior, such as: Tiredness and loss of energyInsomnia or sleeping too muchChanges in appetite — decreased appetite and weight loss, or increased cravings for food and weight gainUse of alcohol or drugsAgitation Slowed thinking, speaking or body movementsFrequent complaints of unexplained body aches and headaches, which may include frequent visits to the school nurseSocial isolationPoor school performance or frequent absences from schoolLess attention to personal hygiene or appearanceAngry outbursts, disruptive or risky behavior, or other acting-out behaviorsSelf-harm — for example, cutting or burningMaking a suicide plan or a suicide attempt Teen Depression Treatment, from Pax Renewal Center Teens who receive counseling that integrates both their emotional needs and their spiritual development show remarkable resilience that goes far beyond what traditional therapy alone can provide. Christian Treatment Helps Teens Realize What They Are Putting Ahead Of God Peer Priority (This sounds familiar….)Academic Success Romantic Relationships Teen Social Media CultureExamples Of Helpful Scripture For Depression  “And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. 39 No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 8:38-39"Come quickly, Lord, and answer me, for my depression deepens. Don’t turn away from me, or I will die. Let me hear of your unfailing love each morning, for I am trusting you. Show me where to walk, for I give myself to you." Psalm 143:7-8"Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad? I will put my hope in God! I will praise him again—  my Savior and my God!" Psalm 42:11A devotional podcast for parents on the go! Encouragement, Scripture, & prayer in just 7 minutes. Join the journey! To reach Tom Russell, go to https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com.

    29 min

  2. MAR 26

    The Session: When Your Spouse is Unfaithful - Part 2

    The Session: When Your Spouse is Unfaithful - Part 2 Psalm 51:10-12, “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.” After The Affair - 10 Steps Toward Healing, from Leslie Vernick 1. Does the spouse who committed adultery take ownership and repent for his or her choice without blaming?  2. Is there a willingness on the part of the adulterer to do the work of self-examination to understand better what happened and look at the deep heart issues? 3. Is there genuine sorrow for the pain he/she has caused the spouse?  4. Is the adulterous spouse willing to sit with his/her spouse and really listen to the hurt and heartache over this and show compassion, empathy and care no matter how long it takes? 5. Is the injured spouse willing to forgive even if right now he/she doesn’t know how to do that? 6. Is the injured spouse willing to take a hard look at ways he/she may have contributed to neglect in the marriage or other unresolved problems that created emotional distancing to develop? 7. Is the injured spouse willing to be honest with her feelings of sadness, hurt, anger and do the hard work to work through them and move past them? 8. Is the injured spouse willing to acknowledge the positive changes his/her spouse is making toward rebuilding trust and healing the marriage? 9. Is the couple able to tolerate that the healing process goes in fits and starts; it isn’t a smooth ride? 10. Is the spouse who committed adultery willing to be patient with the process as his/her spouse struggles to let it go, gets retriggered with old memories or current reminders, or can’t immediately feel trust or warm feelings for his/her spouse?  Hope Restored Focus on the Family A devotional podcast for parents on the go! Encouragement, Scripture, & prayer in just 7 minutes. Join the journey! To reach Tom Russell, go to https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com.

    31 min

  3. MAR 19

    The Session: When Your Spouse is Unfaithful - Part 1

    The Session: When Your Spouse is Unfaithful Psalm 51:10-12, “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.” Forgive with intelligence Your spouse cheated. Your trust for them has nearly diminished and there's good reason for that. So, you must act accordingly. The reason why you're looking for ways to forgive your spouse is because your mind isn't allowing you to. It's playing scenarios in your head of them doing it again and it pains you. Does investigating your spouse make you a bad person? If your spouse gave you reasons to be weary of them? No. They broke your trust. All bets are off. If they lied and betrayed you, why should they get the privilege of being trusted immediately?  They committed the ultimate love crime.  And let's face it, some cheaters just get better at hiding it once they've been caught.  Worriedlovers.com Before proceeding, you should look for evidence of genuine “godly sorrow” (2 Corinthians 7:10) as opposed to the “worldly sorrow” which simply says, “I’m sorry I got caught.” A key indicator of a godly sorrow would include a willingness on the part of your spouse to talk with a marriage counselor who can assess his vulnerabilities, as well as the weaknesses of your relationship. Confront Honestly That’s because you need to meet this challenge from a position of strength and self-assurance. When you’re ready, arrange a time to sit down and talk with your spouse. Choose a private meeting place where you know you won’t be interrupted. Approach the subject honestly and straightforwardly. The crisis in your marriage is emotionally charged but stay calm and cool. To achieve this, most people need to write out what they are going to say. Often it is necessary to do a more formal intervention, where several people show up to confront the offending spouse at a designated time without his or her foreknowledge. This formal intervention should not be confused with that of individual people confronting your spouse over time. Prayerfully consider who these people might be and meet with them together ahead of time so that you can explain your situation and provide them with the important facts. A devotional podcast for parents on the go! Encouragement, Scripture, & prayer in just 7 minutes. Join the journey! To reach Tom Russell, go to https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com.

    26 min

  4. MAR 12

    The Session: The Impact of Sleep on Our Mental Health

    The Session: The Impact of Sleep on Our Mental Health Matthew 11:28-30 – “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Sleep, Body and Brain We spend approximately a third of our lives asleep. Sleep is an essential and involuntary process, without which we cannot function effectively. The body’s fuel is sleep. Without proper sleep, our minds begin to slow, unable to operate at their full potential. This happens until the mind becomes so deprived of the rest it needs, it breaks down. And without the commander-in-chief acting accordingly, the rest of the body pays the price.It is as essential to our bodies as eating, drinking and breathing.Sleeping helps to repair and restore our brains, not just our bodies. During sleep we can process information, consolidate memories, and undergo a number of maintenance processes that help us to function during the daytime.Poor sleep over a sustained period leads to a number of problems which are immediately recognizable, including fatigue, sleepiness, poor concentration, lapses in memory, and irritability.There is no universal answer to the question of how much sleep a person needs. This varies from person to person. What is important is that people respect themselves enough to find out how much sleep they need and ensure that they achieve it.The amygdala is in charge of our emotional responses. But to do its job correctly it needs us to sleep, because that’s the time it’s allocated to process emotion.The prefrontal cortex, does as well. The prefrontal cortex does a lot of impressive things. One of which is being “the voice of reason” to our emotions (aka putting the brakes on our amygdala when it’s being a diva). The prefrontal cortex helps control our impulses, attention, inhibition, emotion, and complex learning. Helps Sleep should get as much attention as depression and anxiety prevention gets.People with insomnia are 10 and 17 times more likely than those without insomnia to experience clinically significant levels of depression and anxiety, respectively. (National Library of Medicine)Helpful Sleep Strategies from Mayo Clinic  Manage WorriesTry to resolve your worries or concerns before bedtime. Jot down what's on your mind and then set it aside for tomorrow.Stress Management might help. Start with the basics, such as getting organized, setting priorities and delegating tasks. Meditation also can ease anxiety.Sleep killer 1: Anxiety - Compounding the problem is the fact that a lack of sleep can also worsen any anxiety you may be experiencing. (Gale.com) It shows the importance of managing and working on your anxiety very important. The Grateful Exercise  Progressive Muscle Strategy Writing Down The Important things You Will Try To Remember Through The Night Stick to a sleep schedule Set aside no more than eight hours for sleep. The recommended amount of sleep for a healthy adult is at least seven hours. Most people don't need more than eight hours in bed to be well rested. Go to bed and get up at the same time every day, including weekends. Being consistent reinforces your body's sleep-wake cycle. If you don't fall asleep within about 20 minutes of going to bed, leave your bedroom and do something relaxing. Read or listen to soot A devotional podcast for parents on the go! Encouragement, Scripture, & prayer in just 7 minutes. Join the journey! To reach Tom Russell, go to https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com.

    34 min

  5. MAR 5

    The Session: Important Marriage Tips Part 2

    The Session: Important Marriage Tips Colossians 3:13-14 "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” From Focus on the Family, these tips: Do Make Jesus The Center of Your Marriage. Don’t Embrace UnGodly Trends Ephesians 5:22 "Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord." Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." Ephesians 5:33 "However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband." Be Quick to Listen, Not Quick to Get Angry James 1:19  "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." The Communication Highway is vital here. Do Use Your Words to Encourage, Don’t Use them to Harm or Manipulate  James 3:8 "But no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison." Celebrate Each other Do Be Willing to Forgive, Don’t Hold Grudges  I Corinthians 13:5 "It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." “The Best Marriage Advice I have Ever Heard”, From Cara Joiner In Scripture we find that forgiveness is an action made in the midst of negative feelings, making it a beautiful expression of love. Stay Emotionally Connected Romans 12:15 "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." I Peter 4:8 "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." Forgiveness. Healing, Prayer and Scripture Fuel Emotional Connection  Physical intimacy ( Bedroom Olympics 😀) It is an essential aspect of a passionate marriage. In Song of Solomon 1:2, the Bible celebrates the physical union of husband and wife: “Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth – for your love is more delightful than wine.”  Investing Time And Effort  Maintaining physical intimacy – from caring hugs to satisfying sex – helps keep the passion alive in your marriage. Make physical affection a regular part of your daily routine. Hold hands, hug, kiss, and cuddle. Gottman’s Marriage Tips Turn Toward Instead of Away: Respond positively to small bids for connection (e.g., a glance, a touch, a question) rather than ignoring them. Nurture Fondness and Admiration: Regularly express appreciation and respect to build a positive, supportive environment. The Magic Six Hours: Dedicate 6 hours per week to your relationship, including parting, reunions, admiration, affection, and weekly dates.  A devotional podcast for parents on the go! Encouragement, Scripture, & prayer in just 7 minutes. Join the journey! To reach Tom Russell, go to https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com.

    26 min

  6. FEB 26

    The Session: Important Marriage Tips

    The Session: Important Marriage Tips Colossians 3:13-14 "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” From Focus on the Family, these tips: Do Make Jesus The Center of Your Marriage. Don’t Embrace UnGodly Trends Ephesians 5:22 "Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord." Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." Ephesians 5:33 "However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband." Be Quick to Listen, Not Quick to Get Angry James 1:19  "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." The Communication Highway is vital here. Do Use Your Words to Encourage, Don’t Use them to Harm or Manipulate  James 3:8 "But no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison." Celebrate Each other Do Be Willing to Forgive, Don’t Hold Grudges  I Corinthians 13:5 "It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." “The Best Marriage Advice I have Ever Heard”, From Cara Joiner In Scripture we find that forgiveness is an action made in the midst of negative feelings, making it a beautiful expression of love. Stay Emotionally Connected Romans 12:15 "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." I Peter 4:8 "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." Forgiveness. Healing, Prayer and Scripture Fuel Emotional Connection  Physical intimacy ( Bedroom Olympics 😀) It is an essential aspect of a passionate marriage. In Song of Solomon 1:2, the Bible celebrates the physical union of husband and wife: “Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth – for your love is more delightful than wine.”  Investing Time And Effort  Maintaining physical intimacy – from caring hugs to satisfying sex – helps keep the passion alive in your marriage. Make physical affection a regular part of your daily routine. Hold hands, hug, kiss, and cuddle. Gottman’s Marriage Tips Turn Toward Instead of Away:  Respond positively to small bids for connection (e.g., a glance, a touch, a question) rather than ignoring them. Nurture Fondness and Admiration: Regularly express appreciation and respect to build a positive, supportive environment. The Magic Six Hours:  Dedicate 6 hours per week to your relationship, including parting, reunions, admiration, affection, and weekly dates.  To reach Tom Russell, go to https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com.

    23 min

  7. FEB 19

    The Session: It’s not normal! Part 2

    The Session: It’s not normal! Genesis 2:24 "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." Every February, Tom & Scott celebrate “Love Month”. Mostly because Valentine’s Day is also Tom’s Anniversary (celebrating 51 years this year!). We also this to celebrate God’s gift of marriage, and to encourage you in your marriage. Not much in the notes this time, just 7 “It’s not normal” thoughts from marriage coaches Tommy and Dianne McCollister: It’s not normal to not have intimacy for weeks  It’s not normal to neglect emotional connection  It’s not normal to consistently feel unhappy in your marriage  It’s not normal to always prioritize parenting over your partner  It’s not normal to avoid spending quality time together  It’s not normal to prefer work over your home  It’s not normal to have nothing to talk about with your spouse  Here’s the link to the YouTube video Tom and I talked through on these 2 episodes: https://youtube.com/shorts/ufVHSRSx32E?si=f9IVAjRwW_bz5WkK  If your marriage is full of these “It’s not normals”, get the normal back in your marriage by contacting Tom today. Thanks for listening!  A devotional podcast for parents on the go! Encouragement, Scripture, & prayer in just 7 minutes. Join the journey! To reach Tom Russell, go to https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com.

    31 min

  8. FEB 12

    The Session: It’s not normal!

    The Session: It’s not normal! Genesis 2:24 "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." Every February, Tom & Scott celebrate “Love Month”. Mostly because Valentine’s Day is also Tom’s Anniversary (celebrating 51 years this year!). We also this to celebrate God’s gift of marriage, and to encourage you in your marriage. Not much in the notes this time, just 7 “It’s not normal” thoughts from marriage coaches Tommy and Dianne McCollister: It’s not normal to not have intimacy for weeks  It’s not normal to neglect emotional connection  It’s not normal to consistently feel unhappy in your marriage  It’s not normal to always prioritize parenting over your partner  It’s not normal to avoid spending quality time together  It’s not normal to prefer work over your home  It’s not normal to have nothing to talk about with your spouse  Here’s the link to the YouTube video Tom and I talked through on these 2 episodes: https://youtube.com/shorts/ufVHSRSx32E?si=f9IVAjRwW_bz5WkK  If your marriage is full of these “It’s not normals”, get the normal back in your marriage by contacting Tom today. Thanks for listening!  To reach Tom Russell, go to https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com.

    22 min
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The Session is where faith and life connect. Tom Russell and Scott Saunders  explore issues facing the family and the church today. Tom’s heart is to encourage marriages and Pastors. We try to approach every issue through the lens of Scripture, with a sensitivity to the families listening, and use humor when we can. No matter what the issue, we celebrate life in Jesus, and celebrate success! Which for us, means getting through more than 2 points a week! Sponsored by Haring Jewelers - https://www.haringjewelers.com/

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    Tom Russell & Scott Saunders
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
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