Free to Be Mindful Podcast | Helping Professional Moms Find Calm in a Busy World

Vanessa De Jesus Guzman, LPC, NCC
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The Free to Be Mindful Podcast with Licensed Therapist and Latina Mom Coach Vanessa De Jesus Guzman helps professional moms find calm in a busy world. Each episode blends mindful living strategies, mental health insights, and REAL TALK - grounded in culture and inspired by everyday life - to help you stress less, live with intention, and feel more like yourself... without hours of meditation.  Tune in for practical tools and relatable heartfelt stories that help you slow down, recharge, and show up as your best self. 

  1. 18H AGO

    Why the Wrong Voices Are Keeping You Stuck

    There is a version of productivity that looks impressive on a spreadsheet and exhausts you before you even start. If you've ever downloaded a free resource, opened it, and immediately felt worse about your own life... this one is for you. In this episode we talk about one of the sneakiest ways we undermine ourselves: letting the wrong voices become the loudest ones. Not just on social media, but inside our own heads. What You'll Learn: ✅ Why "good advice" isn't the same as advice that was built for your actual life, your season, and your invisible load ✅ How slow morning content, detailed lead magnets, and productivity frameworks can quietly create guilt rather than relief, and what to do instead ✅ The difference between receiving inspiration from someone and letting someone who doesn't know your life tell you how to run your life ✅ Why over-planning is sometimes just a beautiful way to stay stuck, and how to recognize when that's happening ✅ How to trust yourself as the expert on your own life, your own kids, and your own capacity, without checking it against someone else's blueprint Chapters: 00:00 Advice That Misses Moms 01:05 The Lead Magnet Overwhelm 03:06 Filter Advice By Reality 03:30 Slow Mornings And Guilt 05:11 Whose Voices Get Loud 06:25 Choose Contextual Support 08:23 Planning As Procrastination 09:37 You Need Permission Not Templates 10:43 Trust Your Inner Authority 11:06 Let Go Of чуж Standards 12:05 Wrap Up And Next Steps Stay in Touch: 🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/ 💛 Coaching for Moms: https://www.amigamoms.com 🎤 Speaking & Workshops: https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/counselorvdejesus/ Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician. Send us Fan Mail Support the show NJ RESIDENTS, WORK WITH VANESSA Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation https://www.freetobemindful.com/contact  LET’S STAY CONNECTED 💛 Coaching for Moms: https://www.amigamoms.com/ 🎤 Speaking & Workshops: https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/ 🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast 120 COPING SKILLS https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT! https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindful Use this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice. DISCLAIMER: Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

    13 min

  2. MAR 16

    Building the Future of Latino Mental Health via the Futuro Fund

    What does it look like when a community invests in its own future? In this special Podcasthon episode, Vanessa sits down with Dr. Angela Vargas - licensed psychologist and inaugural Futuro Fund board member - to share the story behind the Latino Mental Health Association of New Jersey's scholarship program that is changing the trajectory for the next generation of Latinx mental health professionals. From a small group of psychologists meeting in a basement 27 years ago to a two-day annual conference, a growing gala, and now a formalized scholarship fund — LMHANJ has become a cornerstone of Latino mental health representation in New Jersey. Through the Futuro Fund, they've awarded $4,000 and now $5,000 scholarships to graduate students committed to giving back to their communities.  You'll also hear directly from scholarship recipient Yareimy Patrocinio, a first-generation MSW student and daughter of Mexican immigrants, on what this scholarship means for her path forward. In this episode: The 27-year evolution of LMHANJ — from psychologists-only to a multi-disciplinary, rebranded associationHow the Futuro Fund was born out of the inaugural gala — and why it's growingWhy mentorship and emotional support matter just as much as financial aidHow students can connect to LMHANJ and build a professional network before they even graduateWhat it means to be a first-gen professional investing in the next generation 🔗 Learn more about the Latino Mental Health Association of NJ → https://www.latinomentalhealthnj.com/futurofund  💛 Donate to the Futuro Fund → https://www.latinomentalhealthnj.com/futurofund  📲 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lmha.nj/  💼 LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/company/latino-mental-health-association-of-new-jersey Guest Angela P. Vargas, PhD, Founder of Via Psychology https://www.viapsychology.com/  Send us Fan Mail Support the show NJ RESIDENTS, WORK WITH VANESSA Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation https://www.freetobemindful.com/contact  LET’S STAY CONNECTED 💛 Coaching for Moms: https://www.amigamoms.com/ 🎤 Speaking & Workshops: https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/ 🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast 120 COPING SKILLS https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT! https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindful Use this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice. DISCLAIMER: Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

    22 min

  3. MAR 10

    Stop Shrinking, Start Showing Up

    You soften your opinions so no one feels uncomfortable. You deflect compliments before they can land. You say yes when you mean no - and then spend twenty minutes explaining the no you finally gave. This episode is about the quiet, everyday ways women make themselves smaller. And what it looks like to gently, firmly stop. EPISODE DESCRIPTION Why the habits that make women great - being thoughtful, accommodating, considerate - can quietly become habits of self-erasureHow shrinking shows up in the smallest moments: compliments, limits, disagreements, and the sentences we say before we say what we actually meanThe particular loneliness of women in leadership who hold space for everyone and rarely have it held for themWhy over-explaining our boundaries is often not for other people at all, it's for usThree practical, small shifts you can begin using immediately: in how you receive appreciation, communicate limits, and speak your perspectiveA guided embodied practice to rehearse these shifts before the real moments arrive  TUNE IN TO LEARN Recognize the specific moments and patterns where you quietly shrink without realizing itUnderstand why this is a conditioning pattern, not a confidence problemPractice responding to a compliment with just two words: thank youSet a clear limit without constructing a paragraph to justify itSpeak your perspective without a disclaimer attachedUse a short guided practice to build muscle memory around these new responses  TAKEAWAY MESSAGE If you have been told - by your culture, your upbringing, the rooms you've been in - that being visible, certain, or direct is somehow too much, that message was never true. It was just loud. This episode is about turning down that volume and practicing, in small and honest ways, what it actually feels like to take up the space you have always been allowed to take. Listen in, try the practice, and remember… you are always free to be mindful.   REFERENCED LINKS 1. WORK WITH VANESSA (NJ MOMS): Ready to go deeper? Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation → freetobemindful.com/contact 2. Reset Experience for Moms → amigamoms.com 3. Book Vanessa for Speaking → freetobemindful.com/speaking Send us Fan Mail Support the show NJ RESIDENTS, WORK WITH VANESSA Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation https://www.freetobemindful.com/contact  LET’S STAY CONNECTED 💛 Coaching for Moms: https://www.amigamoms.com/ 🎤 Speaking & Workshops: https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/ 🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast 120 COPING SKILLS https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT! https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindful Use this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice. DISCLAIMER: Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

    22 min

  4. MAR 2

    Reclaim, Restore, and Rise This Women's History Month

    WATCH THIS ON YOUTUBE TOO! You organize the panels. You write the statements. You celebrate every woman around you, and somewhere in the middle of all of it, you forget to let any of it land on you. This episode is not for the role you play. It is for you. EPISODE DESCRIPTION Why Women's History Month can feel like one more thing to perform instead of something to actually feelHow the identity shift into motherhood and leadership quietly puts parts of yourself on a shelf you haven't opened in yearsWhat it really means to reclaim — not dramatically, but honestly — a version of yourself that went dormantWhy restoration is less about self-care rituals and more about reconnecting with what has been depleting youHow rising can look like a quiet internal choice, not a grand gestureWhat it means to be making women's history right now, in this moment, in your real life TUNE IN TO LEARN Identify one strength, dream, or version of yourself you've quietly been setting asideDistinguish between performing celebration and actually receiving itChoose one restorative practice that is unambiguously yours — not for your family or your teamUse a single word as your compass for the month of MarchPractice a guided reflective moment designed to help you feel grounded in your own rising TAKEAWAY MESSAGE  If you are the woman behind Women's History Month - organizing, nominating, championing - it makes sense that you have poured out more than you have taken in. That pattern has a name: it is the cost of being capable, and it accumulates. Reclaiming yourself does not require blowing up your life. It starts with remembering her, and deciding she is not done yet. Listen in, reflect gently, and remember… you are always free to be mindful. REFERENCED LINKS WORK WITH VANESSA (NJ MOMS): Ready to go deeper? Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation → freetobemindful.com/contactBook Vanessa for Speaking → freetobemindful.com/speakingSend us Fan Mail Support the show NJ RESIDENTS, WORK WITH VANESSA Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation https://www.freetobemindful.com/contact  LET’S STAY CONNECTED 💛 Coaching for Moms: https://www.amigamoms.com/ 🎤 Speaking & Workshops: https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/ 🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast 120 COPING SKILLS https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT! https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindful Use this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice. DISCLAIMER: Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

    22 min

  5. FEB 23

    Positive Psychology - Real Science or Just Fluff?

    Is positive psychology real science… or just another version of “just think positive” that ignores real stress? In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, Vanessa De Jesus Guzman sits down with positive psychology expert Diane Lang to explore what the research actually says about gratitude, resilience, mindset, and positive aging. If you are raising kids, juggling work, navigating midlife changes, or feeling stretched thin, you may have wondered whether practices like gratitude really make a difference. Is it toxic positivity? Or is there measurable science behind it? This conversation breaks down: The difference between positive psychology and forced positivityWhy we need three positive emotions to balance one negativeHow gratitude rewires the brain over timeThe role belief systems play in midlife transitions and agingWhy lifestyle and mindset influence longevity more than we thinkPositive psychology does not deny grief, anxiety, or depression. It works alongside therapy, medication, and traditional treatment to build emotional resilience and long-term wellbeing. For moms navigating stress, perimenopause, identity shifts, and the invisible load of family life, this episode offers practical, research-backed habits that are realistic, free, and sustainable. THREE KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Positive psychology is evidence-based and practical. It strengthens resilience without dismissing pain. It is about building emotional capacity, not pretending everything is fine. 2. Gratitude and kindness shift your brain over time. Consistent daily practices improve sleep, mood, and stress recovery by retraining your negativity bias. 3. Positive aging starts with mindset. Genetics play a role, but lifestyle, belief systems, relationships, and daily habits have significant influence over how we age physically and emotionally. Connect with Diane: https://dianelang.org/  If this episode challenged your thinking or shifted your perspective, share it with another mom who may need it. Because the more good we train our brains to notice, the more grounded we become. In a world where you are free to be anything, you are always free to be mindful. Send us Fan Mail Support the show NJ RESIDENTS, WORK WITH VANESSA Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation https://www.freetobemindful.com/contact  LET’S STAY CONNECTED 💛 Coaching for Moms: https://www.amigamoms.com/ 🎤 Speaking & Workshops: https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/ 🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast 120 COPING SKILLS https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT! https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindful Use this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice. DISCLAIMER: Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

    40 min

  6. FEB 16

    The Hidden Loneliness of Being Highly Capable

    Being the one who “has it handled” can look like strength from the outside, but it often comes with an invisible cost. In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, Vanessa De Jesus Guzman explores why highly capable, high-functioning women - especially moms and leaders - can feel deeply alone despite being surrounded by people who rely on them. Through a therapist’s lens, Vanessa unpacks how cultural conditioning, emotional labor, and the mental load many women carry quietly reduce support over time. This conversation is not about doing more or pushing harder. It is about understanding why support often disappears when you are seen as “the strong one,” and why learning to ask for help is essential for long-term well-being. EPISODE DESCRIPTION Why being highly capable can unintentionally lead to lonelinessHow cultural expectations and early responsibility shape over-functioningThe emotional labor and mental load others often do not seeWhy people stop checking in when you always seem “fine”How survival-based leadership shows up in motherhood and daily lifeWhy support is not a reward you earn after burnout, but a necessity before it TUNE IN TO LEARN How capability becomes identity and limits supportThe difference between doing tasks and carrying responsibilityWhy asking for help feels uncomfortable for high-achieving womenHow to recognize exhaustion you may have normalizedPractical ways to invite support back in without guilt   REFERENCED LINKS The Reset Experience on February 22nd in Ridgefield, New Jersey https://www.amigamoms.com/event-details/resetexperience-feb2026  Book Vanessa for Speaking https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking  TAKEAWAY MESSAGE Being capable does not mean you have to carry everything alone. If this episode resonated, it is not a sign that something is wrong with you. It is often a sign that you have been strong for a long time in environments that quietly relied on that strength. Support is not a weakness. It is a skill, and one you are allowed to practice. Listen in, reflect gently, and remember… you are Send us Fan Mail Support the show NJ RESIDENTS, WORK WITH VANESSA Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation https://www.freetobemindful.com/contact  LET’S STAY CONNECTED 💛 Coaching for Moms: https://www.amigamoms.com/ 🎤 Speaking & Workshops: https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/ 🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast 120 COPING SKILLS https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT! https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindful Use this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice. DISCLAIMER: Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

    22 min

  7. FEB 9

    Rebuilding Emotional Connections with Your Partner

    Emotional connection in relationships often fades quietly - not because something is wrong, but because life gets full. Parenting, work stress, cultural expectations, and emotional fatigue can slowly replace curiosity, affection, and presence. In this episode licensed therapist and host Vanessa De Jesus Guzman is joined by Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Sheila Arias, for a conversation on how couples can reconnect emotionally without blame, judgment, or unrealistic expectations. This episode offers practical, relationship-strengthening tools that can be used any time of year - not just around Valentine’s Day. Together, Vanessa and Sheila explore how small, intentional moments, compassionate communication, and emotional curiosity can help couples rebuild closeness over time, even in the busiest seasons of life. EPISODE DESCRIPTION Why emotional disconnection is common in long-term relationshipsHow judgment and comparison quietly erode intimacyThe role of curiosity and compassion in strengthening emotional bondsWhy small, consistent moments matter more than grand gesturesHow structure and intentionality support connection and intimacyThe importance of physical affection beyond sexual intimacy TUNE IN TO LEARN How to rebuild emotional connection without blaming yourself or your partnerSimple communication tools couples can practice right awayWhy emotional intimacy fades and how to restore it intentionallyHow scheduling connection can still feel meaningful and authenticWays to reconnect that fit real life, not unrealistic relationship ideals CONNECT WITH SHEILA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sheilaariaslmftTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sheilaariaslmftWebsite: https://www.compasiontherapy.com TAKEAWAY MESSAGE Rebuilding emotional connection isn’t about fixing your relationship or judging where you are. It’s about choosing one small, intentional shift that brings curiosity, warmth, and presence back into your connection. Over time, those moments add up and help relationships feel alive again. As always, thank you for listening. If this episode resonated, consider sharing it with a partner or someone who may need this reminder. And remember - in a world whe Send us Fan Mail Support the show NJ RESIDENTS, WORK WITH VANESSA Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation https://www.freetobemindful.com/contact  LET’S STAY CONNECTED 💛 Coaching for Moms: https://www.amigamoms.com/ 🎤 Speaking & Workshops: https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/ 🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast 120 COPING SKILLS https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT! https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindful Use this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice. DISCLAIMER: Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

    33 min

  8. FEB 2

    When Stress Becomes Your Normal Baseline

    You finally slow down… but your body doesn’t. In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, Vanessa De Jesus Guzman explores what happens when chronic stress becomes so familiar that it no longer feels like stress at all. For high-achieving moms, leaders, and caregivers, operating in survival mode can quietly become the baseline... making rest feel uncomfortable, quiet feel unsettling, and calm feel out of reach. Through personal reflection and real-life examples, this conversation helps name what many are experiencing but haven’t fully articulated: the difference between looking calm on the outside and feeling regulated on the inside. This episode offers language, awareness, and gentle reframes for listeners who are carrying a lot, especially in times that feel heavy beneath the surface. TUNE IN TO LEARN How to recognize stress when you’re used to functioning through itWhy slowing down can trigger guilt or restlessness instead of reliefA simple reflective practice to name what you’re feeling and whyHow nervous system awareness supports better leadership and parenting UPCOMING SUPPORT & RESET OPPORTUNITIES If this episode resonated and you’re craving intentional space to pause and recalibrate, here are two upcoming opportunities to continue the work: Virtual Leadership Coaching Container – February 5, 2026 (1 PM EST) A facilitated space for leaders, founders, and professionals who are holding significant responsibility while navigating internal stress and external demands. 👉 https://propelonpurpose.hbportal.co/public/febcoachingcontainer/1-Inquiry_form Reset Experience for Moms – February 22, 2026 | Ridgefield, NJ An intimate in-person reset for moms to connect, release what’s weighing on them, and leave feeling lighter. Not therapy — but deeply therapeutic. 👉 https://www.amigamoms.com/event-details/resetexperience-feb2026 Oura Ring Vanessa shares how she uses the Oura Ring as a temporary tool to build stress awareness. Get 10% off! https://ouraring.com/freetobemindful  TAKEAWAY MESSAGE Experiencing stress is part of being human. But when stre Send us Fan Mail Support the show NJ RESIDENTS, WORK WITH VANESSA Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation https://www.freetobemindful.com/contact  LET’S STAY CONNECTED 💛 Coaching for Moms: https://www.amigamoms.com/ 🎤 Speaking & Workshops: https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/ 🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast 120 COPING SKILLS https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT! https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindful Use this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice. DISCLAIMER: Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

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The Free to Be Mindful Podcast with Licensed Therapist and Latina Mom Coach Vanessa De Jesus Guzman helps professional moms find calm in a busy world. Each episode blends mindful living strategies, mental health insights, and REAL TALK - grounded in culture and inspired by everyday life - to help you stress less, live with intention, and feel more like yourself... without hours of meditation.  Tune in for practical tools and relatable heartfelt stories that help you slow down, recharge, and show up as your best self. 

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