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Join us as we develop an understanding of Asperger’s Syndrome or Autism Spectrum Disorder. With a better understanding of an ‘Aspies’ reactions to the sensory overload in everyday life and the feelings that the overload can bring, In the hopes that we all may become more sensitive and compassionate not only to those who have the disorder, but to all humankind as well.

Aspieland With your host John Allen

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 9 Ratings

Join us as we develop an understanding of Asperger’s Syndrome or Autism Spectrum Disorder. With a better understanding of an ‘Aspies’ reactions to the sensory overload in everyday life and the feelings that the overload can bring, In the hopes that we all may become more sensitive and compassionate not only to those who have the disorder, but to all humankind as well.

    John Knoblock Memorial Service

    John Knoblock Memorial Service

    This episode is the memorial service for John Knoblock. Kathy is extremely grateful for the opportunity to serve and support the Aspieland community. Thank you for your patronage and support of Aspieland. This podcast was very important to John. One important way to honor John's legacy is for you to continue to grow in your understanding of others, grow in compassion, acceptance, and love for others. 
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    • 51 min
    MASKING and Neurodiverse Relationships Pt.1

    MASKING and Neurodiverse Relationships Pt.1

    This subject is one those that impacts the relationship dynamic in almost every encounter.  We felt this was important enough to review and then talk about how this effects the Neurodiverse relationship. 

    "Masking" is one of the many ways that those of us on the Spectrum hide ourselves from others.  We try to hide our autistic tendencies so that people in the Neurotypical world see us as one of them.  It's a method of acceptance we have been doing most of our lives with varying degrees of success.

    Todays visit we talk about how masking manifests itself and how to handle different scenarios where masking becomes part of things.  We also visit some troublesome ideas and some ways to stop masking and just be ourselves in a relationship close to someone else.
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    • 19 min
    Encore! Living Behind the Mask (review)

    Encore! Living Behind the Mask (review)

    My wife and I found that this subject is one those that impacts the relationship dynamic in almost every encounter.  We felt this was important enough to review and then talk about how this effects the Neurodiverse relationship. 

    "Masking" is one of the many ways that those of us on the Spectrum hide ourselves from others.  We try to hide our autistic tendencies so that people in the Neurotypical world see us as one of them.  It's a method of acceptance we have been doing most of our lives with varying degrees of success.

    Todays visit we talk about how masking manifests itself.  We also visit some troublesome ideas and some ways to stop masking and just be ourselves.
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    • 21 min
    Sudden Impacts and the Neuro-Diverse Marriage PART THREE

    Sudden Impacts and the Neuro-Diverse Marriage PART THREE

    In the Neuro-Diverse relationship, sudden changes and hard impacts can really test yourself and your relationship.
    This podcast is the final part of the three part series.  As we finish exploring all the ways a sudden impact in your life,  just such an impact was delivered to my wife and I in the for of a cancer diagnosis.
    But it wasn't just the diagnosis that made the sudden impacts so hard on either the  person on the spectrum, or on the Neuro-typical partner.  It was the way the scenario played out, the ER, the surgery, the constant overload of doctors, nurses and a whole host of physical, sensory and emotional traumas in between.

    CONTENT WARNING:  This episode deals with serious medical conditions and cancer.  If this is a subject that is particularly painful for you, please skip this podcast.
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    • 14 min
    Sudden Impacts and the Neuro-Diverse Marriage PART TWO

    Sudden Impacts and the Neuro-Diverse Marriage PART TWO

    In the Neuro-Diverse relationship, sudden changes and hard impacts can really test yourself and your relationship.
    This podcast is the second in a three part series which explores all the ways a sudden impact in your life,  just such an impact was delivered to my wife and I in the for of a cancer diagnosis.
    But it wasn't just the diagnosis that made the sudden impacts so hard on either the  person on the spectrum, or on the Neuro-typical partner.  It was the way the scenario played out, the ER, the surgery, the constant overload of doctors, nurses and a whole host of physical, sensory and emotional traumas in between.

    CONTENT WARNING:  This episode deals with serious medical conditions and cancer.  If this is a subject that is particularly painful for you, please skip this podcast.
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    • 18 min
    Sudden Impacts and the Neuro-Diverse Marriage

    Sudden Impacts and the Neuro-Diverse Marriage

    Ever have a sudden experience that changed your life?  In the Neuro-Diverse relationship, sudden changes and hard impacts can really test yourself and your relationship.

    After just such an impact was delivered to my wife and I in the for of a cancer diagnosis.  But it wasn't just the diagnosis that made the sudden impacts so hard on the person on the spectrum, or on the Neuro-typical partner.  It was the way the scenario played out, the ER, the surgery, the constant overload of doctors, nurses and a whole host of physical, sensory and emotional traumas in between.

    CONTENT WARNING:  This episode deals with serious medical conditions and cancer.  If this is a subject that is particularly painful for you, please skip this podcast.

     
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    • 19 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
9 Ratings

9 Ratings

K. Kreis ,

See the world through someone else’s eyes

We often miss out on a relationship due to simply not understanding how the other person perceives the world. This well-done podcast is a valuable and fascinating opportunity to see through someone else’s eyes and build a bridge of compassion between your heart and theirs. Worth your time if you are neurotypical- or on the autism spectrum.

kimita s ,

Excellent content!

I’m so grateful John has committed to producing this podcast. It’s a gem of authentic information. So good!

LHalcom ,

This is soo good!

As an outsider with a family member on the spectrum, this is an amazing podcast that is informative and relatable. John does a great job explaining the known facts and sharing experiences! I look forward to the next episode every other week!!

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