Candy from Strangers

Rebecca and James
  • 5.0 (5)
  • SOCIETY & CULTURE

We're semi-competent people, here to offer free candy (insights & hindsight), some sweet, some sour, but always with the hope that you'll know you're worthy of love and respect. The world needs you, and right now - you are enough.

  1. 08/18/2023

    Transitions & Changes

    Have you ever been overwhelmed by positive stress? And what does that even mean anyway? In this episode, we discuss the types of stress that are currently plaguing us, and how we are managing it. Join us as we cover everything from eating cake, and military retirement, to traveling Europe, and moving to a new city! This journey has been a wild one, but in this episode we want to encourage you, and remind you that  when our lives feel upside down, it's still possible for the world to feel right. Thank you for listening! As always, we want you to know: you are enough, and we're glad you're here. Don't forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe. If you want to support the show and keep us on the air you can do that here: Buymeacoffee

    1h 1m

  2. 02/13/2023

    The Gifts of Imperfection Review: Part Four (The Final Part)

    We made it! FINALLY! Part four, the LAST PART of our review of Brené Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection is here! In this ep. we dig into  Guideposts 8-10 of Wholehearted living:  8 : Cultivating Calm and Stillness: Letting Go of Anxiety as a Lifestyle9: Cultivating Meaningful Work: Letting Go of Self-Doubt and “Supposed To”10: Cultivating Laughter, Song, and Dance: Letting Go of Being Cool and “Always in Control” While sharing details about our struggles, fears, and how we're learning to identify and use each of these guideposts in our journey toward a Wholehearted life, it is our hope that it is beneficial to you, dear listener, in some way. Thank you for listening! If the podcast speaks to you or you find value in it, Don't forget to leave a review!!! You can also support production of this show here: Buy us a Coffee As always, we want you to know:  you are enough, and we're glad you're here. Thanks for listening! Be on the lookout for more hindsights and insights in the near future. Take the Wholehearted Inventory Quiz Here: wholeheartedinventory Get The Gifts of Imperfection Book Here: Amazon or B&N

    1h 20m

  3. 07/13/2022

    The Gifts of Imperfection Review: Part Three

    We're back! We missed you guys!!! Injury, illness, and crazy schedules has kept us away, but today we jumped into part three of our review of Brené Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection! In this ep. we dig into  Guideposts 4-7 of Wholehearted living!  4 : Cultivating Gratitude & Joy: Letting Go of Scarcity & Fear of the Dark5: Cultivating Intuition & Trusting Faith: Letting Go of the Need for Certainty6: Cultivating Creativity: Letting Go of Comparison7: Cultivating Play and Rest: Letting Go of Exhaustion as a Status Symbol & Productivity as Self-WorthWe discuss how comparison makes us AFRAID we're not good enough, thus it robs us of our JOY.  If we aren't living with joy, we won't prioritize play, creativeness or rest. AKA the building blocks of a wholehearted life. We examine our need for certainty, and if you have to be certain, you leave no room for faith. James and I share details about our struggles in finding play that isn't attached to productivity, some fears, and how we're learning to let go of 'status'. If uncertainty = vulnerability, & intuition is making room for uncertainty ... no wonder we suck at using our intuition! It's all in the name of growth folks! Here's to learning about WHY we do the things we do, and growing into who we're created to be with less fear of the dark. Don't forget to leave a review!!! You can also support production of this show here: Buy us a Coffee As always, we want you to know:  you are enough, and we're glad you're here. Thanks for listening! Take the Wholehearted Inventory Quiz Here: wholeheartedinventory Get The Gifts of Imperfection Book Here: Amazon or B&N

    1h 18m

  4. 02/20/2022

    The Gifts of Imperfection Review: Part Two

    We made it to part two of our review of Brené Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection! In this ep. we get to dive into the first three Guideposts of Wholehearted living!  1 : Cultivating Authenticity: Letting Go of What People Think2: Cultivating Self-Compassion: Letting Go of Perfectionism3: Cultivating a Resilient Spirit: Letting Go of Numbing and PowerlessnessWe discuss the idea of 'cultivating' and growing into who we want to be and how its life work, not microwave quick work. As recovering perfectionists, we also share our personal gas tank levels from the wholehearted inventory and our takeaways from each guideposts. This is heavy stuff! If you haven't yet, be sure to  take the wholehearted inventory quiz on Brené's  website to follow along with us and don't forget to leave a review! As always, we want you to know:  you are enough, and we're glad you're here. Thanks for listening! If you want to support the production, do that here: Buy us a Coffee Take the Wholehearted Inventory Quiz Here: wholeheartedinventory Get The Gifts of Imperfection Book Here: Amazon or B&N

    59 min

  5. 02/13/2022

    The Gifts of Imperfection Review: Part One

    Wholehearted living is the perfect theme for February! Join us book club style in a review of Brené Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection! In this ep. we trudge through the Slough of Despond to take a deep look at the three C's: Courage, Compassion & Connection,  keys to unlocking the power of Love, Belonging & Being Enough. We discuss what gets in the way of wholehearted living while sharing stories, referencing The Land Before Time and four other movies while digesting these first topics in her book. Brené's work is poignant and helpful for anyone wanting to live a full life, a whole life, and in our opinion, a rich life. If you haven't yet, be sure to pick up your copy of her book, and take the wholehearted inventory quiz on her website.  (links below) Don't forget to leave a review! You are enough, and we're glad you're here. Thanks for listening! Buy us a Coffee Quiz Here: wholeheartedinventory Book Here: Amazon or B&N

    1h 15m

  6. 01/11/2022

    New Year Alignment

    If you made a list of everything you loved most in this world, how long would it take you to list yourself? It's season two baby! We're digging in. Lets be real. We were not excited for 2022. The idea of planning goals felt overwhelming and like wishful thinking. And we haven't been on our own love lists for a long while. Instead of goal mapping or making trite resolutions, we chose the theme of Alignment for this new year. We know what being out of alignment feels like, but what would it feel like to be aligned? To help figure this out we're going  to kickoff this year with an overview of Brené Brown's "The Gifts of Imperfection" in our next episode!  We'll include our thoughts and reactions, what we've learned and what we're going to do about it! To follow along with us, snag a copy at Amazon or B&N, take your gas tank quiz on her website and lets dig in! Quiz Here: wholeheartedinventory Book Here: Amazon or B&N Here's to learning the process of becoming wholehearted people aligned with our values, learning to love ourselves and be top list people! We're so glad you're joining us! Rebecca & James

    38 min

  7. 09/21/2021

    That's a Wrap! (for this season & the feature film!)

    We're wrapping season 1 by sharing experiences from Next to North filming on location in Alaska, and discussing the prevalent thought that we need to make up for the lost pandemic year.  Hint: No, we don't! We touch on the idea that Resiliency is the choices we make, not the outcomes. So when you're trying to film a happy scene, and it pours rain..... we can choose to sulk, call it quits, scramble for an umbrella, or dance in the mud puddles. The scene might never make it into the final cut, but we'll remember how we chose to handle it. Look for the  @next.to.north.film platforms on Instagram and FB https://www.instagram.com/next.to.north.film/ https://www.facebook.com/Next.to.North.Film/ Thanks for listening and subscribing! See you next season!

    51 min

  8. 06/16/2021

    Progress Report B+

    James and Rebecca review their four square challenge and the effect projects like publishing a book and film production can have on our progress. Reminding ourselves it's okay to have laser focus on one square for a season is an important step in battling the self-doubt dragon. Letting go of any guilt that weighs us down allows us to step into who we're created to be; and that dear listener is our hope for you! How is your progress report? Do you need to re-focus energy? It is wise to check in and adjust as necessary, that's life! Check out the new endeavors! The Fourth Fate BOOK E-Reader: https://books2read.com/u/4AOdwJ Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Fourth-Fate-Rebecca-Casselman/dp/173639181X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= Barnes&Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-fourth-fate-rebecca-casselman/1139380693?ean=9781736391822 Next to North FILM Webpage: https://casselcore.com/next-to-north/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/next.to.north.film/

    28 min
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We're semi-competent people, here to offer free candy (insights & hindsight), some sweet, some sour, but always with the hope that you'll know you're worthy of love and respect. The world needs you, and right now - you are enough.

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  • Creator
    Rebecca and James
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2023
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2023 Candy from Strangers
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