Lead With Who You Are

Dia Bondi

Lead With Who You Are is a show that explores what it means to harness your most powerful, compelling, and aligned self. Unlike other shows about leadership, we’re on a journey to learn from mentors, experts, and badass people who are transforming the world – and their world – through the simple and radical act of choosing not to hide from who they are, and instead, leverage the wisdom of their true selves as a pathway to action. I'm Dia Bondi, and for the last 20 years as a communications coach and catalyst, I've helped world class leaders, entrepreneurs and social impact innovators inside companies like Salesforce, Dropbox, and Google speak powerfully at the most critical moments of their career and businesses. I’ve learned that when the chips are down – your best bet is to lead with who you are.

  1. 11/22/2023

    Abby Davisson, Co-Author, CEO & Founder

    Welcome to Lead With Who You Are with Dia Bondi!  In this episode, Dia is joined by special guest Abby Davisson, Co-Author of Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life’s Biggest Decisions. Abby's illustrious career includes roles as a social innovation leader and president of the Gap Foundation. She's now the founder and CEO of the Money and Love Institute, dedicated to helping people make intentional decisions, especially when the stakes are high. Introduction to Abby Davisson: Abby has been featured in renowned publications like the Financial Times, Wall Street Journal, Harvard Business Review, and Fast Company. Her passion lies in supporting individuals to make confident and deliberate decisions. The 5 C’s Framework for Decision-Making: Clarity: Gain clarity about your values and priorities.Confidence: Build the confidence to make decisions aligned with who you are.Control: Understand what is within your control and focus your energy there.Communication: Effectively communicate your decisions, particularly relevant for leaders.Connection: Establish a connection between your decisions and your authentic self.Highlights from the Episode: Abby shares insights into her career journey, emphasizing the importance of intentional decision-making.The episode explores the 5 C’s framework, providing a roadmap for making significant life decisions.Learn how to align decisions with your true self, fostering confidence and authenticity.Invitation to Subscribe: Subscribe to Lead With Who You Are on your favorite podcast platform to access more insightful conversations. Share the show with leaders and innovators in your life who shine brightest when they lead with authenticity. Join Dia and Abby as they unravel the mysteries of decision-making and provide valuable tools for leading with confidence and purpose!  Newsletter: https://abbydavisson.substack.com/ Book website quiz: www.moneylovebook.com/quiz Institute website: www.moneyloveinstitute.com Check out all things Dia Bondi here.

    54 min
  2. 10/11/2023

    The comedown

    It’s real. The comedown. That feeling you get, the low, the low-level depression, that feeling of loneliness or emptiness after a big moment- that key speech you gave, that show you played, that big, huge conversation you’ve been preparing for.  Dia and Baby A discuss their own comedown experiences and Dia shares a 5-step framework for dealing with your own:  Caring for your comedown: Take time, take care. Be tender with yourself. Don’t just power through. It’s a big letdown after using all the adrenaline you needed to do that big thing.  Now rest and take care. Go for a walk? Take a nap? Debrief with a friend who can show you the tenderness you need.  Reflect on what worked. And then? Lock that in. Once you’ve recovered a bit but are still feeling that soft glow of the moment (even if it’s bittersweet) take a look and reflect on what worked about what you did on stage, in that meeting, in that conversation. When you presented yourself, your art, your ideas in a way that landed some or all of it well, take a few minutes to notice what you did that worked, why you think it works and if you’d like to have that be something you do every time you get in front of an audience that matters. Forgive yourself for what didn’t work. Nothing is ever as perfect as you want it to be. So, take a moment to forgive what didn’t work. That moment you interrupted, that time you stumbled. That punchline you missed. Let it go. Let yourself off the hook. Find someone to debrief. Phone a friend, a colleague, a parent or your favorite aunt.  Having a nice debrief with someone who is willing to talk about what you did in front of that room honestly but with care and compassion- ready to just listen if you need it or provide calibrated feedback is critical to getting your feet back on the ground on your way out of a comedown. See it in the continuum of all of the big moments. Notice that what you did in that performance, is ephemeral and lives in the context of your full leadership life, your full body of work, your full career or business. This may shrink that feeling of “win/lose”, that critical communications or presentation moments can have. When you put it on the continuum of your steps to a goal- it can fade into a larger fabric of your life, leadership and aspirations. In that context you can shrink the power of that ONE moment, let it fade into the scene of your life and it can loosen its grip a bit and ease you out of the comedown and back into everyday life. The Power of Full Engagement is a great resource for managing your energy through a series of, or a lifetime of stepping into high performance moments with full engagement and without too much comedown. ➡️ Check it out here: Power of Full Engagement   Find all things Dia Bondi.

    32 min
  3. 09/27/2023

    Alain Hunkins, CEO & Author

    In this episode we’re talking with Alain Hunkins about tension. These tensions are what leaders live in trying to balance relationships and the needed distance that allows for exacting decisions, the tension of transparency and privacy, and the tension of action and reflection. Leadership can be a boring topic, seriously, but this convo isn’t and wasn’t. Alain defines leadership as the performing art of getting others to work towards a shared purpose, emphasizing the impact of one's words and actions on others through 3 specific pillars that we dive deep on: connection, communication, and collaboration.   Over his 25-year career, Alain Hunkins has worked with over 3,000 groups of leaders in 27 countries, including 42 of the Fortune 100 companies. In addition to being an executive coach, leadership and team development facilitator and keynote speaker, Alain is the author of the book, CRACKING THE LEADERSHIP CODE: Three Secrets to Building Strong Leaders (published by Wiley, March 2020) Alain is a faculty member of Duke Corporate Education and serves on the Academic Board of Advisors for the New Delhi Institute of Management. Alain’s work has been featured in Chief Executive, Fast Company, Inc., Training Magazine, Chief Learning Officer, and Business Insider. He’s also a monthly leadership strategy contributor to Forbes Magazine. Alain is the CEO of Hunkins Leadership Group, a leadership consultancy based in Northampton, Massachusetts. Listen in now for an intentional perspective on how to handle tension and the opportunity they present in defining your leadership.   Find out more about Alain here and his book, Cracking the Leadership Code. Follow him on LinkedIn. Watch his TEDx talk. Alain is offering 2 complimentary seats per company to enroll in the next 30-Day Leadership Challenge. For more info and coupon codes, email support@alainhunkins.com. 30 days starts on (publish date)!  Check out all things Dia Bondi here.

    45 min
5
out of 5
29 Ratings

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Lead With Who You Are is a show that explores what it means to harness your most powerful, compelling, and aligned self. Unlike other shows about leadership, we’re on a journey to learn from mentors, experts, and badass people who are transforming the world – and their world – through the simple and radical act of choosing not to hide from who they are, and instead, leverage the wisdom of their true selves as a pathway to action. I'm Dia Bondi, and for the last 20 years as a communications coach and catalyst, I've helped world class leaders, entrepreneurs and social impact innovators inside companies like Salesforce, Dropbox, and Google speak powerfully at the most critical moments of their career and businesses. I’ve learned that when the chips are down – your best bet is to lead with who you are.