Intimate Breath

Lore Blancke

Lore Blancke is an intimacy and embodiment guide working with breath, body, and conscious relating. Through somatic practice and her background in osteopathy, she supports people in recognizing their patterns, softening what’s held, and coming back into more honest connection with themselves and others. Her work invites you out of performance, and into what’s actually real. Read more: https://www.intimate-breath.com/

  1. Sep 26

    When Sexuality Is a Shortcut | Attachment & Changing Relationships with Emmma

    In this episode, I'm sitting down with Emma (with three M's, so really: Emmma), someone I've gotten to know through quite a few different roles. She's been an assistant in the Liberation Journey, a private client, a friend, and increasingly a colleague in the world of intimacy and sexuality. Which already gives us plenty to talk about. We start with Emma's changing relationship to attachment, sexuality and being alone. She shares about having spent years being very open to connection, and sometimes using sexuality almost as a shortcut towards closeness. And what has changed as she's learned to slow down, listen to her body and distinguish between wanting sex, wanting tenderness, wanting reassurance, and simply wanting to stay with herself. From there, the conversation goes wherever it wants to go. We talk about anger and sexual energy, and the strange aliveness that can live inside both. About learning to stay with intense energy rather than immediately directing it towards someone else. About inner-child work that turns out to be surprisingly tangible. And about learning to give ourselves some of what we've been reaching towards other people for. And then we get into the complexity of relationships that don't fit neatly into one box. Friend. Lover. Client. Facilitator. Assistant. Colleague. Emma and I have moved through several of those contexts ourselves. We talk about what can be beautiful about allowing relationships to change shape, and the clarity, care and awareness of power that this kind of fluidity also asks for. I share some of my own experiences of having been on the painful side of blurred roles, and why that has made me both someone who deeply values relational freedom and someone who takes the structures around it seriously. A pretty unpolished conversation about what happens when we keep listening to what's actually alive; in our bodies, in ourselves, and between each other. Enjoy. ♡ . Connect with Emmma and her work (Dutch) 🌿 Ritual Dance: https://www.ritualdance.be/ 🌿 Catering: Emmadesmedt@hotmail.com 🌿 Fluisterfestival: https://www.fluisterfestival.be/ More about Intimate Breath 🌿 Website: www.intimate-breath.com 🌿 Instagram & Facebook: @intimatebreath 🌿 The next Liberation Journey starts in January 2027 in Belgium. . 📢 I'd love to hear from you. If this conversation touched or inspired you, feel free to leave a comment, send me a message, or share this episode with someone who might enjoy it. Every little gesture helps these conversations reach more curious humans and supports me in continuing to create them.

    When Sexuality Is a Shortcut | Attachment & Changing Relationships with Emmma
  2. Jun 26

    The Multiple Man | When Self-Intimacy Deepens Partner Sex - with Tom

    What happens when sexual satisfaction stops being something you mainly seek from another person… and becomes something you learn to cultivate within yourself? In this episode, I'm sitting down with Tom, who works particularly with men around embodiment, self-connection, and developing a more conscious relationship with their erotic energy. We're talking about his own journey when it comes to feeling fulfilled in a sexual relationship. And the way he chose to go about that was by first turning towards his own body, arousal, and relationship with his sexual energy. So this episode is filled with a very honest and real conversation about a man deepening into his own sexual world through self-pleasure, curiosity, and years of exploration. And also about how the insights and expertise that came out of that journey have gradually started to influence intimacy and partner sex as well, alongside the men's work he offers now. As usual, I'm bringing in my own touch, questions, and reflections, and occasionally a perspective from me as a woman on themes that are primarily approached from a man's experience. Together we touch on: • self-pleasure as a path rather than a technique • dependency, neediness, and filling your own cup • the pressure around erections and performance • slowing down and listening to the body • communicating desires and assumptions • different kinds of sexual needs (Erotic Blueprints) • partner sex and meeting each other without performance • masculine conditioning and learning to receive • intimacy, tenderness, and co-creating pleasure I really enjoyed this conversation with Tom, and I hope you do too. ~ Connect with Tom and his work (Dutch) 🌿 De Meervoudige Man https://meervoudigeman.be/ 🌿 Free Erotic Blueprint Test https://meervoudigeman.be/blauwdrukken/ 🌿 Free Mini-Course https://meervoudigeman.be/#minicursus More from Intimate Breath 🌿 Website www.intimate-breath.com 🌿 Instagram & Facebook @intimatebreath 🌿 The next Liberation Journey starts in January 2027 in Belgium, and a Swedish one is in the making. Mentioned in this episode 🎙️ From Tantric Gigolo to Dedicated Therapist – Yves Bonroy 📝 Your G******s Need Time to Wake Up 📝 Your Penis Is Sensitive Too ~ 📢 I'd love to hear from you. If this conversation touched or inspired you, feel free to leave a comment, send me a message, or share this episode with someone who might enjoy it. Every little gesture helps these conversations reach more curious humans and supports me in continuing to create them.

    The Multiple Man | When Self-Intimacy Deepens Partner Sex - with Tom
  3. Mar 31

    Letting Life Do You (and… who’s your daddy)

    On control, trust, and staying in relationship What if life isn’t something to control… but something you’re in relationship with? In this solo episode, I explore what it means to let life do you. Not just in the moments that feel good, but also when things are messy, uncomfortable, or out of your control. We move beyond sensual awareness and into something deeper:How do you stay in contact with yourself when life doesn’t feel like a choice? I weave together perspectives from embodiment, conscious relating, and kink, including the idea of consensual non-consent, to explore how we relate to intensity, trust, and the unknown. It is not about bypassing, forcing positivity, or enjoying suffering.It’s about staying present, taking responsibility where you can, and experimenting with trust where you can’t. In this episode, I touch on:– staying in relationship with life (instead of fixing or resisting)– intensity and edges– the patterns we unconsciously return to– trust, surrender, and the question: can I stay open even when I don’t understand?– translating relational and sexual agreements into how we move through life You’ll hear a different take on surrender. Not as something passive, but something deeply relational. . 🔗 Stay Connected: You can follow my journey and explore more about intimacy and sexuality at ⁠⁠www.intimate-breath.com⁠⁠ or on ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠: @intimatebreath. If this episode resonates, feel free to share it, send it to someone, or reach out. It really supports the podcast.

    Letting Life Do You (and… who’s your daddy)
  4. Feb 20

    Hierarchy with Incense - When ‘Conscious’ Spaces Don’t Feel Safe

    What happens when 'conscious' or spiritual language becomes a shield? In this solo episode, I explore a subtle dynamic I’ve seen again and again in intimacy-oriented, embodiment, and spiritual communities: what I call spiritual hierarchy. It's the moment when intuition, inner experience, or emotional fluency starts being used to override someone else’s reality. This episode is for those who are inside these spaces… and also for those who have stayed away from them, stepped out, or felt disappointed - precisely because something didn’t feel right, even when the language sounded beautiful. We talk about how empathic people can easily end up doubting themselves in these environments, how vulnerability can be met with care or quietly turned into a tool for power, and why inner experience is meaningful… but not automatically authority. This is not about cynicism or diagnosing others. It’s about discernment. It’s about mutuality. And it’s about staying connected to your own signals, especially in spaces that speak the language of healing. I also share parts of my own journey from naive compassion to wiser empathy: empathy with boundaries, with choice, and with self-trust. If you’ve ever felt confused after a “conscious” conversation, or wondered whether your discomfort was actually intelligence… this one is for you. . 🔗 Stay Connected: You can follow my journey and explore more about intimacy and sexuality at ⁠www.intimate-breath.com⁠ or on ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠: @intimatebreath. 📢 We’d Love to Hear from you! If this episode touches or inspires you, please consider sharing it with others or writing us. Your support not only helps spread the word but also encourages us to keep creating content that matters.

    Hierarchy with Incense - When ‘Conscious’ Spaces Don’t Feel Safe

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Lore Blancke is an intimacy and embodiment guide working with breath, body, and conscious relating. Through somatic practice and her background in osteopathy, she supports people in recognizing their patterns, softening what’s held, and coming back into more honest connection with themselves and others. Her work invites you out of performance, and into what’s actually real. Read more: https://www.intimate-breath.com/