An A to Z of Sex with Men

Raphael & Jacinta

With some alphabetical foreplay, sumptuous sexual stories, a generous helping of human connection, and a cathartic post-coital cigarette of feminist and LGBTQ+ empowerment, ex-housemates Raphael and Jacinta look back on their turbulent sexual experiences with men. Truthful, funny, exposing - their stories range from the poignant, to the sordid, to the downright hilarious. From Anal Sex to Zipless F***s, they've got it covered. Or uncovered?

  1. 2.24 - X is for XXX Live Show!

    09/29/2023

    2.24 - X is for XXX Live Show!

    It is finally time to release our A to Z LIVE SHOW!! In this first ever collaboration with the absolutely incredible Glitter & Titter Cabaret, we welcome special guests April Fiasco and Gigi Vin Rouge! Gigi is a stand-up comedian and burlesque artist combining sex and statistics like they've never been combined before. Sextistics if you will. April Fiasco is the showgirl alter-ego of comedian Carmen Ali. A regular on the London Cabaret scene, she is resident host at Sexquisite Events & Co-organiser at Socialist Strip Club Cybertease. She has been featured by TimeOut, The Guardian, and the BBC, and has a whole host of awards and accolades to her name, including finalist at Burlesque Idol 2019, and LGBTQ New Comedian of the Year 2019. From threesomes to sx work, to the tragic absence of foreplay, she has a lot of stories to tell... Of course, no Glitter n Titter show would be complete without compere extraordinaire, Gemma Layton, and the one who makes it all happen, the indomitable Ms Larissa Thorne! There are songs, games, burlesque acts (audio only), and a lot of 'dirty talk' stories from us and our guests. We had so much fun doing this episode, and we hope you have (almost) as much fun listening! Extra special thanks go to: Tom the Tech, who has a couple of voice cameos and is the reason you can hear us at all; Stormina Teacup, who you won't hear, but who was making sure the show ran smoothly with her incredible stage management skills; our fabulous photographer @corsmedia; and our magnificent audience who made the show the success that it was! We would also like to thank and pay tribute to two friends of the podcast who passed away this year: Trixi Tassels was a friend and mentor to us both and was in the audience for our live show. We wouldn't be the performers, or people, we are without her, and her support meant so much to us. Flavio Buonerba was not in the audience, but we would never have had the courage to put on a live show without his encouragement. He generously shared his time and expertise recording and editing some episodes of our show, even guesting on episode X of series 1. The show would not be the calibre it is without him and we will always remember and love him for that. Keep up with our performers here: April Fiasco instagram: @aprilfiasco twitter: @aprilfiasco_ Gigi Vin Rouge instagram: @gigivinrouge Gemma Layton: instagram: @theonlygemmalayton Ms Larissa Thorne: instagram: @mslarissathorne twitter: @msthorne2 facebook: @mslarissathorne Follow Glitter & Titter Cabaret here: instagram: @glitterntitter twitter: @glitterntitter facebook: @glitterntittercabaret And of course keep up with A to Z with Men here: Twitter/Instagram: @atozwithmen Facebook: facebook.com/atozwithmen Email: atozwithmen@gmail.com

    1h 33m
  2. 2.19 - S is for Situationships

    04/12/2023

    2.19 - S is for Situationships

    This episode is all about that previously indefinable type of relationship, The Situationship. With a lot of help from the glossy mags (and a lot of wading through the heteronormative monogamous agenda), Raphael and Jacinta work out what a 'situationship' actually is, and discuss whether they have ever had one. They look at the pros and cons of a situationship and conclude that (surprise, surprise) it all comes down to communication, really. The situationship related film up for discussion is bernardo Bertolucci's The Dreamers starring Eva Green. They have a lot of effusively good things to say about it! TW: coercion and sexual assault (1:01:07 - 1:03:03), discussion of suicide (1:09:29 - 1:11:50) Sources and recommendations: '10 Signs You're In a 'Situationship' - https://www.instyle.com/lifestyle/hump-day/what-is-a-situationship 'What Is a Situationship?' - https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-a-situationship-5216144#:~:text=A%20situationship%20is%20a%20casual,expending%20too%20much%20emotional%20energy. 'Stuck in a 'situationship'? It's the destructive dating trend that's ruling our love lives - and here's how to spot it' - https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/situationships?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=Social&utm_campaign=SocialFlow&fbclid=IwAR3OaiyeilvbJhCbmnC_wqzSs4CBXpKcAEAozneRJCufEsgsUWEYvb2FtpI 'A Beginner's Guide to Relationship Anarchy: Examples and How To Practice' - https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/what-is-relationship-anarchy Buy a copy of The Ethical Slut here: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/54944.The_Ethical_Slut Watch The Dreamers here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Dreamers-Michael-Pitt/dp/B00U1X9WB4 Contact: Twitter/Instagram: @atozwithmen Facebook: facebook.com/atozwithmen Email: atozwithmen@gmail.com #atozwithmen #situationship #sisforsituationship #relationshipanarchy #dtr #oozing #anatozofsexwithmen

    1h 19m

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With some alphabetical foreplay, sumptuous sexual stories, a generous helping of human connection, and a cathartic post-coital cigarette of feminist and LGBTQ+ empowerment, ex-housemates Raphael and Jacinta look back on their turbulent sexual experiences with men. Truthful, funny, exposing - their stories range from the poignant, to the sordid, to the downright hilarious. From Anal Sex to Zipless F***s, they've got it covered. Or uncovered?