The Kandid Shop

The Kandid Shop Podcast LLC

Welcome to ”The Kandid Shop Podcast,” an honest, open space where real people ”Keep it Kandid” about a variety of relevant issues/topics, from relationships to parenting to starting a business, and everything in between! Join me, Kandidly Kristin, for kandid conversations about all things real and relevant!

  1. IT'S SUMMER BREAK TIME!

    07/02/2024 · BONUS

    IT'S SUMMER BREAK TIME!

    Shoot Me A Message!  Summer Break Announcement Hey Podcast Fam!! The Kandid Shop Podcast is taking a well-deserved summer break!  We’ve had an amazing season full of kandid conversations, inspiring stories, and thought-provoking topics. We're pausing the show for the summer to spend time with family, recharge, and bring you even more incredible content. But don’t worry, we’ll be back before you know it! Mark your calendars because we’ll return with new episodes in September. In the meantime, catch up on any episodes you may have missed, and stay connected with us on social media @thekandidshoppodcast for updates, "Best Of" reruns, and sneak peeks of what’s coming next. If you need something more to listen to hop over to Audible and check out a few of the audiobooks I've narrated: https://www.audible.com/pd/Smoking-Leather-Audiobook/B0CXK25LQ7?action_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp https://www.audible.com/pd/Emotional-Self-Care-for-Black-Women-30-Day-Journey-Audiobook/B0CS4WM21N?action_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp https://www.audible.com/pd/Peepers-Audiobook/B0D6ZN1JD4?action_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp Thank you for your continuous support and for being part of The Kandid Shop family. Have a fantastic summer, and we can’t wait to reconnect with you in the fall! Keep It Safe, Keep It Healthy, Keep It Kandid! Support the show Intro Music by: Anthony Nelson aka BUSS https://music.apple.com/us/artist/buss/252316338 Keep it Safe, Keep it Healthy & Keep it Kandid! www.thekandidshop.com IG, FB & Tiktok: @thekandidshoppodcast

    2 min
  2. Embracing Love in All Its Forms: A Kandid Chat on Non-Traditional Relationships w/Gayle Lynn and Jess Lynn

    06/22/2024

    Embracing Love in All Its Forms: A Kandid Chat on Non-Traditional Relationships w/Gayle Lynn and Jess Lynn

    Shoot Me A Message! Curious about the evolving landscape of love and relationships? You're in for a treat! In this Best Of Season 3 episode, Relationship coaches Gayle Lynn and Jess Lynn(no relation) join me to uncover the intricate world of non-traditional relationships. From polyamory to swinging, we dispel myths and share firsthand experiences that challenge societal norms. Gayle opens up about her journey into polyamory, ignited by her husband's curiosity, while Jess dives into her research-driven path toward understanding non-traditional relationship structures. Our conversation highlights the pivotal role of communication and the hurdles of jealousy, providing invaluable insights into embracing diverse forms of love. As we navigate the shifting tides of acceptance, this episode explores how younger generations are spearheading a movement towards authenticity and ethical non-monogamy. Gayle and I discuss the historical stigma against open relationships and how contemporary society is gradually shedding these restrictive views. Transparency stands at the forefront of our dialogue, offering a roadmap for personal growth and deeper connections. We also touch on the surprising openness found even among older generations, emphasizing that the quest for genuine relationships transcends age. Finally, we tackle the emotional complexities of non-traditional relationships, focusing on the importance of supportive communities and honest communication. Gayle and Jess provide practical advice on setting healthy boundaries and navigating societal pressures. We delve into the concept of compersion and the necessity of emotional intelligence in these relationships. Whether you're contemplating a non-traditional relationship or looking to improve your monogamous one, this episode serves as a heartfelt guide to understanding love in its many forms. Join us and discover the future of relationship coaching and the transformative power of living authentically. Connect with Gayle Lynn: https://relationshipsevolving.com https://www.instagram.com/relationships_evolving/ https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipsEvolving Connect with Jess Lynn: https://www.bothandcoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/nonmonogamous_newbies/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090313045966 Support the show Intro Music by: Anthony Nelson aka BUSS https://music.apple.com/us/artist/buss/252316338 Keep it Safe, Keep it Healthy & Keep it Kandid! www.thekandidshop.com IG, FB & Tiktok: @thekandidshoppodcast

    1h 1m
  3. Embrace Your Power Radiate Your Brilliance: A Kandid Chat w/Life Transformation Specialist Tina Hines

    06/18/2024

    Embrace Your Power Radiate Your Brilliance: A Kandid Chat w/Life Transformation Specialist Tina Hines

    Shoot Me A Message! What if you could transform your life from the inside out? Join me, as I sit down with the remarkable Tina C. Hines, a Life Transformation Specialist, empath, intuitive, clairvoyant, medium, and healer as we discuss just that! In this heartfelt episode of The Kandid Shop, Tina opens up about her profound journey from a 30-year corporate career to becoming a beacon of hope and healing for women. She kandidly shares how her battle with clinical depression ignited her spiritual awakening and led her to embrace her true calling. Discover how she leverages her unique gifts to help women uncover and heal from deep emotional traumas, and why she prefers the term "specialist" over "coach." We also dive into the essential topic of boundaries and energy management, especially pertinent for empaths working with skeptical clients. Tina reveals the challenges she faces and her approach to dealing with clients whose needs may require more than coaching, sometimes necessitating therapeutic intervention. Listen as we discuss the importance of maintaining authenticity in coaching relationships and the critical role of self-care practices like meditation, journaling, grounding, and shielding to protect personal energy. Tina’s no-nonsense approach aims to empower women, providing them with genuine insights to overcome their challenges and move forward. In a soulful exploration of spiritual growth and personal development, Tina shares practical exercises to uncover the root causes of emotions and behaviors. She emphasizes the ethical considerations in her work, such as seeking permission before sharing intuitive insights. We also highlight her aspirations to create sacred spaces for women, particularly in Indonesia, to help them release blockages and find peace.   Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with heartfelt wisdom and transformative insights. Connect With Tina: https://www.tinachines.com/ https://www.instagram.com/tinachines50/ https://www.facebook.com/TinaCHines https://www.youtube.com/tinachines2 https://www.tiktok.com/@tinachines Support the show Intro Music by: Anthony Nelson aka BUSS https://music.apple.com/us/artist/buss/252316338 Keep it Safe, Keep it Healthy & Keep it Kandid! www.thekandidshop.com IG, FB & Tiktok: @thekandidshoppodcast

    52 min
  4. Transforming Friendships: A Kandid Chat on Boundaries and Toxic Relationships w/ Dr. Leslie Dobson

    06/11/2024

    Transforming Friendships: A Kandid Chat on Boundaries and Toxic Relationships w/ Dr. Leslie Dobson

    Shoot Me A Message! Ready to revolutionize your friendships and set healthier boundaries? Join me, as I sit down with the insightful Dr. Leslie Dobson, a clinical and forensic psychologist and the brilliant author behind "The Friend Cleanse." We uncover her unique journey through the challenging world of psychology, particularly her impactful work with acutely mentally ill individuals. You'll gain a clear understanding of the distinctions between clinical and forensic psychology and how Dr. Leslie's experiences have profoundly shaped her approach to identifying and navigating toxic relationships and friendships. Ever wondered why some friendships feel draining or why it's tough to maintain adult connections? Dr. Leslie and I tackle the critical topic of reassessing and setting boundaries in friendships. We dive into common misconceptions about long-term relationships and the vital importance of self-preservation. Listen in as Dr. Leslie provides practical advice on initiating and enforcing boundaries, recognizing red flags in toxic friendships, and trusting your intuition. Learn how to spot those subtle yet toxic behaviors like undermining comments and narcissistic tendencies that can erode your well-being. In our discussion, we also highlight the challenges of forming and sustaining friendships as adults amidst the influence of media on our expectations. Dr. Leslie shares invaluable strategies from her book on conducting a "friend cleanse," including tips on understanding attachment styles and seeking feedback from trusted loved ones. This episode is packed with actionable insights and personal stories that will help you prioritize meaningful relationships and surround yourself with people who genuinely uplift you.   Connect With Dr. Leslie: https://www.drlesliedobson.com https://www.instagram.com/drlesliedobson https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551797369229 https://www.tiktok.com/@drlesliedobson Get The Book: https://www.amazon.com/Friend-Cleanse-identify-vampires-boundaries/dp/1954094469 Support the show Intro Music by: Anthony Nelson aka BUSS https://music.apple.com/us/artist/buss/252316338 Keep it Safe, Keep it Healthy & Keep it Kandid! www.thekandidshop.com IG, FB & Tiktok: @thekandidshoppodcast

    39 min
  5. Life & Love Beyond Labels: A Kandid Chat on Identity and Marriage w/Sam and Vanessa Castle

    06/04/2024

    Life & Love Beyond Labels: A Kandid Chat on Identity and Marriage w/Sam and Vanessa Castle

    Shoot Me A Message! How do you navigate life when your identity is constantly questioned? In this heart-to-heart episode of The Kandid Shop, I sat down chat with the inspiring duo, Life Coach & Host of the "Be You, Do You" podcast Sam Castle, and his wife Vanessa Castle, an MSW and LGBTQ+ advocate. Sam opens up about his journey as a transgender man and his work as a Certified Behavioral Health professional specializing in Neuro-Linguistic Programming(NLP) and trauma-informed coaching. Vanessa offers her wisdom as a social worker in a mobile crisis unit, highlighting the importance of self-care and the necessity of setting boundaries. Join us as we explore the unique challenges faced by Black trans men, shedding light on societal misconceptions and the importance of self-affirmation. Vanessa's compassionate approach as a social worker offers invaluable insights into balancing a demanding career while supporting a partner's transition. We also discuss the dynamics of marriage, where Sam and Vanessa emphasize the need for effective communication, mutual support, and breaking stereotypical gender roles to build a resilient relationship. From the impact of media on public perception to the crucial need for accessible specialized healthcare within the LGBTQ+ community, this episode covers it all. Sam and Vanessa share their personal and professional aspirations, revealing their dream to travel and foster LGBTQ+ youth. Tune in to this kandid conversation that celebrates authenticity, love, and growth, and leave feeling inspired to embrace your true self and foster meaningful connections. Connect with Sam or Vanessa: https://www.beyoudoyoucoaching.com/ https://instagram.com/beyou_doyou1 https://facebook.com/samcastle https://www.facebook.com/vanessa.castle.501 Check out The "Be You, Do You" podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/235Kp7SogjS42Q26ZKPYN2?si=4a4d1586457a42a7 Support the show Intro Music by: Anthony Nelson aka BUSS https://music.apple.com/us/artist/buss/252316338 Keep it Safe, Keep it Healthy & Keep it Kandid! www.thekandidshop.com IG, FB & Tiktok: @thekandidshoppodcast

    59 min
  6. The Business of Pleasure: A Kandid Chat on Legalized Sex Work w/Madam Bella Cummins

    05/21/2024

    The Business of Pleasure: A Kandid Chat on Legalized Sex Work w/Madam Bella Cummins

    Shoot Me A Message! !!Content Warning!!  This episode contains discussions about legal sex work and is for the purpose of supporting legal sex workers' rights, work health, safety, and well-being. If this content offends you, please don't listen further. Thank you and enjoy the show. Join the conversation as I sit down with the insightful Madame Bella Cummins, Owner of Bella's Hacienda Ranch and Founder of the Onesta Foundation, to unravel the intricate tapestry of legal sex work in Nevada. Discover how Bella's personal journey and unwavering advocacy for sex workers' rights have forged a trail of empowerment and safety in an industry often shrouded in misconception. Our chat illuminates the benefits that regulated sex work offers to both the courtesans and their communities, from health and well-being to economic stability and public safety. Imagine a world where sex workers harness the freedom to choose, build entrepreneurial skills, and craft their futures with precision and care. This episode transports you to the heart of Bella's Hacienda Ranch, where women are mentored to embrace financial wisdom, fostering a culture of independence akin to running their own salon stations. Bella's passionate discourse on the Onesta Foundation's mission to support women in achieving financial independence and prosperous career transitions paints a portrait of hope and ambition, pushing the boundaries of a judgment-free society. We wrap up with a reflective dive into the human experience, sharing life lessons that transcend industry lines. We uncover the importance of authenticity, the transformative power of forgiveness, and the emotional clarity found in a simple phone call. This isn't just a peek behind the curtain of the sex work industry; it's an exploration of deeper connections and the universal yearning for understanding and unconditional love. Tune in to tap into the power of open dialogue and join us as we champion a more kandid, compassionate world. Connect with Bella: http://www.bellas.us https://onestafoundation.org/ Support the show Intro Music by: Anthony Nelson aka BUSS https://music.apple.com/us/artist/buss/252316338 Keep it Safe, Keep it Healthy & Keep it Kandid! www.thekandidshop.com IG, FB & Tiktok: @thekandidshoppodcast

    1h 1m
  7. BEST OF SEASON 3: Forgiveness is a Choice: A Kandid Chat on the Illusion of Mandatory Forgiveness w/Michelle Agopsowitz

    05/14/2024

    BEST OF SEASON 3: Forgiveness is a Choice: A Kandid Chat on the Illusion of Mandatory Forgiveness w/Michelle Agopsowitz

    Shoot Me A Message! Have you ever felt the heavy weight of being told to forgive when your heart wasn't ready? Join me, as I engage in an enlightening conversation with  Counselor, Reiki Master, and the Founder of Illuminated Path Counseling, Michelle Agopsowicz.  Together, we get kandid about toxic forgiveness and how societal norms rush us into a reconciliation that may not serve our healing.   The Stats: In a poll conducted in the Kandidly Speaking Facebook group, participants were asked if they felt pressured to forgive someone before they were emotionally ready. The results showed that:  67% answered "Yes,"  32% answered "No, I only forgive when I am ready,"  1% responded, "Maybe, not sure what that means." Key Takeaways: Toxic forgiveness occurs in relationships where individuals feel pressured or manipulated to forgiveForgiveness is a personal and organic process and there should be NOshame in not forgivingSome events may be unforgivable and sacred anger is a natural response to them such as racism, misogyny, war, sexual abuse, and physical abuse.Forgiveness is not always necessary to move forward, and one is not a lesser person for not forgivingToxic positivity can result in denying one's feelings and negative physical and emotional effects such as depression, anxiety, anger, and bitterness.Healthy forgiveness is found on an individual's terms,  it may take time to reach, and is different for everyoneSetting boundaries and communication is important in forgivenessForgiveness can come in unexpected ways The importance of holding space for people instead of offering advice and trying to fix their problems.This isn't just about letting go; it's about understanding when holding on to 'sacred anger' is valid and justified.  We discuss the importance of recognizing our own trauma responses and why forgiveness is not always a prerequisite for moving on.   Michelle reminds us that forgiveness is not an obligation, nor does it quantify our kindness or spiritual growth.  For those working to overcome toxic forgiveness, focus on grounding yourself, reclaiming your energy through breathing, and setting boundaries in a gentle and empathetic manner.  If you're trying to help someone learn to support them on their journey without imposing your own timeline or discomfort by creating a safe space for the person and acknowledging their pain! This episode is a powerful affirmation that your healing is yours alone, and it's perfectly okay for it to unfold on your terms, with or without forgiveness! Guest Contact information: https://www.facebook.com/IlluminatedPathCounselling/ https://youtube.com/@illuminatedpathcounselling https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-agopsowicz-a74672219 https://www.illuminatedpathcounselling.com/ Support the show Intro Music by: Anthony Nelson aka BUSS https://music.apple.com/us/artist/buss/252316338 Keep it Safe, Keep it Healthy & Keep it Kandid! www.thekandidshop.com IG, FB & Tiktok: @thekandidshoppodcast

    42 min

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Welcome to ”The Kandid Shop Podcast,” an honest, open space where real people ”Keep it Kandid” about a variety of relevant issues/topics, from relationships to parenting to starting a business, and everything in between! Join me, Kandidly Kristin, for kandid conversations about all things real and relevant!