Cowboys not Eggheads

Sam Fischer

I visit with guests about topics like loyalty, honesty, authenticity, courage, integrity and resilience.  I come from a cowboy raised and egghead educated background. I’ve saddled and rode a horse, been on multiple cattle drives, fed cattle in 40 below temperatures, worked cattle in a corral, put up hay in 100 degree temperatures, fixed fence …. you name it … I attended high school at a prestigious private school. I got a College degree. I spent 31 years as a national politic operative, owned my own business and spent 13 years as a police officer.  My interesting life has lead me to the conclusion that the world is made up of cowboys and eggheads. I believe that we should have a few more cowboys than eggheads. Get ready, because you’re about to be pulled into the story of my life…… 

  1. JUN 4

    **SEASON FINALE** Your Highest Calling is to Die with Dignity - with Special Guest Andy Campbell

    Send us a text In this conversation, Andy Campbell shares his profound journey of resilience, discussing his experiences with childhood trauma, the impact of fear, and the importance of confronting adversity. He emphasizes the significance of therapy, particularly EMDR, in healing from past traumas. Andy also opens up about living with stage four pancreatic cancer and the loss of his son, highlighting the complexities of mental health and the seductive nature of suicidal ideation. Through his story, he inspires listeners to face their fears and challenges head-on, advocating for a courageous approach to life. In this conversation, Andy Campbell shares his profound journey through grief, particularly following the loss of his son to suicide. He discusses the complexities of grief, including feelings of anger and guilt, and emphasizes the importance of confronting pain rather than succumbing to it. The dialogue explores the ripple effects of suicide on loved ones and the significance of finding meaning and happiness amidst sorrow. Andy reflects on lessons learned from his mother and the importance of resilience, hope, and the pursuit of happiness. He also shares his core beliefs about life, emphasizing that while equations in life may be constant, the variables are always changing, allowing for growth and new opportunities. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Resilience and Adversity 01:55 Understanding Fear and Its Impact 05:00 Confronting Childhood Trauma 08:10 The Journey of Healing and Therapy 18:08 Living with Stage Four Pancreatic Cancer 28:46 The Impact of Loss and Mental Health 38:05 Navigating Grief and Anger 40:16 The Ripple Effect of Suicide 42:11 Finding Happiness Amidst Grief 46:01 Lessons from Loss and Legacy 50:45 The Importance of Meaning in Life 55:37 Hope vs. Meaning: A Deeper Understanding 01:00:22 Core Beliefs and Life Lessons 01:11:25 Equations of Life: Constants and Variables Takeaways Words matter, and how we frame them is crucial.Fear should be seen as something to move through, not avoid.Confronting childhood trauma is essential for healing.Therapy can help rewire how we process traumatic memories.Living with cancer requires a mindset of resilience and hope.Facing adversity is a choice we must make for ourselves.No one outruns the universe; we must confront our challenges.The impact of loss can lead to mental health struggles.Intelligent individuals may struggle with suicidal ideations.Support systems are vital in navigating grief and mental health. Grief can manifest as anger and guilt.The pain of suicide affects not just the individual but their loved ones.Finding happiness is a conscious effort, even amidst grief.Legacy and lessons from loved ones can guide us in life.Meaning in life is crucial for mental health and resilience.Hope is necessary, but it must be grounded in meaning.Confronting troubles is essential for personal growth.Life's equations are constant, but the variables can change.Time can lessen the weight of grief in our lives.We have the power to influence our life's variables.  Support the show Thanks for listening! SUBSCRIBE, Review, Rate, and Share. Contact us: cowboysnoteggheads@gmail.com Let us know if you want a hat ($20), tee shirt ($30), coffee cup ($25), or window decal for your truck. ($30)

    1h 18m
  2. MAY 28

    Revolutionizing Education: The Apogee Model - with Special Guest Nissa Cohen

    Send us a text In this episode, Nissa Cohen discusses her experiences and insights related to the Omaha Apogee school, emphasizing the importance of preparedness, the unique educational philosophy of Apogee, and the value of engaging parents in their children's education. The discussion covers the operational structure of the school, the significance of teaching values, and the concept of the learning zone where frustration is embraced as part of the learning process. This conversation explores the evolving landscape of education, emphasizing the need for personalized learning experiences that challenge traditional norms for learning. They also address the role of technology in education and the necessity of adapting learning paths for unique learners. The dialogue culminates in a discussion about the differences between just-in-time and just-in-case learning, advocating for a more relevant and engaging educational approach. This conversation explores the integration of physical health, resilience, and meaningful education through innovative teaching methods. Sam and Nissa discuss the importance of physical activity, free play, and the Socratic method in fostering critical thinking and engagement among children. They emphasize the establishment of core values and nutrition education as essential components of a holistic educational experience, culminating in a structured yet flexible learning environment that encourages family involvement and personal responsibility. This conversation explores the innovative educational approach at Apogee, focusing on family dynamics, self-driven learning, and the importance of mentorship. The discussion highlights the commitment to health and fitness, the challenges faced in transitioning from traditional education, and the significance of understanding one's motivations. The speakers emphasize the value of failure as a learning tool and the importance of community support in education. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Apogee School 05:44 Understanding Apogee's Educational Philosophy 10:53 Engagement and Values in Education 16:51 The Learning Zone and Embracing Frustration 21:10 Minimum Standards in Learning 25:16 Utilizing Technology in Education 27:28 Personalized Learning Paths 29:38 Exploring Career Aspirations 31:01 Mentorship and Real-World Experiences 33:02 Building a Portfolio for Future Success 35:12 Adapting Education for Unique Learners 36:51 Just-in-Time Learning vs. Just-in-Case Learning 37:32 The Importance of Physical Health 38:28 Building Resilience Through Physical Activity 39:42 The Role of Free Play in Child Development 40:54 Socratic Method in Education 43:50 Engaging Children in Meaningful Conversations 45:32 Understanding Different Perspectives 48:51 Establishing Core Values in Education 50:43 Health Equals Wealth: Nutrition Education 52:58 The Structure of the Educational Year 54:58 The Screening Process for Apogee Families 56:16 Commitment to Health and Family Growth 57:31 Apogee Mentorship Programs 01:01:04 Building a Strong Foundation for Education 01:02:57 The Importance of Understanding Your 'Why' 01:06:54 Challenges in Self-Driven Education 01:10:38 Embracing Failure as a Learning Tool Support the show Thanks for listening! SUBSCRIBE, Review, Rate, and Share. Contact us: cowboysnoteggheads@gmail.com Let us know if you want a hat ($20), tee shirt ($30), coffee cup ($25), or window decal for your truck. ($30)

    1h 10m
  3. MAY 21

    Reverence Restored - with Special Guests Kevin and Bree Bailey

    Send us a text In this conversation, Kevin and Bree Bailey discuss their journey through marriage, the challenges they faced, and how they founded their marriage coaching service, Reverence Restored. They emphasize the importance of unconditional love, respect, and vulnerability in relationships, while also addressing the impact of generational perspectives on marriage. The Baileys share insights on effective communication, the baggage that couples bring into their marriages, and the significance of creating safe spaces for honest conversations. They also touch on parenting dynamics and the importance of building a legacy of love and faith for future generations. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of marriage, emphasizing the importance of communication, prioritizing faith, and understanding the dynamics of emotional and logical perspectives in relationships. They share personal experiences and insights on coaching couples, the significance of aligning individual goals with a shared vision, and the transformative power of faith in marriage. The discussion also touches on the challenges of pride, the necessity of seeking help, and the hope for those who have experienced divorce.  Chapters  00:00 Introduction to Marriage Coaching  01:48 The Birth of Reverence Restored  04:42 Navigating Early Marriage Challenges  07:52 Generational Perspectives on Marriage  10:49 Understanding Vulnerability in Relationships  13:46 The Role of Communication in Marriage  16:52 Baggage and Its Impact on Marriage  19:58 Creating Safe Spaces for Vulnerability  22:58 The Importance of Supportive Friendships  25:38 Fighting for Your Marriage  28:53 Conclusion and Key Takeaways  31:16 The Power of Words and Love  34:31 Vulnerability and Authenticity in Relationships  38:40 Discipline and Parenting Strategies  43:11 Prioritizing Faith and Family  52:07 Communication as the Foundation of Relationships  01:00:35 Understanding Relationship Breakdowns  01:01:59 The Role of Spiritual Maturity in Marriage  01:04:38 Navigating Individual Growth in Relationships  01:07:48 The Misuse of Grace in Marriage  01:09:52 Success Stories in Marriage Restoration  01:14:48 The Importance of Humility in Relationships  01:16:54 Advice for Hesitant Couples Seeking Help  01:20:56 The Ripple Effect of Divorce  01:23:47 Finding Hope After Divorce  To learn more about Reverence Restored please visit: www.reverencerestored.com or @kevinandbree on YouTube, Instagram and Face Book  Support the show Thanks for listening! SUBSCRIBE, Review, Rate, and Share. Contact us: cowboysnoteggheads@gmail.com Let us know if you want a hat ($20), tee shirt ($30), coffee cup ($25), or window decal for your truck. ($30)

    1h 25m
4.8
out of 5
23 Ratings

About

I visit with guests about topics like loyalty, honesty, authenticity, courage, integrity and resilience.  I come from a cowboy raised and egghead educated background. I’ve saddled and rode a horse, been on multiple cattle drives, fed cattle in 40 below temperatures, worked cattle in a corral, put up hay in 100 degree temperatures, fixed fence …. you name it … I attended high school at a prestigious private school. I got a College degree. I spent 31 years as a national politic operative, owned my own business and spent 13 years as a police officer.  My interesting life has lead me to the conclusion that the world is made up of cowboys and eggheads. I believe that we should have a few more cowboys than eggheads. Get ready, because you’re about to be pulled into the story of my life……