Divorce for Wealthy Women

Brooke Summerhill, CFP, CDFA

This podcast invites highly sought-after divorce professionals to share their guidance with all women listening. The intent is to share tips that affluent women can use to maintain their lifestyles during and after divorce. It is hosted by Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Divorce Mediator, and Certified Money Coach who discreetly helps high-net-worth women in divorce with their financial questions.

  1. Jun 19

    Navigating Divorce with Complex Family Dynamics

    In this episode of the Divorce for Wealthy Women Podcast, Brooke Summerhill welcomes Natalie McVeigh, a globally recognized consultant, mediator, executive coach, Certified Happiness Trainer, and expert in family dynamics, conflict resolution, and transformational change. Natalie brings more than 20 years of experience working with ultra-high-net-worth families, family offices, family-owned businesses, executives, and entrepreneurs. As the Founder of Oikonomia Advisory, she helps families and leaders navigate complex transitions, strengthen relationships, resolve conflict, and create meaningful change grounded in both science and human connection. Drawing from her extensive background in organizational development, neurocardiology, applied psychophysiology, mediation, and coaching, Natalie shares powerful insights into what truly drives successful transitions during divorce and other major life changes. Together, Brooke and Natalie explore the intersection of wealth, family systems, communication, happiness, and emotional resilience. In This Episode: Why divorce is often more about family dynamics than finances How high-net-worth families experience conflict differently The role of emotional intelligence in difficult negotiations What neuroscience teaches us about stress, communication, and decision-making How Conversational Intelligence can transform relationships during conflict The connection between happiness, resilience, and personal growth Navigating family transitions with greater clarity and purpose Why understanding family systems is critical during divorce How mediation and interest-based negotiation can create better outcomes Creating lasting transformation rather than temporary solutions About Natalie McVeigh Natalie McVeigh is the Founder of Oikonomia Advisory and an executive coach, consultant, mediator, and Certified Happiness Trainer. She specializes in helping ultra-high-net-worth families, family offices, entrepreneurs, and executives navigate complex transitions and achieve meaningful personal and professional growth. Natalie is a Fellow and Faculty Member of the Family Firm Institute, serves on the Education Development Committee of the Purposeful Planning Institute, and is Director of Research and Development at Aspen Family Business Group. She is also a Trust and Estate Practitioner (TEP) and a Master Neuroplastician specializing in Conversational Intelligence. Her expertise includes family dynamics, conflict resolution, governance, leadership development, mediation, systems theory, team effectiveness, executive coaching, and transformational change. Natalie is currently completing her Ph.D. in Applied Psychophysiology at Saybrook University. Natalie's approach combines cutting-edge research, neuroscience, happiness studies, and practical experience to help individuals and families navigate life's most important transitions with greater confidence, connection, and purpose. Key Takeaway The most successful divorce outcomes are not created solely through legal agreements or financial settlements. They emerge when individuals understand the emotional, relational, and family-system dynamics influencing their decisions. By combining self-awareness, effective communication, and a long-term perspective, it is possible to navigate conflict while building a stronger foundation for the future. Connect with Brooke Summerhill For divorce financial planning, mediation support, and educational resources for women navigating divorce, visit The Summerhill Firm. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who may benefit from this conversation! Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational purposes only and should not be considered legal, financial, tax, or psychological advice. Please consult qualified professionals regarding your specific situation.

    20 min
  2. 12/05/2025

    Gain Financial Control in Divorce

    In this conversation, I interview Amy Hale from BMO Wealth Management about the importance of financial control and confidence for women, especially during and after divorce. Amy shares insights on common financial mistakes women make, the significance of being involved in financial discussions, and the role of financial advisors in empowering women. The discussion emphasizes the need for women to take control of their financial journeys and the importance of building confidence through knowledge and support. Takeaways Women often lack a seat at the financial table during divorce. Financial confidence can decrease significantly for uninvolved women. Establishing a relationship with a trusted financial advisor is crucial. Women should understand their overall financial picture, including budgeting and investments. Isolation can lead to poor financial decisions during divorce. Choosing the right financial advisor is essential for long-term success. Emotional decisions can cloud financial judgment in divorce. Women should evaluate the pros and cons of keeping the marital home versus liquid assets. Starting to engage with finances can significantly boost confidence! Reach out to Amy: Amy Hale - BMO Harris About the Podcast: Divorce for Wealthy Women features top divorce professionals who share their insights with women navigating the complexities of high-net-worth divorce. Each episode is designed to help listeners protect their lifestyle and financial future - before, during, and after divorce. Brooke discreetly helps affluent women through divorce by providing financial clarity and support. Website: ⁠www.summerhillfirm.com ⁠ My NEW Book "Divorce for Wealthy Women": Amazon LinkedIn: ⁠linkedin.com/in/brookesummerhill⁠

    12 min
  3. 07/03/2025

    How to Find Hidden Assets and Protect What’s Yours

    Divorce is never easy! Especially when significant wealth, family dynamics, and your children’s future are on the line. In this insightful episode, host Brooke Summerhill welcomes Charles D. Jamieson, a Board-Certified Marital and Family Law attorney with over 40 years of experience. Charlie breaks down the most critical legal changes and strategies that affluent women must understand during divorce. He explains how recent changes to time-sharing laws affect mothers seeking primary custody, as well as key updates to alimony statutes. He also dives into how assets can be hidden during divorce and what women can do to protect themselves. From practical tips on financial documentation to the value of a strong legal and financial team, Charles shares actionable advice to help you safeguard your future. Listen now to gain expert legal insight and empower yourself with the tools to navigate your divorce confidently. Key Topics Covered: The impact of new 50/50 time-sharing presumption How spouses hide assets and how to find them Why a forensic accountant is essential Legal consequences of asset concealment Ten things divorce attorneys wish clients knew Guest: Charles D. Jamieson Board Certified in Marital and Family Law Website: www.cjamiesonlaw.com Phone: 561-478-0312 Charles D. Jamieson is a highly principled attorney known for his assertive representation and deep commitment to family law. With a practice spanning over four decades and experience consulting on divorce cases across more than 20 states, he is widely respected for his expertise in complex family rights issues. Based in West Palm Beach, Florida, he remains a trusted ally to clients navigating the legal challenges of divorce. About the Podcast: Divorce for Wealthy Women features top divorce professionals who share their insights with women navigating the complexities of high-net-worth divorce. Each episode is designed to help listeners protect their lifestyle and financial future - before, during, and after divorce. Brooke discreetly helps affluent women through divorce by providing financial clarity and support. Website: www.summerhillfirm.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/brookesummerhill

    21 min
  4. 02/28/2025

    Tax Strategies for Life After Divorce

    Divorce can be an emotional and financial rollercoaster, but the tax implications are often the process's most overlooked and complicated part!! In this episode, we dive deep into the intersection of taxes, alimony, child support, and divorce settlements to help you navigate the complexities of life after divorce. Do you know who gets to claim the child tax credits? What about how tax debts are shared post-divorce? We’ve got you covered. Join Hubert Johnson, a seasoned tax attorney with over 15 years of experience, as he explains the critical tax rules every woman should know during and after divorce. Hubert breaks down the effect of tax reforms on alimony payments, why a solid marriage settlement agreement is crucial, and how to handle tax debts and deductions in shared custody situations. He also covers when it’s time to consult a tax attorney and how to avoid unwanted tax consequences, especially in cases involving bankruptcy. Whether you’re just beginning the divorce process or dealing with post-divorce financial challenges, this episode offers actionable advice to help you make informed, strategic decisions. Topics Discussed: The impact of recent tax reforms on alimony payments Tax filing status options for divorced individuals Managing child tax credits and deductions in split households Addressing tax debts and joint responsibilities after divorce The essential role of tax attorneys in divorce and financial planning About Hubert JohnsonHubert Johnson is an experienced tax attorney with a diverse background in tax law and financial planning. He began his tax law career in 2009 and has since led various tax departments, taught tax law, and helped thousands of clients navigate the complexities of the IRS and state tax agencies. Hubert is the founder and owner of Guardian Tax Law, and has saved clients millions of dollars over the years. He is also a sought-after speaker and educator on tax matters. Hubert was admitted to the Idaho Bar in 2007 and the California Bar in 2008. He holds a law degree from the McGeorge School of Law and graduated summa cum laude from CSU Sacramento. Connect with Hubert: Website | Guardian Tax Law LinkedIn | Hubert Johnson About The PodcastDivorce for Wealthy Women brings together top divorce professionals to share practical insights tailored to affluent women navigating the complexities of divorce. Hosted by Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, this podcast offers expert advice to help women preserve their lifestyle during and after divorce. Connect with Brooke Summerhill: Website | Summerhill Firm

    18 min
  5. 01/15/2025

    Flaunt Your Resilience After Divorce

    Have you ever experienced a life-changing revelation that shook you to your core? In this episode, Lora Cheadle, a betrayal recovery expert, opens up about her journey through discovering her husband’s 15-year infidelity, which involved multiple betrayals. What felt like a devastating blow ultimately became the foundation for Lora’s transformative work. Now, she helps others navigate the emotional and psychological aftermath of betrayal and divorce. Lora shares her deeply personal story of confronting betrayal, grieving lost dreams, and rebuilding her life from scratch. She discusses the unique emotional and identity challenges faced by women in high-net-worth divorces and offers practical, actionable advice for reclaiming confidence and building a new identity. From her five-step "FLAUNT" process to daily strategies for self-care, Lora gives us tools to move from heartbreak to empowerment. Tune in for inspiring insights on how to turn betrayal into an opportunity for growth and reinvention. Books by Lora CheadleFlaunt! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self The emotional impact of betrayal and how it disrupts your sense of self. Why betrayal is more than just infidelity—it’s the breaking of trust and dreams. Rebuilding your identity after the “tornado” of divorce. Simple yet powerful ways to nurture yourself and regain emotional balance. The FLAUNT framework: Find your Fetish, Laugh Out Loud, Accept Unconditionally, Navigate the Negative, and Trust in Your Truth. The healing power of laughter and small moments in emotional regulation. How to define your own narrative and future after trauma. Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, legal consultant, bestselling author, international speaker, and host of the FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal podcast. As a mentor and guide, Lora specializes in helping women reclaim their confidence, peace, and sovereignty after experiencing betrayal. Whether they choose to stay or leave, her mission is to empower women with the tools and support they need to regain their self-worth and autonomy. Lora understands the soul-shattering impact of infidelity and helps women transform their devastation into empowerment. Her work is about more than just recovering from betrayal—it’s about reclaiming everything you’ve lost along the way. Connect with Lora:Website: loracheadle.comFacebook: @lora.cheadleX: @LoraCheadle Divorce for Wealthy Women connects affluent women with top divorce professionals to provide guidance, support, and tips for maintaining their lifestyle during and after divorce. Hosted by Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, this podcast helps women navigate the financial and emotional complexities of divorce with confidence.

    20 min
  6. 12/16/2024

    Holidays and Divorce

    Divorce doesn't have to mean a courtroom battle during the holidays. In today’s episode, family law attorney Sandra Fava explains the powerful alternatives to traditional litigation, such as mediation and collaborative law, that can make navigating a divorce more efficient, cost-effective, and less stressful—especially for high-net-worth individuals. Sandra brings over two decades of expertise and insights into why these options are often game-changers for families. Whether you're considering divorce or just curious about the process this holiday season, this episode will provide valuable insights into how you can avoid traditional litigation and make the experience less overwhelming. Topics Discussed: The importance of financial transparency in mediation and collaborative divorce. Why alternative dispute resolutions (ADR) offer more control, creativity, and privacy. How court backlogs make ADR faster, more efficient, and less stressful. Financial and emotional benefits of avoiding litigation. The role of divorce coaches, financial planners, and other professionals in the process. How the holiday season can impact divorce decisions and planning. About Sandra Fava Sandra Fava is the founder and managing attorney at Fava Law, a family law practice that offers compassionate and effective legal counsel to individuals and families during transitions. Recently recognized as a "Woman to Watch" by Morris & Essex Magazine, Sandra has built a reputation as a skilled negotiator, litigator, and advocate for alternative dispute resolution. With a career exclusively dedicated to family law, Sandra has represented clients in high-net-worth divorces, child custody disputes, spousal support, property division, and more. She believes in clear, practical advice tailored to her clients' unique needs while providing unwavering support during difficult times. Sandra is committed to offering her clients both strategic counsel and emotional support to navigate the complexities of family law. Prior to founding Fava Law, Sandra was a Partner in the Family Law Department at a national Am Law 200 firm and Chair of Family Law at a respected regional firm. Connect with Sandra: Website: www.favalawnj.com LinkedIn: Sandra Fava Instagram: @asksandrafava Facebook: Sandra Fava Business Page X: @DivorceNJLaw About the Podcast: This podcast features divorce professionals offering their expert guidance to affluent women navigating divorce. Hosted by Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, the podcast provides tips to help high-net-worth women maintain their lifestyle during and after divorce. Connect with Brooke Summerhill: Website: www.summerhillfirm.com LinkedIn: Brooke Summerhill

    24 min
  7. 11/30/2024

    Effective Ways to Support a Loved One Through Divorce

    Divorce can be an incredibly challenging experience, especially when navigating the complexities of a high-net-worth divorce. In this episode, Jamie Berger and Sarah Jacobs, co-founders of the esteemed Jacobs Berger family law practice, share their expert advice on how friends and family can effectively support a loved one during this difficult time—without overstepping boundaries or complicating the legal and emotional process. Jamie and Sarah, both seasoned family law professionals, delve into the critical role that loved ones can play in providing support. They offer actionable insights on how to help with organizing financial documents, when to bring in outside professionals, and how to maintain healthy boundaries throughout the divorce. They also caution against common pitfalls, such as offering unsolicited legal advice or pushing a particular lawyer, and explain how these well-meaning actions can unintentionally add stress. This episode is packed with invaluable advice for anyone supporting someone going through a high-net-worth divorce—or for those experiencing one themselves. By the end of this conversation, you’ll have a clear understanding of how to provide the right kind of support while respecting both emotional and legal needs. Key Topics Discussed: Understanding Boundaries: How to respect the role of lawyers and mediators while offering emotional support. Emotional Support vs. Legal Advice: Why it’s important to differentiate between the two and avoid giving legal guidance unless qualified. The Dangers of Comparisons: Why comparing your loved one’s divorce to others can be harmful and unhelpful. Financial Considerations: What friends and family need to understand about the financial complexities of ultra-high-net-worth divorces. Common Mistakes to Avoid: Recognizing the common missteps friends and family often make during a divorce, and how to avoid them. Connect with Jamie and Sarah: Website: Jacobs Berger Jamie Berger LinkedIn: Jamie Berger Sarah Jacobs LinkedIn: Sarah Jacobs About The Podcast: Hosted by Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, this podcast shares expert insights and tips for affluent women navigating divorce. Whether you’re going through a divorce yourself or supporting a loved one, this podcast is your go-to resource for maintaining your lifestyle and financial stability during and after divorce. Connect with Brooke: Website: Summerhill Firm LinkedIn: Brooke Summerhill

    25 min
  8. 10/29/2024

    Protecting Your Assets

    How much of your digital life could impact your divorce? In this insightful episode, Jonathan Steele, a divorce and family law partner at Beerman, dives into the intricacies of complex divorce cases, emphasizing the crucial intersection of cybersecurity and asset protection. Listeners will learn essential strategies for securing communication with their legal team, implementing robust cybersecurity measures, and being aware of shared digital access with a spouse. Jonathan also addresses privacy concerns in high-profile divorces, advocating for data removal services to safeguard personal information. He concludes with practical advice on making small, consistent changes to enhance cybersecurity and privacy throughout the divorce process. Key Points: Critical factors in navigating complex divorce cases The role of electronic communication in divorce proceedings Importance of two-factor authentication for financial accounts Strategies for safeguarding assets during divorce Maintaining privacy in high-profile divorces Jonathan D. Steele is a highly regarded family law attorney known for his strategic approach to sensitive family law matters, including divorce, child custody, and paternity. His practice is distinguished by a holistic approach that prioritizes both the personal and digital safety of his clients. Website: Beerman Law LinkedIn: Jonathan Steele Facebook: Steele Family Law Instagram: @steelefamlaw Twitter: @steelefamlaw This podcast features esteemed divorce professionals sharing invaluable insights tailored for women navigating divorce. Our mission is to equip affluent women with practical tips to maintain their lifestyle during and after divorce. Hosted by: Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, dedicated to discreetly assisting high-net-worth women with their financial concerns during divorce. Website: Summerhill Firm LinkedIn: Brooke Summerhill

    14 min
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This podcast invites highly sought-after divorce professionals to share their guidance with all women listening. The intent is to share tips that affluent women can use to maintain their lifestyles during and after divorce. It is hosted by Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Divorce Mediator, and Certified Money Coach who discreetly helps high-net-worth women in divorce with their financial questions.