The Audacious Living Podcast

Audley Stephenson

The Audacious Living Podcast🎙unpacks wisdom from guests to help you live your best audacious life ever! #BeAudacious📢

  1. 1d ago

    Read Less. Apply More: Nick Hutchison on Turning What You Learn Into Action

    What if the problem isn't that you need to learn more, but that you haven't done enough with what you already know? Sometimes the next breakthrough isn't hiding in another book. It's waiting in the action you haven't taken yet. SIGNATURE QUOTE "Action is the real measure of intelligence." WHY THIS QUOTE MATTERS Nick's message cuts through the illusion that consuming information automatically creates growth. What changes us isn't simply what we know. It's what we're willing to do with it. EPISODE DESCRIPTION Nick Hutchison has built BookThinkers around a love of books, yet one of his biggest realizations sounds almost contradictory: sometimes you need to read less and apply more. In this return visit to The Audacious Living Podcast, Nick and Audley explore what happens when personal development moves beyond collecting information and becomes action. They get into patience, delayed gratification, community, the slow growth nobody sees, and a powerful way of making decisions by asking what your future self will appreciate. The conversation also becomes deeply personal when Nick reflects on fatherhood and the example he wants to set for his son. Because eventually the question isn't how much you've learned. It's whether you had the courage to do something with it. THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF... • you're consuming plenty of information but struggling to put it into practice • you're building something slowly and wondering whether the effort will ever pay off • you're trying to make better decisions for your future self • you love books but want your reading to produce meaningful change • you're ready to stop postponing something you already know you need to do ABOUT NICK HUTCHISON Nick Hutchison is the founder of BookThinkers, a growing community and company built around helping people get more from the books they read. His work connects readers, authors and ideas with a simple underlying belief: information becomes far more valuable when we actually use it. Since Nick's previous visit to The Audacious Living Podcast, his life and work have continued to evolve. He's become a father, expanded BookThinkers, hosted live events and launched the BookThinkers Book Club, creating a community where readers can discuss, challenge and, most importantly, apply what they're learning. CONNECT WITH NICK BookThinkers: https://bookthinkers.com/ BookThinkers Book Club: https://www.skool.com/bookthinkers/about LISTEN ON MAJOR PLATFORMS 🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2jVR6V7X2kRiCCDXE0FTyl?si=IR3TsfEWR3WA6BzfBRnVXQ 🍎 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-audacious-living-podcast/id1547447345 📦 Amazon Music → https://music.amazon.ca/podcasts/9f7902bb-dec8-4bd9-918d-d1fef21b7c67/the-audacious-living-podcast?ref=dm_sh_pGv57yQvAmAQVp2IIaXoDwtFt Enjoying the show? Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. ⭐ Leave a review: 👉 https://ratethispodcast.com/audacious

    Read Less. Apply More: Nick Hutchison on Turning What You Learn Into Action
  2. 3d ago

    Why Your Subconscious Mind Keeps You Stuck | Ethan Reisboard

    You can genuinely want something different and still find yourself returning to the same familiar patterns. What if that resistance isn't weakness, but your subconscious trying to keep you safe? ── Signature Quote “This is true because of my past. Does that need to dictate how you live? No, right?” Ethan makes this distinction while explaining how past experiences can shape present responses without having to determine what comes next. ─── Why This Quote Matters It captures the heart of the conversation: your past can explain a pattern without earning the right to control your future. Understanding why something developed can become the beginning of changing your relationship with it. ─── Episode Description Why do we sometimes keep doing things we know aren't helping us? In this episode of The Audacious Living Podcast, hypnotherapist Ethan Reisboard explores the fascinating tension between what we consciously want and what our subconscious has learned to perceive as safe. Ethan explains why repetition and predictability can feel protective, how old coping mechanisms can outlive their usefulness, and why simply knowing what needs to change doesn't necessarily make change easy. Drawing from his own experiences with nicotine use and a later struggle with chronic pain and depression, Ethan shares how his personal healing journey eventually changed the direction of his life. The conversation challenges us to look at resistance differently: instead of only asking “Why can't I change?”, what might happen if we also asked, “What was this pattern originally trying to do for me?” ─── This Episode Is For You If... you're frustrated by patterns you understand but still struggle to change you're wondering why familiar choices can be so difficult to leave behind you're learning to separate your past from the future you want to create you're trying to replace an old coping mechanism with something healthier you're ready to take action even when part of you still feels resistance ─── Guest Bio Ethan Reisboard, CHt, is a hypnotherapist whose relationship with hypnotherapy began personally. While in college, he sought hypnosis for nicotine use and says he has remained nicotine-free for more than five years. Years later, after a concussion left him dealing with chronic pain and depression, Ethan returned to hypnotherapy after trying numerous other approaches. That experience eventually led him toward becoming a hypnotherapist himself and helping others explore the relationship between subconscious patterns, emotional responses and the nervous system. His journey also took him to Costa Rica, where he has built a dramatically different life from the one he once expected to. ─── Guest Links Website: ethanreishypnotherapy.com ─── Listen on Major Platforms 🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2jVR6V7X2kRiCCDXE0FTyl?si=IR3TsfEWR3WA6BzfBRnVXQ⁠ 🍎 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-audacious-living-podcast/id1547447345⁠ 📦 Amazon Music → https://music.amazon.ca/podcasts/9f7902bb-dec8-4bd9-918d-d1fef21b7c67/the-audacious-living-podcast?ref=dm_sh_pGv57yQvAmAQVp2IIaXoDwtFt⁠ ─── Call To Action Enjoying the show? Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. ⭐ Leave a review: 👉 https://ratethispodcast.com/audacious⁠

    Why Your Subconscious Mind Keeps You Stuck | Ethan Reisboard
  3. 5d ago

    Why You Should Choose Hard Things Before Life Chooses Them for You

    Life will eventually test your resilience. The question is whether you wait for that moment to discover what you're capable of, or deliberately build that capacity before you need it. ─── Signature Quote “It just makes everything so much easier when you're intentionally doing hard things, not just waiting for hard things to happen to you.” Shaun Bemis ─── Why This Quote Matters This idea sits at the heart of Shaun's story: resilience doesn't have to be something we discover only after adversity arrives. We can train it, strengthen it and prove to ourselves what we're capable of before life demands it. ─── Episode Description What if doing hard things on purpose could change the way you respond when life gets hard without your permission? In this episode of The Audacious Living Podcast, Audley sits down with 20-year Navy veteran, strategic execution coach and ultramarathoner Shaun Bemis for a conversation about resilience, leadership, preparation and what happens when we deliberately step beyond what's comfortable. Shaun's experiences span naval intelligence, deployments supporting Navy SEAL teams, business leadership and endurance races that have pushed him physically and mentally. Yet this isn't a conversation about becoming tougher for the sake of being tough. It's about building confidence through evidence, mastering the basics, learning from what doesn't work, adapting when the plan changes and discovering that progress can be as simple as continuing to move forward. As Shaun puts it: left foot, right foot. ─── This Episode Is For You If... • you're facing something that feels bigger than you • you're ready to deliberately stretch beyond your comfort zone • you're leading people and want to become a more empathetic, effective leader • you're learning how to adapt when the original plan stops working • you want to pursue ambitious goals without sacrificing everything else that matters ─── Guest Bio Shaun Bemis is a 20-year U.S. Navy veteran whose career included naval intelligence, deployments alongside Army infantry and years supporting Navy SEAL teams. After leaving military service, he carried those lessons in planning, leadership, adaptability and execution into the business world. Today, Shaun is a strategic execution coach, speaker and founder of Left Foot Right Foot Consulting. He's also an ultramarathoner who deliberately uses endurance challenges as a laboratory for many of the principles he teaches: prepare well, execute the basics, adjust when reality changes and keep moving forward. His approach isn't about relentless hustle. It's about building systems that work in real life while protecting the people and priorities that matter. ─── Guest Links • Website — Left Foot Right Foot Consulting • LinkedIn — Shaun Bemis Shaun also identifies Instagram for his running content and Substack for his deeper writing on choosing hard things, resilience and the emotional side of personal growth. ─── Listen on Major Platforms 🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2jVR6V7X2kRiCCDXE0FTyl?si=IR3TsfEWR3WA6BzfBRnVXQ 🍎 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-audacious-living-podcast/id1547447345 📦 Amazon Music → https://music.amazon.ca/podcasts/9f7902bb-dec8-4bd9-918d-d1fef21b7c67/the-audacious-living-podcast?ref=dm_sh_pGv57yQvAmAQVp2IIaXoDwtFt ─── Call To Action Enjoying the show? Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. ⭐ Leave a review: 👉 https://ratethispodcast.com/audacious

    Why You Should Choose Hard Things Before Life Chooses Them for You
  4. 5d ago

    Your Past Doesn't Have to Define You: How to Turn Pain Into Purpose with Pax Prentiss

    What if the hardest chapter of your life isn't something you need to erase, but something you can use? Sometimes the experiences we'd most like to leave behind become the very experiences that reveal our purpose, reshape our identity, and allow us to help someone else find their way forward. ─── Signature Quote «"I needed that experience to become who I am today."» — Pax Prentiss ─── Why This Quote Matters Pax doesn't deny the pain of his past or allow it to define his future. His story challenges us to reconsider what becomes possible when we stop viewing our hardest experiences only through regret and begin asking what they can help us become. ─── Episode Description At 26, Pax Prentiss was emerging from a decade-long addiction to heroin, cocaine, and alcohol. During his first week of sobriety, while withdrawing from heroin in a treatment center, an unexpected idea began taking shape: What if the experience that nearly destroyed his life could become the foundation for helping others reclaim theirs? That idea eventually became Passages Malibu, the treatment center Pax co-founded with his father. In this deeply reflective conversation, Pax and Audley explore why addressing addiction requires looking beyond the substance itself and asking a much more difficult question: What's underneath it? They also examine identity, limiting beliefs, purpose, regret, authenticity, and what happens after sobriety. Pax's perspective offers a larger lesson that reaches beyond addiction: your past may be part of your story, but it doesn't have to become the limit you place on your future. ─── This Episode Is For You If... • you're struggling to separate who you are from something you've experienced • you're carrying regret about choices or chapters from your past • you're questioning the beliefs and labels that may be keeping you stuck • you're rebuilding your life and wondering what comes after simply surviving • you're ready to explore how pain, properly processed, can become purpose ─── Guest Bio Pax Prentiss is the co-founder of Passages Malibu, a holistic treatment center he started with his father after his own decade-long struggle with heroin, cocaine, and alcohol addiction. His approach to recovery grew directly from his personal experience. Traditional treatment methods had not worked for him, so Pax and his father began focusing on the underlying reasons behind substance use, including anxiety, depression, trauma, low self-esteem, and unresolved emotional pain. More than two decades later, Pax remains deeply involved in the work. He still speaks directly with individuals and families seeking help and continues to advocate for an approach centered on the whole person, individual identity, healing, purpose, and the possibility of building a meaningful life beyond addiction. ─── Guest Links Passages Malibu https://passagesmalibu.com ─── Listen on Major Platforms 🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2jVR6V7X2kRiCCDXE0FTyl?si=IR3TsfEWR3WA6BzfBRnVXQ 🍎 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-audacious-living-podcast/id1547447345 📦 Amazon Music → https://music.amazon.ca/podcasts/9f7902bb-dec8-4bd9-918d-d1fef21b7c67/the-audacious-living-podcast?ref=dm_sh_pGv57yQvAmAQVp2IIaXoDwtFt ─── Call To Action Enjoying the show? Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. ⭐ Leave a review: 👉 https://ratethispodcast.com/audacious

    Your Past Doesn't Have to Define You: How to Turn Pain Into Purpose with Pax Prentiss
  5. Sep 7

    How to Be Bold Before You Feel Confident — Fred Joyal | Audacious Living

    How do you become bold when you don't feel confident yet? Fred Joyal believes we've been thinking about confidence backwards. Fred describes himself as a painfully shy introvert who once assumed bold people were simply born differently. Then he began deliberately doing things that made him uncomfortable and discovered that boldness wasn't something he had to wait for. It was something he could practise. In this episode of The Audacious Living Podcast, Fred and I get into the hidden cost of playing it safe, why failure may deserve a completely different meaning, and what happens when you start building boldness before you actually need it. Fred's perspective is wonderfully practical: if you want to become more courageous when the stakes are high, start getting uncomfortable while the stakes are low. We also get into the unlikely story behind 1-800-DENTIST. Fred wasn't a dentist and admits he didn't know whether the business would even become profitable for roughly two and a half years. It eventually grew to nearly $50 million in annual revenue with 250 employees. Yet one of my favourite moments comes when Fred describes what all that practice with boldness eventually did for him: “I didn't become a different person. I became the full " That's where this conversation gets bigger than entrepreneurship. What could become possible if you stopped waiting to feel completely ready? Key Insights • Why boldness is a skill rather than a personality trait • Why confidence doesn't necessarily need to come first • How low-stakes discomfort prepares you for high-stakes decisions • Why failure can become useful information • The long-term cost of constantly playing it safe • How missed opportunities can accumulate into regret • Why becoming bolder doesn't require becoming someone else About Fred Joyal Fred Joyal is a longtime entrepreneur, author and advocate for developing boldness as a practical life skill. He co-created 1-800-DENTIST and ran the company for 28 years. At its peak, Fred says the company generated nearly $50 million annually and employed approximately 250 people. What makes Fred's work particularly interesting isn't that boldness always came naturally to him. It's the opposite. He describes his younger self as painfully introverted and eventually became fascinated by figuring out how boldness could be deliberately learned and strengthened. That journey became the foundation for his book Superbold. Connect With Fred Joyal 🌐 Website: FredJoyal.com 📘 Book: Superbold Fred identifies his website as the main destination for his book, keynote work and boldness programs. Read the Audacious Insight Why Playing It Safe Is the Riskiest Decision You’ll Ever Make 🔗 Blog: https://www.bestaudaciouslife.com/episodes/fred-joyal-build-boldness-confidence Listen on Major Platforms 🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2jVR6V7X2kRiCCDXE0FTyl?si=IR3TsfEWR3WA6BzfBRnVXQ⁠ 🍎 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-audacious-living-podcast/id1547447345⁠ 📦 Amazon Music → https://music.amazon.ca/podcasts/9f7902bb-dec8-4bd9-918d-d1fef21b7c67/the-audacious-living-podcast?ref=dm_sh_pGv57yQvAmAQVp2IIaXoDwtFt⁠ Behind the Conversation There was an immediate connection in this conversation because Fred and I approach audacity from remarkably similar places. Yet what I particularly enjoyed was his distinction between confidence and boldness. We often think we need the first before attempting the second. Fred makes a compelling argument that we've got the order backwards. Stay for the Fearless Fast Round too. Fred describing himself as a “ready fire aim guy” tells you quite a bit about how he approaches risk

    How to Be Bold Before You Feel Confident — Fred Joyal | Audacious Living
  6. Sep 5

    You Don’t Have to Start Over to Begin Again | Jobert E. Abueva

    What if moving forward isn’t about leaving your past behind, but understanding it well enough to know what comes next? Sometimes the most meaningful new beginning starts by recognizing how far you’ve already come. “It’s beginning again without starting over because you don’t need to.” — Jobert E. Abueva WHY THIS QUOTE MATTERS Jobert’s words capture the heart of this conversation: growth doesn’t require erasing what came before. Your experiences, setbacks, wins and lessons can become the foundation for what you intentionally choose next. EPISODE DESCRIPTION We’re often encouraged to look ahead, set new goals and keep moving. But what if one of the most powerful things you can do before deciding where you’re going is understand where you’ve been? In this conversation, author and global marketer Jobert E. Abueva introduces The Janus Plan, his approach to pausing at life’s thresholds, reflecting honestly on what has shaped us and using those lessons to move forward with greater intention. From his own experience with corporate burnout to his “Good, Bad and Ugly” reflection exercise, Jobert challenges us to stop treating every new chapter like we’re starting from zero. Sometimes beginning again simply means carrying the right lessons forward and leaving behind what no longer needs to come with us. THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF... • You’re standing at a threshold or transition in your life • You’re tired of setting goals without understanding what keeps shaping your choices • You’ve experienced burnout and want to move forward differently • You’re carrying parts of your past that may need to be reconsidered or released • You want to approach your next chapter with greater clarity and intention GUEST BIO Jobert E. Abueva is a career-long global marketer, writer and author whose work explores reflection, intentional living and the lessons we carry forward from our experiences. His latest book, The Janus Plan: A No Resolutions Path to Begin Your Year with Intention, grew in part from his own experience with corporate burnout and his realization that meaningful change requires more than simply deciding what comes next. Drawing inspiration from Janus, the ancient Roman god associated with beginnings, endings and transitions, Jobert encourages people to pause at life’s thresholds, examine where they’ve been and use that perspective to move forward with greater clarity. GUEST LINKS Website: https://joberteabueva.com Book: The Janus Plan: A No Resolutions Path to Begin Your Year with Intention LISTEN ON MAJOR PLATFORMS 🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2jVR6V7X2kRiCCDXE0FTyl?si=IR3TsfEWR3WA6BzfBRnVXQ 🍎 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-audacious-living-podcast/id1547447345 📦 Amazon Music → https://music.amazon.ca/podcasts/9f7902bb-dec8-4bd9-918d-d1fef21b7c67/the-audacious-living-podcast?ref=dm_sh_pGv57yQvAmAQVp2IIaXoDwtFt CALL TO ACTION Enjoying the show? Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. ⭐ Leave a review: 👉 https://ratethispodcast.com/audacious

    You Don’t Have to Start Over to Begin Again | Jobert E. Abueva
  7. Sep 3

    MONEY IS A TOOL: HOW TO STOP LETTING FINANCIAL HABITS SHAPE YOUR LIFE

    What if some of the financial decisions shaping your life aren't really decisions anymore, but habits you've stopped noticing? Sometimes creating more freedom begins with making those invisible choices visible again. SIGNATURE QUOTE “Money's a tool and so you don't wanna just sit with it, like what do you want to do with it?” WHY THIS QUOTE MATTERS This question captures the heart of the conversation because financial freedom isn't simply about accumulating more. It's about becoming intentional about what your money allows you to build, experience and contribute. EPISODE DESCRIPTION Money may look like numbers on a spreadsheet, but our relationship with it is often shaped by something much deeper: our beliefs, experiences, emotions and the stories we've carried with us for years. Financial coach and author Veronica Deraleau joins Audley Stephenson for a thoughtful conversation about breaking those patterns and becoming more intentional about the trade-offs we make with our money, time and energy. Drawing from her own journey of paying off six figures of debt, Veronica explains how changing the way she thought about money changed what she believed was possible. This conversation goes beyond budgeting. It's about recognizing the choices happening by default, questioning the beliefs underneath them and deciding what you actually want your resources to make possible. Because money is a tool. The bigger question is what you want to do with it. THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF... • You want greater financial freedom but feel stuck in familiar habits • You're carrying money beliefs shaped by your past • You want to become more intentional about where your money, time and energy go • You're navigating a life or career transition and reconsidering what matters • You're ready to stop letting default choices quietly determine your future GUEST BIO Veronica Deraleau is a financial coach and author whose approach to money was shaped by an unconventional journey spanning music, the military, commercial real estate and financial technology. After graduating with six figures of debt, Veronica began applying lessons she learned from the way high-net-worth individuals approached money and long-term outcomes. She paid off her debt in three years and eventually began helping others rethink their own financial habits, beliefs and possibilities. Her book, Making Money Is Simple: Stop Going from Paycheck to Paycheck and Start Living Your Dreams, explores many of those lessons through stories from her own life. At the centre of her work is a simple idea: money becomes far more powerful when we intentionally decide what we want it to help us accomplish. GUEST LINKS Website: makingmoneyissimple.com Book: Making Money Is Simple: Stop Going from Paycheck to Paycheck and Start Living Your Dreams Available through Amazon and MakingMoneyIsSimple.com Social: @makingmoneyissimple LISTEN ON MAJOR PLATFORMS 🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2jVR6V7X2kRiCCDXE0FTyl?si=IR3TsfEWR3WA6BzfBRnVXQ 🍎 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-audacious-living-podcast/id1547447345 📦 Amazon Music → https://music.amazon.ca/podcasts/9f7902bb-dec8-4bd9-918d-d1fef21b7c67/the-audacious-living-podcast?ref=dm_sh_pGv57yQvAmAQVp2IIaXoDwtFt Enjoying the show? Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. ⭐ Leave a review: 👉 ratethispodcast.com/audacious

    MONEY IS A TOOL: HOW TO STOP LETTING FINANCIAL HABITS SHAPE YOUR LIFE
  8. Sep 1

    700 Conversations Later: What Audacity Really Means

    What if audacity isn't about making the biggest move in the room? After 700 conversations, a different picture emerges: courage can be quiet, deeply personal, and much closer than we think. ─── “Because something that looks incredibly small to me might require everything that you've got.” ─── Why This Quote Matters This captures one of the most important lessons from 700 conversations: courage cannot be measured from the outside. What appears small to someone else may represent an extraordinary act of courage for you. ─── Episode Description Episode 700 is more than a milestone. It's an opportunity to look back across hundreds of conversations and ask one deceptively simple question: What does it really mean to live audaciously? Drawing from the Audacious Wisdom Library, Audley Stephenson revisits voices and moments from across the podcast's journey to uncover three truths that repeatedly emerge: audacity is intentional courage, audacity lives in the small things, and audacity belongs to everyone. This special episode challenges the idea that courage must be dramatic to count. Sometimes audacity is getting out of bed. Asking the difficult question. Having the conversation. Taking one uncertain step. Each act gives us new evidence about ourselves, and that evidence can change what we believe we're capable of doing next. ─── This Episode Is For You If... • you've been waiting to feel fearless before taking action • you sometimes dismiss your progress because it feels too small • you're navigating uncertainty and wondering what your next step should be • you want to develop greater trust in yourself • you're ready to rethink what living audaciously can look like in your own life ─── Guest Bio This milestone episode turns the microphone toward Audley Stephenson, creator and host of The Audacious Living Podcast, as he reflects on what 700 conversations have taught him about courage, growth and the human capacity to move forward. Rather than celebrating the milestone simply by looking backward, Audley draws upon voices from throughout the podcast's journey to explore the many ways audacity shows up in ordinary lives. The result is both a celebration of 700 episodes and a reminder that living audaciously isn't reserved for extraordinary people. It belongs to all of us. ─── Listen on Major Platforms 🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2jVR6V7X2kRiCCDXE0FTyl?si=IR3TsfEWR3WA6BzfBRnVXQ⁠ 🍎 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-audacious-living-podcast/id1547447345⁠ 📦 Amazon Music → https://music.amazon.ca/podcasts/9f7902bb-dec8-4bd9-918d-d1fef21b7c67/the-audacious-living-podcast?ref=dm_sh_pGv57yQvAmAQVp2IIaXoDwtFt⁠ ─── Call To Action Enjoying the show? Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. ⭐ Leave a review: 👉 https://ratethispodcast.com/audacious⁠

    700 Conversations Later: What Audacity Really Means
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The Audacious Living Podcast🎙unpacks wisdom from guests to help you live your best audacious life ever! #BeAudacious📢