Today's Horsewoman

Rose Cushing

Interviews and Discussions with the powerful women that move the horse industry! Find out what makes them tick. What brought them to this industry. Why they love it so much. Advice to you about our industry. Meet up and coming influencers as well as tried and true success stories. 

  1. Melissa Deal

    NOV 22

    Melissa Deal

    Join us as we talk with Melissa Deal, Meet Melissa Spell Deal — a lifelong equestrian and founder of Compassionate Horse Click, where she helps horses and their humans communicate with kindness, confidence, and joy. Her work centers on creating relationships rooted in trust and understanding, so both partners feel confident, connected, and optimistic. A Certified Connection Training Coach, graduate of Shawna Karrasch mastery course Sante Fe, and a Recognized Compassionate Equestrian facility owner, Melissa has also spent 25 years as a certified instructor with the American Riding Instructor Association in Dressage, Hunt Seat, and Western Equitation. Along the way, she earned her USDF Bronze Medal, adding to her decades of experience training, teaching, and supporting equestrians of all backgrounds. In recent years, Melissa has devoted her focus to the science and art of connection—studying with renowned behavioral experts such as Ken Ramirez and Justine Harrison. She shares her insights as a speaker at international equine-behavior conferences and most recently through her work supporting a local mustang sanctuary. Her approach resonates deeply with both horses and humans: simple, effective, positive principles that restore optimism, deepen understanding, and build lasting trust. Melissa believes wholeheartedly in compassion-driven training that transforms not only behavior, but the emotional well-being of both horse and handler. Melissa’s home base is her farm in Burgaw, North Carolina, where she coaches in person and online, offering live immersive clinics, online courses, and community experiences that bring these concepts to equestrians worldwide. Her own horse, Eclipse—once labeled “dangerous” and surrendered as a behavior problem—is now her greatest teacher and living proof that compassion, consent, and clear communication can change everything. 💙

    45 min
  2. JUN 2

    Carey Toole, Horsewoman

    Carey Stewart, has dedicated her life to the education and empowerment of youth through equine science and agriculture. With a Master’s degree in Equine Education from William Woods University, a Bachelor’s degree in Equine Industry with a minor in Animal Science from West Texas A&M University, and an Associate’s degree in Equine Technology from Martin Community College, her academic journey has been shaped by a deep passion for horses, agriculture, and lifelong learning. Currently, she serves as the 4-H Agent in Cleveland County, where she lead two vibrant and growing clubs: the Livestock Club and the Equine Club. In addition to these core program she has had the joy of organizing and running spin clubs and day camps that cover a wide variety of topics—from honeybees and wildlife to healthy living and environmental science. Her goal is always to spark curiosity and foster hands-on learning in the youth I serve. Prior to her work with 4-H, she was fortunate to teach in the Equine programs at both Johnson & Wales University and Martin Community College. These roles allowed me to share my knowledge and experience with students pursuing careers in the equine industry, and they remain two of the most rewarding chapters in her professional life. She has also held her Open Show Judge’s card, which has given her the opportunity to judge horse shows across North Carolina, into Virginia, and down into South Carolina. One of the most meaningful events she has had the privilege to judge was the South Carolina Equine Special Olympics. The athletes’ dedication and joy remind me why she does what she does —it’s about heart, hard work, and celebrating each step of the journey. Her roots in equine education trace back to summer camps, where she started as a stable hand at the age of 12 and eventually became the director of the program in her 20s. Camps hold a special place in her heart, as they often introduce children to horses for the first time. Watching a child fall in love with a horse—sometimes timidly, sometimes instantly—is a powerful reminder of how transformative these moments can be. Throughout her career, she has come to understand that her role in the horse world isn’t to be the most decorated rider or trainer. Instead, her calling is to educate, inspire, and support the next generation. "My purpose is to help young people build strong foundations—through horsemanship, responsibility, and self-confidence—so they can grow into leaders, dreamers, and achievers in whatever path they choose", Stewart told us.

    45 min

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Interviews and Discussions with the powerful women that move the horse industry! Find out what makes them tick. What brought them to this industry. Why they love it so much. Advice to you about our industry. Meet up and coming influencers as well as tried and true success stories.