The Revolutionary Man Podcast

Alain Dumonceaux
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The Revolutionary Man Podcast is for high-performing husbands and fathers ready to lead with purpose. Hosted by Alain Dumonceaux, this show is more than men's empowerment; it equips men with the tools to reclaim their masculine identity, master life at work and at home, strengthen emotional resilience and improve their mental health. Featuring expert interviews and raw solo episodes, each week brings insights to help men lead their families, grow their businesses, and build a lasting legacy. It’s time to stop settling and start rising. 

  1. This Isn't a Busy Season...It's a Pattern

    13H AGO

    This Isn't a Busy Season...It's a Pattern

    Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next. You keep saying “after this,” and life keeps answering with another deadline, another fire, another request that only you can handle. We pull the thread on that story and reveal the structure underneath: a high capacity life that generates new pressure faster than the old pressure resolves. Not because you plan poorly or lack discipline, but because people depend on you, you deliver, and the system rewards reliability with more demand. We walk back through the last three years and map the moments you promised change would happen later: after the quarter closes, after the promotion, after the move, after the kids are older. The details shifted, but the pattern held. Along the way we name the hidden costs you might be normalizing as “temporary”: a spouse who adapts to partial presence, kids who stop bringing you the deep stuff, and an internal compass dulled by constant reactivity. Nothing explodes, nothing obviously breaks, yet influence erodes as others learn to work around your limited availability. Then we pivot from diagnosis to design. Margin isn’t found at the end of your task list; it’s created by deciding what will not be urgent and by acting on priorities despite imperfect timing. We offer practical moves: write down the last five “after this” promises and note what actually changed; set a cap on what earns the crisis label; schedule device‑free, recurring time with your partner and each child; install simple work constraints that protect presence, like no same‑day late meetings or a nightly shutdown ritual. The goal isn’t doing less or becoming less capable. It’s aligning capability with commitments so the people who matter get more than your leftovers. If you’ve wondered how many more years you’ll wait for the mythical calm season, this conversation invites a different choice. Call the pattern what it is, stop asking circumstances for permission, and create margin now. If this resonated, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs the nudge, and leave a review telling us the one boundary you’ll set this week. Your future self—and your family—will feel the difference. Key moments in this episode: 00:00 This Isn't a Busy Season...It's a Pattern (Full) 00:42 Mapping Your Timeline 08:29 Why Temporary Becomes Permanent 11:30 The Real Cost of Deferring 14:56 Breaking the Pattern Support the show Thanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. For more information about our programs, please use the links below to learn more about us. It could be the step that changes your life. 👉To join our movement: ⛰The Mirror 🕸 The Revolutionary Man 🤝Clarity Call

    21 min
  2. You're Providing. But You're Not Leading.

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    You're Providing. But You're Not Leading.

    Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next. If working harder hasn’t changed where your family is headed, you might be providing, not leading. We explore the crucial shift from carrying the load to setting the direction, and why stability without a compass turns into controlled drift. Drawing from real-life moments—kids bringing tough dilemmas, a spouse seeking perspective, a home that’s busy but aimless—we break down how presence, values, and choices create clarity under pressure. We dive into the difference between operational and relational decisions. Operational calls are clear and measurable—what to cut, what to fix, what to fund. Relational calls are messier—what tough talk needs to happen, which value we will protect, what we’re willing to sacrifice to move forward together. You’ll hear practical language you can use tonight: coaching questions for your kids that build judgment, engagement scripts for your spouse that replace deferring with true partnership, and a simple rhythm for family direction-setting that stops drift before crisis forces it. Our take is simple: you don’t need to provide less; you need to lead more. Leadership is presence, not just performance. It’s creating standards instead of only meeting them, choosing what matters when everything can’t, and being in the room—mentally and emotionally—long enough to chart a course you’re proud of. If you’re ready to trade endurance for clarity and busyness for momentum, this conversation gives you the tools and the push. Listen, share it with someone who carries a lot, and then tell us: what leadership decision will you make this week? Subscribe, rate, and leave a review so more men can turn effort into direction. Support the show Thanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. For more information about our programs, please use the links below to learn more about us. It could be the step that changes your life. 👉To join our movement: ⛰The Mirror 🕸 The Revolutionary Man 🤝Clarity Call

    16 min
  3. Your Resume Looks Better Than Your Life

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    Your Resume Looks Better Than Your Life

    Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next. The most dangerous misalignment doesn’t explode; it drifts. Careers accelerate, reputations solidify, and bank accounts grow while home life slips into management mode—efficient, coordinated, but emotionally thin. We shine a light on that quiet distance and talk candidly about why capable men tolerate personal drift far longer than they would ever allow professional drift on their teams. We start by naming the gap: the low-grade unease that surfaces during unstructured time, the struggle to recall the last weekend of true presence, and the way “it’s just a season” becomes a lifestyle. From there, we unpack the double standard that rules so many high performers. At work, drift is unacceptable, addressed early, and supported by advisors. At home, drift is understandable, explained away, and managed alone. We examine how leadership at home gets downgraded to logistics, how children become schedules instead of stories, and how spouses adapt to partial presence until resignation replaces hope. Then we get practical. We stress that alignment is not a reward for perfect timing; it is a standard upheld amid complexity. We offer sharp questions that force clarity: What have you called temporary that’s now normal? Where are you managing instead of addressing? Which leadership qualities you’re known for at work are absent at home? We show how climate forms—how unresolved tension sets the emotional temperature—and why outside perspective turns intention into calibration. Professionals seek coaching to win at work; serious men invite honest mirrors to win at life. If you’re ready to let your standards travel from boardroom to breakfast table, this conversation is your turning point. Subscribe, share this with a brother who needs it, and leave a review with one drift you will correct this week. Your resume may impress, but your life is the proof. Key Moments In This Episode: 00:54 The Gap Between Professional and Personal Life 02:33 Recognizing the Persistent Unease 04:45 The Illusion of Temporary Seasons 06:58 Professional Success vs. Personal Misalignment 11:02 The Professional Paradox 16:07 The Importance of External Perspective 17:32 Conclusion: Closing the Gap Support the show Thanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. For more information about our programs, please use the links below to learn more about us. It could be the step that changes your life. 👉To join our movement: ⛰The Mirror 🕸 The Revolutionary Man 🤝Clarity Call

    19 min
  4. The Awakening. Uncover the Drift Holding You Back

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    The Awakening. Uncover the Drift Holding You Back

    Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next. This introductory episode into Season 5, titled 'The Awakening: Uncover the Drift Holding You Back,' sets the stage for a season designed not to comfort but to measure high-performing men who experience personal drift despite their professional success. Over 30+ episodes, it will challenge conventional explanations and habits, exposing the cost of postponement and misalignment in personal life. If you're ready to refuse living below your standards and accept the consequences of inaction, this season is for you. Join The Band of Brothers in redefining your legacy and priorities. 00:00 Introduction: The Purpose of This Season 01:11 Episode Zero: The Gate 01:33 The Structure of the Season 02:22 Professional vs. Personal Standards 03:43 The Cost of Personal Drift 06:55 The Importance of External Accountability 08:10 Conclusion: The Call to Action Support the show Thanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. For more information about our programs, please use the links below to learn more about us. It could be the step that changes your life. 👉To join our movement: ⛰The Mirror 🕸 The Revolutionary Man 🤝Clarity Call

    9 min
  5. Why Misalignment Always Demands Payment (A Year-End Reckoning for Men)

    12/27/2025

    Why Misalignment Always Demands Payment (A Year-End Reckoning for Men)

    Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next. 2025 didn’t break you—it revealed you. In this powerful year-end solo episode of The Revolutionary Man Podcast, Alain Dumonceaux closes out the year with an honest reckoning for men who started strong, faced pressure, and were forced to confront who they really are. This episode isn’t about perfection or finishing the journey. It’s about ownership, alignment, and the quiet transformation that happens when a man stops avoiding the truth and starts leading himself with integrity. You’ll hear: Why misalignment always demands payment—and how 2025 collectedHow pressure exposes the cracks men try to hideThe real turning point where ownership replaces excusesWhat it actually means to become a stronger man without pretending you’re finishedHow pain, when faced honestly, becomes purposeIf this year challenged your marriage, your business, your body, or your sense of direction—this episode will help you close the year grounded, clear, and ready for what’s next. 🎯 Your challenge: Identify one area where you’re being called to live with more integrity—and act on it. 👉 Ready to take the next step? Visit The Revolutionary Man and take the Integrity Challenge. The strongest men don’t drift. They decide. Support the show Thanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. For more information about our programs, please use the links below to learn more about us. It could be the step that changes your life. 👉To join our movement: ⛰The Mirror 🕸 The Revolutionary Man 🤝Clarity Call

    23 min
  6. The Battle Doesn't End When You Leave the Army with Chas Sampson

    12/22/2025

    The Battle Doesn't End When You Leave the Army with Chas Sampson

    Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next. What happens when a soldier takes off the uniform and faces the toughest battle of his life—navigating the broken VA system? In this powerful episode of The Revolutionary Man Podcast, Alain Dumonceaux sits down with Chas Sampson, a U.S. Army veteran and founder of Seven Principles, to discuss the challenges veterans face after their service. From lost identity and PTSD to the endless maze of VA disability claims, Chas shares the raw truth about what’s broken—and how men can reclaim dignity, confidence, and purpose after the military. You’ll hear: • The emotional challenges veterans face when transitioning to civilian life • Why the VA system fails so many men—and how Chas is fighting to fix it • Common mistakes veterans make with disability claims (and how to avoid them) • The role of faith, leadership, and community in healing and rebuilding • Practical first steps for veterans feeling stuck, rejected, or lost Key Moments in this episode: 03:20 Chas Simpson's Military Journey 05:44 Transitioning to Civilian Life: Challenges and Insights 13:07 Building Seven Principles: Overcoming Financial Struggles 17:07 The Importance of Purpose and Resilience 20:25 Challenges Veterans Face with Disability Claims 22:59 A Case Study: The System's Failures 28:46 Finding Purpose Beyond Benefits 32:42 Final Thoughts and Advice If you’re a veteran—or you know one—this conversation is a lifeline. 👉 Grab Chas’s ebook Thank You For Your Service at sevenprinciples.com 👉 Join the free Integrity Challenge @ therevolutionaryman.com Live with intention. Lead with integrity. Start now. How to reach Chas: Website: https://sevenprinciples.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sevenprinciplesgroup Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sevenprinciplesgroup/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seven_principles YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuafUSVl796zWRT6pJZjGOg LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/seven-principles-group/ Support the show Thanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. For more information about our programs, please use the links below to learn more about us. It could be the step that changes your life. 👉To join our movement: ⛰The Mirror 🕸 The Revolutionary Man 🤝Clarity Call

    36 min
  7. Fatherhood, Legacy, and Masculinity: Lessons from a Girl Dad with Steve Seidel

    12/14/2025

    Fatherhood, Legacy, and Masculinity: Lessons from a Girl Dad with Steve Seidel

    Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next. Join Alain Dumonceaux and guest Steven Seidel in this insightful episode of the Revolutionary Man Podcast as they dive into the essence of legacy, identity, and fatherhood.  Key points include:  Understanding legacy beyond wealth, The journey of authenticity and embracing vulnerability, Steven's personal turning points and lessons from loss, The importance of connection and building support systems like men's groups, and Practical frameworks for self-improvement and building a purpose-driven life. Perfect for men seeking purpose, courage, and deeper connections.  Key moments in this episode: 03:43 Steven's Turning Point 07:07 The Hidden Power of Grief 13:01 Balancing Business and Personal Life 20:30 Introducing the GREAT Framework 22:17 The Power of Accountability and Action 25:07 The Journey Deck: Building Connections 29:52 The Artist's Way: Exercises for Creativity 32:29 Realising You Are Enough 34:57 Final Thoughts and Call to Action How to reach Steve: Website: https://stephenseidel.com/ Social Media Contact Information: FB: http://facebook.com/stephenseidel IG: http://instagram.com/stephenseidel YT: http://youtube.com/stephenseidel X: https://twitter.com/StephenSeidel In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/StephenSeidel/ Support the show Thanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. For more information about our programs, please use the links below to learn more about us. It could be the step that changes your life. 👉To join our movement: ⛰The Mirror 🕸 The Revolutionary Man 🤝Clarity Call

    38 min
  8. Your Worst Moments Are Building Your Strongest Self For Men with Garr Russell

    12/07/2025

    Your Worst Moments Are Building Your Strongest Self For Men with Garr Russell

    Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next. In this episode of the Revolutionary Man podcast, host Alain Dumonceaux delves into the transformative journey of Garr Russell, a faith-driven entrepreneur. Key points discussed include overcoming despair and addiction, using faith to find purpose, understanding and confronting childhood lies, the importance of stones of remembrance, and the growth of his RV rental business during times of adversity. If you're seeking inspiration to turn your setbacks into setups, this episode is a must-listen. Join us and explore how Garr's story can inspire your own path to living with faith, courage, and integrity. Key moments in this episode: 05:47 Faith and Entrepreneurship: Overcoming Lies 08:18 From Pain to Purpose: Garr's Story 16:30 Building a Business Through Faith 20:33 Struggles with Alcohol and COVID 24:15 Repentance, Reconciliation, and Restoration 27:06 Faith, Hope, and Overcoming Challenges 31:38 Balancing Life and Preparedness 36:29 Life Happens For You, Not To You 38:03 Conclusion and Final Thoughts How to reach Garr: Website: https://garrrussell.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/garr.russell Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/garrjrussull Book: My+HIS-Story - https://myhisstory.com/ Support the show Thanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. For more information about our programs, please use the links below to learn more about us. It could be the step that changes your life. 👉To join our movement: ⛰The Mirror 🕸 The Revolutionary Man 🤝Clarity Call

    41 min
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The Revolutionary Man Podcast is for high-performing husbands and fathers ready to lead with purpose. Hosted by Alain Dumonceaux, this show is more than men's empowerment; it equips men with the tools to reclaim their masculine identity, master life at work and at home, strengthen emotional resilience and improve their mental health. Featuring expert interviews and raw solo episodes, each week brings insights to help men lead their families, grow their businesses, and build a lasting legacy. It’s time to stop settling and start rising. 

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  • Creator
    Alain Dumonceaux
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    229
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 The Revolutionary Man Podcast
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