Social Yet Distanced: A View with an Emotionalorphan and Friends

Jack Varnell
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A cross blend of neuroses combining poetry, art, politics, and real-life tales of an emotionalorphan, and oh-so-controversial topics. Sharing news and discussions on Lit, Poetry, the world around us, and the efficacy of manners. Our primary purpose is to bring the world of poetry and literature with other forms of art to share the work, the history and to inspire those in the audience to investigate the power of survival and healing through the arts.

  1. Jun 30

    The Poet Inside You Is Waiting | Here's How to Find Them

    Learn how to write poetry by focusing on the small details in your own life. This guide shows you how to capture memories on the page.Many aspiring writers feel they need a degree or formal training to start writing poems, but that is not the case. This video breaks down the process of observation, teaching you how to turn your daily experiences into meaningful verses. Whether you are using a notebook or a blank digital document, the goal is to get your thoughts down without overthinking the structure.We explore how to use specific memories to ground your work and make it resonate. By prioritizing honest details over complex metaphors, you will find that your writing becomes more authentic and easier to produce. This approach is perfect for anyone looking to build a consistent creative habit or simply express their thoughts more clearly.If you find these writing poems techniques helpful, subscribe for weekly creative writing tips and writing exercise breakdowns. What specific memory are you planning to turn into a poem this week? Let me know in the comments.Communityhttps://bit.ly/SyDCafePodcast https://bit.ly/SocialYetDistancedYouTubehttps://bit.ly/SociaYetDistancedlVidsALL CONTACT POINTS:https://bit.ly/AllSyDALL Social Yet Distanced MEMBER PERKS:(We prefer but never require you to Sub Here On YT, and get a Free (or better -paid) Account at buymeacoffee.com/socialyetdistanced) That is how we support the project.Discounts and specials found here and in many video descriptions.https://bit.ly/MEMBER-PERKSSupported By:https://bloomhemp.com/ref/jackhttps://holisticcaring.com/ref/jack Ask The Green Nurse:https://thegreennurse.substack.com/ https://youtu.be/ouRCCTjKB1k?si=svRlGUzwjVcNI_3e

  2. Jun 22

    BILL W. REVISITED: WAS THE FOUNDER OF AA CALIFORNIA SOBER?

    The founder of Alcoholics Anonymous took LSD. That's not a rumor. That's documented. And he didn't think it was a relapse. Okay. Let's actually talk about this. Because the story of Bill Wilson — Bill W. — is one of the most cited stories in recovery culture. And most people only know half of it. The half that gets printed in pamphlets. The half that gets told in meetings. The other half is… a lot more complicated. And honestly, a lot more interesting.

  3. May 26

    When Rejection Feels Physically Painful

    INTRO TO REJECTION SENSITIVITY DYSPHORIA Rejection dysphoria, more often called rejection sensitive dysphoria or RSD, means an intense emotional reaction to real or perceived rejection, criticism, failure, or disapproval. It can feel sudden, overwhelming, and painfully personal, even when the outside event seems small. Join Jack from the Social Distance Podcast as he discusses a topic that truly intrigues him: rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD). This episode dives into the immediate and physical emotional sensitivity many experience when confronted with rejection, exploring how it often stems from the gap between an event and its interpretation. We also touch upon the connection between adhd and rejection, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotional regulation in these situations. Community https://bit.ly/SyDCafe Podcast https://bit.ly/SocialYetDistanced YouTube https://bit.ly/SociaYetDistancedlVids https://bit.ly/MEMBER-PERKS Supported By: https://bloomhemp.com/ref/jack https://holisticcaring.com/ref/jack https://youtu.be/OTkSXzVd8Oo

  4. Apr 4

    Phil Lynott: The Warrior Poet*

    Phil Lynott: The Warrior Poet*Most people know Phil Lynott as the charismatic frontman of Thin Lizzy — the bass player, the songwriter, the voice behind “The Boys Are Back in Town, and Jailbreak.” Join us as we explore the creative layers behind Phil Lynott, the iconic singer and frontman of Thin Lizzy, known for his charismatic stage presence and profound songwriting. This music documentary shines a light on his lesser-known talent as a published poet, connecting his lyrical depth to the roots of irish rock. Discover the poetic side of this 70s rock legend.. Published WorksLynott released two poetry books:*“Songs for While I’m Away”* in 1974 and *“Philip”* in 1977. Communityhttps://bit.ly/SyDCafePodcasthttps://bit.ly/SocialYetDistancedYouTubehttps://bit.ly/SociaYetDistancedlVidsALL CONTACT POINTS:https://bit.ly/AllSyDALL Social Yet Distanced MEMBER PERKS:(We prefer but never require you to Sub Here On YT, and get a Free (or better -paid) Account at buymeacoffee.com/socialyetdistanced)That is how we support the project.Discounts and specials found here and in many video descriptions.https://bit.ly/MEMBER-PERKSSupported By:https://bloomhemp.com/ref/jackhttps://holisticcaring.com/ref/jackAsk The Green Nurse:on SUBSTACK….LIKE-SUB-COMMENT-SHARE-DUHSome content made with:https://bit.ly/HYPER-SyDCurrent Supporters-Subscriber Perks:T-Shirts Say So :https://bit.ly/TShirtsSaySoCaliSober Recovery Program Stepwork and Literature - Edition 2 https://bit.ly/CALISOBERBOOK 1 Like

  5. Mar 29

    Unpacking the Emotional Orphan Experience

    Unpacking the Emotional Orphan Experience An “emotional orphan” is a person whose parents are alive (or were physically present) but who did not receive the basic emotional care, attunement, and protection children normally get from caregivers. They grow up feeling as if they have “no real parents,” even if there is ongoing contact, because their emotional needs for safety, soothing, empathy, and support were consistently unmet. Core meaning - The person has or had parents who were emotionally unavailable, self-absorbed, abusive, or too wounded to show up as nurturing caregivers. Join us as we explore the often-overlooked concept of the "emotional orphan experience," a profound loneliness and quiet grief that can persist even when basic needs are met. This video offers insights into understanding this unique form of sorrow in adult life and guides you on an "emotional healing" "healing journey" through the process of reparenting. Discover how to embark on "inner child healing" and foster "self healing" to navigate this complex aspect of "mental health" with grace and understanding. Community https://bit.ly/SyDCafe Podcast https://bit.ly/SocialYetDistanced YouTube https://bit.ly/SociaYetDistancedlVids ALL CONTACT POINTS: https://bit.ly/AllSyD ALL Social Yet Distanced MEMBER PERKS: (We prefer but never require you to Sub Here On YT, and get a Free (or better -paid) Account at buymeacoffee.com/socialyetdistanced) That is how we support the project. Discounts and specials found here and in many video descriptions. https://bit.ly/MEMBER-PERKS Supported By: https://bloomhemp.com/ref/jack https://holisticcaring.com/ref/jack Ask The Green Nurse: https://thegreennurse.substack.com/ LIKE-SUB-COMMENT-SHARE-DUH

  6. Mar 1

    Experimental Prose That Defies Everything | Tony Nesca

    Italian‑born, Canadian‑based writer known for experimental, “free‑flow” prose and poetry. Tony Nesca, https://screamingskullpress.net/ https://youtu.be/O2ETEeOijmw TONY NESCA - Blends streetwise grit with musical rhythm and raw emotion. - Rejects mainstream literary polish in favor of instinct and spontaneity—what he calls *“word music.”* Background and Life - Born in Torino, Italy (1965); moved to Canada around age three. - Grew up in Winnipeg, with frequent returns to Italy—developed a bicultural identity that shaped his artistic voice. - Former musician in an original rock band before shifting to writing for a more personal outlet. - Musicianship still informs his writing’s rhythm, flow, and improvisational energy. Founding of Screamin’ Skull Press - Created in 1994 out of frustration with mainstream publishing rejections. - Run with his wife, writer **Nicole I. Nesca**, as a completely DIY literary team. - Functions like an “indie band” for literature—writing, editing, designing, and distributing everything themselves. - Early days included selling chapbooks from a backpack at local venues. - Has published over a dozen books: novels, short stories, prose‑poetry hybrids. Writing Style and Themes - “Free‑flow” composition—minimally planned, lightly edited, emotionally charged. - Long, musical sentences; spontaneous energy reminiscent of jazz improvisation. - Mixes street‑level realism with dreamlike or surreal elements. - Known for gut emotion, rhythm, and the *sound* of language itself. - Moves between Italian and Canadian settings, working‑class characters, and inner life. - “Junkyard Lucy” exemplifies shifts between gritty realism and lyrical experiment. Influences - Draws inspiration from the **Lost Generation, Beat poets, and rebel songwriters** of the ’60s–’70s. - Aligns himself with anti‑formula, emotionally authentic, and risk‑taking artists. - Sees artistic rebellion as central to genuine expression. ### Philosophy and Advice to Writers - Rejects trends and market‑chasing; believes art should come from instinct and lived experience. - Encourages writers to “look out your window” instead of chasing genres or approval. - Views editing as potentially destructive to the life within raw, emotional writing. - Writes for truth and rhythm, not for saleability.

  7. Feb 25

    Vollmer vs Burroughs: She Sharpened Their Minds. Then They Forgot Her Name.

    Before William S. Burroughs wrote anything significant, before Kerouac penned On the Road, before Ginsberg howled, Joan Vollmer was creating the space where it all happened.She was the intellectual engine. She challenged conventional thinking. She refused to live within the limits society set for women. She hosted, she provoked, she sharpened their minds.And Burroughs acknowledged it—in perhaps the most chilling way possible:"I am forced to the appalling conclusion that I would have never become a writer but for Joan's death."Some legacies are built on graves. Joan Vollmer deserves to be remembered for who she was, not just how she died.Say her name: Joan Vollmer. Intellectual. Host. Provocateur. Mother. The brilliant mind the Beat Generation erased. https://bit.ly/CafeSyDCommunityhttps://bit.ly/SyD-PODPodcast https://bit.ly/SyD-TVYouTubemade with:https://bit.ly/HYPER-SyD

  8. Feb 22

    This Idaho Senate Candidate is Challenging Everything You've Been Told About Cannabis

    We speak with Joe Evans for Senate in Idaho and learn more about his platform. We are joined by Elisabeth Mack, Cannabis Health Pioneer, and co-founder of Bloom Hemp. See more at links included, and Joe's platform at : https://joeevansforidaho.com SyD Here: https://bit.ly/SyDCafe Community https://bit.ly/SocialYetDistanced Podcast https://bit.ly/SociaYetDistancedlVids YouTube ALL CONTACT POINTS: https://bit.ly/AllSyD Supported By: https://bloomhemp.com/ref/jack https://holisticcaring.com/ref/jack Ask The Green Nurse: https://thegreennurse.substack.com/ psilocybin, ibogaine, cannabis, ketamine, medical, legal, veteran, Indigenous, and spiritual perspectives, plantmedicine, Joe Evans, Idaho Senate Candidate,

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A cross blend of neuroses combining poetry, art, politics, and real-life tales of an emotionalorphan, and oh-so-controversial topics. Sharing news and discussions on Lit, Poetry, the world around us, and the efficacy of manners. Our primary purpose is to bring the world of poetry and literature with other forms of art to share the work, the history and to inspire those in the audience to investigate the power of survival and healing through the arts.

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