Leading and Living Well with Kat

Katarina Holm-DiDio
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Hi, I’m Kat—an ICF-certified executive and leadership team coach, facilitator, and speaker with 25+ years of experience in global organizational and leadership development. On Leading and Living Well, I share bite-sized stories and lessons about leadership, career development, and well-being. My goal is to energize and inspire you to lead and live with authenticity and purpose, wherever you are on your career journey.

  1. It is a New Year 2023 - On flames to nurture and knowing when to quit

    01/22/2023

    It is a New Year 2023 - On flames to nurture and knowing when to quit

    My mother sent me off with the following advise as I left Finland at the end of our amazing Holiday to my hometown, and the five-days spent in the polar night in the Finnish arctic - know what flames to keep burning in your life, and which ones to let die, or to put out.   As I returned to my home in New Jersey, USA and was sorting through the mail that had piled up I found the latest book box from the book club #thenextbigideaclub.  I opened the box and the first book I see is #Quit -The power of knowing when to walk away by Annie Duke.  This episode is about how to decide what flames to keep burning, and which one to let die. I share briefly what I have learned so far from Annie Duke's book and how we can adapt the lessons she shares to our own lives to create space and energy for something new, something better, something more meaningful.  #creativity #entrepreneurs #innovation #business #scaleups #startups #lifecoaching #leadershipcoaching #businesscoaching #change #transformation #transitions #arts #finland #arctic #holidays #newbeginnings #newyear #holidaytravel #family #motherlywisdom #expatlife #immigrantlife

    18 min
  2. December Coaching Calendar - Gift#16: Trigger Warning for the Holidays ( and difficult conversations at work)?

    12/16/2022

    December Coaching Calendar - Gift#16: Trigger Warning for the Holidays ( and difficult conversations at work)?

    TRIGGER warning for the Holidays! Do we need a trigger warning for the holidays? Today there are trigger warnings at the start of a movie, a book, a workshop, a class in school or college, just to mention a few situations. We have become very tuned in to triggers. What is a trigger? It is an emotional reaction to an internal or external trigger/event.  An example of an internal one is the elevated heart rate when we exercise which can remind us of a time when we had to run from a dangerous situation, and result in an panic attack.  An example of an external trigger is a movie, an argument, a relationship, a performance management conversation. The Holidays. This podcast is about understanding triggers and how they impact our lives, both at work and privately. The Holidays are shrouded in feelings and expectations, both positive and negative.  The beautiful has a dark side. Remember that as you celebrate the Holidays. What are your triggers? What are their triggers?  What can you do to cope with a stressful situation?  Since we cannot (and sometimes should not) always avoid a "triggering" situation, mentally preparing for it is helpful.  Make a plan and practice stress relief, such as deep breathing, going for a walk, meditation, writing, or talk to a trusted person. While the emotional reaction that a situation triggers often is difficult and stressful,  it can also be an opportunity to resolve an old trauma we have been carrying with us. To heal a relationship with a person, a context, a Holiday.  Sometimes we need help from a friend, or a mental health professional to heal that trauma. Your well-being matters.  Crises Hotline: #211   https://www.211.org/get-help/mental-health #mentalhealth #opportunity #wellbeingatwork #wellbeing #mentalhealth #mentalhealthatwork #holidayblues #holidaystress #happyholidays2022 #triggers #triggerpoint #triggered #triggerwarning #copingskills #copingstrategies #wellness #stressrelief #stress #trauma #traumainformed #traumaawareness #coaching #podcast #podcastlife

    12 min

  3. 12/15/2022

    December Coaching Calendar - Gift #14: Success and Jealousy - why we feel jealous and how we can use it as a powerful motivation to live our best life

    THANK YOU! Thank you for the more than 1500 downloads / listens to my podcast. The podcast was dormant for eight months, and still you listened to me.   The December Coaching Calendar podcast-series is still going on. Todays' episode is about success - and jealousy. Why do we feel jealous of others', sometimes even of people who are dear to us? Is it FOMO - the fear of missing out? Ask yourself what it is that makes you feel jealous. Often it is rooted in an unfulfilled need, a low self esteem. Jealousy can alert us to that something is missing in our life. Perhaps we are not aligned with our values? Perhaps we need to do a course correction, sharpen our focus and live with purpose and meaning? You can turn the negative feeling of jealousy into a positive motivator that energizes you to live your best life. #success #jealousy #FOMO #selfesteeem #gratitude #lifecoaching #personalleadership #purpose #motivation #career #careermotivation #leadership #coaching

    11 min
  4. December Coaching Calendar - Gift#13: FIKA at work to create a happier, healthier, and more engaged workplace - spread light in darkness like Lucia

    12/13/2022

    December Coaching Calendar - Gift#13: FIKA at work to create a happier, healthier, and more engaged workplace - spread light in darkness like Lucia

    What we can learn from Swedish Fika and the Nordic Lucia tradition on how to create a happier, more engaged, and healthier workplace. Lucia brings light, love and hope in the darkest time of the year in the high north.  She is highly anticipated and Lucia-Day on 12/13 is a joyful celebration.  That brings me to another Nordic tradition, the Swedish Fika.  We Finns call it coffee-break.  Just like Lucia brings light into darkness, a Fika break at work offers a brief relief from the worries of the day and can bring inspiration and joy to the team. Fika as a concept has spread over the world lately thanks to brilliant marketing. It is a simple and brilliant custom. Most workplaces in my native Finland and neighbor Sweden take a Fika break daily in the afternoon. Often they gather in the coffee room, or break room at work. It gives them a reason to step away from the desk, the workstation,  and join others for some informal interactions. Enjoy a coffee, a snack, or stretch.  Some workplaces have taken Fika to the next level, adding relaxing activities that create togetherness, such as a building a puzzle, play a board game, perhaps a creative project, or some stretching or yoga. Taking breaks that refreshes our mind, offers social interaction, and moves our body are simple and low budget ways to create a healthy and engaged culture. What can Fika look like at your workplace?  How can you be the light that inspires?  Perhaps you'll break for Fika once a week? Listen to my podcast for other ideas on how to create a Fika culture to your workplace. #team #work #project #love #fika #Nordic #swedish #finnish #finnishworkculture #swedishfika #coffeebreak #Lucia #luciatradition #engagement #funatwork #teambuilding #healthworkplace #wellneingatwork #wellness #joyatwork

    11 min
  5. December Coaching Calendar - Gift #9: On Boss Burnout - How burnout prevention and health and well-being became the buzz words in leadership development

    12/11/2022

    December Coaching Calendar - Gift #9: On Boss Burnout - How burnout prevention and health and well-being became the buzz words in leadership development

    Boss Burnout There is a lot of talk and writing about burnout at work and how we can prevent it from happening on an individual level, and how important the role of leadership and middle management is to create a healthy work culture, and to support their staff so they do not burnout. Often the conversation starts from the perspective of the team, or team member. From their needs. And it is a very important perspective. Being a burnout survivor myself, and having coached and trained both managers, leaders, and staff on how to avoid, recognize and recover from burnout, I do think that we often place a lot of pressure on the manager to support staff's well-being, but we forget the well-being of the manager. In particular those stuck in the middle between senior leadership and the teams. The ones that are tasked to turn the vision into action and result. This is why today's episode is on Boss Burnout. To create a culture where leaders and managers feel that they have the right to a healthy and balanced life, with time for rest, togetherness, learning, love, and career fulfillment - we need to change our thinking about what leadership is, what managers do and what a high performing business culture is. Burnout is not an individual's problem.  It is a cultural and structural problem. To eliminate today's burnout-culture we need a shift in values and priorities. At work: Talk about workload, and level of stress Review your policies and values - where is the focus? Hold leaders and managers accountable for the health and well-being in the organization Empower your middle manager to dare to self-care Ensure that they allow staff to care for their health and well-being also Be a role model yourself #wellbeingatwork #leadershipburnout #managementburnout #leadershipcoaching #managementcoaching #teamculture #health #highperformingteams #valuebasedleadership

    13 min
  6. December Coaching Calendar - Gift #8: Building beautiful boundaries - to protect me from you, or you from me?

    12/09/2022

    December Coaching Calendar - Gift #8: Building beautiful boundaries - to protect me from you, or you from me?

    How to build and keep boundaries is a common coaching topic. Often we explore how we can draw boundaries between work and home -how to set time boundaries. Or, we need relationship boundaries, between you and your leader, or between you, the middle manager, and your team.  Or between friends and family members.  Boundaries can be beautiful.  I call them beautiful when they serve a good purpose. The ugly ones seek to exclude for the wrong reasons (to prevent access, to information, and resources) or because of stereotypes and biases.  Beautiful boundaries are firm, but flexible. They are solid, but malleable. They have doors and windows that can be opened and closed, and locked, as needed.  Boundaries protects those on the inside from invasion from an outside force.  Boundaries also protects others from us, from our thoughtless or selfish intrusion.   Boundaries can liberate someone to fly while also and lock another one in to die. What purpose does your boundaries serve?  Beautiful boundaries are built from respect, empathy and understanding. Is it time to evaluate yours?

    14 min
  7. December Coaching Calendar - Gift#7: On celebrating life, and grieving what we have lost - the importance of acknowledging life and work events.

    12/07/2022

    December Coaching Calendar - Gift#7: On celebrating life, and grieving what we have lost - the importance of acknowledging life and work events.

    This episode published on my birthday is a reflection on why we celebrate or acknowledge different life events, both the joyful and the sad. I also discuss why it is important that we celebrate success at work, acknowledge the effort made and those who contributed.  It is also important to acknowledge the difficult and sad times at work. For example, the death of a team member. This can be a difficult situation, but the team needs the time and opportunity to grieve and share their feelings and memories.  To help them move on.  It can help to bring in a trained counselor to facilitate the process.  How do you celebrate your significant life moments and accomplishments?  What has helped you grieve a loss of a loved person, or a job, or a dream?

    12 min
  8. December Coaching Calendar - Gift #6: Finding and growing your SISU, or inner strength through intentional risk taking

    12/06/2022

    December Coaching Calendar - Gift #6: Finding and growing your SISU, or inner strength through intentional risk taking

    Sisu is a Finnish word, or concept that means inner strength, grit, or determination. We often like to talk compare it to resiliency How can we find and exercise our inner strength?  Can we all have Sisu?  Indeed we can.  This episode explores what Sisu is, and how you can develop your inner strength by intentionally taking small calculated risks, placing yourself in situations that are uncomfortable, or a bit scary. By taking chances, and learning from your errors. Over a period of time.  I share my experience from coaching those working in the humanitarian and international development space, and undergraduate students in a college leadership program, and how they develop inner strength.  Happy 105th Independence Day Finland!

    12 min
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Hi, I’m Kat—an ICF-certified executive and leadership team coach, facilitator, and speaker with 25+ years of experience in global organizational and leadership development. On Leading and Living Well, I share bite-sized stories and lessons about leadership, career development, and well-being. My goal is to energize and inspire you to lead and live with authenticity and purpose, wherever you are on your career journey.

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  • Creator
    Katarina Holm-DiDio
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2023
  • Episodes
    29
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    Clean
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    © Katarina Holm-DiDio