The Way of The Wolf by Wolf Executives

Sean Barnes

As a strategic advisor to executives with experience navigating 48 acquisitions, Sean Barnes delivers the hard truths and practical strategies you need to lead, grow, and thrive in today’s complex business environment. Through The Way of The Wolf, Sean pulls back the curtain on the realities of senior leadership, entrepreneurship, and personal branding. Whether you are aiming for the C-suite, managing through a transition, or looking to build an unstoppable team, this podcast provides the actionable insights required to become the best version of yourself. No fluff, no corporate platitudes. You will get the candid, high-impact guidance necessary to take ownership of your career and your business.

  1. 5d ago

    301: How to Reinvent Yourself When You’ve Hit a Career Ceiling

    What do you do when you know you’re capable of more, but you’ve reached a ceiling in your career? In this episode of the podcast, Sean Barnes shares lessons from his own career reinvention, from an introverted IT professional to leading HR, safety, transportation, and other corporate functions before eventually becoming an entrepreneur, keynote speaker, and executive coach. Sean breaks down how career growth often starts before the next opportunity ever appears. It begins by building a high-performing team, creating enough capacity to take on something new, stepping outside your comfort zone, and becoming someone others trust to solve bigger problems. If you feel stuck professionally or are trying to figure out what comes next, this episode offers a practical approach to expanding your skills, increasing your exposure, and creating opportunities for career growth.   Key Moments 00:26 - What it means to reinvent yourself after hitting a career ceiling 01:08 - Sean’s journey from IT to leading multiple corporate functions 03:44 - Why getting your own house in order comes first 04:34 - Becoming a force multiplier instead of constantly putting out fires 05:29 - How a high-performing team creates capacity for new opportunities 06:21 - Stepping outside your comfort zone and helping other teams 06:51 - How to demonstrate that you can solve problems beyond your current role 07:45 - Why greater exposure and responsibility can start to feel overwhelming 09:07 - Identifying the work that excites you and gives you energy 09:39 - How consistently solving bigger problems can open new doors 10:37 - The compounding effect of taking on new roles and responsibilities 11:33 - Building leaders so you can continue expanding your own responsibilities 12:04 - How stretching yourself builds confidence in unfamiliar situations 12:59 - Helping more people when you feel like you’ve reached a ceiling   Key Takeaways Create capacity before chasing the next opportunity. Build a strong team and systems that can perform without your constant involvement. Expand your value beyond your current role. Help solve problems across teams and expose yourself to parts of the business you haven’t experienced before. Follow the work that gives you energy. Pay attention to the problems you enjoy solving. They can point you toward your next opportunity.   Podcast Show Notes – Episode 301 | 09.29.2026 Episode Title: How to Reinvent Yourself When You’ve Hit a Career Ceiling      Host: Sean Barnes Wolf Executives, Houston, TX   Website: https://www.wolfexecutives.com   https://www.seanbarnes.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanbarnes/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/wolfexecutives https://www.linkedin.com/company/thewayofthewolf/ LinkedIn Newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7284600567593684993/   Twitter: https://x.com/seanbarnes https://x.com/wolfexecutives   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_seanbarnes https://www.instagram.com/wolfexecutives   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_seanbarnes   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theseanbarnes

  2. Sep 22

    300: Executive Presence Isn’t Something You’re Born With | 4 Skills That Build It

    Executive presence can feel like something you either have or you don’t. But what if it’s actually a set of skills you can develop? For the 300th episode of The Way of the Wolf, Sean Barnes breaks down four elements that shape how others experience you: appearance, self-awareness, expertise, and communication. From understanding your behavioral style and adapting to different personalities to eliminating filler words, improving eye contact, and developing deeper expertise, Sean shares practical ways to strengthen your presence over time. Whether you’re preparing for a leadership role, working to communicate with more confidence, or simply want to make a stronger impact when you walk into a room, this episode offers a practical framework for building executive presence one skill at a time.   Key Moments 00:00 - Why some people seem to naturally have a powerful presence 01:17 - How appearance influences first impressions and credibility 02:49 - The connection between confidence, health, and how you carry yourself 03:15 - Using behavioral assessments to build greater self-awareness 04:28 - Reading the room and adapting your communication style 05:00 - Why deep expertise strengthens your professional presence 06:20 - Communication as a critical piece of executive presence 06:52 - How filler words can weaken your message 08:00 - Using hand gestures and eye contact to hold attention 09:00 - Why executive presence can be difficult to define 09:33 - Building presence by improving individual skills over time 10:20 - How stacking small improvements creates a stronger presence   Key Takeaways Executive presence can be developed. Break it into individual skills and intentionally improve them over time.   Self-awareness helps you connect with others. Understanding your own behavioral style makes it easier to recognize and adapt to the people around you.   Strong communication amplifies everything else. Clear speech, eye contact, body language, and fewer filler words can change how people receive your message.   Podcast Show Notes – Episode 300 | 09.22.2026 Episode Title: Executive Presence Isn’t Something You’re Born With | 4 Skills That Build It      Host: Sean Barnes Wolf Executives, Houston, TX   Website: https://www.wolfexecutives.com   https://www.seanbarnes.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanbarnes/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/wolfexecutives https://www.linkedin.com/company/thewayofthewolf/ LinkedIn Newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7284600567593684993/   Twitter: https://x.com/seanbarnes https://x.com/wolfexecutives   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_seanbarnes https://www.instagram.com/wolfexecutives   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_seanbarnes   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theseanbarnes

  3. Sep 15

    299: How Do You Keep Moving Forward After Loss

    How do you keep moving forward when life asks more of you than you feel prepared to carry? In this deeply personal episode of The Way of the Wolf, Sean Barnes reflects on losing both his brother and grandmother within a matter of weeks and the challenge of navigating grief while continuing to lead, work, speak, and show up for the people who depend on him. Sean shares how honoring the people he lost has helped him process grief, reconnect with his purpose, and continue doing the work that meant so much to them. He also reflects on the impact his brother and grandmother had on the person he has become, particularly their ability to bring light, laughter, and encouragement to the people around them. This episode is a reminder that grief doesn't follow a predictable timeline, moving forward doesn't mean ignoring what happened, and sometimes a few minutes of genuine support can make an enormous difference in someone's life. Sean challenges each of us to look beyond ourselves, check on the people around us, and find opportunities to remind someone that they don't have to face a difficult season alone.   Key Moments 00:00 - Navigating Grief While Life Keeps Moving 01:36 - Showing Up After Losing His Brother 02:13 - Honoring His Brother Through His Purpose 03:52 - Remembering His Grandmother 05:07 - Choosing Between Responsibility and Being with Family 06:22 - Balancing Grief with Continuing to Show Up 07:13 - The People Who Taught Sean to Bring Light to Others 07:58 - Leaving Negativity Behind 08:34 - The Power of Seeing the Best in People 08:54 - How Little It Takes to Change Someone’s Day 09:28 - Be the Light for Someone Else   Key Takeaways Grief doesn't follow a formula. Give yourself room to process while finding your own way forward. Purpose can carry you through difficult seasons. Continuing meaningful work can become a way to honor the people who shaped you. Small acts of support matter. A few genuine minutes of making someone feel seen can change more than you realize.   Podcast Show Notes – Episode 299 | 09.15.2026 Episode Title: How Do You Keep Moving Forward After Loss   Host: Sean Barnes Wolf Executives, Houston, TX Website: https://www.wolfexecutives.com   https://www.seanbarnes.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanbarnes/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/wolfexecutives https://www.linkedin.com/company/thewayofthewolf/ LinkedIn Newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7284600567593684993/   Twitter: https://x.com/seanbarnes https://x.com/wolfexecutives   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_seanbarnes https://www.instagram.com/wolfexecutives   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_seanbarnes   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theseanbarnes

  4. Sep 6

    298: How to Think on Your Feet: Why It's Not a Speed Problem

    You finally push yourself to go to the conference, the networking event, or the executive dinner. Introductions go around the room, someone asks you a question, and your mind goes blank. In this episode, Sean Barnes reframes that freeze. It isn't that you think too slowly, he argues, it's that you have too many tabs open. When most of your mental bandwidth is spent worrying about how you're being judged, there's almost nothing left to actually answer the question. From there Sean walks through how to close those tabs. Arrive early and have low stakes conversations before the spotlight ever reaches you, so the room feels familiar instead of threatening. Get comfortable pausing, because a few seconds of silence signals thoughtfulness rather than weakness, and the speaker always feels that pause far longer than the room does. Deliver one thought at a time instead of chasing the perfect keynote answer. And stop treating a fumbled sentence as a disaster, because surviving it is how you learn it was never as high stakes as it felt. He closes with a mental reframe, stepping out of your comfort zone while staying in it, by practicing in rooms where you're already the expert before jumping into unfamiliar ones. There's also a leadership lesson: how to bring quieter team members into big meetings without putting them on the spot, by priming and developing them first. The throughline is that verbal reflex speed is not the same as executive presence, and repetition is how the comfort gets built.   Key Moments 00:00:00 - The freeze: you get asked a question and go deer in the headlights 00:00:24 - It's not a speed problem, it's a bandwidth problem 00:01:22 - Too many tabs open: close out the noise and focus on one thing 00:02:07 - Warm up the room early so nobody feels like a stranger 00:03:19 - Learn to pause, and why silence signals thought, not weakness 00:04:16 - Deliver one thought at a time instead of spiraling 00:05:17 - The speaker feels a pause far longer than the room does 00:06:06 - Stop chasing the perfect answer, a fumble is fine 00:08:01 - Reframe: step out of your comfort zone while staying in it 00:09:23 - Leadership lesson: bring quiet team members in without putting them on the spot 00:11:00 - Verbal reflex speed is not executive presence   Key Takeaways It's bandwidth, not speed. Your mind isn't slow, it's crowded with worry about being judged. Close those tabs and there's room to actually answer. Pause on purpose. A few seconds of silence reads as thoughtful, not weak, and it feels far longer to you than it does to the room. Practice where you're already the expert. Growth comes from reps in familiar rooms first, then stepping into unfamiliar ones. That's how the comfort gets built.   Podcast Show Notes – Episode 298 | 09.08.2026 Episode Title: How to Think on Your Feet: Why It's Not a Speed Problem   Host: Sean Barnes Wolf Executives, Houston, TX   Website: https://www.wolfexecutives.com   https://www.seanbarnes.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanbarnes/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/wolfexecutives https://www.linkedin.com/company/thewayofthewolf/ LinkedIn Newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7284600567593684993/   Twitter: https://x.com/seanbarnes https://x.com/wolfexecutives   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_seanbarnes https://www.instagram.com/wolfexecutives   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_seanbarnes   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theseanbarnes

  5. Sep 1

    297: Is Your Communication Holding Back Your Career?

    In this episode, Sean Barnes breaks down how executive communication evolves as leaders move from manager to director, vice president, and eventually the C-suite. He explains why senior leaders must shift their focus from individual execution to developing high-performing teams, understanding the broader business, communicating in business terms, and becoming strategic thought partners. Sean also explores the role of executive presence, personal brand, networking, and industry visibility in leadership development. If you're working toward a director, VP, CIO, or other C-suite position, this episode provides a practical look at the communication skills and business acumen required at each stage of executive leadership.   Key Moments 00:00 – How your communication can create a ceiling on your career 00:49 – The leadership journey from manager to director, VP, and C-suite 01:23 – Why what made you successful won't always get you to the next level 02:21 – Moving from individual productivity to becoming a force multiplier 03:00 – Building a team that can operate without you 04:05 – What changes when moving from director to vice president 04:36 – Learning other areas of the business by solving problems 05:38 – Developing a holistic understanding of the organization 06:08 – Why C-suite leaders must understand how the entire business operates 06:42 – Becoming a strategic thought partner in the boardroom 07:16 – Why your public-facing executive brand matters 08:12 – Networking, industry events, and learning from your peers 08:44 – Bringing outside insights and competitive intelligence into the boardroom 09:20 – Why becoming an executive takes time 10:27 – The hardest part of career growth: changing yourself 10:57 – Growing into a new version of yourself at every level   Key Takeaways Your communication must evolve with your role. What works as a manager won't necessarily work at the executive level. Executives understand the whole business. Learn how other functions operate and communicate in terms of business impact. Every promotion requires a new version of you. Advancing means changing how you lead, communicate, think, and create value.   Podcast Show Notes – Episode 297 | 09.01.2026 Episode Title: Is Your Communication Holding Back Your Career?   Host: Sean Barnes Wolf Executives, Houston, TX   Website: https://www.wolfexecutives.com   https://www.seanbarnes.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanbarnes/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/wolfexecutives https://www.linkedin.com/company/thewayofthewolf/ LinkedIn Newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7284600567593684993/   Twitter: https://x.com/seanbarnes https://x.com/wolfexecutives   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_seanbarnes https://www.instagram.com/wolfexecutives   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_seanbarnes   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theseanbarnes

  6. Aug 25

    296: Someone Stole Credit for Your Team's Work. Here's How to Handle It

    A listener wrote in with a situation that plays out constantly at the senior leadership level. A new vice president asked for their team's process documentation, then presented all of it in a board meeting as his own first big win. The C-suite praised him. The listener was left defensive, frustrated, and unsure what to do next. Sean Barnes has lived this one. In this solo episode he walks through the exact same thing happening to him years ago, including the part most leaders skip: he did not handle it well. He went quiet, held onto the resentment, and let unspoken tension sit in senior leadership meetings for a long stretch before he finally addressed it. The episode lays out a practical approach. Verify what actually happened before you react, because omitting credit and stealing credit are different problems. Never address it in a group setting, because the rest of the executive team will not judge what the other person did, they will judge how you responded. Go to their office, ask one specific question, and then stop talking. And once the conversation is over, offer to help them be successful anyway. It is a candid look at executive politics from someone who learned it the hard way. As Sean puts it, you can call the politics dumb and stay stuck, or you can learn how to navigate them.   Key Moments 00:00 - Why someone takes credit for your work in the first place 00:37 - The listener message: a new VP asks for the team's process documentation 01:33 - He presents it at the board meeting as his own project 01:45 - The C-suite praises him, and the listener is left furious 02:11 - Sean has been here before, and he admits he handled it badly 02:46 - The cost of holding onto it: unspoken tension in leadership meetings 03:12 - Step one, verify whether credit was stolen or simply omitted 03:48 - Why you never address this in a public or group setting 04:16 - Go to their office, not yours 04:47 - The exact question to ask, and why you pause after it 05:13 - Do not throw them a lifeline when it gets awkward 06:10 - The follow up question about trust and rapport 07:25 - Putting them on notice, then offering to help them succeed 08:37 - Keep an eye on them, because capacity does not disappear 09:04 - What holding a grudge actually cost Sean 10:17 - The politics are the politics   Key Takeaways Verify before you react. Stealing credit and omitting credit are not the same thing, and the difference shapes how the conversation should go. Figuring out which one happened is the first move, not an afterthought. The room is watching your response, not their behavior. The rest of the executive team is not going to care what this person did. They will care about how you handled it. That single reframe is what should keep you out of a public confrontation and in a one on one conversation. Put them on notice, then offer to help. The pairing is the whole point. You make it clear your team will not be walked over, and then you ask how you can help them succeed. It disarms them, it often builds real trust, and it keeps you working closely enough to see what they do next.   Podcast Show Notes – Episode 296 | 08.25.2026 Episode Title: Someone Stole Credit for Your Team's Work. Here's How to Handle It     Host: Sean Barnes Wolf Executives, Houston, TX   Website: https://www.wolfexecutives.com   https://www.seanbarnes.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanbarnes/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/wolfexecutives https://www.linkedin.com/company/thewayofthewolf/ LinkedIn Newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7284600567593684993/   Twitter: https://x.com/seanbarnes https://x.com/wolfexecutives   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_seanbarnes https://www.instagram.com/wolfexecutives   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_seanbarnes   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theseanbarnes

  7. Aug 18

    295: Why Executives Need to Get on Stages

    Sean Barnes follows up his conversation with JD Miller with a solo episode on the question underneath it: why should an executive want to be on stages at all? His answer starts with visibility. Attention is the number one currency, and when a search firm or a hiring executive goes looking for a candidate, they check LinkedIn first and Google second. An executive with no voice and no footprint creates doubt, and doubt is friction in a hiring process. Speaking on stages, sitting on panels, and joining fireside chats is how an executive shares what they have learned and shows what they can bring to an organization, without it turning into self-promotion. From there Sean makes the case that the skills transfer. Being able to walk into any room, read the person in front of you, and adapt on the fly is the same skill set that works in the boardroom and out in the field offices. He points to a pattern he saw in corporate America, where executives stay in the ivory tower with spreadsheets and PowerPoints and slowly lose touch with the actual employee population, usually not on purpose but because they never make the time. He closes on network and timing. His advice for any event is not to collect thirty contacts but to have three meaningful conversations. Done consistently, that builds optionality, and optionality is the real goal. The warning attached to it is direct: start while you still have the job. Event organizers want people in seats at companies with names sponsors care about, and once you are out of a role, the door gets harder to open.   Key Moments 00:00 - Following up on the JD Miller episode 00:47 - Attention is the number one currency 01:20 - Where search firms actually look first 01:55 - What happens when you show up nowhere 02:30 - Skills that carry into the boardroom and the field 02:55 - The ivory tower problem 03:48 - Adapting to every personality in the room 04:45 - Three conversations, not thirty contacts 05:43 - Optionality and being spoiled for choice 06:42 - Why networking after the job is gone is too late   Key Takeaways If you have no voice online, you create doubt. Search firms check LinkedIn, then Google. An executive who shows up nowhere makes the decision harder for the people deciding. The stage builds skills the boardroom needs. Reading a room and adapting on the fly is the same muscle that keeps an executive connected to the people actually running the business. Three real conversations beat thirty business cards. Consistent, small, genuine networking is what builds optionality, and optionality has to be built while you are still employed.   Podcast Show Notes – Episode 295 | 08.18.2026 Episode Title: Why Executives Need to Get on Stages   Host: Sean Barnes Wolf Executives, Houston, TX   Website: https://www.wolfexecutives.com   https://www.seanbarnes.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanbarnes/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/wolfexecutives https://www.linkedin.com/company/thewayofthewolf/ LinkedIn Newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7284600567593684993/   Twitter: https://x.com/seanbarnes https://x.com/wolfexecutives   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_seanbarnes https://www.instagram.com/wolfexecutives   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_seanbarnes   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theseanbarnes

  8. Aug 11

    294: From Panels to Keynotes: The Real Path to Becoming a Speaker | JD Miller & Sean Barnes

    Most people who want to speak on stage have no idea how the first step actually happens. JD Miller does. He is the CEO of the James Duane Group and SVP at CyberRisk Alliance, he runs events across the country, and he decides who gets a microphone and who does not. In this conversation, Sean Barnes and JD break down the real progression from nobody to keynote speaker. It starts with a phone and a tripod in your living room. It moves to a panel seat, then a fireside chat, then a short session, then the keynote. JD explains what he checks on LinkedIn before he books anyone, why he intentionally gives first-time speakers a slot, and why the ask should never come in the first conversation. They also get into why copying another speaker sets you up to fail, how one recorded conversation turns into a dozen assets, and why picking one platform beats being everywhere. Sean shares the six years he spoke for free and the mistake he made telling organizers he could talk about anything. JD shares the night he literally fell off the back of a stage and why it helped him. If you are an executive who wants a bigger voice and does not know where to start, this is the roadmap.   Key Moments 0:09 - How Sean and JD first met, and why the connection stuck 1:05 - JD's path: church announcements, sports anchor, thousands of broadcasts, hundreds of podcasts 2:21 - Sean's story: extreme introvert to keynote speaker, and why people do not believe it 2:51 - You can be a public speaker no matter where you land on the introvert scale 3:36 - Toastmasters, improv, and practicing into a microphone with nobody listening 4:19 - Why short-form clips train you to land the plane 5:39 - The worst thing you can do is compare yourself to someone with 30 years in 6:33 - Sean on speaking free for almost six years to get the reps 8:20 - The mistake of telling an organizer you can talk about anything 9:07 - Do not be the Cheesecake Factory of topics. Keep it small and specific 9:57 - How to actually get on a panel: build the network first 11:07 - Why JD books first-time speakers on purpose, and where he places them 12:27 - Build the relationship before you make the ask 13:14 - The QR code badge trick that removes friction 14:07 - Getting comfortable being uncomfortable 15:59 - Stage skills carry straight into the boardroom 16:14 - The extrovert's hardest lesson: let silence breathe 17:03 - Eye contact as a signal, on a panel and in a meeting 18:18 - How JD opens a room and gets an audience leaning forward 20:16 - Do not copy your mentor. Borrow traits and make them yours 22:32 - Document everything and build social proof 23:41 - What JD checks before he agrees to book someone 24:20 - One piece of content is really 12 pieces of content 26:08 - Know where your audience lives and stop trying to be everywhere 27:50 - The 4-1-1 approach to posting 29:11 - Be patient, and find a mentor who has done it 30:17 - Failure stories, including the time JD fell off the stage 31:31 - When you fumble, keep moving and never apologize 32:43 - The full path, start to keynote, in one recap 33:13 - Where to find JD   Key Takeaways Start smaller than you think you should. A phone on a tripod, a panel seat in the corner, four people in a room. Reps come before pay, and for Sean that meant roughly six years of speaking for free. Own one topic, not every topic. Telling an organizer you can speak on anything pushes the work onto them and cheapens your brand. A narrow, specific topic makes you easy to book. Build the relationship before the ask. Organizers check your LinkedIn for a voice and a track record before anything else. Show up, connect, create content, then ask next year.   Podcast Show Notes – Episode 294 | 08.11.2026 Episode Title: From Panels to Keynotes: The Real Path to Becoming a Speaker | JD Miller & Sean Barnes   Guest: JD Miller CEO, James Duane Group SVP, CyberRisk Alliance LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jdwaynemiller/ Website: https://www.jamesdwayne.com/   Host: Sean Barnes Wolf Executives, Houston, TX   Website: https://www.wolfexecutives.com   https://www.seanbarnes.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanbarnes/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/wolfexecutives https://www.linkedin.com/company/thewayofthewolf/ LinkedIn Newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7284600567593684993/   Twitter: https://x.com/seanbarnes https://x.com/wolfexecutives   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_seanbarnes https://www.instagram.com/wolfexecutives   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_seanbarnes   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theseanbarnes

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As a strategic advisor to executives with experience navigating 48 acquisitions, Sean Barnes delivers the hard truths and practical strategies you need to lead, grow, and thrive in today’s complex business environment. Through The Way of The Wolf, Sean pulls back the curtain on the realities of senior leadership, entrepreneurship, and personal branding. Whether you are aiming for the C-suite, managing through a transition, or looking to build an unstoppable team, this podcast provides the actionable insights required to become the best version of yourself. No fluff, no corporate platitudes. You will get the candid, high-impact guidance necessary to take ownership of your career and your business.